Ameena Aamer v. Sharief Youssef

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided June 19, 2017·No. 75378-9·Unpublished

Opinion

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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION ONE

In the Matter of the Marriage of ) No. 75378-9-1 )

AMEENA AAMER, )

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Respondent, )

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and )

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SHARIEF YOUSSEF, ) UNPUBLISHED OPINION )

Appellant. ) FILED: June 19, 2017 )

VERELLEN, C.J. — Sharief Youssef appeals the parenting plan entered in proceedings dissolving his marriage to Ameena Aamer. He contends the court abused its discretion in adopting a court-appointed expert's recommendations because other experts testified that the expert's underlying report was unreliable, incomplete, and culturally biased. Because we defer to the trial court on matters relating to the weight and persuasiveness of expert testimony and because the court did not abuse its discretion in any event, we affirm.

FACTS

Ameena Aamer and Youssef married in June 2014 and separated three months later. They have a daughter, H.Y., born in March 2015. Aamer and Youssef are both practicing Muslims.

and submit a written report to the court. The order described the report's requirements as follows:

The parenting evaluator shall investigate and report factual information to the court concerning parenting arrangements for the child. The parenting evaluator may make recommendations based upon an independent investigation regarding the best interests of the child.

The parenting evaluator shall make a full and complete written report to the court . . . . This report shall include recommendations and bases for those recommendations.

Issues ordered to investigate and report:

All issues relating to development of a parenting plan A recommended (final) parenting schedule [1]

On March 14, 2016, Dr. Hedrick issued her report, which the court later admitted at trial. The report stated that Dr. Hedrick interviewed Aamer and Youssef for roughly 3.5 hours apiece and observed each of them with H.Y. for one hour. She spoke with Youssef's former therapist, Salma Albugidieri, H.Y.'s physician, Dobrina Okorn, and Shaker Alsayed, an imam who consulted with Youssef regarding several of his marriages. Dr. Hedrick also administered psychological tests and questionnaires to Youssef and Aamer.

The report summarized the parties' brief marriage and their versions of what took place during the marriage. Dr. Hedrick quoted Aamer's recollection of the wedding, honeymoon, and early days of the marriage:

After the ceremony he said, "I haven't booked your honeymoon ticket." He had only booked his. . . . We went to Turkey and there were no hotel reservations. He would videotape people while he was dealing with them. ... Something didn't feel right. Sex didn't seem genuine—it was like he was reading from a manual. . . . In Maryland, he didn't seem interested. ... I got the sense he was forced to marry me. I thought

1 Clerk's Papers(CP)at 526.

something was wrong with me. He wouldn't go forward with sex unless I initiated it. ... It was as if he was obligated. ... He would blame me for the pregnancy. . . . He signed up to take four courses on random things.

There was no time to do anything because he wouldn't get home until 9-

9:30 p.m. He was doing it to stay away.[2]

Youssef remembered the honeymoon more idyllically and described the early relationship as a "happy relationship with only two arguments."3 The report recounted an incident during which the couple argued over rent money and Aamer decided to go stay with her parents. According to Aamer, Youssef called her after the argument and said, "I need a detailed email of what you've done, what you've said." Youssef then went to Aamer's parents' house and demanded that Aamer leave with him. Aamer said, "No."5 When Youssef persisted, her father threatened to call the police.

Shortly after this incident, Aamer went to Youssef's parents and talked to his father. Youssef's father then talked to Youssef in private. According to Aamer, Youssef

came out furious. He took me to the basement, pulled me by the hand.

He was forcing a kiss on me and said, "Let's pray." Then he said;"Who did you talk to today[?] [Y]ou're a liar." I reached for my phone and he took it away. He called his father and said, "I hugged her like you said."

His dad came and they had an argument.... I didn't feel safe spending the night. His father told him "[Y]ou have no right to control her money in any way.". . . I didn't feel safe and didn't know who I was dealing with. I was scared. I decided to go to Pittsburgh.[61

Youssef denied grabbing Aamer and said he took her phone accidentally. He claimed she had agreed to share rent and to not include family in their financial discussions.

2 CP at 804.

3 Id.

4 Id.

5 Id.

6 CP at 804-05.

After the rent incident, Aamer, who was pregnant with H.Y., left with her parents for Seattle. According to Youssef, Aamer refused to answer his calls or communicate with him about the pregnancy. Three months later, Aamer filed for divorce. A few months after that, she gave birth to H.Y.

Youssef immediately received access to H.Y., starting with two hours a day and expanding to three eight-hour visits per week after he moved to Seattle.

In summarizing her interviews and observations, Dr. Hedrick stated that both parents demonstrated positive interactions with H.Y. She described Aamer as "cheerful,""warm and likeable."7 She described Youssef as "somewhat socially awkward, deferential, and guarded. He appeared to routinely minimize information that he perceived would reflect badly on him."8 His laiffect was contained" and he sometimes answered questions with "tedious detail" and "evasiveness."8 The parents' psychological test results were mostly near the norm. Youssef exhibited some defensiveness, shyness, and social avoidance while Aamer exhibited some suspiciousness, alienation, and preoccupation with death or suicide. Dr. Hedrick noted that Aamer's preoccupation with death or suicide appeared to arise from her Muslim beliefs about the afterlife, and her suspiciousness and alienation "appeared to be strictly related to issues around her divorce."10 The report also summarized Dr. Hedrick's interviews with collateral contacts.

Salma Abugideiri, Youssef's therapist, said Youssef came to see her in 2014 "after two

7 CP at 806.

8 Id.

9 Id.

10 CP at 807.

previous marriages. ... There had been two bad break ups and he had been suffering previously from depression characterized by negative cognitions."11 Youssef"was taking classes and working but he was focused on negative cognitions. . . . He tended to catastrophize and had paranoid Thoughts arising out of trust issues related to the divorces."12 Youssef described his first wife as "immature and dependent. He felt they didn't connect intellectually."13 Youssef subsequently received treatment for depression in 2007 and 2008. He called off his second marriage in 2009, and the bride's parents sued him. He suffered depression again and took antidepressants.

Youssef told Abugideiri that Aamer "tended to shut down" and that he reached out to her after the cell phone incident "but there was no communication."14 After they separated, Youssef was "terrified that he was going to lose this child. Because of his fear and because he had no parenting skills and minimal relationship skills, he started taking classes."15 Youssef was committed to treatment and "open to feedback and to working on himself."16 H.Y.'s physician, Dr. Okorn, told Dr. Hedrick she had no concerns about either parent. She noted, however, that Youssef had "a reputation for being pushy about getting records."17

11 CP at 808.

12 Id.

13 Id.

14 Id.

15 Id.

16 CP at 809.

17 Id.

Imam Shaker Alsayed counseled Youssef and his first wife for 10 months.

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