In re Marriage of Thompson

2021 IL App (1st) 192555-U
Appellate Court of Illinois·Decided March 22, 2021·No. 1-19-2555·Unpublished

Opinion

2021 IL App (1st) 192555-U No. 1-19-2555

March 22, 2021

FIRST DIVISION

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23 and is not precedent except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(1).

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS FIRST DISTRICT

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF, ) Appeal from the Circuit Court of Cook VIRGINIA THOMPSON ) County, Illinois Petitioner-Appellee, ) Domestic Relations Division )

v. ) No. 17 D 7899 )

DAVID THOMPSON ) The Honorable ) Matthew Link

Respondent-Appellant. ) Judge Presiding.

PRESIDING JUSTICE WALKER delivered the judgment of the court.

Justice Hyman and Justice Pierce concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

Held: The trial court did not abuse its discretion in a divorce case when it entered an order allocating parenting time unequally, in accord with the court-appointed expert’s recommendation. The court did not abuse its discretion when it ordered the parents to decide jointly issues related to their child’s health, education, and activities. The court did not abuse its discretion in its attribution of income to one parent, and in its decision not to guess at possible bonuses the other parent might receive. The evidence at trial sufficiently supports the finding that one asset constituted nonmarital property.

¶1 The trial court entered judgments dissolving the marriage of Virginia and David Thompson, allocating their parental responsibilities, distributing the marital estate, and awarding maintenance and child support. David appeals, arguing that the court erred by

limiting his parenting time, by understating Virginia’s income, and by overstating David’s earning potential. Virginia cross-appeals, arguing that the court should not have required joint parental decisions, and the court should have counted one asset as marital property. Because the evidence adequately supports the trial court’s findings of fact, and the court did not abuse its discretion, we affirm the judgments.

¶2 I. BACKGROUND

¶3 Virginia and David married in 1988 and had three children: David, born in 1996, Stephen in 2001, and Andrew in 2006. Andrew, born prematurely, required extra attention, and David provided primary care for Andrew, while Virginia earned the income that supported the family.

¶4 Virginia filed a petition for dissolution of the marriage in 2017. She worked as a product manager for a software company. Thomson Reuters bought the company shortly before the trial on the divorce petition. Thomson Reuters made Virginia a vice president and increased her salary to $214,000 per year. Thomson Reuters has a bonus plan that makes Virginia eligible for a discretionary bonus every year, and the bonus could amount to 30% of her earnings.

¶5 According to Social Security records, David earned no income from 1991 through 2002, and no income after 2007. In May 2018, the trial court granted Virginia’s motion to compel David to get a job. David began working part-time, making deliveries for a delicatessen. He earned $9,600 in 2018.

¶6 The court, with the agreement of the parties, appointed Dr. Mary Gardner to evaluate the family in accord with section 604.10(b) of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (Act) (750 ILCS 5/604.10(b) (West 2018)). Dr. Gardner interviewed Virginia and David

and briefly observed some of their interactions with Stephen and Andrew. Virginia and David answered questionnaires designed to assist Dr. Gardner with the assessment. Dr. Gardner also spoke with others identified by Virginia and David as knowledgeable about the family. Stephen came of age before trial, and he enrolled in the engineering program at Southern Illinois University.

¶7 At the trial, held on several dates from July 2019 to September 2019, Dr. Gardner testified that Stephen and Andrew both did very well in school. She found that Andrew needed therapy because of his tendency to block his emotions. Andrew said he wanted parenting time to be split equally between his parents. Dr. Gardner believed he made the request because “He's cautious about saying negative things about either parent ***, so that he was careful to say equal things about both parents.” Dr. Gardner found that David undermined Virginia when she tried to impose rules on the children. Dr. Gardner stated that David’s failure to follow through on career plans (acting and screenwriting) made David “not a good role model” for Andrew. She noted that both Virginia and David had low scores on the “Parenting Alliance Measure,” designed to help assess the ability of parents to cooperate in raising a child.

¶8 In her written summary, Dr. Gardner stated, “Both parents provided a stable home for the three boys. It was clear during my interviews that both parents deeply love their boys and want what is best for them. Both parents have made sacrifices for the boys, although I think this has been done more so by Virginia.” She recommended that Virginia should have custody of Andrew most days during the week and every other weekend, while David should have custody every other weekend, plus one overnight and one dinner visit every other week, and the right of first refusal on days when Virginia travels for her job. Dr. Gardner recommended allocating

to Virginia all responsibility for decisions concerning Andrew’s health, education, and extracurricular activities.

¶9 Virginia testified that she went on 30 overnight trips for work in 2018, and she left the children in David’s care. She recounted several incidents in which David withheld information from her about the children, and other incidents in which David did not support her disciplinary measures and her efforts to provide moral guidance for the children. She also contributed some funds to a TD Ameritrade account held in David’s name.

¶ 10 David testified that his mother gave him the funds invested through the TD Ameritrade account. David’s mother corroborated the testimony. David created a limited liability corporation to use the funds as a trading account. He dissolved the corporation in 2009 because he needed the funds to pay bills. The only deposits Virginia made to the account repaid amounts she used for her expenses. The account was started with a deposit of $82,000, the gift from David’s mother. As of the time of trial, about $35,000 remained in the account.

¶ 11 In the questionnaire David filled out for Dr. Gardner, David said that Virginia “was diagnosed with ‘borderline personality disorder with elements of narcissism,’ by a trained and licensed counselor,” and that David spoke to the counselor again “a year or so ago, and [she] remembered us well,” and she repeated the diagnosis. David also said the medication Virginia takes to control her epilepsy has “significant physical as well as psychological side-effects.” David wrote:

¶ 12 “Virginia is extremely rigid, and very critical of others. She demands that she always get her way. *** She is quick to punish perceived transgressions. She lacks warmth, humor, and

empathy. She can affect an appearance of warmth for short periods of time, to impress or manipulate someone. ***

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¶ 14 *** She is trying to impoverish me. *** [S]he is having her lawyer file all sorts of frivolous motions designed to pad the billing hours and drain all our finances. *** Her goal is that there be no marital estate left to share, and then she will be reimbursed by family, leaving me penniless. She told the kids that they will be poor if they live with me after the divorce. ***

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¶ 16 *** She is jealous of the wonderful relationship I have with the kids and she is trying to drive a wedge into it. The kids don’t actually matter to her, she is just obsessed with punishing me. ***

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¶ 18 *** I once took one of those tests designed for housewives that puts a dollar value on all the services a stay-at-home parent provides, and the value of my services on an annual basis came out to be $20,000 more than Virginia’s entire gross annual income at the time. ***

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