Backes v. Catholic Family & Community Services

509 A.2d 283, 210 N.J. Super. 186
CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedNovember 4, 1985
StatusPublished
Cited by4 cases

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Backes v. Catholic Family & Community Services, 509 A.2d 283, 210 N.J. Super. 186 (N.J. Ct. App. 1985).

Opinion

210 N.J. Super. 186 (1985)
509 A.2d 283

JOHN J. BACKES, JR., PLAINTIFF,
v.
CATHOLIC FAMILY & COMMUNITY SERVICES AND THE OFFICE OF THE REGISTRAR OF VITAL STATISTICS OF THE STATE OF NEW JERSEY, DEFENDANTS.

Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division Passaic County.

November 4, 1985.

*187 Edward A. Genz, for plaintiff (Blankenhorn & Ragen, attorneys).

*188 Katherine M. Lordi for defendant Catholic Family & Community Services.

Roberto Alcazar, Dep. Atty. Gen., for defendant Registrar of Vital Statistics of State of New Jersey (Irwin I. Kimmelman, Atty. Gen.).

DWYER, J.S.C.

Subsequent to the decision set forth in the Appendix, attached hereto, the court conducted an evidentiary hearing on the question of "good cause."

Backes testified in support of his application. He is 35 years of age. He married Judith Backes on March 22, 1975. They have three children: two daughters, 8 and 7, and a son four-and-one-half years old.

Backes stated that he was adopted. He stated that his interest in information about his natural parents became important to him when his wife was pregnant with their first child. He testified that his interest in his natural parents increased over the years.

In September 1983, he contacted the Agency. In November 1983, he and his wife had a meeting with one of the staff and received a statement of the background of his natural parents without identifying details. (P-1). The statement identifies the ethnic, religious, and family background of each parent, the circumstances of his birth and the reasons given by his biological mother for placing him for adoption. The staff member reviewed it in detail with Backes and his wife. The staff worker advised him that if he had further questions to contact her.

Backes stated that he reviewed the statement. He testified that he wanted more information about his natural parents. He wanted something more than words.

He is a college graduate. He has had stable employment with his present employer for several years.

*189 Concerning his interview with Dr. Irvine Markowitz, M.D., an expert witness for the Agency, Backes stated that he discussed his background, his increasing anxiety and frustration in not getting information; and, he concluded with his impression of Dr. Markowitz. He said that he was a nice man but had a negative attitude toward the responses that Backes gave to the questions. He testified that he could not answer Dr. Markowitz's questions as to why he wanted to know more about his natural parents.

Backes further stated that he had not told his adoptive parents of his inquiry about his natural parents.

On cross examination he stated that he had lived with his adoptive parents until one-and-one-half years before he married at the age of 25. He knew from the age of four that he was adopted, when one of the family cousins of his adoptive parents told him.

He confirmed that he had made no contact with the Agency when his three children were born. He also confirmed that he had held progressively more responsible positions with his employer through the time of the hearing.

In respect to his adoptive parents, he testified that he was no longer a minor and did not need their permission to find out about his background.

He also testified that in 1977, in connection with his adoptive father being in Sloan-Kettering for treatment for a tumor, he heard his adoptive father say that he wished he had not trusted the adoption process. Backes also stated that the Backeses had adopted another child with whom he remained in contact and who was present at that conversation.

He further stated that he had not consulted doctors about anxieties, because he did not need counselling or medicines to resolve his problems.

He stated that his problem started after he got the statement, P-1, from the Agency. He wanted to know more — the *190 medical history, the history of both families, and his place of origin.

In response to questions by the Deputy Attorney General, he testified that one of his daughters had a heart murmur. But he further testified that the treating doctors do not regard the family history as important for purposes of treating her.

He further stated that he had discussed with his adopted brother his desire to know more of his past on several occasions. There is no indication that they are biological siblings. He testified that he did not want his life to go by without meeting his natural mother.

Judith Backes testified that she was with her husband when he received P-1. After he received it, she noticed changes in him. He became obsessed with it. He carried it with him. He changed from being an easy going person to one who was irritable and argumentative.

She further stated that he told her before marriage that he had been adopted. He renewed the subject when she was pregnant with their first child. After he received P-1, he changed. He went to an attorney so that someone would share the work with him. He never wanted counselling to solve any problems related to stress and anxiety.

Sharon Bell testified for Backes. She stated that she placed a child for adoption when she was 16. She is now married and has two sons, 9 and 11 years of age. She has been married for 15 years.

She stated that when her first son was born she had a personal crisis. She was in therapy for two months and worked out of it. She discussed her placing a child for adoption with her husband but not with her own mother.

She further stated that she felt that there was a large blank in her life. Her daughter's father was oriental and she felt that her daughter should know that.

*191 She stated that she had done a lot of investigation for a lot of people. Using the techniques she had learned, she was able to locate her child. She stated that she sent her daughter a letter to an address which she had obtained. She then described a telephone call that she received from her daughter in response to her letter. The daughter described her condition. She did not have her daughter meet her family. She went to the daughter. The daughter had no family, so she stayed with the daughter. She stated that they have had an ongoing relationship. She finds that she is at peace with herself.

On cross examination she stated that a friend who is a member of Alma asked her to testify in this case. She said that she is one of them, but has not joined the organization. She does investigation for adoptees.

Alma is for adoptees; she is not an adoptee. While they have their needs, she stated, her needs were different.

In response to questions from the Deputy Attorney General, she stated that her daughter had never undertaken any effort to locate her.

Michele Rabinowitz, Psy. D., testified as an expert for Backes. She has B.A. and M.S. degrees. She received a doctorate in psychology from Rutgers in 1979. She has been licensed as a psychologist in New Jersey since 1979. She is a consulting psychologist to school systems and maintains her own practice.

She examined Backes in her office in February 1985 for about one hour. She had read the opinion set forth in Part I, supra, interviewed him, and utilized 15 cards from the Thematic Aperception Test.

She indicated that following receipt of P-1, Backes stated he became more irritable and argumentative in his daily life, but he did not think that it interfered with his job performance.

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