Bender v. Bender

386 A.2d 772, 282 Md. 525, 1978 Md. LEXIS 387
CourtCourt of Appeals of Maryland
DecidedMay 10, 1978
Docket[No. 152, September Term, 1977.]
StatusPublished
Cited by28 cases

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Bender v. Bender, 386 A.2d 772, 282 Md. 525, 1978 Md. LEXIS 387 (Md. 1978).

Opinion

Digges, J.,

delivered the opinion of the Court.

This is an appeal by Penelope Bender from portions of a decree which granted a divorce a vinculo matrimonii to her husband, Morton Bender. The decree entered by the Circuit Court for Montgomery County in addition denied Mrs. Bender’s prayer for a divorce a mensa et thoro, declined to grant her alimony, declared her husband the sole owner of all the furniture and antiques located at the marital home, and made certain other adjudications not here relevant regarding custody and support of the parties’ children, ownership of certain items of personal property, attorneys’ fees, and the like. Mrs. Bender noted a timely appeal to the Court of Special Appeals and prior to its consideration filed a petition for a writ of certiorari with this Court; we issued the writ. 1

The petitioner does not ask this Court to reverse the decree insofar as it (i) granted her husband a divorce a vinculo as a consequence of her adultery, and (ii) denied Mrs. Bender relief on her cross-bill based on allegations of her husband’s cruelty and constructive desertion. She does, however, strenuously attack the “fault” approach to alimony in this State, contending that her adulterous conduct after twenty years of *527 marriage should not preclude an award of alimony to her. This is particularly so, the wife asserts, since she is in need of reasonable support — never having worked outside the home and hence having no ability to earn an adequate living — and since her husband, with an amassed fortune of some twenty-four million dollars, could easily afford to provide it. Mrs. Bender asks as well that we depart from the established principle applied by the courts of this State in determining the ownership of personal property in a divorce action — that chattels acquired by purchase belong to the one who paid for them, absent proof that the owner divested himself of his property in them. We agree with Mrs. Bender that, contrary to the state of the law until today, a wife presumptively owns jointly with her husband furnishings purchased by either husband or wife for the use of the family at the marital home, without regard to whose money was expended in making the purchase; however, we are without authority to change the statutory provisions controlling the award of alimony, which, as interpreted in an unbroken line of decisions by this Court, permit such an award only when the spouse requesting it can establish that he or she has grounds sufficient to support a decree of divorce, either a mensa or a vinculo. We will thus remand this case for a determination of the petitioner’s interest in the marital furnishings in accordance with the principles shortly to be related, while affirming the decree in all other respects.

We need only add a few facts to those already alluded to in order to convey the flavor of the proceedings below before turning to an explanation of our determinations here. The parties were married in 1956, when Mrs. Bender was seventeen, and have five children, two of whom are still minors. The marriage was subject to “some friction and problems” prior to the events in 1976 which provided the husband a basis for filing this divorce suit. The parties ceased having sexual relations as early as September of 1975, and had twice discussed the possibility of divorce, once in 1969, at the wife’s suggestion, and again in 1975, this time at her husband’s initiation. Nothing came of these discussions, however, and in June of 1976 the husband obtained evidence, *528 through private investigators he had employed, of his wife’s adultery. In July he instituted this suit and in August physically removed his wife from their marital abode. The fact of Mrs. Bender’s adultery was never controverted, nor did the petitioner contradict Mr. Bender’s testimony that she had admitted to him in July, after being confronted with his knowledge of her infidelity, that she had been having an extramarital affair for two or three years. Mrs. Bender appears to have sought to justify her adulterous acts by asserting that her husband had become impotent; she also sought to prove that he had for many years subjected her to abusive treatment and foul language in public. As we have noted, however, the petitioner does not challenge the chancellor’s conclusion that the abusive language and physical altercations shown were not of sufficient magnitude to justify granting her an a mensa divorce based on either cruelty or constructive desertion.

In seeking an award of alimony, Mrs. Bender’s primary attack is upon the rule we enunciated in Flanagan v. Flanagan, 270 Md. 335, 341, 311 A. 2d 407, 411 (1973) — that in a divorce action based on a no-fault ground, an award of alimony to a party whose adultery or abandonment of the other constituted the sole cause for the demise of the marriage is normally an abuse of discretion. This, the petitioner contends, is a “socially undesirable” rule, since the destruction of the Benders’ marriage, as with most others, was not, “legal fictions notwithstanding,” due to specific faults on the part of either party, and since it inequitably permits one spouse to begin his separate life at the peak of his earning capacity while the other begins without a career and with no support. We preface our response to these contentions with the observation that Mrs. Bender’s attack on Flanagan is misplaced, since that decision dealt with the circumstances under which alimony could be awarded when, on no-fault grounds, either husband or wife would be entitled to obtain a divorce. Thus, even were Mrs. Bender to convince us that the Flanagan rule is not as “sensitive to societal needs and the exigencies of the case” as might be desired, it would be of no moment to her, since she fails to leap a higher hurdle: *529 Flanagan in no way mitigated — and in fact repeated — the rule that “a spouse’s right to obtain a divorce, either a vinculo or a mensa, is a requirement for the obtention of alimony — ergo, no right to divorce, no right to alimony.” Id. at 340 [410]; accord, Stein v. Stein, 251 Md. 300, 302, 247 A. 2d 266, 267 (1968) (citing cases); Wood v. Wood, 227 Md. 211, 218, 176 A. 2d 229, 233 (1961). Since the petitioner could not have been granted a divorce — and indeed does not here contend otherwise — either on culpatory or nonculpatory grounds, she simply may not have alimony.

Construing the petitioner’s argument as a request that we abrogate the rule that a spouse who is not entitled to a divorce is not entitled to alimony, we conclude we are powerless to do so. Mrs. Bender, in support of her plea for alimony, refers to the judicially-determined cause of the demise of her marriage — her adultery — as a “legal fiction,” and espouses the view that marriages break down not because of a particular fault on the part of one party, but because of a “myriad of subtle psychological pressures and anxieties created by both parties.” While this point of view cannot fail to evoke sympathy in some quarters, particularly in a case such as is revealed by the record before us, we cannot escape the conclusion that the petitioner’s views are being advocated in the wrong forum.

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