DeLoy v. Lekowski

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedOctober 15, 2025
Docket25-2
StatusUnpublished

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DeLoy v. Lekowski, (N.C. Ct. App. 2025).

Opinion

An unpublished opinion of the North Carolina Court of Appeals does not constitute controlling legal authority. Citation is disfavored, but may be permitted in accordance with the provisions of Rule 30(e)(3) of the North Carolina Rules of Appellate Procedure.

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA25-2

Filed 15 October 2025

Iredell County, No. 22CVS000036-480

DONALD DELOY, Plaintiff,

v.

DARLENE LEKOWSKI, Defendant.

Appeal by Plaintiff from Order entered 5 February 2023, 13 May 2024, and 16

May 2024 by Judge R. Stuart Albright in Iredell County Superior Court. Cross-

Appeal by Defendant from Orders entered 4 and 5 February 2023. Heard in the Court

of Appeals 20 May 2025.

Pope McMillan, P.A., by Christian Kiechel, for Plaintiff-Appellant/Cross- Appellee.

McAngus, Goudelock & Courie, PLLC, by Jeffrey B. Kuykendal, for Defendant- Appellee/Cross-Appellant.

HAMPSON, Judge.

Factual and Procedural Background

Donald DeLoy (Plaintiff) appeals from a Judgment entered upon a jury verdict

finding him liable for libel per quod against Darlene Lekowski (Defendant); a DELOY V. LEKOWSKI

Opinion of the Court

Punitive Damages Opinion; an Order denying Plaintiff’s Motion for Judgment

Notwithstanding the Verdict; and a Supplemental Judgment awarding Defendant

certain attorney fees and costs. Defendant also cross-appeals from an Order granting

directed verdict in favor of Plaintiff on Defendant’s counterclaims for libel per se,

slander per se, and slander per quod. The Record before us tends to reflect the

following:

The parties in this case are siblings. The underlying dispute between the

parties began with a disagreement over text message related to the care of their

father. After trading some slights related to the issue, Defendant wrote to Plaintiff:

“I’d be very very careful how you talk to me and treat me as I could completely destroy

your life if you want me to.”1 Defendant then went on to accuse Plaintiff of raping

her when they were children, repeatedly called him a “rapist,” and alleged Plaintiff

had “destroyed my entire childhood and upbringing.” Plaintiff repeatedly denied

these accusations. Defendant continued making the same allegations by text,

including to Plaintiff’s wife who contacted Defendant using Plaintiff’s phone.

On 12 May 2021, Defendant emailed Plaintiff and their three other siblings

generally accusing Plaintiff and another brother of sexually assaulting her when all

parties were children and claimed they had later admitted to the assaults. In

pertinent part, Defendant’s email read as follows:

1 The text messages and emails in this case contain multiple spelling and grammatical errors.

We reproduce them here as originally written.

-2- DELOY V. LEKOWSKI

Good morning. I’ve been getting calls, texts and emails that a lot of misinformation is being told about the situation so I am sending this email to state the facts:

1) I was mentally and physically sexually assaulted at a very young age by both [brother] and [Plaintiff] who at one point have both admitted to it[.]

....

6) I have never been on psych medication nor have I ever had a nervous breakdown. Those are all lies and I would like to see proof with any medical paperwork either one of you have that would prove this. What happened is I became incredibly frustrated by the way [Plaintiff] was texting and almost screaming at me that dad needed glasses. After all I’ve done for mom & dad, I told him he needed to be extremely careful the way he talks to me going forward as I’m not going to take that behavior anymore.

Again, I’m not going to accept any threats or any lies. We all know the truth and what happened. Again, all that was needed was a very sincere apology by June by [Plaintiff] chose to call me crazy instead and started blowing it up and calling everyone.

Later the same day, Plaintiff responded: “This is complete BS! I have never admitted

to any part of her allegations! . . . [Defendant] you need real help!” After an

intermediary email not relevant to this appeal, Plaintiff wrote:

You are completely consumed by your hate! Facts can be facts as they never happened!

I never admitted to any of your claims at any time!

This has nothing to due without your past and you fake BS! This has to do with the fact that you are a complete Psychopath that could not handle losing control over someone you never had

-3- DELOY V. LEKOWSKI

control of to begin with!

You really need to get some help! You are completely dilution all!

Two weeks later, Plaintiff sent a final email to Defendant on the email chain, stating:

“You are a psychopathic lier! I never did any of this and you know it! You better pray

to god I do not meet up with you and your family again!”

Plaintiff filed a Complaint on 6 January 2022 alleging Defendant had defamed

him and specifically bringing claims for libel per se, slander per se, and intentional

infliction of emotional distress (IIED), and asking for punitive damages. On 14 March

2022, Defendant filed an Answer and Counterclaims, alleging libel per se, slander per

se, libel per quod, slander per quod, and IIED, and seeking punitive damages.

Plaintiff voluntarily dismissed his claim for IIED prior to trial.

This matter came on for trial on 29 January 2024. At trial, Defendant testified

to the truth of the allegations she had made against Plaintiff. Six other witnesses

testified regarding the underlying sexual assault allegations with conflicting

evidence. Rich Nesbit, a life coach, also testified for Defendant. Nesbit’s testimony

was submitted by video deposition. Nesbit testified he is not a licensed mental health

professional, but he had met Defendant in 2005 and began providing her with,

essentially, marriage counseling and individual counseling. Defendant testified that

her counseling with Nesbit since May 2021 had focused on “[d]ealing with the fact

that [Plaintiff]’s calling me a liar and the fact that all of this has bubbled up and

-4- DELOY V. LEKOWSKI

surfaced.” Defendant also mentioned two other individuals she had seen for

counseling since May 2021, but neither testified at trial and their substantive

testimony sought to be admitted was excluded. Defendant stated “I’m reliving

everything all over again, and I’ve had to go on medication to help me. I’ve had to

have therapy to help me through this.” Specifically, Defendant testified she had spent

“a little over $17,000.00” on Nesbit and the two therapists. Defendant presented no

other evidence regarding the cost of any mental health treatment she had received.

At the close of both sides’ cases in chief, the trial court heard arguments on

Plaintiff’s Motion for Directed Verdict on all of Defendant’s claims. The trial court

granted directed verdict for Plaintiff on Defendant’s claims for libel per se, slander

per se, and IIED; however, the trial court allowed Defendant’s claims on libel per quod

and slander per quod to go forward. After rebuttal evidence and during the charge

conference, the trial court dismissed Defendant’s claim for slander per quod. The

trial court stated: “One of the elements the defendant has to prove for a slander per

quod claim is that the defendant intended the statement to charge the defendant with

having committed the crime or offense involving moral turpitude and/or impeach the

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