In Re Marriage Of Marc Coluccio, And Ilyana Khanlarova
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Opinion
IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON
In the Matter of the Committed Intimate Relationship of No. 86399-1-I
MARC COLUCCIO, DIVISION ONE
Respondent, UNPUBLISHED OPINION
and
ILYANA KHANLAROVA,
Appellant.
DÍAZ, J. — In 2022, Marc Coluccio petitioned for termination of his
committed intimate relationship (CIR) with Ilyana Khanlarova. Following a bench
trial, the court issued its final orders, including a parenting plan and a division of
the couple’s property. Khanlarova now argues the court abused its discretion in
setting the CIR start date it chose, in ordering RCW 26.09.191(3) parenting
restrictions against her, and in dividing their property. Khanlarova further claims
the court failed to accommodate her disabilities at trial and requests attorney fees
on appeal. We affirm the court’s final orders and deny fees.
I. BACKGROUND
Khanlarova is a refugee who moved to the United States from the Soviet No. 86399-1-I/2
Union around the time of its collapse. The parties initially met in 2002 and dated
for a few months before parting ways.
The parties started dating again in 2008. In 2009, Coluccio moved to
Europe to pursue an MBA. In 2010, he returned to the United States and moved
to Khanlarova’s condo as he was still renting out his house. In 2011, Coluccio
proposed to Khanlarova. In 2012, the parties moved to a home in Seattle’s
Madrona neighborhood. Two years later, Khanlarova gave birth to S.C., 1 the
parties’ first child. In 2016, the parties sold the Madrona house and moved to a
home in Bellevue. That same year, Khanlarova gave birth to R.C., the parties’
second child.
On August 23, 2022, Coluccio petitioned for termination of the CIR. A bench
trial began in December 2023. Khanlarova proceeded pro se, while Coluccio was
represented by counsel.
At trial, the court admitted a report and heard testimony from a parenting
evaluator, Dr. Jennifer Wheeler. The court also heard testimony and admitted
related evidence from Kelly Deis and Steve Kessler, Coluccio’s financial experts,
as well as Joseph Winkler, Khanlarova’s financial expert.
In February 2024, the court entered three final orders. First, the court
issued a “Final Order Ending a Committed Intimate Relationship (CIR),” which
primarily divided the parties’ property, including their Bellevue home, investments,
and retirement accounts. Second, the court issued a “Parenting Plan” which,
among other provisions, imposed RCW 26.09.191(3)(b) restrictions on Khanlarova
1 We use the initials of the parties’ two children to protect their privacy.
2 No. 86399-1-I/3
for an “emotional or psychological problem that impairs her ability to parent.”
Finally, the court issued findings of fact, supporting the two orders above.
Khanlarova unsuccessfully moved for a new trial and reconsideration, and
now timely appeals through counsel. 2
II. ANALYSIS
A. Standards of Review on Khanlarova’s Abuse of Discretion Claims
Khanlarova claims the court abused its discretion in three ways. First, she
claims the court abused its discretion when it did not find that the CIR started when
the parties cohabitated or on the date of Coluccio’s marriage proposal. Second,
she claims the court abused its discretion when it imposed RCW 26.09.191(3)
parenting restrictions against her. Finally, she claims the court abused its
discretion by the manner in which it divided the parties’ property. Such claims are
governed by the following standards.
“‘A trial court abuses its discretion if its decision is manifestly unreasonable,
adopts a position no reasonable judge would take, is ‘based on untenable
grounds,’ or if the judge misapplied the law.” In re Committed Intimate Relationship
of Muridan & Redl, 3 Wn. App. 2d 44, 54, 413 P.3d 1072 (2018) (emphasis added)
(quoting In re Parenting & Support of L.H., 198 Wn. App. 190, 194, 391 P.3d 490
(2016)).
To be based on tenable grounds, a court’s findings must be supported by
substantial evidence “‘defined as a quantum of evidence sufficient to persuade a
rational fair-minded person the premise is true.’” In re Custody of A.T., 11 Wn.
2 Khanlarova’s appellate counsel withdrew after oral argument before this court.
3 No. 86399-1-I/4
App. 2d 156, 162, 451 P.3d 1132 (2019) (quoting Sunnyside Valley Irrig. Dist. v.
Dickie, 149 Wn.2d 873, 879-80, 73 P.3d 369 (2003)). “The party claiming error
has the burden of showing that a finding of fact is not supported by substantial
evidence.” Id.
In gauging substantial evidence, “[w]e will not substitute our judgment for
the trial court’s, weigh the evidence, or”—most relevant here—“adjudge witness
credibility.” In re Marriage of Greene, 97 Wn. App. 708, 714, 986 P.2d 144 (1999).
This deference also extends to expert testimony as the “factfinder,” here the court
below, “is given wide latitude in the weight to give expert opinion” as appellate
courts may not engage in “weighing expert testimony.” In re Marriage of Sedlock,
69 Wn. App. 484, 491, 849 P.2d 1243 (1993).
Thus, “[e]ven where the evidence conflicts, the appellate court need
determine only ‘whether the evidence most favorable to the prevailing party
supports the challenged findings.’” State v. Living Essentials, LLC, 8 Wn. App. 2d
1, 14, 436 P.3d 857 (2019) (emphasis added) (quoting Prostov v. Dep’t of
Licensing, 186 Wn. App. 795, 820, 349 P.3d 874 (2015)).
1. CIR Start Date
Khanlarova now argues the “court abused its discretion in arbitrarily picking
March 28, 2014 as the start date of the CIR and ignoring the parties[’] previous
four years of living together” and, alternatively, their engagement in 2011. We
disagree.
“A CIR is a ‘stable, marital-like relationship where both parties cohabit with
knowledge that a lawful marriage between them does not exist.’” Muridan, 3 Wn.
4 No. 86399-1-I/5
App. 2d at 55 (quoting Connell v. Francisco, 127 Wn.2d 339, 346, 898 P.2d 831
(1995)); In re Matter of Kelly & Moesslang, 170 Wn. App. 722, 737, 287 P.3d 12
(2012) (“‘Marital-like’ is simply an attempt by the courts to describe the long-term,
committed nature of a CIR”) (quoting In re Marriage of Pennington, 142 Wn.2d
592, 601, 14 P.3d 764 (2000)).
“Relevant factors establishing a [CIR] include, but are not limited to:
continuous cohabitation, duration of the relationship, purpose of the relationship,
pooling of resources and services for joint projects, and the intent of the parties.”
Connell, 127 Wn.2d at 346; In re Parentage of G.W.-F., 170 Wn. App. 631, 648,
285 P.3d 208 (2012) (highlighting that “there must be ‘mutual intent to form’” and
“maintain” the CIR) (emphasis added).
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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON
In the Matter of the Committed Intimate Relationship of No. 86399-1-I
MARC COLUCCIO, DIVISION ONE
Respondent, UNPUBLISHED OPINION
and
ILYANA KHANLAROVA,
Appellant.
