Dobyns v. Dobyns

650 S.W.2d 701, 1983 Mo. App. LEXIS 3204
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedApril 19, 1983
DocketWD34037
StatusPublished
Cited by12 cases

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Dobyns v. Dobyns, 650 S.W.2d 701, 1983 Mo. App. LEXIS 3204 (Mo. Ct. App. 1983).

Opinion

WASSERSTROM, Presiding Judge.

This is a child custody determination made pursuant to an original petition filed by the father Robert Dobyns (“Robert”). The trial court granted custody to Robert with rights of visitation to the mother Dao Thi Dobyns (“Dao”). Dao appeals. Contrary to her contentions, we hold: (1) the Missouri trial court had jurisdiction to hold an original custody hearing and was not precluded from doing so by the divorce decree entered by a Nevada court in 1978; (2) the trial court was not required to defer to the alleged continuing jurisdiction of the Nevada court; and (3) the trial court was not required to deny jurisdiction because of the “clean hands” provisions of the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act.

The parties were married in Vietnam in 1975 and came to the United States two or three days later. They first lived with Robert’s mother in Sacramento, California and then moved into their own home in that city where they continued to live until the spring of 1978. Dao had secured a job in a casino as a black jack dealer in Carson City, Nevada, and the parties, together with their young son, moved to Carson City on March 14, 1978. Robert bought a home in Carson City in joint names, moved the household furniture to the Carson City home, registered an automobile license in Nevada, and applied for a driver’s license in Nevada.

A little more than a month later, a violent argument erupted between Robert and Dao. The cause of the argument and just what was said is a matter of sharp dispute. Robert testified that the quarrel ended with a demand by Dao that he and the son leave the home. Dao, on the other hand, testified that she never asked that Robert take the child away from the family home in Carson City.

Immediately following the quarrel, Robert left the home with the son and he returned to Sacramento with the child on April 20, 1978. While he was in Sacramento during this period, a number of telephone calls took place between the parties. After living in Sacramento for approximately ten *703 days, Robert and the son went to stay in Ohio at the home of Robert’s brother. They stayed in Ohio for about two weeks and then returned to Sacramento. Robert testified that some time during this two week stay in Ohio, he made his last call to Dao because “she told me don’t write to me or call me any more, because all we do is get each other upset, and I don’t want to hear from you any more.”

After his return to Sacramento, Robert received a telegram from a military friend, Campbell, asking him to take over management of a farm for him in Missouri. Robert agreed to do so, and he and his son went to Cedar County, Missouri, and managed Campbell’s farm for 16 months. At the end of that time, Campbell notified Robert that he, Campbell, was returning from overseas and would need the farm for his own living purposes. Accordingly, Robert returned to live in Ohio.

In June 1980, Campbell again got in touch with Robert and asked him to undertake the management of a farm for Campbell near Odessa, Missouri. Robert accepted that offer and he and his son moved to Odessa on June 6,1980. They still lived on that farm at the time of the hearing of this case.

Shortly after Robert had left the family home in Carson City, Dao filed suit for divorce on May 18, 1978, in Nevada. Service was had upon Robert by publication.

In about June 1978, Robert sent a tape recording to Dao which became the subject of much contention during the course of this trial. In this tape, Robert made a number of bitter accusations against Dao and also made a number of references to a divorce proceeding. The latter comments were in part as follows:

“The last time I talked to you you told me to contact your lawyer and try to agree on some kind of a settlement to get this thing finished.... I cannot understand why you became so impatient and went to see the lawyer so soon. Even Dai told you to wait until after he came back from Vietnam before you started to get divorced from me.... When I go to court and fight for custody of your son, it won’t be in Nevada. It will be in a state where they still believe that a man’s wife is supposed to be true to him, and I will win.... I told you that if you went ahead with the divorce, then I would do whatever I had to do. Now, you know. I am doing what I think I have to do.”

The portions of the tape quoted could be interpreted as an acknowledgment by Robert that he knew of a pending divorce proceeding in Nevada, and Dao testified that she had advised him of her filing for divorce. Robert, on the other hand, testified that he had no knowledge that there was a divorce filed in the State of Nevada and he submitted an affidavit to the court which stated that he had no knowledge, information or reason to believe that any suit for divorce had been begun; he admitted that during conversations with Dao she had mentioned divorce, but Robert thought he would be notified through proper legal channels if she filed.

The Nevada court entered a divorce decree on August 16,1978, which provided for custody of the son to Dao. Thereafter, Dao made a number of efforts to locate the boy. One such effort was the filing of a habeas corpus proceeding in California, naming Robert’s mother as a respondent. That ha-beas corpus proceeding was unsuccessful because Robert and the boy had already left the State of California. Still later Dao sent a series of letters and gifts to the boy, addressed in care of Robert’s brother in Ohio. Those letters and gifts were never returned; but neither were any of them acknowledged. Dao testified that she hired lawyers and investigators to try to find her son and that in those efforts she expended approximately $18,000.

Dao did finally ascertain the whereabouts of Robert and the son in the spring of 1982. Thereupon she filed on June 11, 1982, a petition in the Circuit Court of Lafayette County, Missouri, for the registration of the Nevada divorce decree. She also filed a petition for habeas corpus, and the child was taken into the custody of the juvenile authorities pending determination of the *704 case. Robert filed a motion to quash the petition for registration of the Nevada decree, and he also filed an independent petition for custody of the child.

A hearing was held on July 6, 1982, respecting the petition to register the Nevada decree. On July 7, 1982, the trial court entered an order denying the application to register on the ground “[t]hat the Nevada Judgment dated August 16, 1978 is invalid and not entitled to full faith and credit as to its provisions for child custody and support and its provisions for maintenance for plaintiff inasmuch as it affirmatively appears such decree was based solely on service obtained against defendant by publication and with no personal jurisdiction over defendant or the child, Robert Leonard Do-byns, neither of whom this Court finds was domiciled, resident or present in the State of Nevada when the action was commenced.”

Thereafter, on July 20, 1982, Dao filed her answer to Robert’s petition for custody and filed a counterclaim for custody. On July 20, a hearing was commenced for determination of custody. Dao objected at the outset that the Missouri court had no jurisdiction to hold an original custody proceeding for the reason that it was bound by the Nevada decree and Missouri was an improper forum.

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