Colmand v. Dailey

79 Misc. 2d 1005, 359 N.Y.S.2d 409, 1974 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 1812
New York City Family Court·Decided July 21, 1974·Published·Cited by 1 cases

Opinion

Isidobb Levine, J.

Petitioner herein, a married womah at the time, hut separated from her husband, with whom she had a child Tara born July 14, 1969, as evidenced by written separation agreement dated March 23, 1972, gave birth to another child named Diane on August 21, 1973 and seeks a declaration in this proceeding that the respondent is the father of this second child.

In support of her petition petitioner produced the secretary of the obstetrician who had cared for her during her pregnancy and delivery. This witness produced the records of the dates of the visits to the doctor by petitioner, the charge made for the doctor’s services and the payments made on account. She testified that the respondent accompanied petitioner to the doctor’s office 'Once or twice, and on one occasion had been introduced to the doctor. Further, the witness stated that petitioner never came to the doctor’s office with any other male.

Respondent himself did not take the stand and the court recognizes that he is not compelled to testify (Family Ct. Act, § 531) and that no inference may be drawn from such failure to testify. (People v. Jones, 101 N. Y. S. 2d 317.)

Petitioner testified that she met the respondent for the first time at work in August or September, 1971. On January 1, 1972 the respondent came to petitioner’s apartment and their first act of sexual intercourse took place there.

[1007] Thereafter petitioner 'and respondent had sexual intercourse two or three times a week at petitioner’s apartment. On these occasions petitioner’s first child Tara stayed with petitioner’s mother overnight. Petitioner testified to having sexual intercourse with respondent on November 14,1972 in her apartment. It was on this night that petitioner claimed she conceived.

Petitioner testified that neither ,she nor respondent ever used contraceptives.

Petitioner described respondent’s body as having a scar on his chest, a mole on his left hip, and a protruding bone at the base of his spine. She did not recall any marks on his back.

Petitioner testified that when she missed her menstrual period at the end of November, 1972, she informed respondent. She confirmed her pregnancy in December, 1972 by seeing a Dr. Koopert, who was suggested by the respondent. Respondent’s reply was not to worry and that they would talk about it.

Thereafter petitioner claimed she went to Dr. Koopert when she began to bleed on December 3, 1972. He told her to go to Bernadette Falk Hospital, where she was taken by respondent, and where Dr. Koopert told her in respondent’s presence that she might be having an ectopic pregnancy and that she could miscarry, following which respondent took her home.

Thereafter petitioner saw the doctor every month in the company of respondent, until August 20, 1973 when she gave birth to Diane at Bernadette Falk Hospital. She was driven home from the hospital by the respondent three days later.

Petitioner claims respondent paid the hospital bill by giving her the money in cash (consisting of four bills from Bernadette Falk Hospital, dated as follows: May 19, 1973 — $100; June 15,1973 — $100; Aug. 21,1973 —$5; Aug. 22, 1973 —$340, tying in with bank money order of petitioner to Bernadette Falk Hospital for $100 dated June 9,1973).

Petitioner testified that she also paid the doctor’s bill from cash received by her from respondent (consisting of two receipts from Drs. Malaket and Koopert as follows: April 3,1973 — $100; July 12,1973 — $100; see, also, payment card of said doctors).

Petitioner testified that after her return from the hospital on August 23, 1973 she selected a baby carriage from Gertz’s Department Store, and gave respondent a card to see a particular sales person at the store who would advise him of the carriage selected (consisting of the sales person’s card and the purchase slip made out to the respondent for the purchase of the carriage on Aug. 30, 1973, just one week subsequent to the birth [1008] of the baby). (Italics, as well as all subsequent italics, is the c'ourf'S for emphasis.)

The petitioner testified that after the birth of the child respondent visited her until March 19, 1974, even while this case was pending, except for the period from November 16, 1978 to January 17, 1974. On January 17, 1974 the respondent telephoned her at 3:30 a.m., while drunk, and told her that he was sorry he had denied the baby and admitted that it is his child. He was still drunk at 4:00 a.m, when he came over and said he loved the baby and begged her forgiveness. He thereafter fell asleep on the couch with his coat on. The following morning at about 11:00 a.m., when sober, he repeated to petitioner what he had said the night before regarding the baby. He also gave petitioner $100. Thereafter respondent stayed in her home for one week during which time they continued to have sexual relations. He helped with the baby and gave petitioner money to go shopping.

Petitioner further alleged that on March 19, 1974, the last time she saw the respondent, he stayed overnight, and told her that he wanted to give her $35 per week for the baby and that he had lied to his attorney. She further stated that since respondent left her home on March 20, 1974, she has not seen him, but that he telepehoned her three times before the date of the commencement of this trial and stated that he could not afford $35 per week, and wanted to pay less. Petitioner claims she answered that she wanted more money.

Additional documentation submitted by petitioner includes: a photograph of respondent with her first child, Tara (not the child in question herein, namely Diane), showing respondent relaxing on the sofa with Tara in petitioner’s home; three greeting cards one red, one white and one blue, addressed to petitioner by respondent (one signed “love”) together with a business card of respondent with his signature thereon; a photocopy of a cashier’s check for $110.04 dated October 24,1973 payable to petitioner and enclosed in an envelope addressed by respondent to petitioner, in the alleged handwriting of the respondent.

In addition to said check, petitioner claimed that respondent had given her on the following dates since the birth of the baby the monetary sums of: (a) January 17,1974 — $100; (b) following week — $50; (c) February 19,1974 — $60; (d) week after— $100 during the time respondent lived in petitioner’s house.

[1009] In addition petitioner introduced into evidence various articles of clothing which respondent left in her apartment, some of which she testified had been there since the fall of 1972.

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