Chiappardi v. Chiappardi, No. 012 61-08 (Feb. 22, 1995)

1995 Conn. Super. Ct. 1326-J
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedFebruary 22, 1995
DocketNo. 012 61-08
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Chiappardi v. Chiappardi, No. 012 61-08 (Feb. 22, 1995), 1995 Conn. Super. Ct. 1326-J (Colo. Ct. App. 1995).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]MEMORANDUM OF DECISION This is an action returnable August 18, 1992 claiming a dissolution of marriage and other relief brought by the plaintiff wife against the defendant husband. The plaintiff filed an amended complaint under date of May 12, 1994. The only substantive change in the amended complaint was to allege the year of marriage as CT Page 1326-K 1982; otherwise said amended complaint is identical to the complaint dated July 22, 1992, originally filed in this action. The defendant filed an answer under date of September 18, 1992, which the court will treat as responsive to the plaintiff's amended complaint.

The plaintiff, whose date of birth is June 11, 1959, is presently 35 years of age. She appears to enjoy good health. The plaintiff is a high school graduate and also attended secretarial school for one year. She previously worked for GTE in Stamford. At the present time she works for Planned Parenthood in Norwalk as a receptionist/administrator. She works approximately 25-30 hours per week in order to accommodate her children's school hours. She earns $9.56 per hour. Her vocational talents appear to be somewhat limited, which will therefore limit her opportunity for earnings from employment. Fortunately, she is bilingual, speaking and reading both Spanish and English fluently.

The defendant, whose date of birth is October 30, 1948, is presently 46 years of age. The defendant was born and raised in Italy and then moved to Switzerland at the approximate age of 15. CT Page 1326-L The defendant's formal education is somewhat limited. Prior to coming to the United States in 1972 he worked in the hotel industry and as a result learned to speak and understand several languages. Although the defendant initially worked as a chef, his main occupation has been in landscaping, snow plowing and masonry work. The defendant appears to be in good health and is very muscular. Although the defendant claims he has a "bad back", this contention is unsubstantiated by either documentary or third party testimony. Based on the defendant's financial affidavit dated October 5, 1994, it appears to the court that the defendant works when work is available, but is not very aggressive in obtaining as much work as possible so as to enhance and increase his income. This court feels that the defendant's outgoing, gregarious personality, together with his vocational skills would cause the defendant to be more gainfully employed than the defendant is presently inclined to be. Thus, the defendant has a greater amount and source of income and also a greater opportunity for the future acquisition of capital assets and income than the plaintiff.

The relationship/union of the parties resulted in the birth of Giovanni Chiappardi, born December 1, 1981. Giovanni is presently CT Page 1326-M 13 years of age and attends the eighth grade at St. Aloysius School in New Canaan. Giovanni has resided exclusively with Mr. Chiappardi since August of 1992, approximately one month after the plaintiff brought the instant dissolution of marriage proceedings. Sister Peggy, principal at St. Aloysius, testified that Giovanni's grades were good until the school year 1992-93 in which there was a very marked decrease in his grades, going from A's and B's to B's and C's. This decrease in grades is the result of the conflict arising from the dissolution of marriage proceedings which has been thrust upon Giovanni. At the outset of the dissolution of marriage proceedings the defendant intensified his efforts to relate to and bond with Giovanni. The defendant has been successful in his efforts. However this is to the detriment of Giovanni, Maria Rosa Chiappardi, Giovanni's sister, and Ginnette Chiappardi.

This relationship/union also produced Maria Rosa Chiappardi, whose date of birth is April 24, 1985. At the present time she is almost nine years of age. Neither Giovanni nor Maria suffer from any physical infirmities and both appear to enjoy good health. Maria appears to be quiet, who longs for a sibling relationship with her brother Giovanni. However, she has been deprived of this CT Page 1326-N natural relationship by the defendant, and also at times by the plaintiff. Maria also attends St. Aloysius school and is in the fourth grade. She has had some difficulty with academics and requires extra help to attain average grades.

The parties were married on March 26, 1982, approximately ten years before the plaintiff instituted the instant dissolution of marriage proceedings. Giovanni, born on December 1, 1981, was initially named Mario Berrios, which is the maiden name of the plaintiff. Initially the defendant denied his parenthood of Giovanni and elected to disregard and deny young Mario Berrios. His name was changed to Giovanni Chiappardi shortly after the marriage of the parties. It is interesting to note that the reception incident to the marriage of the parties was celebrated as both a marriage reception and baptism reception for Giovanni.

The marriage of the parties was somewhat strained and the plaintiff separated from the defendant on at least two occasions prior to the plaintiff instituting the pending dissolution of marriage proceedings. The defendant dominated and controlled the plaintiff from the very outset. For the first five years of their CT Page 1326-O marriage the parties resided with the defendant's sister and her husband and an extended family. The plaintiff was not allowed to have free and unhindered contact with her family in the immediate vicinity. Ultimately the plaintiff was smothered by the defendant and his extended family. The defendant controlled the plaintiff in many respects including where she went, where she did not go, her friends and her spending. In fact the defendant required the plaintiff to account for all her spending.

The plaintiff testified that the marriage broke down for several reasons, including she felt that she was a single parent even though married, the defendant failed to support the children's education and activities, the defendant did not approve of the plaintiff's volunteer work, the defendant isolated the plaintiff from her family, and the defendant did not support the plaintiff's personal and/or professional endeavors. The defendant testified that prior to the institution of the instant dissolution of marriage proceedings the plaintiff was a good and loving wife and mother. However, subsequent to the institution of the instant dissolution of marriage proceedings, the defendant's attitude towards the plaintiff took a 180° turn for the worse. From July CT Page 1326-P 1992, the defendant obsessively pursued a personal vendetta against the plaintiff. This vendetta included accusations of illicit drug use by the plaintiff, promiscuous sexual activities by the plaintiff, voodoo-type behavior by the plaintiff, stealing of the defendant's money by the plaintiff, and alienation of the parties' son Giovanni from the plaintiff, depriving the plaintiff of the companionship and visitation of Giovanni. The defendant hired private detectives to follow the plaintiff and report on her doings in an effort to prove that the defendant was an unfit mother and was engaged in the use and/or sale of illegal drugs. Despite the defendant's extensive efforts, the defendant failed to prove that the plaintiff was involved in the use and/or sale of elicit drugs, that the plaintiff engaged in promiscuous sexual activities, that the plaintiff stole money from him and the plaintiff committed voodoo acts against him. Further, the plaintiff was not an unfit mother.

Plaintiff's conduct towards the defendant was less than exemplary and antagonistic. However, the court finds that her conduct was reactionary and borne of frustration precipitated by the defendant's continual attacks on her.

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