DÍAZ, J. — In 2022, Marc Coluccio petitioned for termination of his
committed intimate relationship (CIR) with Ilyana Khanlarova. Following a bench
trial, the court issued its final orders, including a parenting plan and a division of
the couple’s property. Khanlarova now argues the court abused its discretion in
setting the CIR start date it chose, in ordering RCW 26.09.191(3) parenting
restrictions against her, and in dividing their property. Khanlarova further claims
the court failed to accommodate her disabilities at trial and requests attorney fees
on appeal. We affirm the court’s final orders and deny fees.
I. BACKGROUND
Khanlarova is a refugee who moved to the United States from the Soviet No. 86399-1-I/2
Union around the time of its collapse. The parties initially met in 2002 and dated
for a few months before parting ways.
The parties started dating again in 2008. In 2009, Coluccio moved to
Europe to pursue an MBA. In 2010, he returned to the United States and moved
to Khanlarova’s condo as he was still renting out his house. In 2011, Coluccio
proposed to Khanlarova. In 2012, the parties moved to a home in Seattle’s
Madrona neighborhood. Two years later, Khanlarova gave birth to S.C., 1 the
parties’ first child. In 2016, the parties sold the Madrona house and moved to a
home in Bellevue. That same year, Khanlarova gave birth to R.C., the parties’
second child.
On August 23, 2022, Coluccio petitioned for termination of the CIR. A bench
trial began in December 2023. Khanlarova proceeded pro se, while Coluccio was
represented by counsel.
At trial, the court admitted a report and heard testimony from a parenting
evaluator, Dr. Jennifer Wheeler. The court also heard testimony and admitted
related evidence from Kelly Deis and Steve Kessler, Coluccio’s financial experts,
as well as Joseph Winkler, Khanlarova’s financial expert.
In February 2024, the court entered three final orders. First, the court
issued a “Final Order Ending a Committed Intimate Relationship (CIR),” which
primarily divided the parties’ property, including their Bellevue home, investments,
and retirement accounts. Second, the court issued a “Parenting Plan” which,
among other provisions, imposed RCW 26.09.191(3)(b) restrictions on Khanlarova
1 We use the initials of the parties’ two children to protect their privacy.
2 No. 86399-1-I/3
for an “emotional or psychological problem that impairs her ability to parent.”
Finally, the court issued findings of fact, supporting the two orders above.
Khanlarova unsuccessfully moved for a new trial and reconsideration, and
now timely appeals through counsel. 2
II. ANALYSIS
A. Standards of Review on Khanlarova’s Abuse of Discretion Claims
Khanlarova claims the court abused its discretion in three ways. First, she
claims the court abused its discretion when it did not find that the CIR started when
the parties cohabitated or on the date of Coluccio’s marriage proposal. Second,
she claims the court abused its discretion when it imposed RCW 26.09.191(3)
parenting restrictions against her. Finally, she claims the court abused its
discretion by the manner in which it divided the parties’ property. Such claims are
governed by the following standards.
“‘A trial court abuses its discretion if its decision is manifestly unreasonable,
adopts a position no reasonable judge would take, is ‘based on untenable
grounds,’ or if the judge misapplied the law.” In re Committed Intimate Relationship
of Muridan & Redl, 3 Wn. App. 2d 44, 54, 413 P.3d 1072 (2018) (emphasis added)
(quoting In re Parenting & Support of L.H., 198 Wn. App. 190, 194, 391 P.3d 490
(2016)).
To be based on tenable grounds, a court’s findings must be supported by
substantial evidence “‘defined as a quantum of evidence sufficient to persuade a
rational fair-minded person the premise is true.’” In re Custody of A.T., 11 Wn.
2 Khanlarova’s appellate counsel withdrew after oral argument before this court.
3 No. 86399-1-I/4
App. 2d 156, 162, 451 P.3d 1132 (2019) (quoting Sunnyside Valley Irrig. Dist. v.
Dickie, 149 Wn.2d 873, 879-80, 73 P.3d 369 (2003)). “The party claiming error
has the burden of showing that a finding of fact is not supported by substantial
evidence.” Id.
In gauging substantial evidence, “[w]e will not substitute our judgment for
the trial court’s, weigh the evidence, or”—most relevant here—“adjudge witness
credibility.” In re Marriage of Greene, 97 Wn. App. 708, 714, 986 P.2d 144 (1999).
This deference also extends to expert testimony as the “factfinder,” here the court
below, “is given wide latitude in the weight to give expert opinion” as appellate
courts may not engage in “weighing expert testimony.” In re Marriage of Sedlock,
69 Wn. App. 484, 491, 849 P.2d 1243 (1993).
Thus, “[e]ven where the evidence conflicts, the appellate court need
determine only ‘whether the evidence most favorable to the prevailing party
supports the challenged findings.’” State v. Living Essentials, LLC, 8 Wn. App. 2d
1, 14, 436 P.3d 857 (2019) (emphasis added) (quoting Prostov v. Dep’t of
Licensing, 186 Wn. App. 795, 820, 349 P.3d 874 (2015)).
1. CIR Start Date
Khanlarova now argues the “court abused its discretion in arbitrarily picking
March 28, 2014 as the start date of the CIR and ignoring the parties[’] previous
four years of living together” and, alternatively, their engagement in 2011. We
disagree.
“A CIR is a ‘stable, marital-like relationship where both parties cohabit with
knowledge that a lawful marriage between them does not exist.’” Muridan, 3 Wn.
4 No. 86399-1-I/5
App. 2d at 55 (quoting Connell v. Francisco, 127 Wn.2d 339, 346, 898 P.2d 831
(1995)); In re Matter of Kelly & Moesslang, 170 Wn. App. 722, 737, 287 P.3d 12
(2012) (“‘Marital-like’ is simply an attempt by the courts to describe the long-term,
committed nature of a CIR”) (quoting In re Marriage of Pennington, 142 Wn.2d
592, 601, 14 P.3d 764 (2000)).
“Relevant factors establishing a [CIR] include, but are not limited to:
continuous cohabitation, duration of the relationship, purpose of the relationship,
pooling of resources and services for joint projects, and the intent of the parties.”
Connell, 127 Wn.2d at 346; In re Parentage of G.W.-F., 170 Wn. App. 631, 648,
285 P.3d 208 (2012) (highlighting that “there must be ‘mutual intent to form’” and
“maintain” the CIR) (emphasis added). In Pennington, our Supreme Court held
that one factor “is not more important than the other” as the factors intend “to reach
all relevant evidence helpful in establishing whether a [CIR] exists.” 142 Wn.2d at
602, 605. Further, “[c]ourts should not apply these factors in a hypertechnical
fashion, but must base the determination on the circumstances of each case.”
Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 55.
Here, the trial court did not abuse its discretion in finding that a CIR existed
or when it began. It rightly held that there are “a number of factors that are taken
into account” and “[c]ohabitation is . . . important, but it’s not the only factor.” And
it found that, after it “considered the totality of evidence and all relevant factors . .
