In Re: D.R.H., Appeal of: M.H.

CourtSuperior Court of Pennsylvania
DecidedOctober 18, 2019
Docket740 MDA 2019
StatusUnpublished

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In Re: D.R.H., Appeal of: M.H., (Pa. Ct. App. 2019).

Opinion

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NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

IN RE: D.R.H., A MINOR : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA : APPEAL OF: M.H., FATHER : : : : : : No. 740 MDA 2019

Appeal from the Decree Entered April 8, 2019 In the Court of Common Pleas of Lebanon County Orphans' Court at No(s): 2019-8

BEFORE: DUBOW, J., NICHOLS, J., and MUSMANNO, J.

MEMORANDUM BY NICHOLS, J.: FILED: OCTOBER 18, 2019

M.H. (Father) appeals from the decree granting the petition filed by A.L.

(Mother) and her husband, D.L. (Stepfather), seeking to involuntarily

terminate Father’s parental rights to D.R.H. (Child), born in February of 2009,

pursuant to the Adoption Act, 23 Pa.C.S. § 2511(a)(1) and (b). We affirm.

The trial court summarized the early years of Mother, Father, and Child’s

relationships as follows:

From [Child’s] birth until approximately January of 2011, Mother and [Father] were living together with some friends in an apartment. Toward the end of that arrangement, [Stepfather] would stay overnight as a friend. Mother testified that, at that time, she and [Father] were no longer involved with each other and that she and [Stepfather] were developing a relationship.

Around January of 2011, [Stepfather] purchased a home and Mother, [Stepfather] and [Child] moved in together. Another couple with a child also moved into the house to help financially.

While Mother and [Father] were still together, [Child] would see her paternal grandparents (“Paternal Grandparents”) usually on J-S47027-19

holidays. After Mother moved in with [Stepfather], visitation with Paternal Grandparents was sporadic with [Child] visiting with [Paternal] Grandparents maybe twice a year. . . .

In March of 2011, Mother and [Father] came to an agreement by which [Father] would have visits with [Child] every other weekend and on occasions with notice. At that time, [Father] was providing $200 per month for expenses. [Father’s] visits with [Child] stopped in September of 2012 as the result of concerns over care of [Child] when in [Father’s] custody.

Thereafter, on December 22, 2012, [Father] arrived at Mother’s home, unannounced, and requested to say goodbye to [Child] because he was moving to Oklahoma. Mother refused the request indicating that [Child] was sleeping and she did not want to wake [Child] when she had not seen [Father] in three months. [Father] further inquired as to a possible custody arrangement, but Mother “informed [Father that she] would not be putting a three- year-old on a train to Oklahoma.” [Father] did not provide Mother with an address in Oklahoma. Mother stated that she continued to receive the $200 payments from [Father] until at least September of 2012.

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[Father] testified that he was at the hospital when [Child] was born and remembers being very happy. [Father] stated that after [Child] was born, he supported both [Child] and Mother financially, as well as helping in the care of [Child].

[Father] then testified that after Mother moved out with [Stepfather], [Child] was still spending weekends with him, that he and [Child] would spend time with his family on their farm where [Child would] play in the water, sand and dirt and get dirty prior to [Father] returning [Child] to Mother. [Father] stated that Mother called [Father] to complain that [Child] was coming back dirty and that [Father] was returning the bag with [Child’s] clothes in it unused, though [Father] claims that he had bought clothes for [Child] to wear while they were together. [Father] testified that during the phone call with Mother, he “got from her the impression that [Father] wasn’t allowed to really see [Child] or have communication with [Mother and Child].” [Father] indicated that his impression that he would not be allowed to see [Child]

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was not premised on anything Mother actually said, but instead on “the tone [of Mother during the conversation] and knowing her for as long as [he] did.” [Father] additionally stated that he did not believe that he could elicit financial help from Paternal Grandparents in pursuit of any custody action because Paternal Grandparents “are not big fans of [c]ourts [and t]hey would rather try to work things out without getting the [c]ourts involved.”

[Father] testified that while he and Mother and [Child] were still living in the house together, they fell behind on the mortgage payments. This led to the house being foreclosed upon and go[i]ng [to] the sheriff’s sale in October of 2012. [Father] worked in the construction industry and the business was slow and there was not an abundance of work for [Father]. After the house was sold, [Father] moved in with [Paternal] Grandparents. Within two months of living . . . with [Paternal] Grandparents, [Father] had an opportunity to move to Oklahoma. [Father] stated that the reason for his move to Oklahoma was because he lost his house, his job and [Child] and that he felt he had to start over and he was trying to provide a better situation for himself. So [Father] had the opportunity to move to Oklahoma where there was a better economy and he could reestablish himself.

[Father] recalled the night that he visited Mother before leaving for Oklahoma with the intention to ask “permission to stay in contact with [Child].” [Father] stated that Mother “acted like she didn’t care if [Father] moved” and told [Father] “that it would probably not be in the best interest of [Child] to try and contact them.” [Father] asked to call [Child], but Mother responded that [Father] “would probably just stop over time.” [Father] admitted that he did stop contacting [Child] after moving to Oklahoma.

Trial Ct. Op., 5/28/19, at 2-4, 6-7. Mother and Stepfather had another child,

Ad.L. (Stepsister), who was born in 2012 or 2013.

The trial court discussed the following events after Father moved to

Oklahoma in December of 2012:

In or around December of 2015, while [Mother, Stepfather, Child, and Stepsister] celebrated Christmas with [Paternal] Grandparents, [Paternal] Grandmother gave Mother a gift and

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stated that the gift was from [Father]. Mother informed Paternal Grandmother that they could tell [Child] that the gift was from Santa or from Paternal Grandparents, but that she wouldn’t allow the gift to bear [Father’s] name because at that point, [Child] had not seen [Father] in three years and Mother considered [Father] as a stranger to [Child]. Mother did not receive any other gifts, cards or money from [Father], including for [Child’s] birthdays, after [Father] moved to Oklahoma.

[In or around the summer of 2016, Mother’s entire family, including Mother, Stepfather, Child, and Stepsister, began visiting with Paternal Grandparents more often with visits at least every other month and on holidays and birthdays. Mother testified that the relationship with Paternal Grandparents was positive and that Paternal Grandparents are welcoming of Child, as well as Stepsister.]

Mother testified that she saw [Father] in September of 2018. Mother testified that between September of 2012 and September of 2018, she did not receive any electronic, telephonic or postal communication from [Father]. . . .

In September of 2018, at the behest of Paternal Grandparents, Mother and [Stepfather] met with [Father] at Paternal Grandparents’ property where [Father] expressed a desire to reestablish his relationship with [Child]. Mother recounted how [Child] had expressed the desire to be adopted by [Stepfather] and take his last name. Mother testified that [Father] then stated that he would sign a voluntary termination in [Child’s] best interests so that the adoption could proceed. During the conversation, [Father] expressed interest in reestablishing the relationship with [Child].

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