E.L. v. L. VDG-L.

CourtSuperior Court of Pennsylvania
DecidedJune 3, 2020
Docket584 MDA 2019
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

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NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

E.W.L. : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT : OF PENNSYLVANIA : v. : : : L.V.D.G.-L. : : Appellant : No. 584 MDA 2019

Appeal from the Order Entered March 15, 2019 In the Court of Common Pleas of Dauphin County Civil Division at No: 2014-CV-7323-CU

BEFORE: STABILE, J., McLAUGHLIN, J., and MUSMANNO, J.

MEMORANDUM BY STABILE, J.: FILED JUNE 03, 2020

L.V.D.G.-L. (“Mother”) appeals from the order entered March 15, 2019,

which awarded E.W.L. (“Father”) primary physical custody of their children,

L.L., a female born in May 2006, A.L., a female born in May 2008, and E.L., a

male born in September 2010 (collectively, “the Children”), during the school

year. The order awarded both parties shared legal custody, with the exception

that Father would have sole legal custody to make major decisions regarding

the Children’s education, and regarding any medication necessary to treat

attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (“ADHD”) or other related diagnoses.

After careful review, we affirm in part and vacate in part.

The record reveals that Mother and Father married in 2003, separated

in 2011, and divorced in 2016. Prior to the instant proceedings, the parties

exercised custody of the Children pursuant to an agreed-upon order entered

April 20, 2018. The order awarded Mother primary physical custody of the J-A25011-19

Children, and awarded Father partial physical custody on the first, second,

fourth, and fifth week of each month, from Thursday at 7:00 p.m. until Monday

at 9:00 a.m., and on the third week of every month, from Thursday at 5:00

p.m. until Friday at 9:00 a.m. The order awarded shared legal custody to

both parties.

On September 13, 2018, Father filed a petition for contempt, as well as

a petition for modification of custody. Among other things, Father requested

that the trial court enter an order directing that the Children attend public

school, rather than continuing to receive homeschooling from Mother. Father

based this request on his assertion that Mother was hostile toward him and

impaired his relationship with the Children, and on his assertion that E.L. was

struggling academically and in need of support that would be unavailable in a

homeschool environment. Subsequently, Father filed a petition for expedited

relief on October 5, 2018, in which he requested that the Children attend

public school immediately, due to E.L.’s educational difficulties and Mother’s

alleged inability to address the Children’s academic needs. The court entered

an agreed-upon order on November 1, 2018, which modified the prior custody

award slightly, pending a hearing on Father’s petitions for contempt and

modification. Notably, the order directed that the parties consider obtaining

a tutor for E.L.

The trial court conducted a hearing on Father’s petitions on March 14,

2019. At the hearing, each party’s counsel presented their witnesses’ direct

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examination testimony as an offer of proof. Opposing counsel then engaged

in cross-examination.

Father presented his case-in-chief first. Father’s testimony focused on

his concern that Mother was too “enmeshed” in the Children’s lives and failed

to encourage his relationship with the Children due to her hostility toward him.

He also testified regarding E.L.’s educational struggles and the extent to which

public schooling may be more beneficial for him and the other Children than

homeschooling by Mother.

Specifically, Father testified that Mother is the Children’s homeschool

teacher, Sunday school teacher, and soccer coach, and that she is involved in

a scouting program for L.L. and A.L. Id. at 26-27. He complained that Mother

often schedules activities during his custody time, most notably soccer events.

Id. at 23-24, 41-43. In contrast, Father’s testimony suggested that Mother

is hostile to his attempts to schedule activities for the Children. His testimony

included an incident during which the Children attended a party at his house

and “what the kids were telling [F]ather was, do not tell mom we are having

this party because . . . they were afraid they were going to get in trouble if

mom found out that they were having fun at dad’s house[.]” Id. at 26.

Father also testified that Mother is routinely late to custody exchanges

and sometimes fails to bring the Children to exchanges at all. Id. at 12. He

asserted that Mother had been late to forty-nine of eighty possible exchanges

since April 2018 and that she simply failed to appear at another six exchanges.

Id. Father added that, of Mother’s forty-nine late exchanges, she was forty-

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five minutes late fifteen times, and between one and two hours late eleven

times. Id. He recalled an incident during which he had custody of the Children

and Mother was late to an exchange. Id. at 13. After waiting for over fifteen

minutes, Father left the exchange location and sent Mother a text message

saying she could pick up the Children at his home. Id. Mother then called

Father on the phone “and started yelling at him and dropping eff [sic] bombs,

which she knew well the kids are in the car.”1 Id. at 13-14. In addition,

Father recalled an incident during which Mother was late to an exchange and

he sent a text message reminding her of the custody conciliator’s admonition

that she should arrive to exchanges on time. Id. at 15. Mother responded,

“Who cares what [the conciliator] said. She is a fat loser. You’re just like her;

fat and stupid; fat, fat, fat.” Id.

Regarding the Children’s education, Father testified that E.L. struggles

with reading and suffers from ADHD. Id. at 17-18. He reported that Mother

was resistant to obtaining an evaluation for E.L. and that she took advantage

of the evaluation as an opportunity to damage the Children’s relationship with

him. Id. at 17-19. Specifically, Father described an incident during which

Mother informed him that she was “making sure the kids know that you think

they’re stupid which is why they need the testing.” Id. at 19. He challenged

Mother’s ability to be an appropriate homeschooler, expressing concern that

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1 Mother admitted during cross-examination that she was on speakerphone, such that the Children were able to hear her. N.T., 3/14/19, at 78-79.

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the Children lack a routine and that they sometimes “brag about sleeping in

to lunch[.]” Id. at 21.

Similarly, Father presented the testimony of Mother’s brother, D.V.D.G.,

who expressed concern regarding the quality of education that the Children

receive in Mother’s care. D.V.D.G. echoed Father’s concerns regarding the

Children’s lack of routine while homeschooling with Mother. He explained as

follows on cross-examination:

One time I was in [Mother’s] house. This was a time when [Mother] was unresponsive, and so my mother had called me seeking help; and because we couldn’t find my sister, we called the police. And so when we come [sic] to the house, the door was actually open and we looked inside, and my wife and I, we weren’t able to quickly determine if the house was ransacked or just left open.

So that was the last time I seen [sic] the house. It turns out that my sister had forgotten to charge her phone and was sleeping in the middle of the afternoon with three kids.

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