. the CIR began on March 28, 2014, when the parties executed legal documents
to solidify their relationship” as their “prior cohabitation and mere engagement
planning (without proceeding to a wedding or marriage) did not rise to that level in
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this case.” The legal documents to which the court was referring were the wills
and powers of attorney the parties established for one another, in which they
“referred to one another as partners.” Those documents constitute supporting
substantial evidence. In Muridan, this court similarly found an “affidavit of domestic
partnership” evidenced an intent for a CIR. 3 3 Wn. App. 2d at 57, 60.
Moreover, “a rational, fair-minded person” could be persuaded that—as the
court found—these legal documents, when contrasted with other evidence,
indicates a lack of mutual intent to form a CIR before March 28, 2014. Muridan, 3
Wn. App. 2d at 54-55. For example, Coluccio provided undisputed testimony that
“pretty quickly” after their 2011 engagement “the talk turned into we’re not going to
have a wedding, we’re not going to get married.” Specifically, Coluccio explained
that he “started having some doubts” due to friction between Khanlarova and his
family “that was causing [him] a lot of heartache” as well as Khanlarova’s rigid
obstinance which left room for “no compromise” or “discussion” about various
issues.
Further, Coluccio purchased the Madrona home in 2012 solely under his
name and with his own funds. This purchase is notable when contrasted with the
parties’ 2016 joint purchase of the Bellevue home using both of their funds and
under both of their names.
We thus hold that substantial evidence supports the court’s decision to give
greater weight to the parties’ March 28, 2014 legal documents than their prior
3 While the court there found the CIR commenced when the parties began cohabitating, the question of when the CIR began in that case was not before us as it is here. Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 50. 6 No. 86399-1-I/7
cohabitation or the engagement. Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 54-55. We need not
reach the other factors as the parties do not rigorously analyze them. At best for
Khanlarova, the court’s decision here is similar to Pennington, where the “facts
[were] too equivocal to conclusively establish that the parties mutually intended to
be in a [CIR]” despite the parties’ previous cohabitation and engagement. 142
Wn.2d at 595, 597, 606. In turn, Khanlarova failed to establish the court “‘adopt[ed]
a position no reasonable judge would take’” when it set the CIR start date in March
2014. Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 54 (quoting L.H., 198 Wn. App. at 194).
2. RCW 26.09.191(3) Restrictions
The court’s parenting plan imposed RCW 26.09.191(3)(b) restrictions
against Khanlarova for “a long-term emotional or psychological problem that
impairs her ability to parent.” The parenting plan thus limited, but did not eliminate,
her decision-making authority and residential time with her two children, R.C. and
S.C. The parenting plan further required Khanlarova undergo mental health
treatment for at least two years.
“Trial courts have broad discretion to create parenting plans tailored to the
needs of the individuals involved in a particular dissolution. This discretion
promotes finality, preventing ‘extended litigation [that] can be harmful to children.’”
In re Marriage of Chandola, 180 Wn.2d 632, 658, 327 P.3d 644 (2014) (alteration
in original) (quoting In re Parentage of Jannot, 149 Wn.2d 123, 127, 65 P.3d 664
(2003)). Due to the importance of this “finality,” the party “who challenges such
decisions,’” here Khanlarova, “‘bears the heavy burden of showing a manifest
abuse of discretion on the part of the trial court.” In re Marriage of Landry, 103
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Wn.2d 807, 809–10, 699 P.2d 214 (1985). 4
Khanlarova makes two overarching challenges to the court’s RCW
26.09.191(3)(b) restrictions. First, she argues the parenting evaluator’s
investigation on which the court relied was deficient in several ways. Second, and
more generally, she alleges the court improperly imposed RCW 26.09.191(3)(b)
limitations because its findings failed to identify any “actual harm” to the children
and due to a lack of substantial evidence. We address each argument in turn. 5
a. Khanlarova’s Challenge of the Parenting Evaluation
The trial court appointed Wheeler as parenting evaluator in September
2022. Wheeler ultimately provided the court with a 51-page parenting evaluation
with two appendices of collateral interviews, which was admitted into evidence and
is not challenged here. Wheeler’s evaluation contains a considerable amount of
4 The standard announced in Landry was reiterated in In re Marriage of Kim, which
addressed a parent’s petition to relocate their children. 179 Wn. App. 232, 235- 36, 317 P.3d 555 (2014). That said, this court reiterated the Landry-Kim standard in unpublished matters regarding the establishment of parenting plans, including In re Marriage of Christopher, which also addressed RCW 26.09.191 restrictions. No. 54208-1-II, slip op. at 18-19, 24-25 (Wash. Ct. App. Nov. 2, 2021) (unpublished), https://www.courts.wa.gov/opinions/pdf/D2%2054208-1- II%20Unpublished%20Opinion.pdf. We utilize this unpublished matter under GR 14.1 as it is “necessary for a reasoned decision” by providing an on-point example of utilizing the Landry-Kim standard for the establishment of a parenting plan. 5 Khanlarova also presented numerous other claims, including discrimination
under WAC 246-924-445; that Wheeler failed to properly consider her disabilities; that the parenting plan contains an unlawful “‘successful co-parenting’” provision; and that the court violated her constitutional rights as a parent. We do not address them further here as they are insufficiently argued. Palmer v. Jensen, 81 Wn. App. 148, 153, 913 P.2d 413 (1996) (“Passing treatment of an issue or lack of reasoned argument is insufficient to merit judicial consideration”); State v. Johnson, 119 Wn.2d 167, 171, 829 P.2d 1082 (1992) (“Parties raising constitutional issues must present considered arguments to this court”). Regardless, each argument is contrary to the facts in the record. 8 No. 86399-1-I/9
information which includes, but is not limited to, a methodical retelling of both
parents’ accounts of events, both parents’ psychological evaluations, both
children’s accounts of events, Wheeler’s parent-child observations, as well as
collateral interviews with the parties’ personal and third-party professional
contacts.
Wheeler’s evaluation also conducted a lengthy and multi-factor RCW
26.09.191 analysis for each parent based on the parties’ expressed concerns.
Ultimately, Wheeler concluded that, “until such time that [Khanlarova] has
benefited from additional therapeutic intervention, it is the opinion of the
undersigned that there is a basis for some restrictions to the residential schedule
under RCW 26.09.191, for ‘emotional abuse’ of the children, ‘long-term emotional
impairment,’ or other factor which negatively impacts her performance or parenting
functions.”
Specifically, Wheeler also explained “[Khanlarova]’s anxiety appears to
manifest in a combination of some adaptive protective behaviors, but also some
overly protective and anxious-controlling behaviors.” In other words, “[w]hile the
intent of [Khanlarova]’s anxious-controlling behaviors may be to protect the
children from potential harm, the impact of her behaviors appear to be unduly
extreme and harmful to the children’s immediate and long-term emotional well-
being.” She adds that the “mother has historically maintained an extremely
negative, adversarial orientation towards father’s family members” and has “cut[]
off their access to the children.”
Khanlarova does not specifically dispute Wheeler’s above findings but
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instead first argues that, by “not investigating safety concerns with Grace Ellen,”
Coluccio’s mother, “Dr. Wheeler failed to fulfill her mandate as parenting evaluator”
as a “person who assaulted their own mother could reasonably be seen as a risk
of safety to the children.” In support, Khanlarova relies on two domestic violence
protection orders entered against Grace Ellen. Khanlarova’s reliance on these
orders is contrary to other facts in the record and contrary to Wheeler’s
unchallenged opinions.
