Deborah Harker v. Kwanza Grimes

Court of Chancery of Delaware·Decided March 7, 2025·No. C.A. No. 2021-0751-SEM·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF CHANCERY OF THE STATE OF DELAWARE

DEBORAH HARKER, ) ) Petitioner, ) ) v. ) C.A. No. 2023-1097-SEM ) KWANZA GRIMES and ) ASHLEY VOGEL, individually and ) as attorney in fact for ) BETTY B. HARKER ) ) Respondents. )

Report: March 7, 2025 Date Submitted: September 18, 2024

POST-TRIAL REPORT

Jason C. Powell, Thomas J. Reichert & Laurel A. Lalone, THE POWELL FIRM LLC, Wilmington, DE; Counsel for Petitioner.

Tiffany M. Shrenk, MACELREE HARVEY, LTD, Centreville, DE; Counsel for the Respondent Kwanza Grimes.

Ashley Vogel, Wilmington, DE; Pro se Respondent.

MOLINA, Senior Magistrate Delaware law protects the rights of adults to dispose of their property as they

see fit and to associate with those of their choosing. Through this action, I am asked

to second guess the late Betty Bell Harker’s exercise of her personal autonomy. Per

Ms. Harker’s daughter, certain decisions Ms. Harker made near the end of her life

were done either without capacity, or with such weakened intellect that the objects

of her affections overcame Ms. Harker, causing her to act not of her own free will,

but for others’ self-serving objectives.

Those “others” were Ms. Harker’s beloved grandson and his wife. Over four

days of trial, I heard candid and concerning testimony about the struggles and

motivations of Ms. Harker’s prized grandson. Endeavoring to provide “factual

findings . . . sufficient to support” my ruling, as required under Court of Chancery

Rule 144(b)(2), I delve arguably too deeply into the difficult personal situations

facing Ms. Harker and her kin. But even as the details risk bordering on the

scandalous, the evidence before me supports the unshakeable conclusion that Ms.

Harker chose to spend her life caring for, and catering to, her grandson. Her support,

both personally and financially, was unwavering. To overcome this definitive pattern

and undo Ms. Harker’s final actions, which were consistent therewith, her daughter

needed to make a conclusive showing that Ms. Harker lacked capacity or had her

true will overcome. The evidence for either is lacking. Through this post-trial report, I reject the daughter’s challenges to Ms.

Harker’s estate planning. But the daughter has demonstrated that Ms. Harker’s

grandson and his wife breached their fiduciary duties to Ms. Harker, and thus various

of their self-serving transactions should be voided. The benefit this will provide to

the estate, and the good faith nature of the daughter’s challenge given the concerning

circumstances of Ms. Harker’s final days, support shifting Ms. Harker’s attorneys’

fees to Ms. Harker’s estate. In essence, although I will not set aside Ms. Harker’s

decision to disinherit her daughter, I hereby shift the grandson and his wife’s ill-

gotten gains back to the estate, which shall bear the daughter’s cost of litigating this

difficult case.

2 I. BACKGROUND 1

This action revolves around Betty Bell Harker, who passed away at the age of

94 on June 14, 2022.2 Those who loved Ms. Harker described her as “an intellectual.

She was an academic, and she coupled that with a tremendous understanding of the

adolescent mind. . . . [S]he was just one of the finest human beings[.]” 3

Ms. Harker was predeceased by her husband Robert S. Harker, whom she met

while they attended West Virginia University. 4 In 1968, the Harkers moved to

Wilmington, Delaware, to lay down their roots and build their forever home at 2003

Dogwood Lane (the “Property”). 5

1 The facts in this report reflect my findings based on the record developed at the trial held on May 8–10 and 20, 2024. See Docket Item (“D.I.”) 138, 140. I grant the evidence the weight and credibility I find it deserves. Citations to the first three days of trial’s transcript, D.I. 143–45, are in the form of “[Last name] Tr.,” referring to the testimony of the identified person. Defined parties are identified with that designation. Citations to the fourth day of trial’s transcript, D.I. 146, are in the form of “[Last name] TT,” again referring to the testimony of the identified person and incorporating defined parties. Citations to the joint exhibits are in the form of “JX__.” The Respondent argues that JX51–53 should be stricken and disregarded under Delaware Rules of Evidence 401, 402, 403, and 609, as well as the hearsay rules. See D.I. 158 at 62–65; Tr. 313:14–315:24. I do not rely on these three joint exhibits for purposes of this decision, and thus the objections are moot. In this report, I use first or last names in some instances to avoid any confusion; I intend no disrespect or familiarity. I have also opted for the term “Respondent” to describe Kwanza Grimes, because I held the other respondent, Ashley Vogel, in default. I address herein the effect of that default, and the process for calculating the judgment to be entered against Ms. Vogel. 2 D.I. 132 (“Pretrial Order”) at p. 7 ¶ 30. 3 See McLaughlin Tr. 424:20–425:2. 4 Petitioner Tr. 188:8–10. 5 Id. at 189:7–9. 3 Together, the Harkers bore two children: Deborah Harker (the “Petitioner”),

their eldest, and Stephen Harker. 6 Stephen passed away in 2023, while this action

was pending. 7 He and Ms. Harker were long estranged. But Ms. Harker, until the

very end, remained close with the Petitioner. The true apple of Ms. Harker’s eye,

though, was the Petitioner’s son, Ms. Harker’s grandson Kwanza Grimes (the

“Respondent”).

A. The Respondent

The Respondent was born in 1980.8 When he turned nine, the Petitioner and

the Respondent’s father went their separate ways. 9 But the Respondent and the

Petitioner were not alone; the Harkers adored their grandson. 10 While the

Respondent was growing up, he spent weekends, summers, and holiday breaks with

his grandparents. 11 Ms. Harker lavished the Respondent with new clothes, bikes,

shoes, toys, and even a car when he turned sixteen. 12 But her contributions were not

solely financial or material. For example, when the Respondent was not receiving

6 Id. at 187:10–13. 7 Id. at 187:11. 8 See id. at 189:17 (identifying the Respondent’s age as 43, though he would turn “44 in September”). 9 Id. at 189:21–22. 10 Id. at 189:23. 11 Id. at 189:22–190:3; Respondent Tr. 712:19–22. 12 Respondent Tr. 713:3–15, 714:3–21, 715:16–716:8. 4 enough playing time on the Sanford basketball team, Ms. Harker attempted to pull

some strings.13 She wanted the Respondent to have it all.

Suffice it to say, Ms. Harker played a large role throughout the Respondent’s

adolescence. 14 The Respondent characterized his upbringing as a “great

childhood.”15 But the Petitioner worried that Ms. Harker’s frequent spoiling was an

impediment to the Respondent’s development into an adult.16

Her concerns were valid. The Respondent candidly testified regarding his

struggles transitioning into adulthood. And, in 2000, the Respondent developed a

drug addiction after he was prescribed pain medication to treat a shoulder injury.17

Though he testified that he stopped using the prescription medication after about a

year, the Respondent struggled for quite some time, into and after his marriage.

13 McLaughlin Tr. 426:19–22. 14 Ms. Harker even went so far as to seek guardianship of the Respondent, though the Petitioner refused to allow it. Petitioner Tr. 340:5–11. 15 Respondent Tr. 713:16. 16 Id. at 720:5–9. 17 Id. at 720:18–721:6. 5 Six years after his addiction began, the Respondent married Ashley Vogel.18

Not long thereafter, Ms. Vogel also began struggling with substance abuse and

addiction.

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