Harris v. Harris

2010 ND 45, 779 N.W.2d 642, 2010 N.D. LEXIS 44, 2010 WL 924269
CourtNorth Dakota Supreme Court
DecidedMarch 16, 2010
Docket20090247
StatusPublished
Cited by9 cases

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Harris v. Harris, 2010 ND 45, 779 N.W.2d 642, 2010 N.D. LEXIS 44, 2010 WL 924269 (N.D. 2010).

Opinion

VANDE WALLE, Chief Justice.

[¶ 1] David L. Harris appealed from a magistrate’s disorderly conduct restraining order prohibiting him from having contact with Karen E. Harris and unsupervised contact with their son, and from a district court order denying his request for review of the magistrate’s decision. We affirm the district court’s order, but we reverse the magistrate’s order because David Harris did not receive a full hearing required under the law, and we remand for a new hearing.

I

[¶ 2] In early June 2009, Karen Harris filed in Grand Forks County a petition for a disorderly conduct restraining order against her husband, David Harris, alleging he had made threats against her and their eight-year-old son. She alleged David Harris threatened to call Social Services or the police to have their son removed from the home “because [their son] will not listen to him.” She alleged he threatened to “kill” her if she ever planned to divorce him. She alleged he threatened to “kill” their son if he discovered their son was fighting in school again. Karen Harris also alleged her brother received “a call from a close friend informing us of watching my brother’s home, following me in any vehicle I drove, along with the threat of taking my brother’s grandson in exchange for [our son] even if I were to be hurt taking him. David has had bad violent tend[en]cies in the past and I fear he will be violent once again.” A magistrate issued a temporary disorderly conduct restraining order pending a hearing to be held on June 23, 2009.

[¶ 3] At the hearing, an attorney represented Karen Harris and David Harris represented himself. After the magistrate explained to the parties the effect of, and the procedure and burden of proof for, a disorderly conduct restraining order, the magistrate addressed David Harris:

THE COURT: One of the first questions I ask a lot of times in some of these cases is — and many times, particularly on these restraining orders as opposed to the protection orders, people say, “Well, she doesn’t or he doesn’t want to see me again, and so we might as well have an order keeping us apart, and I don’t mind.”
What’s your position on that?
MR. HARRIS: That’s pretty much exactly what I think is going on.
THE COURT: Is that what you think you would want, you would be okay with?
MR. HARRIS: That I don’t want to speak to her?
THE COURT: No. No. Are you willing to stay away from her—
MR. HARRIS: Oh, yeah. The only reason I even tried to like call her at work or what not was to find out if my son was okay and where he was.
THE COURT: Okay. So you’re willing to have a restraining order?
MR. HARRIS: I’d rather not have the restraining order, but if it has to be that way, I guess it has to be that way.
THE COURT: Do you want a trial on the issue? Do you want testimony to be taken on the issue of whether your gestures are unwanted and whether they affect her privacy or something she doesn’t want? Do you want us to go *645 through a trial on that and take testimony and so forth?
MR. HARRIS: I would like the restraining order dropped.
THE COURT: Do you wish to go ahead? Okay. That means to me that he wants a hearing, unless you have another idea, Ms. Weis.
M[S]. WEIS: No—
THE COURT: Sometimes things get worked out like that, you know, because people don’t want to see each other, there’s some problems, and maybe there’s another case, proceedings come along, and I don’t know. You’re husband and wife right now it looks like.
MR. HARRIS: Well, yeah.
THE COURT: And I don’t know if there is any divorce proceedings pending or what the situation is.
MR. HARRIS: I’ve been trying to get a lawyer to start the divorce proceedings.
THE COURT: Under those circumstances, if she doesn’t want anything to do with you, and you’re going to get a divorce proceedings, are you still going to object to have a restraining order keeping you apart at this time?
MR. HARRIS: I just want to be able to see my son.
THE COURT: Okay. Okay. That can be arranged.
MR. HARRIS: Okay.
THE COURT: This is for you not to bother her.
MR. HARRIS: I wasn’t planning on it.
THE COURT: Some arrangements can be made like sometimes just a mutual friend or a parent or somebody else.
M[S]. WEIS: Your Honor, we would be willing at this time to arrange for visitation at the Wishing Well.
MR. HARRIS: I’ve already been in contact with Social Services as well about trying to set up visitation, but they said as long as a restraining order was in—
THE COURT: If a restraining order is in effect, it doesn’t have anything to do with your ability to visit your child.
MR. HARRIS: Well, in the restraining order it says I can’t have contact with him either.
MS. WEIS: We would be willing to add a provision that would allow for visitation at the Wishing Well. And through the Wishing Well you can arrange for a time that would work for both parties and allow for—
THE COURT: She can take your son to the Wishing Well, and you can come in and see your child.
MR. HARRIS: That would work.
THE COURT: That would work for you?
MR. HARRIS: Yes, sir.
THE COURT: I tell you, the reason I kind of push that sometimes, sometimes when you take a bunch of testimony on the stand, things get worse and worse and worse between the parties, and all kinds of testimony is taken that people object to, and it looks worse sometimes.
MR. HARRIS: Well, I don’t know how it could look any worse. I’ve read what she stated, and that’s why these gentlemen are here today, because for some of these conversations that she claims, some of them were there for the conversations that never took place the way she stated. That’s why I’m here today.

[¶ 4] After discussing the potential for divorce proceedings, the magistrate said “a restraining order is appropriate, and we’ll get the provisions in there that you can see your child at the Wishing Well.” *646 The parties and the magistrate discussed arrangements for David Harris to remove his belongings from the parties’ home and further discussed visitation, but David Harris continued to state, “I just don’t understand why a restraining order has to stay in place....

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