Amer Samman v. Heather Sharisse Steber

CourtCourt of Appeals of Virginia
DecidedMarch 15, 2005
Docket1577044
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA

Present: Chief Judge Fitzpatrick, Judge Humphreys and Senior Judge Willis Argued at Alexandria, Virginia

AMER SAMMAN MEMORANDUM OPINION∗ BY v. Record No. 1577-04-4 CHIEF JUDGE JOHANNA L. FITZPATRICK MARCH 15, 2005 HEATHER SHARISSE STEBER

FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF FAIRFAX COUNTY Leslie M. Alden, Judge

Peter M. Fitzner (Matthews, Snider, Norton & Fitzner, on brief), for appellant.

Edna Ruth Vincent (Sarah Louppe; Colten Cummins Watson & Vincent, on brief), for appellee.

Amer Samman (husband) contends the trial court erred in awarding sole custody of the

parties’ minor child to Heather Sharisse Steber (wife). Finding no error, we affirm.

BACKGROUND

When reviewing a trial court’s decision on appeal, we view the evidence in the light most favorable to the prevailing party, granting it the benefit of any reasonable inferences. That principle requires us to discard the evidence of the appellant which conflicts, either directly or inferentially, with the evidence presented by the appellee at trial.

Congdon v. Congdon, 40 Va. App. 255, 258, 578 S.E.2d 833, 835 (2003) (internal citations and

quotations omitted).

So viewed, the evidence established that husband and wife were married on January 2,

1994 and had one child, Z.S., who was born on June 22, 2002. The parties separated on

∗ Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication. November 19, 2003 when wife moved to Centerville, Tennessee with Z.S. Husband and Z.S. are

dual citizens of the United States and Syria.

Wife moved to Centerville, Tennessee because she feared her husband. Before the date

of separation, wife discovered husband had rented an apartment near the marital home and was

having an affair with a co-worker. There were allegations of physical and mental abuse by

husband toward wife. These culminated the night before she left for Tennessee when husband

threatened to take Z.S. to Syria and to move all the marital assets there. The threats continued

when husband took wife and Z.S. to the airport the next day and by telephone when wife was in

Tennessee. Once in Tennessee, wife notified the State Department pursuant to instructions on

their website to “flag” the passports of husband and Z.S. After a threatening phone call in

December 2003, wife obtained an order of protection against husband in Tennessee. However,

even after that order was issued, she allowed husband to visit Z.S. in her parents’ home

approximately five times between mid-January and March 20, 2004. At the March 20, 2004

visitation, husband accused wife of sexually abusing Z.S., an allegation he later acknowledged to

be false. Husband did not request any visitation after that day.

At trial, husband’s therapist, Dr. Mary Sara, described him as having an adjustment

disorder with depressed mood, and she referred him to anger management therapy. However, at

the time of trial she was unable to give a complete diagnosis of his mental health. When asked if

husband was fit to be with his son, Dr. Sara said that he was, but did not express any opinion

about custody.

Kathleen Ruckman, Esq., an employee of the National Center for Missing and Exploited

Children (Center), was qualified as an expert in the field of international child abductions. She

testified the Center had been involved in eight Syrian abduction cases, but had only effectuated

-2- one recovery. She also testified about a variety of measures that may help prevent an abduction

or facilitate a recovery.

The trial judge found as follows:

Let me say first that the case before the Court today is an initial custody case, and so technically, anyway, it is not a relocation case.

Nevertheless, I’m mindful and of course, guided by the revisions in 20-124.2(b) which requires the Court in appropriate circumstances to assure frequent and continuing contact with both parents. And of course it’s within that, that of a writing framework, that I have to determine what’s in the best interest of [Z.S.], and in doing so I consider all of the factors in 20-124.3.

Really there isn’t a lot of dispute really about the facts of the case. The difficulty in this case is the determination of what the undisputed facts really mean for [Z.S.’s] well being.

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Both parents have maintained, to the extent they’ve been able to in this contentious situation, a positive relationship with [Z.S.]. And while [husband] hasn’t seen [Z.S.] as much as he would like to have, [sic] I conclude from the evidence that the relationship he’s had with [Z.S.] has been a good one. I believe that both parents love [Z.S.]. While he’s only two years old, the evidence is clear that [wife] has been the primary care giver and therefore I think has accurately assessed and met the emotional and intellectual and physical needs of [Z.S.] to a greater extent than [husband] has. But I really don’t doubt that [husband] has the ability to meet the needs of [Z.S.] even though he’s not played an overwhelming role in [Z.S.’s] life so far.

[Wife] has, apparently from the evidence, has supported [sic], to the extent she’s been able to within the difficulties of this case, [Z.S.’s] contact with [husband]. And she has also worked to teach [Z.S.] about [husband’s] heritage and she’s promoted [husband’s] culture and the contact with [Z.S.]. [Husband] really hasn’t had a chance to do that under the circumstances of this case.

But the issue in this case really is the fact that [husband] has made, on more than one occasion, a threat to abduct [Z.S.], to remove him to the country of Syria, which is a country that is not a -3- signatory of the Hague Convention and is a country that does not observe U.S. law or U.S. Court orders with respect to custody.

And that’s the overriding issue in the case, what is the significance of those threats that [husband] admits that he made.

The threats to abduct are manifestations of anger. [Husband’s] brother acknowledged that [husband] has an anger problem, his therapist acknowledged it, he, I believe, acknowledges it. I think he understands he has a problem with it. He’s seeing both a counselor for it as well as a specialist in anger management. But, clearly, [husband] has an inability to control his anger and his impulses and it’s resulted in his making the threats and it gives the Court concern that it may result also in his actual carrying out of the threats.

I was particularly struck by Dr. Sara’s testimony that she has not made a diagnosis regarding [husband’s] psychological health, his personality. And that concerns me greatly. I specifically asked her about it and she equivocated in the answer, and I wasn’t sure whether she simply doesn’t know or wasn’t prepared to give the testimony. But in any event, my conclusion from that is that she is unsure about the status of [husband’s] mental health. And the Court is accordingly unsure.

The trial court ordered sole custody to wife, with twice monthly, supervised visitation, at

alternating locations. Husband was also ordered to surrender his and Z.S.’s passports, enjoined

from obtaining duplicates or replacements, and required to post a $75,000 cash bond. He appeals

from that ruling.

ANALYSIS

I.

Husband first contends that the trial court erred by failing to treat Z.S.’s custody

determination as a relocation case. We agree with the trial court that this case is an initial

custody determination rather than a relocation issue. While noting that the case was “an initial

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