In re Gerald G. G.

61 A.D.2d 521, 403 N.Y.S.2d 57, 1978 N.Y. App. Div. LEXIS 10091
CourtAppellate Division of the Supreme Court of the State of New York
DecidedMarch 20, 1978
StatusPublished
Cited by6 cases

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In re Gerald G. G., 61 A.D.2d 521, 403 N.Y.S.2d 57, 1978 N.Y. App. Div. LEXIS 10091 (N.Y. Ct. App. 1978).

Opinion

[522]*522OPINION OF THE COURT

Suozzi, J.

In an adoption proceeding, the objectant natural father appeals from an order of the Family Court, Orange County, dated August 11, 1977, which, after a best interests hearing, dismissed the natural father’s objections to the adoption of his son, and denied his motion for pyschiatric evaluations of the parties. Leave to appeal from the order has been granted on the court’s own motion. The order should be reversed and the objections of the natural father sustained.

The Family Court conducted a hearing as to the best interests of six-year-old boy, born out of wedlock, and dismissed the natural father’s objections to the adoption of the child by > the natural mother and her present husband, to whom she was married on October 19, 1976. The natural father was given notice of these proceedings pursuant to section 111-a of the Domestic Relations Law. In contrast to the situation of a father of a child who is born in wedlock, in which such father has a veto over any proposed adoption of a child (Domestic Relations Law, § 111, subd 1, par [b]), section 111-a of the Domestic Relations Law gives no equivalent right to a father of a child born out of wedlock. However, he is entitled "to participate in the adoption proceeding at least to the extent of contending that the proposed adoption will not be in the best interests of the child” (Matter of Malpica-Orsini, 36 NY2d 568, 578; see, also, Domestic Relations Law, § 111-a). The denial of a right of veto to the natural parent of a child born out of wedlock has been declared constitutional (Matter of Malpica-Orsini, supra). However, in upholding the constitutionality of section 111 of the Domestic Relations Law, the Court of Appeals did not in any way dilute the duty of the courts to determine whether the best interests of the child will be served by the proposed adoption.

A review of this record leads us to the conclusion that the best interests of the six-year-old boy involved here will not be served by an adoption at this time. Contrary to the suggestion in the dissenting opinion, the standard applied herein is not whether the natural father has been proven unfit, but solely the best interests of the child. A brief review of the facts is in order.

The natural father, who now owns a construction business and earns a net yearly salary of approximately $30,000, first met the natural mother in 1969 in California. She was a [523]*523member of the Haight-Ashbury set, "reading palms and selling flowers” when they met. The two established a loving relationship and took up residence together. Of that intimate union, a son, Jerry, was born on March 10, 1971. He was given and has used the surname of his natural father ever since. The natural father assisted in the delivery of the baby and, during the ensuing eight months, performed his husbandly and fatherly duties in an exemplary manner.

In late 1971 or early 1972 the parties terminated their relationship and the natural mother returned to reside in the State of New York with the infant. However, despite the breakup in the parents’ relationship, the natural father continued to exhibit a strong love for the child, a love which clearly exists to the present time. During the four-and one-half-year period after the breakup of the relationship between the natural parents, the appellant visited his son in New York about nine times, paid for plane tickets so that his son could visit him in California, provided voluntary and continuous financial support totaling over $16,000 and engaged in mutually warm and loving exchanges with his son by telephone and by mail.

During a visit by the son to California in the summer and fall of 1976, the natural mother traveled to California, took physical custody of the boy and returned to New York. That abrupt act by the natural mother did not deter the natural father. Shortly thereafter he initiated a filiation proceeding in the Family Court of Orange County and, by order dated May 12, 1977, was adjudicated the father of his child.

This factual background clearly indicates that the appellant was, at all times, a devoted and concerned parent. In this respect, his conduct stands in stark contrast to that of the father of the child born out of wedlock in Matter of Malpica-Orsini. In that case the Court of Appeals rejected a constitutional attack on section 111-a of the Domestic Relations Law by the natural father of a child born out of wedlock and, at the same time, affirmed an order of adoption of that child by the natural mother and the spouse to whom she had recently been wed. In so doing, the court took pains to point out that the record indicated that the natural father had defaulted in mandatory support payments, that he was given to "violent rages”, that he "tore a telephone off the wall, that he ripped all electric wires out of the mother’s car and threatened to take the child and disappear so the mother could never see [524]*524her” (Matter of Malpica-Orsini, 36 NY2d 568, 577, supra). The parties in Malpica further stipulated that (p 577) "the Court would have sufficient facts before it * * * to exercise its discretion to deny his objections and approve the adoption on the grounds that the overall best interest of the child would warrant it”.

With regard to the natural mother, it is clear from the record that she genuinely loves her son. However, that fact alone does not give her and any spouse she chooses to marry the automatic right to adopt the infant, without appropriate judicial scrutiny.

The ability of the natural mother to establish a continuing and stable family relationship has not been demonstrated on this record and is open to serious question. She lived with the natural father for just over two years. Thereafter, she lived with a male "boarder” for six months. She then married her present spouse after living with him for several months. In our view, the natural mother has not displayed that sense of devotion to a stable family structure which should be the prime ingredient in determining the wisdom of approving an application for adoption. Nor is her marriage of little more than a year’s duration conclusive evidence that she will maintain a stable family structure with her present spouse, the proposed adoptive parent.

Quite apart from the natural mother’s character or the stability of her present household, it is hard to see what appreciable benefit would inure to the child should the adoption be approved at this time. Under the circumstances of this case, it can be presumed that the child is presently aware, or will eventually become aware, of the fact that he was born out of wedlock. No order of adoption will ever erase that fact from his mind. Nor is an adoption required in order to give a home to a homeless boy or because of an absent, unknown or hostile parent. Although we recognize that the child presently enjoys the trappings and benefits of a family unit created by the natural mother and her spouse, it is also equally true that an order of adoption cannot by itself contribute or add anything to the quality of this child’s upbringing. We are also quite aware of the fact that three witnesses, who were characterized by the Family Court as "disinterested”, testified in favor of the adoption. Two of those witnesses were officials of schools in which the child was enrolled. Of these two witnesses, one described the boy as a delightful "normal American boy” who [525]*525enjoyed a good relationship with his mother.

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