A.U.B. v. E.L.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided May 7, 2024·No. A-0063-22·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-0063-22

A.U.B.,1 Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. E.L.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted April 17, 2024 – Decided May 7, 2024 Before Judges Currier, Firko, and Susswein.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Camden County, Docket No. FM-04-1307-20.

Weinberg Kaplan & Smith, PA, attorneys for appellant (David M. Lipshutz, on the briefs).

Zucker Steinberg & Wixted, PA, attorneys for respondent (David Warren Sufrin, on the brief).

1 We utilize the initials of the parties involved in this matter to protect their privacy and their child. R. 1:38-3(d)(3) and (13).

PER CURIAM Defendant E.L. appeals from the Family Part's June 27, 2022 judgment of divorce (JOD) awarding her former husband, plaintiff A.U.B., sole legal and physical custody of the parties' child, S.B., born in April 2016. The judge awarded defendant parenting time on alternate weekends; prohibited the maternal grandparents from having contact with the child; and ordered defendant to engage in therapy to address various issues, including her inability to resist her parents' influence.

The judge found defendant and her parents had attempted to alienate the child from plaintiff, repeatedly made decisions that were not in the child's best interests, and orchestrated a false weapons charge against plaintiff. In addition, defendant appeals from the August 12, 2022 order denying her motion for reconsideration insofar as it restricted the maternal grandparents' access to the child.

For the reasons that follow, we affirm the decision in the JOD granting plaintiff sole legal and physical custody of S.B. However, we remand to the Family Part to modify its August 12, 2022 order to clarify the prohibition against the maternal grandparents' contact with S.B. restricts defendant from allowing

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her parents to visit the child until her therapist provides the requisite opinion on her ability to resist their influence.

I.

We summarize the facts developed in the record. The parties married in 2014 in Virginia. They met in 2008 at an out-of-state drug recovery facility. Both parties have a history of serious substance abuse; plaintiff's sobriety dates back to 2001, and defendant's dates back to 2008. In addition to struggling with addiction, defendant has a history of traumatic events, which included being molested in kindergarten, raped while at boarding school, and being drugged and gang raped as an adult. When the parties met, defendant worked as a secretary at a university and obtained a bachelor's degree in corporate communications.

In 2013, plaintiff, who has a bachelor's degree in psychology, founded a substance use disorder treatment center. Defendant worked at the center as a therapist and later as plaintiff's executive assistant. After they got married, the parties lived out of state.

In August 2016, the parties and their infant child moved to New Jersey where plaintiff opened a treatment facility, which he sold two years later. In 2019 plaintiff began working for a substance abuse policy group, which required

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him to travel once or twice a week. Defendant was the child's primary caregiver during the parties' marriage.

Domestic Violence

The last week of January 2020, plaintiff left home for a business trip. He was scheduled to return on February 3, 2020. On January 28, 2020, defendant went to the police station seeking to obtain a temporary restraining order (TRO) against plaintiff. For reasons that are not entirely clear in the record, defendant did not initially intend to report that plaintiff sexually assaulted her, but to report there was a rifle and a gun box in the attic before, it turns out, she knew it was there. Three days later, defendant and her sister searched the attic and actually found the rifle. They videotaped the search. Defendant and her sister left the rifle in the attic, and defendant went away on vacation.

On February 3, 2020, defendant returned to the police station, accompanied by her sister and her mother, C.L., and sought a TRO, alleging plaintiff had sexually, physically, and emotionally abused her. Defendant stated during her police interview that she "faked" all her orgasms "100% of the time" during the parties' sexual relations, which plaintiff later countered negated her claims of rape. As a result of those disclosures, plaintiff was also charged criminally with a weapons offense and multiple sexual assault charges. That

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day, defendant obtained a TRO against plaintiff, which prohibited him from having any contact with her or the child, and barred plaintiff from the parties' home and the child's school. Defendant and her Florida treatment associates, who were also some of plaintiff's former colleagues, publicly posted the charges on social media.

At the final restraining order (FRO) hearing conducted three weeks later, defendant, who was the sole witness, testified about two incidents of rape and detailed episodes of physical and emotional abuse inflicted on her by plaintiff. After the close of the evidence, the judge awarded defendant an FRO against plaintiff and continued the restraints in the TRO. Plaintiff's motion for reconsideration was denied. We affirmed E.B. v. A.B., No. A-3241-20 (App. Div. Feb. 6, 2023).

In March 2020, a grand jury charged plaintiff with first-degree aggravated sexual assault, N.J.S.A. 2C:14-2(a). He was incarcerated pending his criminal trial. The next month, plaintiff pled guilty to a reduced charge of fourth -degree criminal coercion, N.J.S.A. 2C:13-5. He was sentenced to a three-year term of probation in accordance with the plea agreement and was released on the day of

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his sentencing.2 Plaintiff was never charged or convicted of any firearms violations, and the prosecutor ultimately returned the rifle to him.

Zoom Calls

While plaintiff was incarcerated, defendant and the child moved out of state to where the maternal grandparents resided. After he was released from incarceration in April 2020, plaintiff wanted to move back to the marital residence, but defendant refused his request, claiming she was only visiting her parents and would return to New Jersey. Consequently, defendant moved into a hotel and later to an apartment where he was residing at the time of the divorce trial.

Following his release from incarceration, plaintiff began having daily Zoom calls with the child, who was not yet four years old. Defendant initiated the Zoom calls due to the child's young age. Many of the Zoom calls were

2 On September 24, 2020, plaintiff moved to vacate his guilty plea, claiming he was "forced" to accept this plea because "[his] house was stolen, [his] child was kidnapped," the COVID-19 pandemic had begun, and a guilty plea would result in his immediate release. The trial court denied the motion. Plaintiff's motion for reconsideration of that order was also denied. Plaintiff appealed from both decisions, and we affirmed. State v. A.U.B., No. A-1942-20 (App. Div. Feb. 6, 2023).

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recorded by both parties. Conversations were also recorded between the parties and played at the divorce trial.

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