For example, Wheeler explained that “[Khanlarova]’s negative
characterization of [Coluccio]’s family are not supported by her own supporting
documents or some of her own behaviors (e.g., seeking Grace’s assistance in
providing childcare after their nanny departed in September 2022),” a fact that
Khanlarova does not specifically dispute.
Khanlarova next argues Wheeler improperly “relied almost entirely on
hearsay.” We disagree. While “parents ‘should not be deprived of their parental
rights on hearsay,’” an exception to ER 802 “allows an expert to share the hearsay
facts supporting their expert opinion to explain how they reached that decision”
under ER 703 and 705. In re Dependency of A.C., 1 Wn.3d 186, 192, 525 P.3d
177 (2023) (citation omitted) (quoting In re Welfare of Ross, 45 Wn.2d 654, 655-
56, 277 P.2d 335 (1954)). Further, WAC 246-924-445(5)(b) and (e) expressly
allow parenting evaluators to consider “[c]ollateral contact interviews” or “[w]ritten
input from collateral sources.” And, as referenced above and discussed below,
Wheeler based her evaluation on a significant amount of direct interviews with and
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observations of the parties and their parenting.
Even assuming there was a hearsay issue, our Supreme Court held in the
context of a parenting plan with RCW 26.09.191(3) restrictions, that “in a bench
trial, the court is presumed to disregard improper evidence when making its
findings.” In re Marriage of Katare, 175 Wn.2d 23, 31-32, 40 n.8, 283 P.3d 546
(2012). Thus, this argument fails.
Khanlarova next argues Wheeler’s above conclusions were supported by
insufficient evidence, namely, because Wheeler did not “personally observe any
meaningful ‘authoritarian’ parenting practices.” We disagree.
As detailed in Wheeler’s evaluation, she relied on a multitude of evidence
including but not limited to 13.2 hours of interviews with Khanlarova, 1.4 hours of
observing Khanlarova’s parenting, 1.1 hours of interviews with S.C., collateral
interviews with Khanlarova’s mental health providers, and collateral interviews with
the children’s therapist, tutor, and nannies.
Thus, in line with WAC 246-924-445(5)(a), Wheeler gathered information
from numerous sources with direct insight on Khanlarova’s mental health and
parenting style. Khanlarova’s generalized arguments fail to meaningfully or
substantively dispute of the reliability of these sources. Cowiche Canyon
Conservancy v. Bosley,118 Wn.2d 801, 819, 828 P.2d 549 (1992) (the court is not
required to search the record to locate the portions relevant to a litigant’s
arguments).
Even assuming arguendo Wheeler never personally saw Khanlarova’s
“‘authoritarian’” parenting style, Khanlarova cites no authority specifically requiring
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such a direct observation. DeHeer v. Seattle Post-Intelligencer, 60 Wn.2d 122,
126, 372 P.2d 193 (1962) (“Where no authorities are cited in support of a
proposition, the court is not required to search out authorities, but may assume
that counsel, after diligent search, has found none”). If anything, WAC 246-924-
445(5) suggests otherwise by granting broad discretion as to what parenting
evaluators can consider, including collateral interviews.
Regardless, Wheeler and the court received direct evidence that a rational
person could view as showing Khanlarova’s “‘authoritarian’” parenting style. This
evidence included a video which shows Khanlarova repeatedly and significantly
raising her voice while grabbing S.C. before physically tossing a crying S.C. on a
sofa. Khanlarova’s brief acknowledges this video in passing but otherwise fails to
specifically address its contents.
We thus hold Khanlarova failed to establish Wheeler’s investigation was
one that “no reasonable judge would have” relied on. Kim, 179 Wn. App. at 240.
b. Khanlarova’s Challenge of the RCW 26.09.191 Restrictions
Khanlarova next challenges the court’s RCW 26.09.191(3) findings, which
she claims failed to identify any “actual harm” she caused her children. We
On its face, this assertion is contrary to Khanlarova’s own briefing, which
acknowledges the “court based its decision to impose .191 limitations on
Khanlarova because she denied visitation with the children’s paternal
grandparents and others.”
More substantively, Khanlarova’s assertion is also contrary to the record.
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When the court imposed RCW 26.09.191(3) restrictions, it found its “most
important concern was that Khanlarova is “cutting off the children from significant
relationships in their lives” such as “their long-time nanny and family members,”
which “rises to the level of a .191 finding for a psychological or emotional problem
that interferes with parenting.” It explained the “evidence at trial, including
[Coluccio’s] persuasive testimony . . . reflected” Khanlarova’s “greater concern
over parental control than for the well-being and interests of the children.”
The court further acknowledged that Khanlarova “might have had legitimate
concerns about the way [Coluccio’s] family members communicated with” her, but
“the Court finds that [Khanlarova’s] reactions and demands were and are well
beyond what could be justified.” The court also elaborated that “the testimony and
documentary evidence established the children have very positive relationships
with [Coluccio’s] family, including [Coluccio’s] mother, and the family is actively
involved in their lives.” Thus, Khanlarova’s abrupt ending of a “very significant and
important relationship for the children . . . reflected a greater concern over parental
control than for the well-being and interests of the children” and thus mandated
RCW 26.09.191(3) restrictions.
Far from being generalized, the court engaged in a methodical, step-by-
step explanation on how Khanlarova’s actions harmed the children’s emotional
well-being, namely cutting them off from significant relationships.
Thus, it is simply contrary to the record to claim the court failed to “identify
any actual harm.” It is also immaterial that the court separately found the children
were “‘doing well’” otherwise. Chandola, 180 Wn.2d at 645 (reiterating a court is
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not required to “‘wait for actual harm to accrue before imposing restrictions’”)
(quoting Katare, 175 Wn.2d at 36).
We also hold that the court’s findings on RCW 26.09.191(3) restrictions are
affirmatively supported by the record. For example, Wheeler testified that
Khanlarova’s “deficit in her ability to effectively regulate her emotions and
behavior” as well as “rigid, inflexible thinking” results in behavior that is “very
extreme and problematic, and potentially very harmful for the children.” She added
that one “way that this pattern is harmful to the children is that among the extreme
behavior that [Khanlarova] engaged in to try to protect them from what she
perceived as a threat, was her cutting them off from adults who were otherwise
very significant supportive, loving adults in their lives, mainly their grandmother
Grace Ellen, their [aunt], and the nanny.”
Further, Wheeler testified Khanlarova’s actions such as “yelling, raised
voices, all those kinds of conflict-related behaviors. Children – particularly young
children – preverbal children are very significantly impacted by conflict” that was
“in part, between their parents, but largely [Khanlarova] becoming upset seemed
to be the primary dynamic.” Wheeler observed the children start “to be more
aggressive verbally and physically themselves because that’s what’s being
modeled for them, those kinds of authoritarian techniques.” Coluccio further
testified R.C. started mimicking Khanlarova’s behavior such as slamming doors,
throwing items, or pounding his fists. 6
6 Despite the above, Khanlarova’s briefing claims a commissioner terminated a
restraining order “on December 21, 2022 because [Coluccio]’s allegations of harm to the children were inconsistent with his subsequent conduct and behavior.”). 14 No. 86399-1-I/15
For the reasons above, we hold Khanlarova failed to demonstrate the
court’s findings lacked substantial evidence or that the imposition of RCW
26.09.191(3) restrictions was a decision “no reasonable judge would have
reached.” A.T., 11 Wn. App. 2d at 162; Kim, 179 Wn. App. at 240.
