In re J.M. v. A.M.

2022 Ohio 1092
CourtOhio Court of Appeals
DecidedMarch 31, 2022
Docket19AP-832
StatusPublished
Cited by1 cases

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In re J.M. v. A.M., 2022 Ohio 1092 (Ohio Ct. App. 2022).

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[Cite as In re J.M. v. A.M., 2022-Ohio-1092.]

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF OHIO

TENTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

In re: J.M., :

Petitioner-Appellee, : No. 19AP-832 v. : (C.P.C. No. 16DR-3832)

A.M., : (REGULAR CALENDAR)

Petitioner-Appellant. :

D E C I S I O N

Rendered on March 31, 2022

On brief: Sowald Sowald Anderson & Hawley, and Marty Anderson, for appellee. Argued: Marty Anderson.

On brief: The Behal Law Group LLC, Robert J. Behal, and DeAnna J. Duvall, for appellant. Argued: Robert J. Behal.

APPEAL from the Franklin County Court of Common Pleas, Division of Domestic Relations KLATT, J.

{¶ 1} Petitioner-appellant, A.M., appeals a judgment of the Franklin County Court of Common Pleas, Division of Domestic Relations, that granted petitioner-appellee, J.M., relief from the judgment dissolving the parties' marriage. For the following reasons, we reverse the trial court's judgment. {¶ 2} The parties started dating in high school, and they married on August 13, 1988. During the marriage, the parties had two children: a son born in 1992 and a daughter born in 1995. No. 19AP-832 2

{¶ 3} J.M. worked as a physical therapist throughout most of the marriage. Initially, A.M. worked in the plumbing and pipefitting field. In 2000, A.M. founded Capital City Mechanical, Inc., a mechanical contracting business that he continues to operate today. {¶ 4} According to J.M., beginning around 2012, the stresses in her life began to accumulate. Her son was hospitalized repeatedly for anxiety disorder, A.M.'s aunt and father were ill, and then A.M.'s father passed away. J.M. further explained: [Capital City Mechanical] was growing rapidly. My mom had had back surgery. I would take care of her and work at the same time.

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I coached volleyball. Then my mom came home [from Florida] in the spring of 2015 and her health started to deteriorate. At the same time my dad was having issues, and he had to have an unexpected heart surgery. He passed away unexpectedly as a result of that surgery.

And then my mom was having difficulty caring for herself. We had to take care of getting rid of a condo in Florida. My mom's health would go up and down. * * * [M]y mom would at times have 10 to 12 doctors' appointments a week. I would be taking her to that, working, [and] trying to keep up on our residence because [A.M.] was never home.

(Tr. at 46-47.) {¶ 5} Additionally, at some point in 2013, J.M. began to suspect that A.M. was having an extramarital affair. J.M. started driving around at night looking for A.M. With all the demands and stresses on her, J.M. coped by drinking alcohol. {¶ 6} A.M. admitted to J.M. that he was having an affair with J.F. sometime in June or July of 2015. According to A.M., J.M. was engaging in extramarital relationships by this time, but J.M. denies this. {¶ 7} In August 2015, on a vacation to celebrate their anniversary, A.M. asked J.M. if they could "have it both ways," meaning "[h]e could do what he wanted to on the weekends and occasionally go away on trips with who he wanted to, and [she] could do the same." Id. at 55. By her recollection, J.M. was upset and bewildered by this request for an No. 19AP-832 3

open relationship. However, when the parties returned to Ohio, J.M. sought out J.F. because she found out that A.M. and J.F. "were considering including someone else in their relationship." Id. at 295. J.M. initiated an intimate relationship with J.F. that eventually included A.M. J.M. claimed that she entered into this relationship "to save [her] marriage" and it did not last long. Id. at 56. {¶ 8} The parties disagree on the circumstances that led to the creation of their separation agreement. According to J.M., in early spring 2016, A.M. told her, "in order * * * to work on [their] marriage, he had to know that [Capital City Mechanical] would be secure and that it would be able to run itself so that [they] could take the time away from the company to get things together and [ ] work on [their] marriage so that [they] could save it." Id. at 59. Consequently, A.M. "needed to get something on paper that would allow him to know that the company could be secure." Id. A.M. then asked J.M. to "write stuff down" and "divide things out." Id. at 59, 141. A.M. also suggested that they contact Steve Miller, an attorney, because friends of theirs had obtained his assistance when undergoing a dissolution. {¶ 9} According to A.M., during an argument between the parties, J.M. brought up a mutual friend who had gotten a dissolution. J.M. asked A.M. what attorney the friend had used for the dissolution. A.M. answered, "Steve Miller," and J.M. said, "Well, call Steve Miller on Monday." Id. at 513. A.M. did. {¶ 10} A.M. and J.M. first met with Miller at Memories, a bar and restaurant located in Grove City, on April 12, 2016. During that meeting, which lasted approximately one hour, J.M. drank three to five beers. Miller asked the parties to provide him a list of marital assets and liabilities, and to designate on the list which spouse was to receive which asset and liability. After the meeting, the parties created such a list, which A.M. provided to Miller. Miller used the list to draft a separation agreement. A.M. and J.M. then negotiated further, and A.M. provided Miller with another list of terms to incorporate into the separation agreement. On June 22, 2016, Miller emailed A.M. a newly revised draft of the separation agreement in red-line form. A.M. gave J.M. a copy of this draft agreement, entitled "PROPERTY SETTLEMENT AND SEPARATION AGREEMENT." (J.M.'s Ex. 24.) A.M. called Miller with only one change to the agreement. No. 19AP-832 4

{¶ 11} A.M. and J.M. met with Miller at Memories again on June 24, 2016. Miller had with him a final version of the separation agreement. According to J.M., upon reviewing the document, she saw for the first time the words "Separation Agreement." J.M. "was just floored because that [was] not what [she] thought [they] were doing," and she began to cry. (Tr. at 73.) According to J.M., she was "[j]ittery, nervous, crying, [and] just beside [her]self" throughout the meeting. Id. at 75. By her own account, J.M. also drank three to five beers over the course of the two- to two-and-one-half-hour meeting. {¶ 12} During the meeting, Miller went through the separation agreement, explaining it to A.M. and J.M. While Miller reviewed the agreement, J.M. noticed a few mistakes, which Miller corrected. The parties initialed Miller's handwritten corrections and executed the separation agreement. {¶ 13} Miller explained to the parties that they had entered into a binding agreement, but they did not necessarily need to proceed with a dissolution of their marriage. J.M. understood that Miller was going to "hold on" to the separation agreement. Id. at 207. If she or A.M. wanted a dissolution, Miller would file the agreement, along with additional paperwork, with the trial court. {¶ 14} At some point during the meeting, J.M. excused herself to visit the restroom. While returning from the restroom, J.M. stopped by the table of a friend, P.C. J.M. told P.C., "We are here for our divorce. We are trying to get it straightened out, and this is the attorney." Id. at 10. {¶ 15} On July 8, 2016, J.M. emailed Miller, stating, "I would like to move forward with the agreement and from the conversation on Friday, June 24th, I gather that means you have to proceed in the legal manner you set forth." (A.M.'s Ex. D.) J.M. followed up that email with a second email dated July 25, 2016, stating, "Please move forward with the dissolution please." (A.M.'s Ex. G.) {¶ 16} According to J.M., she asked Miller to proceed with the dissolution because of the escalating discord and violence between her and A.M. In one fight between the parties, J.M. jumped into A.M.'s truck as A.M.

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