ALAN DICKSTEIN VS. CATHERINE GOLFINOPOULOS (FD-02-0247-12, BERGEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided December 16, 2021·No. A-2491-19·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-2491-19

ALAN DICKSTEIN, Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. CATHERINE GOLFINOPOULOS,

Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted October 25, 2021 – Decided December 16, 2021 Before Judges Messano and Enright.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Bergen County, Docket No. FD-02-0247-12.

Catherine Golfinopoulos, appellant pro se.

Bremer Buckner, LLC, attorneys for respondent (Joshua T. Buckner and Keri L. Greene, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

Defendant Catherine Golfinopoulos appeals from certain paragraphs of a January 23, 2020 non-dissolution order. We affirm in part, and vacate and remand in part.

Plaintiff Alan Dickstein and defendant were never married but are the parents of a ten-year-old daughter, Ada.1 Throughout Ada's life, the parties have engaged in contentious motion practice regarding custody, parenting time and child support issues. In August 2017, the parties entered into a consent order, wherein they designated a Parent Coordinator (PC) and agreed that

[i]n the event of a dispute between the parties, the issue shall be submitted to [the PC] for resolution. If either party does not accept the recommendation, that party shall have the right to submit the matter to court for resolution. If the court agrees with [the PC's]

recommendation, then the objecting party shall be obligated to pay [the PC's] fees and the other party's reasonable counsel fees associated with the issue presented.

Plaintiff moved before the court in August 2019, requesting that defendant be compelled to comply with the PC's recommendations that she: attend individual therapy and provide the name of the therapist; bring Ada to the therapist recommended by the PC; take Ada to her athletic activities; reimburse

1 We employ a pseudonym for the parties' daughter to protect her privacy.

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plaintiff $79.79 for her share of Ada's expenses; and adhere to Ada's summer camp schedule. Plaintiff also requested an award of counsel fees and costs. Defendant cross-moved to modify the consent order to remove and replace the PC. On October 16, 2019, the judge entered an order partially addressing the parties' cross-applications. The judge directed the PC to continue in his role pending further order and that Ada was "to be taken to all her sporting events regardless of whose parenting time it is."

On November 1, 2019, the judge entered a supplemental order regarding the parties' remaining issues. He ordered defendant to engage in individual therapy and contact the PC "to make arrangements to become current on the fees that she owe[d] him." Additionally, the judge denied plaintiff's request for reimbursement of defendant's share of Ada's expenses, deeming the amount sought to be "de minimis." Further, the judge denied each party's request for a counsel fees award, finding both parties failed to submit a certification of services with their initial filings, contrary to the Rules of Court. Defendant does not appeal from either the October 16 or November 1 orders.

On December 3, 2019, defendant filed a motion for reconsideration, again seeking the removal of the existing PC, and newly alleging he made

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inappropriate remarks toward her.2 Further, she asked that she be permitted to enjoy vacation parenting time from December 26, 2019 through January 2, 2020, and requested that plaintiff's attorney be prohibited from coaching Ada in soccer. Notably, she did not challenge the provision in the November 1 order compelling her to participate in individual therapy.

On January 9, 2020, plaintiff filed a cross-motion seeking, in part:

enforcement of the November 1 order, requiring defendant to engage in individual therapy; reimbursement for defendant's share of Ada's expenses totaling $848.50; and make-up parenting time, due to defendant having taken vacation time with Ada between December 26, 2019 and January 2, 2020, over his objection and contrary to the PC's recommendations.3 Plaintiff also

2 Defendant's December 3 motion was framed as seeking reconsideration of the November 1 order permitting the existing PC to continue in his role. But it was the October 16 order that directed the PC to remain in his position, as noted by the judge in his November 1 order. Thus, defendant's reconsideration motion appears to have been untimely filed. See Rule 4:49-2 (Courts may reconsider final judgments or orders within twenty days of entry). Nonetheless, when her motion was heard on January 16, 2020, the judge confirmed he would not "summarily dismiss the [motion] because it may have been filed a day or two out of time." 3 In July 2018, the PC issued a recommendation that "going forward, vacation time shall, under no circumstances, be [three] weekends in a row. Thus, vacation time shall either commence on the Friday of that person's weekend through the following Friday, or will commence on Monday after the other part[y]'s

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requested an award of counsel fees and costs associated with his previous and current motions.

In anticipation of argument on January 16, 2020, defendant sent letters directly to the court, contending plaintiff's cross-motion papers were late and should not be considered. Plaintiff's attorney countered that because the parties' non-dissolution motions were "summary in nature" and defendant's prior application from 2019 had been considered without adhering to deadlines she now sought to impose, plaintiff's cross-motion should be considered. Further, plaintiff's attorney offered to accept a reply certification from defendant up to the day before argument.

When argument commenced on January 16, the judge noted defendant's "attorney had called the [c]ourt . . . this week and seemed to be surprised that [defendant] had been sending letters to the [c]ourt on [her] own." After confirming defendant was appearing pro se for the proceeding, the judge inquired, "other than what's in your paperwork, do you want to add anything for my consideration, ma'am?" At no time during oral argument did defendant seek

weekend, ending on the following Monday." In November 2019, the PC wrote to the parties, reiterating his recommendation from July 2018 and advising defendant's proposed vacation from December 26, 2019 to January 2, 2020 was "unacceptable." The PC issued a recommendation that defendant rearrange her planned vacation to start on December 30, 2019 and continue to January 6, 2020.

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a postponement of the hearing, ask to file a reply certification, or raise the issue of timeliness regarding plaintiff's cross-motion.

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