In re Marriage of Meade

CourtCourt of Appeals of Kansas
DecidedDecember 4, 2015
Docket113366
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

NOT DESIGNATED FOR PUBLICATION

No. 113,366

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF KANSAS

In the Matter of the Marriage of

DANIELLE R. MEADE, Appellee,

and

ROBERT ALVA MEADE, Appellant.

MEMORANDUM OPINION

Appeal from Nemaha District Court; JOHN L. WEINGART, judge. Opinion filed December 4, 2015. Affirmed.

Robert E. Keeshan, of Scott, Quinlan, Willard, Barnes & Keeshan, LLC, of Topeka, for appellant.

Rachel B. Zenger and Jason E. Brinegar, of Galloway, Wiegers & Brinegar, P.A., of Marysville, for appellee.

Before HILL, P.J., PIERRON and ARNOLD-BURGER, JJ.

Per Curiam: This appeal involves the divorce of Danielle R. Meade and Robert Alva Meade (Bobby). Together they had two children. After Danielle filed for divorce, the situation grew contentious. The fights got petty—including the mention of used toothbrushes during property settlement discussions and rehashing high school drama. They clearly loved their children but were incapable of putting their own emotions aside to determine what was in the best interests of their two very small children, both of whom have special needs. On multiple occasions the district court admonished the parties for

1 their immature behavior and even noted that it was the only one actually considering the needs of the children. Because Danielle and Bobby were unable to agree on a custody arrangement and property settlement themselves, the district court was left to decide these issues.

After a 2-day trial, the district court awarded joint legal custody, primary residential custody with Danielle, and ordered a block parenting time schedule giving Danielle parenting time for 9 days, then Bobby for 5 days.

On appeal, Bobby argues: (1) the court abused its discretion in its final custody order and residential custody determination; (2) the court erred in determining that Danielle's move was justified; (3) the court's findings of facts and conclusions of law were insufficient, and (4) the court erred in failing to award an income tax adjustment.

Because the record reveals the district court did not err when it issued its final child custody and support order, we affirm.

Bobby and Danielle married in Centralia, Kansas, on June 16, 2007. After a brief move to Nebraska they lived in Kansas throughout the rest of their marriage. They built a home in Centralia. Danielle worked as a nurse in Seneca, Kansas, and Bobby worked as an HVAC technician. They had two children, B.R.M., born in 2012, and B.D.M., born in 2013. B.R.M. had serious physical disabilities, and B.D.M. was born prematurely and had developmental delays.

After marital troubles arose, Danielle and the children temporarily moved to Nebraska to be with her family. Bobby thought he and Danielle were working on their problems. However, on July 17, 2013, Danielle filed for divorce without Bobby's knowledge. She attached an unsworn child support worksheet. On the worksheet, Danielle indicated she had work-related child care costs of $880 a month, but she was

2 unemployed. She also filed a handwritten document that indicated she did not want a summons issued for Bobby.

The Nemaha County District Court issued ex parte temporary orders that same day. The order addressed custody, child support, and personal property. Bobby had parenting time every other weekend and was ordered to pay $869 in child support.

After spending a month in Kansas with Bobby and the children, Danielle and the children moved back to Nebraska on August 21, 2013, and have remained there since. On August 22, 2013, a summons to serve Bobby with divorce papers was filed.

On October 8, 2013, Bobby filed his answer and counter petition. On October 9, 2013, Bobby filed a motion to set aside the ex parte temporary orders. He argued that Danielle's child support calculations were erroneous because she was unemployed and therefore had no child care costs.

The district court modified child support and parenting time. It changed Bobby's parenting time, giving him visitation for a 5-day block every 2 weeks instead of every- other weekend visitation. It also reduced his child support obligation to $676 a month.

Because the parties could not reach an agreement on their own, the district court ordered conciliation and appointed Amanda Jacobson as the conciliator. She provided her written recommendations on February 6, 2014. In relevant part, Jacobson found both parents capable of parenting the children. Further,

"[t]he parties will face many challenges co-parenting 100 miles apart. It is not in the best interest of the minor children for the parents to live 100 miles apart from one another, but currently that is the situation that the family is left to make the best of for [the children]. Danielle reports that she moved to Nebraska to be close to her family. While a healthy

3 relationship between Danielle and her parents and [the children] and their maternal grandparents is important a healthy relationship with each parent is even more vital."

Jacobson recommended equal shared custody until the children went to kindergarten.

The parties fought throughout the pendency of this case, including over multiple discovery issues. Danielle claimed Bobby's anger was an issue, and therefore she recorded their phone calls without Bobby's knowledge. Danielle photographed the children's medicine each time she sent the children with Bobby and claimed he failed to give them their medicine. She also took photos of every minor bruise, mark, or scrape on the children when they returned home from time with Bobby. On September, 20, 2013, Danielle called the police after she and Bobby got into a shoving match over a phone and Bobby smashed a table. Danielle's own statement of the event acknowledged that there was "pushing and shoving from both of us." In April 2014, Danielle reported Bobby to the Kansas Department for Children and Families (DCF) for alleged physical abuse of the children, but the report came back unsubstantiated. On May 12, 2014, Danielle's mother called the police on Bobby when he was in Nebraska visiting. The police report stated "there is no crime this is a civil family issue."

The district court held multiple hearings until the case ultimately went to trial on August 27-28, 2014.

Nicole Kauk, who has a Master's degree in counseling, was a staff therapist at Nebraska Mental Health. She had worked with Danielle for approximately 6 months on regulating her emotions and handling the stress of the divorce. Kauk had never spoken to Bobby, so her opinions were based solely on Danielle's reports. She felt Danielle's parents and family provided positive support for Danielle. She was also concerned that Danielle would be isolated if forced to return to Kansas. Kauk did not support a shared custody arrangement, testifying it would not be "healthy for any child" to have a shared

4 custody arrangement. The district judge interjected, "Well, that's interesting. We've got volumes written to the contrary of that opinion by people in your field." Kauk acknowledged that was true. Kauk also acknowledged that Danielle had not always been honest with her. Nonetheless, she had taken Danielle's word at face value.

Kris Sunken worked for the Education Service Unit No. 6 in Milford, Nebraska providing special education services to the school districts in the region. She worked with children ages birth to 3 years old. She had worked with B.R.M. and B.D.M. Sunken met with Danielle every other month to discuss any concerns about the children's services.

B.R.M. received occupational, physical, and speech therapy and B.D.M. received occupational therapy. The services were paid for by the State of Nebraska.

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