3. Property Division
Washington courts “use a three-pronged analysis for disposing of property
when such a marital-like relationship ends: (1) determine whether a CIR existed;
(2) if a CIR existed, evaluate each party’s interest in the property acquired during
the relationship; and (3) make a just and equitable distribution of that property.” In
re the Committed Intimate Relationship of Amburgey, 8 Wn. App. 2d 779, 787, 440
P.3d 1069 (2019). We addressed the first prong in upholding the court’s CIR start
date and now turn to the second and third prongs.
In Washington, “we limit the distribution of property following a [CIR] to
property that would have been characterized as community property had the
parties been married.” Connell, 127 Wn.2d at 350. “The legislature defines
separate property as property acquired before marriage or acquired after marriage
by gift, bequest, devise, or descent.” In re Marriage of Chumbley, 150 Wn.2d 1, 5,
74 P.3d 129 (2003) (citing RCW 26.16.010, .020).
Washington courts employ a rebuttable “presumption that property acquired
during a CIR belongs to both parties.” Kelly, 170 Wn. App. at 734. “The party
Even assuming Khanlarova characterizes the commissioner’s actions correctly, “[s]o long as substantial evidence supports the finding, it does not matter that other evidence may contradict it” as we defer to the trial court’s credibility and weight determinations. In re Marriage of Burrill, 113 Wn. App. 863, 868, 56 P.3d 993 (2002) (emphasis added). 15 No. 86399-1-I/16
asserting that an asset acquired during the CIR is separate property . . . must
present ‘clear, cogent, and convincing evidence that the asset falls within a
separate property exception.’” Morgan v. Briney, 200 Wn. App. 380, 390, 403 P.3d
86 (2017) (quoting Burgess v. Crossan, 189 Wn. App. 97, 103, 358 P.3d 416
(2015); In re Dependency of K.R., 128 Wn.2d 129, 141, 904 P.2d 1132 (1995)
(“Clear, cogent, and convincing evidence exists when the ultimate fact in issue is
shown by the evidence to be ‘highly probable’”) (internal quotation marks omitted)
(quoting In re Welfare of Sego, 82 Wn.2d 736, 739, 513 P.2d 831 (1973)).
“The party cannot meet this burden by ‘mere self-serving’ declarations that
the partner ‘acquired it from separate funds and a showing that separate funds
were available for that purpose.’” 7 Morgan, 200 Wn. App. at 390 (quoting Berol v.
Berol, 37 Wn.2d 380, 382, 223 P.2d 1055 (1950)). Rather, the “party must be able
to trace the funds ‘with some degree of particularity.’” Id. (quoting Berol, 37 Wn.2d
at 382).
This evidence need not be an “exhaustive accounting” or “irrefutable.” In re
Marriage of Schwarz, 192 Wn. App. 180, 215, 217-18, 368 P.3d 173 (2016)
(reiterating also that “‘clear and convincing’” evidence requires a “proposition [be]
7 In challenging the court’s property division, Khanlarova repeatedly argues Coluccio’s testimony was “self-serving” with little elaboration or specific citation to the record. These generalized assertions are contrary to the record as Coluccio introduced more than merely his own testimony, such as ample financial records as well as the testimony and reports of two financial experts. See Marriage of Schwarz, 192 Wn. App. 180, 214-15, 368 P.3d 173 (2016) (“[i]t is reasonable to require the party’s testimony to be supported by, e.g. documentary evidence . . . or the testimony of another witness.”). And again, this evidence need not be an “exhaustive accounting” or “irrefutable,” it need only be clear and convincing. Id. at 217-18. 16 No. 86399-1-I/17
highly probable.”). Further, “the testimony of a single credible witness can qualify
as clear and convincing evidence, even if the witness’s testimony is contradicted
by other witnesses.” Id. at 214 (emphasis added). And it “is reasonable to require
the party’s testimony to be supported by, e.g., documentary evidence, an
admission by their party-opponent, or the testimony of another witness.” Id. at 214-
15.
Here the court largely adopted Coluccio’s proposed characterization and
division of the property. 8 Under this division, Coluccio received $4.6 million in
separate property and $804,000 in community property. The value of separate
property awarded to Coluccio does not appear to include SolTerra Capital which
is valued at negative $3.069 million. Khanlarova received $155,000 in separate
property and $1.7 million in community property.
In challenging these decisions, Khanlarova presents two overarching
arguments. First, she argues the court failed to properly categorize the divided
properly “because it did not make any findings about the acquisition date of any
assets acquired before or during the CIR.” Second, she argues the court “did not
require [Coluccio] to prove with clear and convincing evidence that property
acquired during the CIR . . . was his separate property.” We address each
argument and their in turn below.
a. The Court’s Property Categorization
Khanlarova’s first argument takes an overly narrow view of the court’s
8 A key difference between Coluccio’s proposal and the court’s division is the latter
declined to impose Coluccio’s proposed marital lien which would have split the community property 50/50 among the parties. 17 No. 86399-1-I/18
findings. For example, the court found that Coluccio “paid a large portion of the
community expenses over the course of the relationship” and that “the vast
majority of [Coluccio’s] income across the relationship came from business
ownership interests,” i.e., Halogent “that predated the CIR.” (Emphasis added.)
Further, Coluccio’s “modest supplemental income from related work on that
business during the relationship was accounted for separately.” (Emphasis
added.) Thus, while the court’s finding may not have specified the exact date of
acquisition, it still sufficiently described whether the funds originated from sources
before or during the CIR.
Khanlarova argues that “[w]ithout findings about the acquisition date, the
court was required to presume that all the assets the parties had at the time of trial
were acquired during the CIR and therefore were community property.” However,
both of Khanlarova’s cited authorities merely reiterate the general community
property standard and do not specifically require the court’s findings take a certain
form such as specifying the exact acquisition date. Chumbley, 150 Wn.2d at 5-6;
RCW 26.16.030. Such a rigid requirement would needlessly constrain or
complicate CIR dissolutions where it is established property was acquired before
a CIR but the exact date of acquisition is no longer known or ascertainable. We
decline to create such a requirement.
b. The Court’s Property Division
Khanlarova again next argues the court “did not require [Coluccio] to prove
with clear and convincing evidence that property acquired during the CIR . . . was
his separate property.” In so arguing, she challenges the court’s admission of the
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documents generated by Coluccio’s experts, as well as more globally the court’s
overall division of investments, the Bellevue home, and retirement accounts. We
address each piece of property in turn below.
