Gilman v. Gilman

851 S.W.2d 15, 1993 Mo. App. LEXIS 326, 1993 WL 58674
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedMarch 9, 1993
DocketWD 46073
StatusPublished
Cited by16 cases

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Gilman v. Gilman, 851 S.W.2d 15, 1993 Mo. App. LEXIS 326, 1993 WL 58674 (Mo. Ct. App. 1993).

Opinion

SMART, Judge.

Billie Sue Gilman (“Wife”) appeals from the trial court’s decision to place custody of the couple’s minor son with William Gilman (“Husband”), respondent. She contends that the trial court’s decision was erroneous for the following reasons: 1) a guard *17 ian ad litem should have been appointed because there were allegations of neglect and abuse; 2) the trial court’s decision was against the weight of the evidence; and 3) the trial court misstated the law.

Judgment is affirmed.

The Gilmans were married on June 21, 1986 in Fulton, Missouri. The parties had one child during the marriage, Bradley William Gilman, born on March 26, 1988. The parties separated on October 5, 1990 and the marriage was finally dissolved on December 2, 1991.

The dissolution action was set for hearing on five different dates. On August 8, 1991, evidence was presented, but dué to time limitations the evidence was not completed. On November 21, 1991, the parties agreed to waive their rights to present further evidence, and agreed to submit the case to the trial judge for decision at that time. The trial judge subsequently entered an order awarding custody of the minor child to Husband subject to reasonable visitation by Wife. Wife appeals from the custody award and the denial of her motion for new trial.

Guardian Ad Litem

Wife contends in her first point on appeal that the trial court erred because no guardian ad litem was appointed for the minor child. Wife claims that appointment of a guardian ad litem is mandated by § 452.423.1. Generally, the appointment of a guardian ad litem is discretionary with the trial court. Plunkett v. Aubuchon, 793 S.W.2d 554, 560 (Mo.App.1990). However, this section requires the appointment of a guardian ad litem if there is any allegation of abuse or neglect in any child custody proceeding. McCormick v. McCormick, 807 S.W.2d 556, 557 (Mo.App. 1991). Section 452.423.1 provides in pertinent part:

In all proceedings for child custody or for dissolution of marriage or legal separation where custody, visitation, or support of a child is a contested issue, the court may appoint a guardian ad litem. The court shall appoint a guardian ad litem in any proceeding in which child abuse or neglect is alleged.

(Emphasis added). Error results if the trial court fails to appoint a guardian ad litem in such an instance even if no request has been made by the parties. McCormick, 807 S.W.2d at 557.

Although the pleadings of the parties did not allege abuse or neglect, Wife claims that the record was replete with evidentiary allegations of abuse and neglect. She claims that Husband made many allegations against Wife constituting neglect when he presented numerous witnesses to testify about her very poor housekeeping habits. Testimony and pictures of the trailer in which they resided before separation were admitted as exhibits, showing clothes covering the floors of the living room „ and the bedrooms. The kitchen was depicted as a mess with uneaten food left out on the counters, trash in various locations, and paper products left on top of the stove. Wife denied any allegation of her poor housekeeping throughout the dissolution proceeding and challenged the authenticity of the photographs depicting the family home in disarray. The very allegations of poor housekeeping which she vehemently denied at trial she now claims mandated the trial court to appoint a guardian ad litem.

No allegation of neglect was articulated in any of the pleadings or motions contained in the record of this dissolution proceeding. 1 This evidence of poor housekeeping was not presented by Husband as evidence of neglect of Bradley by Wife. The evidence was presented to show that Wife was a poor housekeeper and that Husband would be a better custodial parent for Bradley because he is a better housekeeper. We hold that this evidence does not constitute an allegation of neglect within the meaning of § 452.423.1.

Next, Wife contends that the record contained allegations of abuse of Bradley by Husband stemming from his previous alcohol and drug usage. Husband admitted that he did have a drug problem with *18 cocaine before the couple was married. However, both parties agree that Wife was instrumental in helping Husband overcome this problem prior to the marriage. This contention cannot support an allegation of abuse toward Bradley, who was not yet born.

Husband also admitted that he had an alcohol problem during the parties’ marriage. Husband presented evidence that he has overcome this problem through chemical dependency treatment and therapy. The record also contains no evidence that the alcohol problem resulted in any abuse toward Bradley.

Wife also contends the record shows an allegation of “abuse of other children as well as the parties’ minor child.” She refers to an incident which she testified occurred one evening when Husband came home drunk while Wife was watching her children and her nephews. Wife describes the incident in her testimony as follows:

I took care of my nephews for my sister. They got off the school bus with Brandy [Wife’s daughter by another marriage] because she was in nursing school, so they got off the bus with Brandy. She called, was at home, wanted me to bring the kids home to her. Billy come home. He had been drinking. I got the, went to get the kids in the car to take them home. He got mad. He had a beer in his hand. He threw the beer all over the car. He tried to shut the door on my nephew’s legs as he was getting in the car. He told me that he would keep me from going anywhere. He grabbed the steering wheel, tried to jerk it out of the car. The steering wheel is loose in the car from it. He then grabbed me by the throat, threw me up against the trailer, drew his arm back to hit me, and then all of a sudden he said, “I just screwed up. I know I screwed up.”
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He had taken the van and pulled it right up onto the back of the car because I told the kids, “I don’t know what he’s going to do. Get your seat belts on.” And those four kids put those seat belts on faster than any four kids you could see in your life. Bradley was sitting in the front seat of the ear screaming, “My daddy hit my mom.”

Wife claims that this event constituted an allegation of abuse of Bradley. While the incident described, if true, is certainly an item for the consideration of the trial court on the issue of the proper custodial parent, we conclude that this testimony does not. constitute an allegation of abuse requiring the appointment of a guardian ad litem. Throughout Wife’s testimony she describes incidents of fighting between the two parties. They are similar to this event in that Husband’s anger is directed at Wife and not Bradley. It is truly unfortunate for any child to witness parents battling with one another. However, the parties and their attorneys did not consider these items to constitute instances of abuse or neglect at the hearing, and did not denominate them as such.

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