In re D.J.

CourtCourt of Appeals of Kansas
DecidedNovember 4, 2022
Docket125125
StatusUnpublished

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In re D.J., (kanctapp 2022).

Opinion

NOT DESIGNATED FOR PUBLICATION

Nos. 125,125 125,126 125,127

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF KANSAS

In the Interests of D.J., K.J., and J.J., Minor Children.

MEMORANDUM OPINION

Appeal from Thomas District Court; KEVIN BERENS, judge. Opinion filed November 4, 2022. Affirmed.

Craig L. Uhrich, of Uhrich Law Firm P.A., of Oakley, for appellant natural mother.

Leslie C. Beims, of Goodland, for appellant natural grandmother.

Todd R. Stramel, of Stramel Law Firm, P.A., of Colby, for appellee.

Before GARDNER, P.J., WARNER and COBLE, JJ.

PER CURIAM: In August 2020 the district court adjudicated D.J., K.J., and J.J. children in need of care (CINC) and removed them from their mother's custody. When the case failed to progress positively, the State moved to terminate M.E.'s (Mother's) parental rights. In February 2022, the district court found by clear and convincing evidence that Mother was unfit, that her unfitness was unlikely to change in the foreseeable future, and that termination of Mother's parental rights was in the children's best interests. Mother appeals. After reviewing the record and finding no error, we affirm.

1 Factual and Procedural Background

Mother and T.J. (Father) had three children, D.J. (born in 2015), K.J. (born in 2014), and J.J. (born in 2011). In late 2016, Father, with whom Mother was no longer living, died in a car accident. Around July 2017, Mother began using methamphetamine. In September 2017, Mother sent all three children to live with their maternal grandmother because Mother "was not in the right mental state" and she had a "slight resentment" toward them because they looked like Father. Until June 2019 the children lived with their grandmother.

In March 2018, Mother's drug use led to her felony drug conviction, and she continued to use methamphetamine afterward. When Mother's continued drug use caused her to violate her probation, she was incarcerated from September 2018 to March or April 2019. According to Mother, in July 2019, the children returned to her care. At that time, she was in a relationship with a man named Charles, or "Chuck."

In March 2020, Mother's drug use landed her back in jail again. Mother had been previously convicted of obstruction—a felony, and the drug use was a violation of her probation. Mother had lied to law enforcement during their investigation of a domestic abuse incident between her and Chuck. Mother changed her initial statement to police, saying Chuck had threatened to "drag her behind the truck until her body was not even recognizable" if she did not change it. She was released from custody in April 2020.

Yet again, in June 2020, Mother was incarcerated because of her drug use. As a result, on June 29, the State of Kansas filed a CINC petition alleging that "[M]other is in and out of jail and consistently testing positive for meth. [Mother] is struggling to maintain her own mental health and is unable to provide the care necessary for her children." Mother did not contest those allegations and in August 2020, the district court

2 adjudicated all three children in need of care. The children remained in an out-of-home placement during this case, living mainly with Father's brother.

When the children arrived at their placement, their uncle described it as "[j]ust pandemonium." To him, "it seemed like they had never, like, been in a, like, family setting, to me, before." K.J. was wetting the bed frequently and having night terrors. K.J. also had "a weight issue" and was classified as "morbidly obese" at her first doctor's appointment at her placement. J.J. was on an Individualized Education Program (IEP) due to ADHD and anxiety, which required pulling him out of class for special instruction for long periods of his school day. D.J. struggled with crying and cussing at school.

But over time in their placement, the children's struggles began to subside. K.J.'s bedwetting "decreased significantly," as did her night terrors. Her weight entered a healthier range. J.J.'s IEP problematic behaviors decreased significantly, so he only needed half of the services he needed before placement. D.J.'s temperament improved.

Mother testified that her drug use began "in order to not kill" herself because of her battle with mental health after the death of her estranged husband, and it continued because she was in an abusive relationship with Chuck. As an example of Chuck's abuse, Mother stated that he had once strangled her to the point that she nearly became unconscious. Even so, one witness stated that Mother told her "I'm not very good with the parenting thing. I leave that up to Chuck". Eventually, Chuck moved out of Mother's residence, but his three children continued to live with her. Thus Mother and Chuck continued to have daily contact, typically consisting of 30-minute conversations.

Mother admitted knowing that her continued relationship with Chuck was impeding her ability to get her children back. The relationship between the two affected her mental health and her sobriety. The children's maternal grandmother testified that Mother would do well for a while and then it would "f[a]ll through" because Mother

3 resumed her relationship with Chuck. She found it "alarming" that Mother still had daily contact with Chuck—she did not think the children should be around him.

Mother did complete some case plan tasks. She was employed, maintained stable and appropriate housing, participated in some mental health services, completed an in- patient drug treatment program, signed all necessary releases, completed a parenting seminar, and participated in visitations with the children that "went well." In fact, a case worker reported:

"Visits are going well. The case team has no concerns regarding [Mother's] ability to engage, interact, set limits, or discipline the children. [Mother] does well at setting limits and planning her time effectively to get the most out of her visit with her children. [The children] all enjoy the visits. [Mother] helps them with their homework, they talk, play games, watch [television], cook, etc."

Later, another case worker report confirmed, "visits continue to [go] well," and Mother continued to "demonstrate[] good parenting skills and practices, and demonstrates a strong, loving bond with her children."

Still, the children struggled. During visits with Mother, all three of them would go back to "talking like babies." And K.J. would go from happy and energetic to apathetic and quiet and returned to wetting the bed and having night terrors. The children were "confused" and "sad" because of how long the reintegration process was taking.

The trial testimony reflected that when Mother was sober, she was a good parent. Yet her sobriety was a "roller coaster." She could not stay sober. For example, although she completed an in-patient drug treatment program, she relapsed shortly after, in June 2021. In fact, she used methamphetamine just the week before the termination trial. The trial testimony reflects that her sobriety was the main roadblock keeping her from effectively parenting her children and achieving reintegration. 4 To accomplish the goal of reintegration, Saint Francis Ministries (SFM) tried to get Mother back into treatment after her relapse and offered "quite a few resources" to aid in her sobriety. But Mother did not use these resources and refused to go back to in- patient treatment because she did not think it would be helpful. SFM recommended that Mother get a drug and alcohol evaluation, but Mother also refused, claiming she could work through her drug issues on her own. Mother also refused to take seven drug tests, even though she knew refusal would impede her unsupervised visitation.

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