As a preliminary note, two key facts are undisputed on appeal. First, the
parties have never shared bank accounts or joined finances. Second, Coluccio’s
ownership interest in Halogent, a cosmetic company founded in 2001, predates
the CIR.
i. Admissibility of Exhibit 149
Before challenging the division of specific pieces of property, Khanlarova
generally argues that “the testimony and reports of [Coluccio]’s expert witnesses
are insufficient to prove separate property” as “[m]ost of the information they relied
on was not admitted into evidence such as [Coluccio]’s tax returns.” Khanlarova
only specifically and substantively challenges Exhibit 149 9, which acted as a
“‘summary report’ of [Coluccio]’s tax returns.” She argues “[e]xpert witness
testimony alone about tax documents without the actual tax documents admitted
into evidence is hearsay and inadmissible.”
At trial, however, immediately prior to the court admitting Exhibit 149,
Khanlarova stated she had “no problem with this report,” and even further
described it as “the least of [her] concerns” despite the court questioning her about
9 In passing, Khanlarova also alludes to “the 60+ individual line items in the Asset
and Debt spreadsheet” which she claims the court adopted while impermissibly “allow[ing] Coluccio to testify that the property was separate without proving it.” However, she presents this argument without any direct citation and analysis of the record or Coluccio’s actual testimony. Fishburn v. Pierce County Planning & Land Servs. Dep’t, 161 Wn. App. 452, 468, 250 P.3d 146 (2011) (courts will not comb the record to find support for an appellant’s arguments). 19 No. 86399-1-I/20
its contents. At oral argument, Khanlarova’s appellate counsel conceded that
Khanlarova did not object to admitting Exhibit 149 below. 10 Wash. Ct. of Appeals
oral argument, In re Committed Intimate Relationship of Coluccio, No. 86399-1-I
(Apr. 9, 2025) at 3 min., 1 sec. through 3 min., 9 sec. video recording by TVW,
Washington State’s Public Affairs Network, https://tvw.org/video/division-1-court-
of-appeals-2025041226/?eventID=2025041226.
“‘Error may not be predicated upon a ruling which admits . . . evidence
unless a substantial right of the party is affected, and . . . a timely objection or
motion to strike is made.’” Hamblin v. Castillo Garcia, 23 Wn. App. 2d 814, 838,
517 P.3d 1080 (2022) (alteration in original) (quoting ER 103(a)(1)); Boyd v.
Kulczyk, 115 Wn. App. 411, 416-17, 63 P.3d 156 (2003) (“we have no decision of
the trial court to review” because the party “raised no objection to [the] testimony
on the basis” they now assert on appeal). “While exceptions exist, including for
manifest errors implicating a constitutional right, RAP 2.5(a)(3),” no such error or
basis has been sufficiently alleged here. Faust v. Albertson, 167 Wn.2d 531, 547,
222 P.3d 1208 (2009). 11
10 After oral argument before this court, Khanlarova submitted pro se materials
disputing her counsel’s concession and argued she objected “repeatedly” to Coluccio’s “expert reports.” To the extent Khanlarova attempted to supplement the record, such actions are barred outside the requirements of RAP 9.10 and RAP 9.11. To the extent Khanlarova cited to the record, such as the trial transcript, her citations do not negate her clear refusal to object to or otherwise dispute Exhibit 149 soon before its admission, discussed above. See also State v. Roosma, 19 Wn. App. 2d 941, 950, 498 P.3d 59 (2021) (“defense counsel expressly said, ‘No objection’ when the State offered the text messages at trial, effectively withdrawing the defense’s previous objection” and thus “waiv[ing] his challenge to the admissibility of the text messages.”). 11 A declaration Khanlarova filed alongside her motion for reconsideration
referenced a “hearsay” issue within a “valuation report.” However, a “request for 20 No. 86399-1-I/21
Courts are “under no obligation to grant special favors to . . . a pro se
litigant.” In re Marriage of Olson, 69 Wn. App. 621, 626, 850 P.2d 527 (1993).
Thus, we hold Khanlarova failed to preserve her hearsay arguments concerning
Exhibit 149 due to her express refusal to object prior to its admission at trial. 12
ii. Division of Investments
In challenging the division of the parties’ investments, Khanlarova first
merely reiterates her above addressed arguments on Coluccio’s expert witnesses
and hearsay. Khanlarova then argues that the court’s division lacked sufficient
evidence and failed to apply the clear and convincing standard. In so arguing,
Khanlarova only cites to Kessler and Winkler’s testimony that investments are
“generally split down the middle” but offers little analysis of the actual property at
issue.
At trial, the court received evidence Coluccio transferred the proceeds from
the Halogent sale to his MJC Holdings Account. Coluccio estimated that
community-like expenses surpassed his salary by at least $971,000. In other
words, “all of [his] income – all of [his] community earnings were used up times ten
for community expenses to support [Khanlarova], the household, et cetera. The
rest was used to either buy investments or invest in commercial real estate.” In
‘reconsideration’ under CR 59 is not a time to suddenly propose a new theory of the case.” Wash. Election Integrity Coal. United v. Schumacher, 28 Wn. App. 2d 176, 204, 537 P.3d 1058 (2023). 12 Khanlarova’s appellate brief nonetheless cites comments from Coluccio’s
attorney earlier at trial describing Exhibit 149 as “illustrative.” However, the court’s actual admission of Exhibit 149 did not expressly or specifically limit it to only illustrative purposes. Even assuming Exhibit 149 was admitted solely for illustrative purposes, “in a bench trial, the court is presumed to disregard improper evidence when making its findings.” Katare, 175 Wn.2d at 31-32, 40 n.8. 21 No. 86399-1-I/22
turn, the remaining funds for these investments solely originated from Halogent
proceeds which is separate property. In re Witte’s Estate, 21 Wn.2d 112, 126, 150
P.2d 595 (1944) (“when the community property is inconsiderable in comparison
with the separate property, the mass remains separate property”).
Khanlarova’s briefing also does not specifically dispute the lack of evidence
indicating Halogent increased in value between the start of the CIR in March 2014
and when Coluccio sold his interest in September 2015.
We thus hold the record provides evidence that it is “highly probable”
Coluccio’s investments originated solely from his separate property funds, i.e.,
Halogent. Schwarz, 192 Wn. App. at 217-18.
iii. Division of Bellevue Home
For the Bellevue home, the court reimbursed both parties for their initial
down payments adjusted for the home’s increase in value. The court then evenly
split the remaining equity in the home between the parties.
Khanlarova argues that “$361,000 of the $611,000” from Coluccio’s down
payment “came out came out of his American Express (AmEx) savings account,
but he only provided statements to the court going back to November 2015, over
a year and half after the CIR began.” We disagree as these funds were traceable
back to Coluccio’s Halogent proceeds.
In September 2015, Coluccio deposited the Halogent sale proceeds in his
MJC Holdings account. Later the same month, he transferred a portion of the
proceeds to a Bank of America (BofA) account. In October, Coluccio transferred
a portion of the proceeds to another BofA account. Later the same month, he
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transferred a portion of the proceeds to his AmEx savings account. In December
2016, Coluccio’s AmEx account statements show withdrawals consistent with his
contribution towards the down payment.
