In Re Marriage Of Marc Coluccio, And Ilyana Khanlarova

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedOctober 20, 2025
Docket86399-1
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Committed Intimate Relationship of No. 86399-1-I

MARC COLUCCIO, DIVISION ONE

Respondent, UNPUBLISHED OPINION

and

ILYANA KHANLAROVA,

Appellant.

DÍAZ, J. — In 2022, Marc Coluccio petitioned for termination of his

committed intimate relationship (CIR) with Ilyana Khanlarova. Following a bench

trial, the court issued its final orders, including a parenting plan and a division of

the couple’s property. Khanlarova now argues the court abused its discretion in

setting the CIR start date it chose, in ordering RCW 26.09.191(3) parenting

restrictions against her, and in dividing their property. Khanlarova further claims

the court failed to accommodate her disabilities at trial and requests attorney fees

on appeal. We affirm the court’s final orders and deny fees.

I. BACKGROUND

Khanlarova is a refugee who moved to the United States from the Soviet No. 86399-1-I/2

Union around the time of its collapse. The parties initially met in 2002 and dated

for a few months before parting ways.

The parties started dating again in 2008. In 2009, Coluccio moved to

Europe to pursue an MBA. In 2010, he returned to the United States and moved

to Khanlarova’s condo as he was still renting out his house. In 2011, Coluccio

proposed to Khanlarova. In 2012, the parties moved to a home in Seattle’s

Madrona neighborhood. Two years later, Khanlarova gave birth to S.C., 1 the

parties’ first child. In 2016, the parties sold the Madrona house and moved to a

home in Bellevue. That same year, Khanlarova gave birth to R.C., the parties’

second child.

On August 23, 2022, Coluccio petitioned for termination of the CIR. A bench

trial began in December 2023. Khanlarova proceeded pro se, while Coluccio was

represented by counsel.

At trial, the court admitted a report and heard testimony from a parenting

evaluator, Dr. Jennifer Wheeler. The court also heard testimony and admitted

related evidence from Kelly Deis and Steve Kessler, Coluccio’s financial experts,

as well as Joseph Winkler, Khanlarova’s financial expert.

In February 2024, the court entered three final orders. First, the court

issued a “Final Order Ending a Committed Intimate Relationship (CIR),” which

primarily divided the parties’ property, including their Bellevue home, investments,

and retirement accounts. Second, the court issued a “Parenting Plan” which,

among other provisions, imposed RCW 26.09.191(3)(b) restrictions on Khanlarova

1 We use the initials of the parties’ two children to protect their privacy.

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for an “emotional or psychological problem that impairs her ability to parent.”

Finally, the court issued findings of fact, supporting the two orders above.

Khanlarova unsuccessfully moved for a new trial and reconsideration, and

now timely appeals through counsel. 2

II. ANALYSIS

A. Standards of Review on Khanlarova’s Abuse of Discretion Claims

Khanlarova claims the court abused its discretion in three ways. First, she

claims the court abused its discretion when it did not find that the CIR started when

the parties cohabitated or on the date of Coluccio’s marriage proposal. Second,

she claims the court abused its discretion when it imposed RCW 26.09.191(3)

parenting restrictions against her. Finally, she claims the court abused its

discretion by the manner in which it divided the parties’ property. Such claims are

governed by the following standards.

“‘A trial court abuses its discretion if its decision is manifestly unreasonable,

adopts a position no reasonable judge would take, is ‘based on untenable

grounds,’ or if the judge misapplied the law.” In re Committed Intimate Relationship

of Muridan & Redl, 3 Wn. App. 2d 44, 54, 413 P.3d 1072 (2018) (emphasis added)

(quoting In re Parenting & Support of L.H., 198 Wn. App. 190, 194, 391 P.3d 490

(2016)).

To be based on tenable grounds, a court’s findings must be supported by

substantial evidence “‘defined as a quantum of evidence sufficient to persuade a

rational fair-minded person the premise is true.’” In re Custody of A.T., 11 Wn.

2 Khanlarova’s appellate counsel withdrew after oral argument before this court.

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App. 2d 156, 162, 451 P.3d 1132 (2019) (quoting Sunnyside Valley Irrig. Dist. v.

Dickie, 149 Wn.2d 873, 879-80, 73 P.3d 369 (2003)). “The party claiming error

has the burden of showing that a finding of fact is not supported by substantial

evidence.” Id.

In gauging substantial evidence, “[w]e will not substitute our judgment for

the trial court’s, weigh the evidence, or”—most relevant here—“adjudge witness

credibility.” In re Marriage of Greene, 97 Wn. App. 708, 714, 986 P.2d 144 (1999).

This deference also extends to expert testimony as the “factfinder,” here the court

below, “is given wide latitude in the weight to give expert opinion” as appellate

courts may not engage in “weighing expert testimony.” In re Marriage of Sedlock,

69 Wn. App. 484, 491, 849 P.2d 1243 (1993).

Thus, “[e]ven where the evidence conflicts, the appellate court need

determine only ‘whether the evidence most favorable to the prevailing party

supports the challenged findings.’” State v. Living Essentials, LLC, 8 Wn. App. 2d

1, 14, 436 P.3d 857 (2019) (emphasis added) (quoting Prostov v. Dep’t of

Licensing, 186 Wn. App. 795, 820, 349 P.3d 874 (2015)).

1. CIR Start Date

Khanlarova now argues the “court abused its discretion in arbitrarily picking

March 28, 2014 as the start date of the CIR and ignoring the parties[’] previous

four years of living together” and, alternatively, their engagement in 2011. We

disagree.

“A CIR is a ‘stable, marital-like relationship where both parties cohabit with

knowledge that a lawful marriage between them does not exist.’” Muridan, 3 Wn.

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App. 2d at 55 (quoting Connell v. Francisco, 127 Wn.2d 339, 346, 898 P.2d 831

(1995)); In re Matter of Kelly & Moesslang, 170 Wn. App. 722, 737, 287 P.3d 12

(2012) (“‘Marital-like’ is simply an attempt by the courts to describe the long-term,

committed nature of a CIR”) (quoting In re Marriage of Pennington, 142 Wn.2d

592, 601, 14 P.3d 764 (2000)).

“Relevant factors establishing a [CIR] include, but are not limited to:

continuous cohabitation, duration of the relationship, purpose of the relationship,

pooling of resources and services for joint projects, and the intent of the parties.”

Connell, 127 Wn.2d at 346; In re Parentage of G.W.-F., 170 Wn. App. 631, 648,

285 P.3d 208 (2012) (highlighting that “there must be ‘mutual intent to form’” and

“maintain” the CIR) (emphasis added).

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