Badger v. Badger

224 S.W. 41, 204 Mo. App. 252, 1920 Mo. App. LEXIS 33
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedJune 14, 1920
StatusPublished
Cited by7 cases

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Badger v. Badger, 224 S.W. 41, 204 Mo. App. 252, 1920 Mo. App. LEXIS 33 (Mo. Ct. App. 1920).

Opinion

ELLISON, P. J.

On tlie 26th of March, 1919, plaintiff filed a bill in equity in ■ tbe circuit court of Bates county against ber husband whereby she seeks a decree “for the care, custody, control and managementP of their three minor- children, and for maintenance and support for herself. She prevailed at the trial and defend *254 ant appealed, as to the custody of the children. Support for herself seems not to have been pressed.

It appears that the parties were married in Greeley, Colorado, on the 8th of July, 1904, and that their parents lived there; that they have three children, two girls and one boy, the girls, M¡ary and Alice, twelve and ten years old respectively, and the boy Robert, eight years old. Robert became afflicted with what is called “diabetis insipidis.” He suffered much and was a constant and exacting care to his mother. She despaired of his life and from the mental and physical strain to which she was put in watching over.him, together with her other household duties, her strength weakened arid her health broke. Physicians pronounced her affliction to be neuresthenia, commonly referred to as nervous prostration.

His business was that of a civil engineer and in the summer of 1915 he Obtained employment at Storm Lake, Iowa. Plaintiff and the children followed. Her. nervous coridition not improving, still despondent over the deplorable condition of the little boy, they took him to Chicago to be placed in charge of specialists, but found no relief. Plaintiff herself was taken to a place in Des Moines, Iowa to a “Retreat,” for “rest cure.” Before this, one Ethel Colyer, who figures prominently in the case, had been employed by defendant to care for the children and she was left in charge of them while plaintiff was absent. During plaintiff’s absence defendant’s mother came on a visit from Greeley, and Mrs. Colyer left in a day or two. Some time afterwards his mother took Robert back to Greeley where he stayed with her; she was then a widow.

It appears from testimony in behalf of defendant, and it is doubtless true, that during the time he was at-home with her she gave evidence of acute nervous derangement and became abnormal in her concern for the afflicted boy. There was evidence tending to show that she threatened the life of herself and boy. There 'is much evidence tending to show this, and that her condition was such, at times, to justify one in thinking it *255 inadvisable to leave her alone with the children. Though it should be stated that defendant did frequently absent himself for several days at a time.

At any rate, plaintiff needed rest from the care of the children and they were taken to defendant’s mother in Greeley and she went to her father, Mr. Graham, and mother; he being', a man of independent living and consequence, residing on a large farm not far away. Here, it is clear, all the evidence considered, she was practically abandoned by defendant and the trial court was justified in finding that he never intended to live with her and had conceived the idea of robbing her of her children and putting them under the tutelage- of Mrs. Colyer .as “housekeeper.”

Mr. Graham received his daughter in his home, in December, 1917, and employed a nurse for her who attended her with such solicitude, seeing that she took gradually increasing exercise in the open air, that she found herself practically well again, and we think the trial court justified in finding that her health was restored.

Defendant himself testified that she was of unsound mental condition and that he' “turned her over to her parents in December, 1917, -with the understanding they would, care for her” and that, excepting thirty-five dollars, he never contributed thereto.

After her recovery she was anxious to bring the family .together and prevailed upon him to come to see her at her father’s in May, 1918, and endeavored to have him provide a home that she might take a mother’s place with her children. He refused and told her he did not care for her, stating too that'he did not think she was fully restored. He saw her again in July, 1918, when she besought him to consent that she might live with him and the children, but he refused. On her inquiry, he told her he intended to secure Mrs. Colyer to keep house and take care of the children.

It is evident that during all of this time he was contemplating installing Mrs. Colyer in his house to take *256 care of the children and that he was endeavoring to learn whether he conld get a divorce. H|e' asked plaintiff’s father if he had heard her speak of a divorce and ’offered to defray the expenses if she would procure one. He likewise advised with an ohi time friend, a lawyer, who discouraged him by telling him he had no cause.

While plaintiff was at her father’s and the children were at his mother’s, in Colorado, he determined on living in Rich Hill, Missouri, and engaged Mrs. Colyer to go there and take charge of a house he had rented, and while on one of his trips to Colorado, when he refused to live with plaintiff, she asked him if he intended to take the children to Rich Hill and put them in the keeping of Mrs. Colyer. His answer, though equivocal, showed that he had such intention and plaintiff thereupon brought an action in Colorado for maintenance, support and custody of the children. Though served with notice he got the children out of the State, took them to Rich Hill and installed them in the house with Mrs. Colyer in charge as housekeeper.

The trial court found that Mrs. Colyer was not morally fit to have the care and superintendence of the children. It was shown by undisputed evidence, and is conceded, that in 1913, she stopped at the house of a Mrs. G-age with a man named Krumvide and stayed all night, occupying the same room and representing herself to be his wife. Defendant attempts to palliate this • by saying that she was engaged to be married to Krumvide and calls it “an indiscretion.” But the fact is he was a married man and that his wife obtained a divorce from him for adultery with this woman and that the supposed “engagement” has not been carried out since the divorce.

It was, further' shown in the testimony of defendant himself, that on a trip either going to, or returning from, Storm Lake, Iowa, he and Mrs. Colyer staid all night at a hotel in Kansas City occupying adjoining rooms connected by a hath room in common. And it also appeared on testimony elicited from defendant, *257 that his house at Rich Hill was so, constructed that a person could go from his room to hers without passing through any other room. Mrs. C'olyer was not called by defendant as a witness; and while defendant was testifying on cross-examination he was asked whether he made “any examination of her history up there?” (,at Storm Lake). His response was that “I decline to answer” and the same response was made to the question whether he knew Krumvide.

We find the case of Wellesley v. Wellesley, 2 Bligh (N. S.) 124, bears- strong resemblance, in principle, to the one before us. There the mother on her death bed committed her three children (a daughter and two sons) to her two maiden sisters, requesting that they not let the father get possession of them.

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