Thus, while “an exhaustive accounting” is not required, we hold the above
is evidence sufficient to show it is at least “highly probable” that Coluccio’s down
payment on the Bellevue home is traced and sourced from his separate Halogent
proceeds. Schwarz, 192 Wn. App. at 217-18.
iv. Division of Retirement Accounts
In challenging the court’s division of the retirement accounts, Khanlarova
essentially argues the evidence contains a gap for contributions between the
court’s imposed CIR start date in 2014 and 2016 which Deis used as the start of
the parties’ “cohabitation” in her retirement account summary. In turn, Deis only
characterized contributions after that 2016 date as community-like. Even if the
above indicates error, remand is only required where
(1) the trial court’s reasoning indicates that its division was significantly influenced by its characterization of the property, and (2) it is not clear that had the court properly characterized the property, it would have divided it in the same way. In such a case, remand enables the trial court to exercise its discretion in making a fair, just and equitable division on tenable grounds, that is, with the correct character of the property in mind.
In re Marriage of Shannon, 55 Wn. App. 137, 142, 777 P.2d 8 (1989); In re the
Meretricious Relationship of Sutton, 85 Wn. App. 487, 492, 933 P.2d 1069 (1997)
(holding that if there is “a rational basis for the court’s decision . . . we will not
overturn [the] discretionary decision” of distributing property, which is essentially
the equivalent of the abuse of discretion standard).
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Here, the court adopted Coluccio’s proposed property division. Under this
division, Khanlarova received $452,914 in retirement funds while Coluccio
received $35,853.
In adopting the above, the court found this division was more generous than
what Washington law would otherwise require and equitable considering the
respective financial positions of the parties. After all, a key purpose of CIRs are
ensuring that “one party is not unjustly enriched at the end of such a relationship.”
Connell, 127 Wn.2d at 349. Two key considerations here include Khanlarova
receiving the vast majority of funds from retirement accounts and Coluccio covered
the vast majority of relationship expenses during the CIR, totaling at least
$971,754.
The court also indicated it was aware of the ‘gap’ between the Deis
summary and its 2014 start date and had previously heard Khanlarova assert her
concerns on the matter.
Thus, we hold the court’s division was neither “significantly influenced by its
characterization” and that an under an alternative characterization “it would have
divided [the accounts] in the same way.” Shannon, 55 Wn. App. at 142. We further
hold Khanlarova failed to establish the court abused its discretion here or within
the broader property division discussed above. Muridan, 3 Wn. App. 2d at 55-56
(holding that CIR property distributions, which necessarily requires determining
when a CIR existed, are reviewed for abuse of discretion).
B. Failure to Accommodate Claim
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Khanlarova proceeded pro se at trial. 13 She now argues the court failed to
accommodate her as “[n]ot once at any pretrial motion or during trial did the trial
judge ask [her] about her disabilities or offer her enough time to fairly present her
case.” Specifically, she claims her trial issues were “compounded by [her]
[Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)] and anxiety,” meaning the court
provisioning “[e]qual time for the parties equate[d] to unequal treatment because
[Khanlarova]’s disabilities necessarily meant that she could not use her time as
effectively.” She also claims the court failed to act sua sponte to give her “notice
of her right to request ADA/GR 33 accommodations and further erred in not
accommodating Khanlarova’s request for more time.” Khanlarova cites primarily
to the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 (ADA), Pub. L. No. 101-336, 104
Stat. 327 (42 U.S.C. 12101), Washington’s GR 33, and the Code of Judicial
Conduct (CJC). 14
While pro se parties are held to the same standard as attorneys, Westberg
v. All-Purpose Structures, Inc., 86 Wn. App. 405, 411, 936 P.2d 1175 (1997), a
division of this court has held that pro se parties with disabilities should not be held
to the standard of an attorney if they “suffer[] from a significant mental disability,”
such that they are “‘arguably incapable of understanding the law and legal
proceeding.’” Carver v. State, 147 Wn. App. 567, 575, 197 P.3d 678 (2008)
13 Multiple attorneys had represented Khanlarova before she opted to represent
herself at trial. 14 Khanlarova’s assignments of error also mention the Washington Law Against
Discrimination and section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973, Pub. L. No. 93- 112, 87 Stat. 355, 394, but she fails to present any substantive argument for either authority. Thus, we need not address either authority. Palmer, 81 Wn. App. at 153. 25 No. 86399-1-I/26
(involving a pro se party with dementia) (quoting Cruz v. Root, 932 F. Supp. 66, 70
(W.D.N.Y.1996)); In re Marriage of Gharst, 25 Wn. App. 2d 752, 759, 525 P.3d
250 (2023) (involving a party who suffered a brain injury from multiple strokes).
Starting with the ADA, Khanlarova cites caselaw, albeit at a high level, to
argue that a court is required act sua sponte to inform her of her right to request
accommodations. It is true that Congress enacted the ADA to “provide a clear and
comprehensive national mandate for the elimination of discrimination against
individuals with disabilities.” 15 42 U.S.C. § 12101(b)(1). However, none of the
cases Khanlarova cites require a court act sua sponte. See Duvall v. County of
Kitsap, 260 F.3d 1124, 1130, 1139 (9th Cir. 2001) (holding that the disabled party
still needed to “alert[] the public entity to his need for accommodation” although he
requested a “videotext display” because he was hard of hearing); see also In re
Marriage of McCann, 4 Wn. App. 2d 896, 913, 915, 424 P.3d 234 (2018)
(explaining GR 33(e) only expressly requires ADA notice in the event of a denial).
Thus, we reject Khanlarova’s generalized reliance on the ADA.
Khanlarova next relies on GR 33, which defines “‘[a]ccommodation’” as
ensuring “each court service, program, or activity when viewed in its entirety” be
“readily accessible to and usable by a person with a disability.” Even so, GR
33(b)(4) and (5) still require a spoken or written accommodation request include “a
15 The ADA further defines “disability” broadly to cover any “physical or mental
impairment that substantially limits one or more of the major life activities of such individual.” 42 U.S.C. § 12102(1)(A). This definition includes “[a]ny mental or psychological disorder such as . . . emotional or mental illness,” “specific learning disabilities” such as “Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder” (ADHD), and “post- traumatic stress disorder” (PTSD), among others. 28 C.F.R. § 35.108(b)(1)(ii), (b)(2), (d)(2)(iii)(K). 26 No. 86399-1-I/27
description of the accommodation sought, along with a statement of the disabilities
necessitating the accommodation.” In other words, “GR 33 requires proof of
disability as a prerequisite to accommodations at trial.” McCann, 4 Wn. App. 2d at
909. Thus, a party must both request specific accommodations and sufficiently
establish their disabilities. 16 We review application of a court rule such as GR 33
de novo. Niccum v. Enquist, 175 Wn.2d 441, 446, 286 P.3d 966 (2012).
Here, Khanlarova’s briefing does little to establish the above two-step
analysis, i.e., that she requested specific accommodations and established her
disability at trial. At most, Khanlarova argues she “told the court about” her ADHD
and that Dr. Wheeler’s testimony and reports referenced ADHD. Khanlarova
otherwise provides no citation to the record where she specifically asked for
particular GR 33 accommodations connected to her ADHD.
