Glatstein v. Grund

51 N.W.2d 162, 243 Iowa 541, 36 A.L.R. 2d 531, 1952 Iowa Sup. LEXIS 389
CourtSupreme Court of Iowa
DecidedJanuary 8, 1952
Docket47907
StatusPublished
Cited by41 cases

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Glatstein v. Grund, 51 N.W.2d 162, 243 Iowa 541, 36 A.L.R. 2d 531, 1952 Iowa Sup. LEXIS 389 (iowa 1952).

Opinion

Garfield, J.

Plaintiff, Shiiiee A. Glatstein, then about 1 wenty-six, married Dr. Carl 0. Grund (a dentist), then about thirty-six, on June 22, 1947, after an engagement of nearly six months and a courtship of several years. March 7, 1949, she was granted a divorce. This law action against Carl’s mother for alienating his affections followed. Defendant appeals from verdict and judgment for plaintiff. Most of the errors asserted deal with questions of evidence.

I. Defendant asserts, although not vigorously, the evidence is insufficient for submission to the jury. .Of course it is our duty to view the evidence in the light most favorable to plaintiff. Rank v. Kuhn, 236 Iowa 854, 859, 20 N.W.2d 72, 75. See also Stilwell v. Stilwell, 186 Iowa 177, 189, 172 N.W. 177. There is little doubt of its sufficiency when viewed in such light.

In an action of this kind, in the absence of evidence to the contrary, it is presumed husband and wife have affection for each other. Rank v. Kuhn, supra, at page 862 of 236 Iowa, pages 76, 77 of 20 N.W.2d, and citations; Sexton v. Sexton, 129 Iowa 487, 496, 105 N.W. 314, 2 L. E. A., N. S., 708; 27 Am. Jur., Husband and Wife, section 550. Here, there is not only this presumption but much testimony plaintiff and Carl, when married, had strong affection for each other. It is undisputed that at the time of the divorce plaintiff had lost Carl’s affections. There is ample evidence such loss was caused by defendant’s wrongful conduct or, as we have expressed the rule, that defendant’s “misconduct was a substantia] factor in causing such loss.” Rank v. Kuhn, supra, at pages 857, 860 of 236 Iowa, pages 74 to 76 of 20 N.W.2d, and citations.

It is true more proof is required to support an action of this kind against a parent than against a stranger. This is because of the parent’s right to advise a married child. While *546 a parent may advise a married son in ail matters relating to his welfare, including bis domestic affairs, such advice must be in good faith and not from malice or other improper motive. Wallrich v. Wallrich, 232 Iowa 762, 766, 767, 6 N.W.2d 107, 109, and citations; 42 C. J. S., Husband and Wife, section 681.

There is substantial evidence of the following. When plaintiff and her new husband were about to leave on their honeymoon defendant clung to her son and between sobs said, “Remember, sweetheart, no one can ever come between us. Remember you belong to me always.” Upon their return from the honeymoon to live in defendant’s home defendant accused plaintiff of trying to steal Carl away from her, ridiculed tbe wedding, told them it was disgusting and said she did not like plaintiff’s clothes. Defendant insisted'the door remain open between the room in which plaintiff and Carl slept and defendant’s room, and in other ways denied them privacy. Defendant called plaintiff a nothing, a witch, an outcast,' and called plaintiff’s family vile names. Because plaintiff was one of eight children defendant likened her to one of a litter of pigs, said it was terrible to have so many children and “there should.be a law to kill babies as soon as they were born.” Defendant said plaintiff was not to have children nor did she want any' child of plaintiff to bear their name. When plaintiff told her husband and defendant she thought she was pregnant, defendant was very upset and. insisted something be done about it. Plaintiff was then given pills to discourage pregnancy...

Defendant wrongfully accused.plaintiff of.taking mail ad.dressed to defendant and instructed, those who wrote her to write “personal” on the envelopes. Defendant criticised plaintiff’s cooking iff Carl’s presence, refused to eat it and said it was a waste of food. She also frequently found fault with plaintiff in many other respects.. More than once defendant told Carl in plaintiff’s presence he married a nothing, he should be ashamed to be seen with plaintiff, he had best get an immediate divorce. Defendant repeatedly ordered plaintiff'to leave the home.

There is much evidence defendant and Carl frequently slept together after the marriage. While they deny this, their'denials are .somewhat qualified. Defendant herself testifies o.n direct examination that'Carl once told plaintiff he was going to sleep *547 with bis mother that night but says she (defendant) told him he had better go to his own room (although the room was occupied that night by plaintiff’s mother. There was a third bedroom in the house too.) There is testimony that the night before the marriage Carl, defendant and her other son canceled a reservation plaintiff made for them at the hotel where the marriage occurred of one of two rooms and defendant slept on a cot in the room with her two sons. Defendant said Carl was her husband and belonged to her. Defendant’s niece testifies defendant said, “There is nothing Shirlee [plaintiff] can do for him I cannot do.’’ Defendant’s sister-in-law says defendant asked on this occasion, “What has she got that I or any other girl hasn’t got?” We find no denial of this testimony. In defendant’s presence Carl threatened to kill plaintiff if she divulged what went on in the house.

Strenuous efforts were made in different ways by plaintiff, her father, her attorney, defendant’s niece and sister-in-law to effect a reconciliation between plaintiff and Carl before and after plaintiff was driven from defendant’s home and repeatedly urged to get a divorce, “the sooner the better.”' This testimony, much of it undenied, is inconsistent with the claim plaintiff was “a gold digger.” In the end these efforts were unsuccessful and plaintiff —she says unwillingly — procured a divorce.

It is of course not feasible to summarize all the evidence in a printed record of 800 pages from a trial lasting three weeks. Especially since defendant does not press this claim of error we have mentioned enough' to demonstrate the evidence presents a question for the jury. See Wallrich v. Wallrich, supra, 232 Iowa 762, 6 N.W.2d 107; Stilwell v. Stilwell, supra, 186 Iowa 177, 172 N.W. 177; Miller v. Miller, 154 Iowa 344, 134 N.W. 1058; Heisler v. Heisler, 151 Iowa 503, 131 N.W. 676.

While defendant denies much of the above testimony of course the conflict was for the jury to decide. Wallrich v. Wallrich, supra, 232 Iowa 762, 766, 6 N.W.2d 107, 109. There is evidence defendant’s reputation for truth and veracity was not good- This was proper for impeaching- purposes. Halligan v. Lone Tree Farmers Exchange, 230 Iowa 1277, 1284, 300 N.W. 551, 554, and citations.

II. Defendant asserts error in the admission of hearsay, mainly verbal statements by Carl not in defendant’s presence. *548 ¥e find nothing under this assigned error of which defendant may complain.

Of course declarations of one not a party to the action are ordinarily not admissible in evidence. But there are exceptions to the rule. In an action like this, though the husband is not a party, his conduct, as well as defendant’s, is- directly involved. It is well settled that declarations of the alienated spouse during the period of alienation may be shown as bearing on the state of his mind and affections toward plaintiff and the effect of defendant’s conduct upon him. Such evidence is not competent to show defendant in fact exerted a wrongful influence or said or did the things charged. Hardwick v. Hardwick, 130 Iowa 230, 106 N.W. 639; Miller v. Miller, supra, 154 Iowa 344, 134 N.W.

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