Groenke v. Gabriel

2025 MT 91, 421 Mont. 465
Montana Supreme Court·Decided May 6, 2025·No. DA 24-0646·Published·Cited by 1 cases

Opinion

05/06/2025

DA 24-0646

Case Number: DA 24-0646

IN THE SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF MONTANA 2025 MT 91

TAYLOR KAI GROENKE, Plaintiff and Appellee,

v.

RYAN DEAN GABRIEL, Defendant and Appellant.

APPEAL FROM: District Court of the Eleventh Judicial District, In and For the County of Flathead, Cause No. DR-24-510(B)

Honorable Robert B. Allison, Presiding Judge

COUNSEL OF RECORD:

For Appellant:

Ryan Dean Gabriel, Self Represented, Lakeside, Montana For Appellee:

Kai Groenke, Law Office of Kai Groenke, P.C., Kalispell, Montana

Submitted on Briefs: March 5, 2025 Decided: May 6, 2025

Filed:

Clerk

Justice Beth Baker delivered the Opinion of the Court.

¶1 Ryan Gabriel appeals an Eleventh Judicial District Court order affirming the Justice Court’s order of protection in favor of Kai Groenke, an attorney for Gabriel’s former partner. We affirm.

FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND

¶2 In March 2022, Jesse Olsen filed a petition for dissolution of domestic partnership from Ryan Gabriel in Oregon. Gabriel then filed a partition action in Montana’s Flathead County District Court, seeking to partition the couple’s shared real property near Lakeside. Olsen hired Groenke, a Kalispell family law attorney, to contest the partition. Groenke filed a notice of appearance in the partition case in May 2023.

¶3 Gabriel, who represented himself in the case, began e-mailing Groenke in May 2023. In a series of e-mails over the next several months, he threatened to seek professional disciplinary action against her, including disbarment, and to sue her for tortious interference. He accused Groenke of “malignant vulnerable narcissism” and called her and Olsen’s Oregon attorney “two deranged, bitter misanthropes who have no business scurrying around Oregon and Montana with law degrees.”

¶4 In January 2024, Christopher Gillette—an attorney Olsen hired after Gabriel filed a lawsuit against him in federal district court—advised Groenke of e-mail communications he had received from Gabriel. In one, Gabriel wrote that he “would rather commit murder than succumb to forcibly conscripted marriage” and that “[a]nything that would prevent that will happen . . . [a]nything and everything.” Gillette interpreted Gabriel’s e-mails to be “thinly veiled threats of murder.”

¶5 In June 2024, the Oregon trial court dissolved Gabriel and Olsen’s domestic partnership and granted Olsen the authority to sell the couple’s property near Lakeside.1 Olsen hired realtor Fritz Groenke (Fritz)—Groenke’s father—to list and market the property. On July 15, 2024, after Fritz visited the Lakeside property, Gabriel left him a voicemail message stating, “If you step foot on my property again, I am going to shoot you in the face.” Gabriel sent Fritz a barrage of text messages, calling Groenke a “low-talent daughter” and writing that “[t]here seems to be a lot of undisclosed infidelity in the Groenke family genome.” Gabriel continued: “I think you can also safely assume that if I sue you for tortious interference, I can only win the damages I seek if you’re alive. So to the extent that you are now more valuable to me intact, no, I won’t shoot you in the face.” The next day, Gabriel wrote Groenke: “Leave me alone and you will both be fine.”

¶6 On July 19, 2024, Groenke obtained a temporary order of protection against Gabriel in Flathead County Justice Court. The court limited Gabriel’s communications with Groenke to brief discussions about the pending cases in which she was opposing counsel and he appeared pro se. After the temporary order of protection issued, Gabriel continued to e-mail Groenke, Fritz, and Groenke’s paralegal about unrelated matters. On July 23, Gabriel wrote Groenke that he planned to submit “an ethics complaint with the Montana Dept. of Labor & Industry professional licenses unit, along with a Montana Bar Association ethics complaint against you personally.” Gabriel e-mailed Fritz and Groenke on August 3, alleging that Fritz committed numerous felonies and that Groenke too was implicated. On

1 Gabriel appealed the Oregon court’s order and represents that the portion of the order authorizing sale of the Montana property was stayed pending resolution of the appeal.

August 6, Gabriel wrote Groenke’s paralegal: “Your boss is a felon, and you need to document everything.” On August 7, Gabriel e-mailed Groenke: “You are a felon.”

¶7 On August 8, 2024, the Justice Court held a three-hour hearing to consider Groenke’s request for a permanent order of protection. Olsen testified that Gabriel conducted “extensive” intimidation and harassment, including threats of violence and litigation, against Roscoe Nelson, Olsen’s attorney in the Oregon domestic partnership dissolution matter. Olsen also said that Gabriel harassed Christopher Gillette, Olsen’s attorney in the Montana federal district court lawsuit. Gabriel owns firearms in Oregon and Montana, Olsen testified, and is “absolutely” capable of violence. Fritz testified to Gabriel’s voicemail threatening to “shoot [him] in the face” if Fritz came back to Gabriel’s property and said that he believed Gabriel posed a threat to himself, his daughter, and their families.

¶8 David Dowell, Groenke’s husband, said that in their ten years of marriage, family law cases have rarely affected her. He testified that Gabriel’s conduct caused her increasing anxiety, stress, despair, and loss of sleep. Dowell drew on his twenty years of experience as a probation and parole officer to opine that Gabriel posed a risk to their family.

¶9 Groenke testified that she has been a family law attorney for eighteen years and has never experienced the level of harassment Gabriel inflicts on her. In addition to his more explicit threats, Groenke said that Gabriel uses thinly veiled threats to intimidate her, including that he is “researching” the Groenke family genealogy; that he knows she is

Fritz’s illegitimate daughter; and that he researched her prior marriage. Groenke said that, without the ability to harass her through litigation, she did not “have any doubt that [Gabriel] would resort to violence.” She took Gabriel’s repeated, unrelated e-mails to her after entry of the temporary order of protection as indication that she needed a permanent order of protection. Groenke described her concern that she might see Gabriel in public:

For the last month, every car that passes by my house I look at and I’m looking to see if it’s a silver BMW. I’m wondering if he’s rented a car or is in an uber. I’m looking over my shoulder constantly. My paralegal went to file stuff in the District Court and she was looking over her shoulder, wondering: Is Ryan Gabriel going to walk up behind me and recognize me and do something crazy?

Relying on her experience with domestic violence cases, Groenke testified that when people “who are in a position of power and control feel like they are losing power and control, that’s when they become dangerous.”

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