E.B. v. M.B.

Superior Court of Pennsylvania·Decided August 15, 2023·No. 3 WDA 2023·Unpublished

Opinion

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT OP 65.37

E.B. : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA

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v. :

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M.B. :

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Appellant : No. 3 WDA 2023

Appeal from the Order Entered December 7, 2022 In the Court of Common Pleas of Allegheny County Family Court at No(s): FD 18-009151-002

BEFORE: MURRAY, J., McLAUGHLIN, J., and PELLEGRINI, J.* MEMORANDUM BY PELLEGRINI, J.: FILED: AUGUST 15, 2023 M.B. (Mother) appeals from an order of the Court of Common Pleas of Allegheny County (trial court) granting E.B. (Father) shared physical custody of their son E.B. and daughter A.B. (Children).1 We affirm in part and vacate and remand in part.

I.

The parties were married in 2004 and E.B. was born in 2010 and A.B.

was born in 2013. During their marriage, they resided in Ross Township in the North Hills of Pittsburgh and Mother continues to live in the marital

* Retired Senior Judge assigned to the Superior Court.

1 While neither party has requested that they be identified in the caption by

their initials due to the sensitive nature of this custody matter, we will use their initials in the caption as well other involved individuals.

residence. Since April 2021, Father has resided in a home owned by his paramour, T.C., in Mt. Lebanon, in the South Hills of Pittsburgh. T.C. has a son approximately one year younger than A.B. who resides in her home. Father is currently a teacher at a charter high school, while Mother is the executive director of a non-profit organization working with youth.

The parties separated in July 2018 and Father filed a complaint in divorce in October 2018 which was granted on February 6, 2019. Pursuant to a 2018 marital settlement agreement (MSA), Father had custody of Children every Wednesday and Thursday evening and every other weekend from Friday evening until Monday morning. In March 2020, at the onset of the Covid-19 pandemic, the parties shifted to a shared 2-2-3 alternating weekly custody schedule. In early October 2020, the parties reverted to the MSA custody schedule at Mother’s insistence.

On October 28, 2020, Father filed a custody complaint seeking to return to the shared physical custody arrangement that the parties experimented with during the pandemic. On February 8, 2021, Mother filed a counterclaim for primary physical custody and shared legal custody.

At the hearing, Father, T.C., Mother and Neil Rosenbaum, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist who was appointed by the court to perform a custody evaluation, testified. Father testified that his current home with T.C. is 10.9 miles or approximately a 20-minute drive to Mother’s home and to Children’s school in the North Hills School District. N.T., 5/10/22, at 7, 9, 61. Father

explained that on Wednesday and Thursday evenings when he currently has the Children, he ensures that they do their homework, although occasionally it will not be completed in the three hours when he has them on those evenings. Id. at 10-11.

Father described the custody arrangement during the early portion of the Covid-19 pandemic and stated his request to avoid further disruption of their relationship. Id. at 23. He stated that the Children were “happy” and adjusting “[w]onderful[ly]” to the new routine, with “some kinks to work out,” such as virtual learning issues and scheduled routines. Id. at 24. When hybrid school resumed in the fall of 2020, he attempted to negotiate a new arrangement with Mother and their co-parenting therapist, but Mother was resistant to any changes and requested that they revert to the MSA schedule and that he reluctantly agreed to avoid conflict with Mother. Id. at 15-22.

Father went on to testify that that he and Mother have a “[f]raught”

relationship because they are in court, but overall they have “done a pretty fabulous job with co-parenting” Children. Id. at 37. Father said that he has been working on the anger issue that Mother raised with him during couples counseling by seeing a therapist and discussing the perception of his intense, loud personality by various individuals in his life. Id. at 56-59. Father testified that he went through a brief period during the separation when he was living with Mother when he was drinking too much alcohol but stated he was not an alcoholic. Id. at 62-63.

Father stated that Children have dealt with the current parenting situation during litigation well, with minor confusion regarding why they cannot stay with Father on certain nights or why Mother and Father have a disagreement. Id. at 38-40. Father explained that he is dealing with A.B.’s anxiety by preparing a checklist for morning school preparation, and that he also has attempted to tone down his own interactions with A.B. when in the past he may have been more voluble. Id. at 43-45, 59-61.

Father stated that Children get along excellently with his partner, T.C., as well as her son, who they refer to as their brother. Id. at 61-62. T.C. generally drives Children to school on the mornings he has them as she has a more flexible schedule. Id. at 46-47. Father intends to take E.B. to school when he starts middle school in the 2022-2023 school year as that school has an earlier start time, while T.C. will continue to take A.B. to school. Id. at 48. School pick-up would be shared between Father and T.C. Id. at 47, 61.

T.C. testified that she and Father had been in a committed relationship for over two years and planned to marry at some point, even though they were not engaged. Id. at 77. She described the morning and afternoon school drop-offs and pick-ups and explained that her work schedule is flexible such that it allows her to accommodate flexible pick-up times. Id. at 78, 80- 81. T.C. said that Children and her son “get along incredibly well” and that her son and A.B. are “extremely close.” Id. at 79. T.C. stated that the

blended family functions very well together and that Children and her son have been very happy together. Id. at 81.

Mother testified that she works at a fully remote organization, allowing her flexibility to set her schedule, volunteer at school, be available for drop- offs and pick-ups and taking Children to their doctor’s appointments. Id. at 96-97. In August 2020, she agreed during the Covid-19 pandemic to try allowing Father to have overnights with Children during the school week after discussion with the co-parenting therapist. Id. at 100-02. There was a disagreement in October 2020 regarding whether to continue, and Mother requested that they return to the MSA schedule; she stated that she had noticed that Children were reverting to earlier anxious behaviors after overnights with Father, including not sleeping through the night, having bad dreams and becoming emotional very easily. Id. at 102-04. Rather than tapering off, Mother noted that the behavior was becoming more frequent as the trial period continued. Id. at 105. Furthermore, Children were regularly unprepared for school during the period when Father would drop them off at school such that they could not participate in certain activities. Id. at 157- 60.

Mother described Father’s anger issues as “abuse,” explaining that Children had “witnessed him yelling at me, berating me, cursing at me, and throwing things across the home or towards me.” Id. at 107. Father also threatened to hurt him or her on one occasion during the marriage, forcing

Mother to remove Children from the house for a night. Id. Mother stated that Father’s alcohol use played a role in his rage outbursts, with Father sometimes flying off the handle with her or Children over minor issues during periods when he was drinking. Id. at 110-11.

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