In re R.D.B.

2019 Ohio 1547
CourtOhio Court of Appeals
DecidedApril 26, 2019
Docket28122
StatusPublished
Cited by3 cases

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In re R.D.B., 2019 Ohio 1547 (Ohio Ct. App. 2019).

Opinion

[Cite as In re R.D.B., 2019-Ohio-1547.]

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF OHIO SECOND APPELLATE DISTRICT MONTGOMERY COUNTY

: : IN RE: R.D.B. : Appellate Case No. 28122 : : Trial Court Case No. 2010-10146 : : (Appeal from Common Pleas Court – : Juvenile Division) : :

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OPINION

Rendered on the 26th day of April, 2019.

JAMES R. KIRKLAND, Atty. Reg. No. 0009731, 10532 Success Lane, Dayton, Ohio 45458 Attorney for Appellant-Aunt

Father, Dayton, Ohio Appellee, Pro Se

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FROELICH, J.

{¶ 1} The maternal aunt (“Aunt”) of R.D.B., a minor, appeals from the trial court’s

judgment overruling her objections to a magistrate decision that awarded custody of

R.D.B. to his biological father (“Father”), and further adopted the magistrate’s decision.

The judgment of the trial court will be affirmed.

Factual and Procedural Background

{¶ 2} Mother gave birth to R.D.B. in April 2006. When R.D.B. was four or five years

old, Father first learned that R.D.B. was his biological son, a fact confirmed through

genetic testing performed after Mother filed a complaint in the Montgomery County

Common Pleas Court, Juvenile Division, to determine R.D.B.’s paternity. Thereafter,

Father paid court-ordered child support for R.D.B. Father and R.D.B. also began to

“spen[d] time together,” including time with Father’s other sons and daughters (R.D.B.’s

half-siblings). Father and Mother did not have a formal visitation schedule in place, but

Mother permitted Father to call and arrange to pick up R.D.B. “pretty much * * * anytime

[Father] wanted,” including for overnight visits.

{¶ 3} Mother died of leukemia on November 1, 2015. Following Mother’s death,

Aunt, Mother’s sister, assumed the care of R.D.B. and his half-brother, S.S., one of

Mother’s two older sons, in Aunt’s Montgomery County home. Father apparently gave

informal consent to Aunt’s having temporary custody,1 but thereafter, Father and Aunt

filed competing motions for custody of R.D.B.2

1 The timing and form of Father’s consent are unclear, but the record does make clear that Father did not relinquish his parental rights (see Tr. p. 8), and Aunt does not contend that Father ceded permanent custody to her. 2 Aunt apparently filed two motions: one for “change” of custody and one for “legal” -3-

{¶ 4} On September 8, 2016, a juvenile court magistrate conducted a custody

hearing at which Father and Aunt appeared, both represented by counsel. Father, a

Montgomery County resident, testified that after Mother’s death, Aunt initially did not

permit Father to see R.D.B., but Aunt and Father eventually arrived at an arrangement

that allowed Father to have visitation on an alternating three day/two day weekly

schedule. Father stated that his child support obligation was current when it was

terminated due to Mother’s death. Asked why he was seeking custody, Father explained:

After the passing of his mom, he’s my child, and I feel that I can provide him

with what he needs. And it’s not that [Aunt] can’t, it’s just he’s my son, and

I feel like I have the right to raise my child.

(Transcript (“Tr.”) p. 10).

{¶ 5} Father testified that he was prepared to provide financial, emotional, and

spiritual support for R.D.B. While he acknowledged that, since Mother’s death, R.D.B.

had told Father that he (R.D.B.) did not want to spend the night with Father, did not want

to live with Father, and felt “comfortable” living with Aunt, Father expressed optimism that

he and R.D.B. could make living together work.

{¶ 6} On cross-examination, Father indicated that he worked an 11 p.m. to 7 a.m.

shift at his current full-time job, where he earned $24 per hour. Father said he would

transfer to a 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. shift if awarded custody of R.D.B. Father also worked as a

high school and college basketball referee for approximately 35 games per year, but said

he would reduce his refereeing schedule if granted custody. Father agreed that he had

failed to respond to Aunt’s discovery requests or to appear for his scheduled deposition

custody. -4-

in the custody case, but suggested that such failure was due at least in part to the

withdrawal of his original attorney.

{¶ 7} Father testified that he had four children in addition to R.D.B. Father never

had legal custody of his three oldest children, all of whom were now adults, but one of

those children did live with Father from age 14 to age 18. He also had an 11-year-old

daughter who had lived with her mother since Father and the girl’s mother divorced in

2013. Father said that a visitation order never was necessary as to his other children, as

he and the children’s mothers agreed to visitation. Father said that R.D.B. and Father’s

other children “all get along well,” and that R.D.B. “adores” Father’s youngest daughter,

who is about R.D.B.’s age. Father acknowledged that R.D.B. and S.S., Mother’s other

son who lived with Aunt, also “get along.” Father said that he had attended two or three

programs at R.D.B.’s school, but he did not know the names of R.D.B.’s teachers or

counselor, and R.D.B.’s friends and basketball teammates never had been to Father’s

home.

{¶ 8} Father acknowledged that he once dropped R.D.B. for a haircut at a home-

based barber shop where R.D.B. said he became “scared” because, while Father was

gone, other people rolled a substance in paper that smelled “funny” when smoked. Father

claimed that the smell was from a cigar. He said he called the barber after he learned of

the incident and was satisfied with the barber’s explanation, but Father never returned

there with R.D.B.

{¶ 9} Aunt testified that she and her husband had their own 12-year-old and 7-

year-old sons. As R.D.B.’s godmother, she and her family had “always been a part of”

R.D.B.’s life; her sons and R.D.B. were “cousins, but they act like brothers.” After Mother’s -5-

death, R.D.B. and S.S. moved in with Aunt. R.D.B. remained in his existing elementary

school for the rest of that school year, but the following year transferred to a different

school in the same school district yet nearer Aunt’s home.

{¶ 10} Aunt described R.D.B. as “a very good child” and “a straight-A student” who

played basketball on an organized team and with neighborhood friends at the park. She

took R.D.B. to birthday parties and to church. Aunt said R.D.B.’s school communicated

with her when R.D.B. had a “rough day” after Mother’s death, and Aunt “set him up” with

a counselor who had monthly lunches with a group of students at R.D.B.’s current school.

Aunt said R.D.B. declined other counseling.

{¶ 11} Aunt testified that Father had attended “three or four” of R.D.B.’s basketball

games since Mother’s death, but Aunt was not aware of Father’s otherwise engaging with

R.D.B.’s school work or activities. She said Father had requested changes to their agreed

visitation schedule “maybe seven different times,” and R.D.B. also had “requested not to

have [visitation with Father] at times.” Aunt described R.D.B. as “crying” when he told her

about being “scared” by the incident at the barber shop. Aunt was concerned that Father

had left R.D.B. alone at that home, and she discussed the incident with Father at one of

R.D.B.’s basketball games.

{¶ 12} Aunt did not know Father’s family, but said that R.D.B. was “involved in a

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