Dillree v. Dillree

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedDecember 20, 2022
Docket22-423
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

2022-NCCOA-835

No. COA22-423

Filed 20 December 2022

Moore County, No. 21 CVD 108

VERONICA JANE DILLREE, by and through her General Guardian, EMILY TOBIAS, Plaintiff,

v.

HARRY DILLREE, and his Attorney-In-Fact, LISA WILCOX, Defendants.

Appeal by Defendants-Appellants from orders entered 1 November 2021 by

Judge Warren McSweeney in Moore County District Court. Heard in the Court of

Appeals 15 November 2022.

Wilson, Reives, Silverman & Doran, PLLC, by Jonathan Silverman, for Plaintiff-Appellee.

Wyrick Robbins Yates & Ponton LLP, by Charles W. Clanton, K. Edward Greene, and Jessica B. Heffner, for Defendants-Appellants.

INMAN, Judge.

¶1 This appeal presents an issue not previously decided by this Court: whether a

general guardian has the power to cause a legal separation on behalf of an

incompetent spouse for the purpose of bringing an equitable distribution claim.

Construing our General Statutes and applying precedent from the divorce context,

we hold a guardian is not so authorized. DILLREE V. DILLREE

Opinion of the Court

I. FACTUAL & PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND

¶2 The record tends to show the following:

¶3 Defendant-Appellant Harry Dillree and Jane Dillree, originally college

sweethearts in the 1950s, eventually married in the 1980s, after both had children

from previous marriages. For decades, the Dillrees had a loving marriage: they

shared common interests, golfed and travelled together, and were affectionate toward

each other. The couple owned and lived in a home in Pinehurst, North Carolina, and

Mr. Dillree retired early so he could spend more time with his wife.

A. Ms. Dillrees’ Mental Decline and Guardianship Proceedings

¶4 In 2014, Ms. Dillree was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. As her condition

deteriorated, Mr. Dillree stepped away from his hobbies to care for her. According to

Mr. Dillree’s adult daughter, Defendant-Appellant Laura Wilcox, the Dillrees’

relationship remained loving during this time and neither of them indicated they

wanted to leave the marriage. Ms. Wilcox never saw verbal or physical abuse or any

other indication the two were unhappy.

¶5 However, in January 2017, one of Ms. Dillree’s adult daughters, Susan Allen,

observed Mr. Dillree making disparaging comments to Ms. Dillree because of her

condition. On 19 January 2017, Ms. Dillree’s other adult daughter, Valerie Hunter,

filed with the Moore County Clerk of Superior Court a petition to declare Ms. Dillree

incompetent. The petition, accompanied by a letter from Ms. Dillree’s treating DILLREE V. DILLREE

physician, alleged that Mr. Dillree was incapable of providing his wife with proper

care because he failed to administer her Alzheimer’s medication, fed her once a day

at most, and neglected to take her to medical appointments, in part because of his

own cognitive decline. It further alleged that Mr. Dillree was verbally and physically

abusive toward Ms. Dillree. The clerk appointed a guardian ad litem to investigate

the allegations in the petition and to represent Ms. Dillree’s interest in the

proceeding. The guardian ad litem visited the Dillrees’ home that afternoon, spoke

with both Mr. and Ms. Dillree, and filed an affidavit with the clerk reporting her

observations.

¶6 The next day, on the pretense of taking them out for lunch, Ms. Hunter drove

the Dillrees to the Moore County Courthouse to appear for a hearing on the motion.

The clerk adjudicated Ms. Dillree incompetent and appointed Plaintiff-Appellee

Emily Tobias as the interim guardian of Ms. Dillree’s person and estate. Ms. Tobias

took custody of Ms. Dillree immediately following the hearing.

¶7 Ms. Dillree was initially hospitalized and then transferred to a care facility to

ensure her well-being and to keep her physically separate from Mr. Dillree. Ms.

Tobias determined the separation was necessary, in part, because Ms. Dillree did not

have the capacity to consent to sex with her husband but expressed that she enjoyed

sexual activity with him. By the end of the month, Ms. Tobias had Ms. Dillree DILLREE V. DILLREE

transferred to Penick Village, an assisted living facility with a memory care unit in

Pinehurst. The Dillrees have lived apart since then.

¶8 In March 2017, the trial court appointed Ms. Tobias as her general guardian.

The order found that Ms. Dillree’s “medical and mental condition requires more care,

attention, and safety control than her 80-year-old husband is capable of providing

without professional assistance,” that the Dillrees “have substantial financial assets,

but it is not in the best interests of [Ms. Dillree] to dissolve all of her assets for division

into a Guardianship account,” and that the general guardian shall approve visitation

schedules for Mr. Dillree with Ms. Dillree at Penick Village in accord with her “best

interests” and “wishes.” Ms. Dillree has not been restored to competency, and she has

remained at Penick Village.

B. Mr. Dillree’s Mental Decline

¶9 Mr. Dillree became distraught after his wife’s removal from their marital

home, and his mental condition deteriorated. Ms. Tobias allowed Mr. Dillree limited

visits with his wife for one to two hours at a time despite his requests to spend the

day with her. Mr. Dillree’s behavior made Penick Village staff and visitors

uncomfortable, and he threatened to harm staff if they did not let him see his wife.

He was then prohibited from the facility. In April 2018, after Mr. Dillree told his

neuropsychologist about a plan to kidnap his wife from Penick Village, he was DILLREE V. DILLREE

involuntarily committed to a psychiatric facility and a petition was filed by Penick

Village staff to have him declared incompetent.

¶ 10 In exchange for dismissal of the involuntary commitment and incompetency

proceedings, Ms. Wilcox moved her father to a care facility in Libertyville, Illinois

where she lives. Mr. Dillree has since then been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease,

and Ms. Wilcox was appointed his guardian to represent his interests in this

litigation. Mr. Dillree, through counsel, requested that Ms. Dillree be moved to the

same facility or area so that they could be together or near each other. Ms. Tobias did

not respond. In January 2019, and again in November 2019, counsel for Mr. Dillree

filed motions to alter the guardianship and to have Ms. Dillree moved to Illinois. The

trial court denied each of those motions.

C. Disputes Regarding Mr. Dillree’s Financial Support of Ms. Dillree

¶ 11 The parties disagree about Mr. Dillree’s financial support of his wife and her

care since she was removed from their home.

¶ 12 In the four years between January 2017 and January 2021, Ms. Tobias had

received a total of $1,090,803 for Ms. Dillree’s benefit from various sources, including

approximately $7,000 per month in proceeds from a long-term care insurance policy.

¶ 13 Years before the Dillrees’ cognitive decline, they had planned their estates

together, with each being the beneficiary of the other’s separate will and trust. But

in July 2017, a few months after Ms. Dillree was deemed incompetent, Mr. Dillree DILLREE V. DILLREE

amended the Declaration of the Harry D. Dillree Trust to remove Ms. Dillree as the

beneficiary and Ms.

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