GR 33 also does not require a court always act sua sponte as Khanlarova
now claims. GR 33(e) only states that, “[i]f a requested accommodation is denied,
the court shall specify the reasons” and “also ensure the person requesting the
accommodation is informed of their right to file a complaint under the [ADA].”
16 This court has consistently so held in numerous unpublished opinions. See, e.g., Rogers v. Rushford, No. 49598-8-II, slip op. at 12 (Wash. Ct. App. Mar. 6, 2018) (unpublished) https://www.courts.wa.gov/opinions/pdf/D2%2049598-8- II%20Unpublished%20Opinion.pdf (holding the party’s request was insufficient as she merely “referenced her disability in the context of asking the superior court” for the ultimate relief she sought); In re Parentage and Support of H.N.C., No. 57694- 5-II, slip op. at 34 n.10 (Wash. Ct. App. Oct. 15, 2024) (unpublished) https://www.courts.wa.gov/opinions/pdf/D2%2057694-5- II%20Unpublished%20Opinion.pdf (noting “although Curry referenced her ADHD and PTSD, she did not make any request for accommodation under GR 33”). Both of the above opinions are “necessary for a reasoned decision” as they provide on- point examples of insufficient GR 33 requests. GR 14.1(b). 27 No. 86399-1-I/28
(emphasis added); see also McCann, 4 Wn. App. 2d at 913 (same). In other
words, a duty to notify a party of their ADA rights is triggered only if the party makes
an adequate GR 33 request and the request is denied.
Regardless, the record also demonstrates the court repeatedly attempted
to assist Khanlarova during trial. For example, at the beginning of trial, the court
explained it was “going to allocate nine hours of time to each side,” but that it would
still “tr[y] to build in some flexibility because, of course, there’s going to be issues
like the ones we’ve already had come up,” in reference to a previous discussion
on evidentiary issues. And, true to the court’s word, it repeatedly went beyond its
normal schedule to accommodate the issues that arose. E.g. 3 Rep. of Proc. (RP)
at 860 (court ran “well over time” to resolve evidentiary issues), 4 RP at 1418 (court
asked everyone to “stay a little bit longer” to remain on schedule).
As the trial proceeded, the court repeatedly attempted to assist Khanlarova
with courtroom procedures. E.g. 2 RP at 443 (preemptively explained opening
statements to Khanlarova), 3 RP at 600 (helped Khanlarova frame her questions
to witnesses), 3 RP at 614-16 (answering Khanlarova’s evidentiary questions), 4
RP at 1165 (assisting her with admitting exhibits), 3 RP at 622 (“I’m trying to give
[Khanlarova] a little bit of leeway here to understand what the point is before the
Court takes any action. So I’m just giving [Khanlarova] a chance.”), 4 RP at 1295-
97 (explaining to Khanlarova why it sustained an objection), 5 RP at 1662-63
(again answering Khanlarova’s evidentiary questions), 5 RP at 1689-90 (admitting
Khanlarova’s evidence, albeit for a limited purpose, despite apparent hearsay
issues), 5 RP at 1766-68 (answering Khanlarova’s concerns about whether
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specific exhibits were admitted), 5 RP at 1775-78 (attempting to address
Khanlarova’s concerns on admitting text messages despite her failure to comply
with an earlier order).
Thus, we hold this matter is unlike matters where a disabled pro se party
was improperly denied the opportunity to argue the merits of their claims. Carver,
147 Wn. App. at 571, 575 (holding the court improperly dismissed the claim of a
pro se litigant with dementia on collateral estoppel); Gharst, 25 Wn. App. 2d at
754, 759 (holding the court improperly denied a party’s CR 60(b) motion following
their failure to appear due to their brain injury from a series of strokes). Instead,
even if she had the type of disabilities present in those cases, Khanlarova had
ample opportunity to argue her case on the merits and the court repeatedly
attempted to assist her throughout.
As a final note, Khanlarova also repeatedly invokes the CJC, specifically
comment 4 to CJC 2.2 and comments 4.1 and 4.14 to CJC 2.6. First, while
comment 4 to CJC 2.2 generally describes a court’s ability to make “reasonable
accommodations to ensure an unrepresented litigant’s right to be heard,” it
expressly states it “does not require a judge to make any particular
accommodation.” Second, while comment 4 to CJC 2.6 similarly states that a court
“should endeavor to ensure unrepresented litigants have a fair opportunity” to
present their case, it also expressly states the various ways a court could
accommodate a litigant are “not required.” See Comment 4.1 to CJC 2.6
(“[i]dentifying and providing resource information”); see also Comment 4.14 to CJC
2.6 (“[c]larifying with the parties whether they have presented all of their evidence”
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before closing evidence). Thus, we hold Khanlarova’s reliance on the CJC is also
inapposite.
For the reasons above, we hold Khanlarova’s assignment of error fails.
C. Attorney Fees
In her briefing, Khanlarova sought fees on appeal under RCW 4.84.330,
RAP 14.2, and RCW 26.09.140. But RCW 4.84.330 and RAP 14.2 require the
party “prevail” in the action to receive fees, which Khanlarova does not here. And
this court previously held that parties to CIR proceedings are not entitled to fees
under RCW 26.09.140. Foster v. Thilges, 61 Wn. App. 880, 887-88, 812 P.2d 523
(1991). Thus, each initial claimed basis fails.
At oral argument, Khanlarova’s appellate counsel “clarified” her fee request
was solely based on their challenge to RCW 26.09.191(3). 17 Wash. Ct. of Appeals
oral argument, supra at 20 min., 25 sec. through 21 min., 1 sec. We reject
Khanlarova’s fee request as we uphold the court’s RCW 26.09.191(3) restrictions
against her. 18
17 After oral argument before this court, Khanlarova pro se filed a statement of
additional authorities under RAP 10.8, claiming she also sought appellate fees “under RCW 4.84.185, CR 11, RCW 4.84.190, and the equitable doctrine.” This is an improper use of RAP 10.8. See M.G. v. Bainbridge Island Sch. Dist. #303, 34 Wn. App. 2d 51, 69 n. 19, 566 P.3d 132 (2025) (“‘We view [RAP 10.8] as being intended to provide parties an opportunity to cite authority decided after the completion of briefing. We do not view it as being intended to permit parties to submit to the court cases that they failed to timely identify’” or “raise[] arguments they could have raised, but failed to raise, in [their original] brief.”) (quoting O’Neil v. City of Shoreline, 183 Wn. App. 15, 23, 332 P.3d 1099 (2014)). 18 Khanlarova also assigns error to the trial court’s orders requiring she reimburse
Coluccio for Wheeler’s fees and “that each party should pay their own fees and costs.” Khanlarova’s briefing mentions these two orders in passing but fails to offer any substantive argument on them. Thus, we need not consider these arguments further. Palmer, 81 Wn. App. at 153. 30 No. 86399-1-I/31
III. CONCLUSION
We affirm the trial court’s final orders and deny Khanlarova’s request for
attorney fees.
WE CONCUR:
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