Adoption of T.A.M. ex rel. J.M.J. v. L.A.M.

791 N.W.2d 573, 2010 Minn. App. LEXIS 175, 2010 WL 5071361
CourtCourt of Appeals of Minnesota
DecidedDecember 14, 2010
DocketNo. A10-736
StatusPublished
Cited by17 cases

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Adoption of T.A.M. ex rel. J.M.J. v. L.A.M., 791 N.W.2d 573, 2010 Minn. App. LEXIS 175, 2010 WL 5071361 (Mich. Ct. App. 2010).

Opinions

OPINION

ROSS, Judge.

The two legal issues in this same-sex adoption appeal arise from an evolving relationship between two women, two men, and two little girls. The women were involved in a lesbian relationship when one of them arranged to conceive a child with a male friend. They conceived twin girls whom they planned to be adopted by the woman’s same-sex partner as the girls’ “second parent.” Soon after the birth and adoptions, the two women separated. The natural mother years later met and married a man and moved the district court to vacate the adoptions, contending that fraud infected the adoptions and that [576]*576Minnesota law does not authorize unmarried second-parent same-sex adoption. The district court deemed the legal argument to be both unfounded and untimely, so it dismissed the motion and severely sanctioned the natural mother and her attorney by ordering them to pay attorney fees. Because the natural mother’s argument on appeal fails to challenge the district court’s untimeliness basis for dismissing her motion, we affirm the dismissal on that basis only. And although the motion’s legal proposition that Minnesota law does not authorize second-parent adoption by unmarried persons has arguable merit and cannot be a basis for a sanction, we nevertheless affirm the sanctions because the sanctions also rested on proper bases, including the unexcused tardiness of the natural mother’s motion filed eight years after the adoptions.

FACTS

J.M.J. and L.A.M. began a lesbian relationship in 1995 and later cohabited. In 2000, J.M.J. privately arranged with J.L., her former boyfriend, to conceive a child, with J.L. relinquishing his parental rights and having no parental obligations.

J.M.J. became pregnant as planned and gave birth to twin girls in July 2001. She was still living with L.A.M., who wanted to adopt the twins and serve as J.M.J.⅛ “co-parent.” A month after the twins’ birth, J.L. consented in writing to L.A.M.’s adoptions and to the termination of his parental rights as the natural father, and J.M.J. supportively signed L.A.M.’s adoption petitions.

At the September 2001 adoption hearing, J.M.J. expressly supported L.A.M.’s adoption of her daughters and stated that she understood its legal permanency:

Q. Do you understand that if your petition is approved that [L.A.M.] will be a legal parent of these children and that that will continue even if you and [L.A.M.] do not continue to be in a domestic-partner relationship together?
A. Yes, I do.
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Q. So do you understand, if your relationship were to end, either one of you could petition for child custody and either one of you could petition for child support?
A. Yes, I do.

The district court granted the adoptions, terminating J.L.’s parental rights and conferring parental rights to L.A.M. without extinguishing J.M. J.’s parental rights.

J.M.J. and L.A.M.’s relationship ended very soon after the adoptions. The pan-separated in 2002, and they began a still-continuing series of legal squabbles over custody, parenting time, and child support.

In the meantime, J.L., who is not a party to this dispute, maintained a relationship with the twins, even referring to them as “my children” in a recent affidavit. J.L. also affirmed that he had been the twins’ daily childcare provider during their first year, participated in their birthday celebrations, maintained rooms for them in his house for sleepovers, and involved his own family in their lives. J.M.J. eventually married a man (not J.L.), who is also not a party to this dispute. J.M.J. moved to Arizona with her husband, but she maintained her home in Minnesota to spend her parenting time with the twins.

In April 2009, J.M.J. moved the district court to vacate L.A.M.’s adoptions. She maintained that Minnesota statutes do not authorize adoptions either by same-sex couples or by unmarried persons regardless of gender. She also maintained that the twins’ adoptions had resulted from a material factual error and fraud, specifically regarding the method of their conception. The district court denied J.M.J.’s [577]*577motion challenging the adoptions’ validity. It deemed J.M.J.’s motion to be untimely under the applicable procedural rules, and it also deemed J.MJ.’s statutory argument to be legally unfounded. It issued sanctions against J.M.J. and her attorney requiring them to pay L.A.M. about $9,500 in attorney fees for bringing the motion, which the district court deemed to be untimely and substantively unfounded.

This appeal follows.

ISSUES

I. Did the district court properly deny J.M.J.’s motion to vacate L.A.M.’s adoptions?

II. Did the district court abuse its discretion by sanctioning J.M.J. and her attorney for bringing her motion to vacate L.A.M.’s adoptions?

ANALYSIS

J.M.J. challenges the district court’s denial of her motion to vacate the twins’ adoptions and its order sanctioning her and her attorney for bringing the motion. We address both challenges.

I

We first address J.MJ.’s appeal of the district court’s denial of her motion to vacate, which was based in part on its determination that Minnesota law authorizes so-called “second-parent,” same-sex adoptions. Both parties recognize that the issue is one of first impression but contend that Minnesota statutes plainly answer whether second-parent, same-sex adoption is allowed (J.M.J. insists that the statutes prohibit same-sex adoption and L.A.M. insists that the statutes authorize same-sex adoption). And both parties urge us to decide the appeal on that ultimate issue: the lawfulness or unlawfulness of second-parent, same-sex adoption. But because J.M.J. has failed to challenge the district court’s procedural ground for rejecting her motion, we do not reach the substance of her challenge.

The district court rejected J.MJ.’s challenge to the validity of L.A.M.’s adoptions of J.M.J.’s twin daughters on multiple, independent grounds, including untimeliness. The district court held that J.M.J.’s motion was procedurally barred because J.M.J. failed to comply with rule 47.02 of the Minnesota Rules of Adoption Procedure, which establishes a 90-day post-adoption deadline for a party to move to void an adoption. It recognized that rule 47.02 was enacted after L.A.M.’s adoptions but noted that J.MJ.’s motion was also tardy under the longer, pre-existing general deadline of rule 60.02 of the Minnesota Rules of Civil Procedure. J.MJ.’s brief on appeal chiefly questions the district court’s secondary conclusion that Minnesota law allows second-parent, same-sex adoption, but it completely ignores the district court’s primary conclusion that J.M.J.’s motion does not survive the deadline imposed by the rules. Neither her statement of the case nor her briefing to this court even mentions the rules that the district court expressly applied to dispose of her motion.

That J.M.J. failed to challenge this independent, procedural basis of the district court’s rejection of her motion to vacate L.A.M.’s adoptions is fatal to her appeal. Appellate courts generally decide only issues that have been argued on appeal. Melina v. Chaplin, 327 N.W.2d 19, 20 (Minn.1982). In some cases, we might apply our discretion to decide unchallenged matters sua sponte,

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