E.B. v. M.B.

CourtSuperior Court of Pennsylvania
DecidedAugust 15, 2023
Docket3 WDA 2023
StatusUnpublished

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E.B. v. M.B., (Pa. Ct. App. 2023).

Opinion

J-A15042-23

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT OP 65.37

E.B. : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA : v. : : : M.B. : : Appellant : No. 3 WDA 2023

Appeal from the Order Entered December 7, 2022 In the Court of Common Pleas of Allegheny County Family Court at No(s): FD 18-009151-002

BEFORE: MURRAY, J., McLAUGHLIN, J., and PELLEGRINI, J.*

MEMORANDUM BY PELLEGRINI, J.: FILED: AUGUST 15, 2023

M.B. (Mother) appeals from an order of the Court of Common Pleas of

Allegheny County (trial court) granting E.B. (Father) shared physical custody

of their son E.B. and daughter A.B. (Children).1 We affirm in part and vacate

and remand in part.

I.

The parties were married in 2004 and E.B. was born in 2010 and A.B.

was born in 2013. During their marriage, they resided in Ross Township in

the North Hills of Pittsburgh and Mother continues to live in the marital

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* Retired Senior Judge assigned to the Superior Court.

1 While neither party has requested that they be identified in the caption by

their initials due to the sensitive nature of this custody matter, we will use their initials in the caption as well other involved individuals. J-A15042-23

residence. Since April 2021, Father has resided in a home owned by his

paramour, T.C., in Mt. Lebanon, in the South Hills of Pittsburgh. T.C. has a

son approximately one year younger than A.B. who resides in her home.

Father is currently a teacher at a charter high school, while Mother is the

executive director of a non-profit organization working with youth.

The parties separated in July 2018 and Father filed a complaint in

divorce in October 2018 which was granted on February 6, 2019. Pursuant to

a 2018 marital settlement agreement (MSA), Father had custody of Children

every Wednesday and Thursday evening and every other weekend from Friday

evening until Monday morning. In March 2020, at the onset of the Covid-19

pandemic, the parties shifted to a shared 2-2-3 alternating weekly custody

schedule. In early October 2020, the parties reverted to the MSA custody

schedule at Mother’s insistence.

On October 28, 2020, Father filed a custody complaint seeking to return

to the shared physical custody arrangement that the parties experimented

with during the pandemic. On February 8, 2021, Mother filed a counterclaim

for primary physical custody and shared legal custody.

At the hearing, Father, T.C., Mother and Neil Rosenbaum, Ph.D., a

clinical psychologist who was appointed by the court to perform a custody

evaluation, testified. Father testified that his current home with T.C. is 10.9

miles or approximately a 20-minute drive to Mother’s home and to Children’s

school in the North Hills School District. N.T., 5/10/22, at 7, 9, 61. Father

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explained that on Wednesday and Thursday evenings when he currently has

the Children, he ensures that they do their homework, although occasionally

it will not be completed in the three hours when he has them on those

evenings. Id. at 10-11.

Father described the custody arrangement during the early portion of

the Covid-19 pandemic and stated his request to avoid further disruption of

their relationship. Id. at 23. He stated that the Children were “happy” and

adjusting “[w]onderful[ly]” to the new routine, with “some kinks to work out,”

such as virtual learning issues and scheduled routines. Id. at 24. When

hybrid school resumed in the fall of 2020, he attempted to negotiate a new

arrangement with Mother and their co-parenting therapist, but Mother was

resistant to any changes and requested that they revert to the MSA schedule

and that he reluctantly agreed to avoid conflict with Mother. Id. at 15-22.

Father went on to testify that that he and Mother have a “[f]raught”

relationship because they are in court, but overall they have “done a pretty

fabulous job with co-parenting” Children. Id. at 37. Father said that he has

been working on the anger issue that Mother raised with him during couples

counseling by seeing a therapist and discussing the perception of his intense,

loud personality by various individuals in his life. Id. at 56-59. Father testified

that he went through a brief period during the separation when he was living

with Mother when he was drinking too much alcohol but stated he was not an

alcoholic. Id. at 62-63.

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Father stated that Children have dealt with the current parenting

situation during litigation well, with minor confusion regarding why they

cannot stay with Father on certain nights or why Mother and Father have a

disagreement. Id. at 38-40. Father explained that he is dealing with A.B.’s

anxiety by preparing a checklist for morning school preparation, and that he

also has attempted to tone down his own interactions with A.B. when in the

past he may have been more voluble. Id. at 43-45, 59-61.

Father stated that Children get along excellently with his partner, T.C.,

as well as her son, who they refer to as their brother. Id. at 61-62. T.C.

generally drives Children to school on the mornings he has them as she has a

more flexible schedule. Id. at 46-47. Father intends to take E.B. to school

when he starts middle school in the 2022-2023 school year as that school has

an earlier start time, while T.C. will continue to take A.B. to school. Id. at 48.

School pick-up would be shared between Father and T.C. Id. at 47, 61.

T.C. testified that she and Father had been in a committed relationship

for over two years and planned to marry at some point, even though they

were not engaged. Id. at 77. She described the morning and afternoon

school drop-offs and pick-ups and explained that her work schedule is flexible

such that it allows her to accommodate flexible pick-up times. Id. at 78, 80-

81. T.C. said that Children and her son “get along incredibly well” and that

her son and A.B. are “extremely close.” Id. at 79. T.C. stated that the

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blended family functions very well together and that Children and her son

have been very happy together. Id. at 81.

Mother testified that she works at a fully remote organization, allowing

her flexibility to set her schedule, volunteer at school, be available for drop-

offs and pick-ups and taking Children to their doctor’s appointments. Id. at

96-97. In August 2020, she agreed during the Covid-19 pandemic to try

allowing Father to have overnights with Children during the school week after

discussion with the co-parenting therapist. Id. at 100-02. There was a

disagreement in October 2020 regarding whether to continue, and Mother

requested that they return to the MSA schedule; she stated that she had

noticed that Children were reverting to earlier anxious behaviors after

overnights with Father, including not sleeping through the night, having bad

dreams and becoming emotional very easily. Id. at 102-04. Rather than

tapering off, Mother noted that the behavior was becoming more frequent as

the trial period continued. Id. at 105. Furthermore, Children were regularly

unprepared for school during the period when Father would drop them off at

school such that they could not participate in certain activities. Id. at 157-

60.

Mother described Father’s anger issues as “abuse,” explaining that

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