Yurasek v. Kesala CA1/2

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedDecember 2, 2020
DocketA158859
StatusUnpublished

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Filed 12/2/20 Yurasek v. Kesala CA1/2 NOT TO BE PUBLISHED IN OFFICIAL REPORTS California Rules of Court, rule 8.1115(a), prohibits courts and parties from citing or relying on opinions not certified for publication or ordered published, except as specified by rule 8.1115(b). This opinion has not been certified for publication or ordered published for purposes of rule 8.1115.

IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA

FIRST APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION TWO

JASON YURASEK, Petitioner, Appellant and Cross-Respondent, A158859

v. (San Francisco County BOHDANNA KESALA, Super. Ct. No. FDI-12-778342) Respondent, Respondent and Cross-Appellant.

Jason Yurasek, as guardian ad litem for his three sons, sought a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) against his ex-wife Bohdanna Kesala. Following seven days of trial, the court entered a DVRO, and Kesala appeals, contending that the DVRO cannot stand for four separate reasons: (1) the trial court erroneously applied the law, and the DVRO is (2) not supported by substantial evidence, (3) violates due process, and (4) is overbroad. Kesala also asserts error in the exclusion of one item of evidence. We conclude none of Kesala’s arguments has merit, and thus affirm the DVRO. In the course of trial, Kesala filed a request for attorney fees, seeking $150,000. The trial court awarded her $80,000, the amount involved to contest the change in custody dispute between the parties. Yurasek appeals

1 that order, contending it is not supported by the Family Code and is against public policy. We disagree, and thus affirm that order as well. BACKGROUND The General Setting Yurasek and Kesala were married in 1994 and divorced in 2012. They have three boys, S. (born in 2004), O. (born in 2007), and L. (born in 2008). All three children testified at the 2019 trial, at which time they were 14, 12, and 10, giving testimony, we note, that the trial court expressly found to be “credible.” Yurasek and Kesala are both well educated professionals. Yurasek is the general counsel at a social media company. And Kesala has Bachelor of Science and Master of Fine Arts degrees, and currently earns a significant salary running the global licensing program at a university. Yurasek and Kesala separated in 2012, and in November of that year Yurasek filed a petition for dissolution. Working with Deepa Pulipati of the San Francisco Family Court Services, Yurasek and Kesala resolved the custody issue through mediation. And in 2014, the court entered a final judgment of dissolution providing for support and shared custody of the minor children—shared custody that remained the status until the 2019 trial here. According to the register of actions, there were no further contested proceedings relating to the dissolution of the marriage until 2017.1 But while there apparently were no issues necessitating court involvement, there were issues in the relationship, issues caused by various incidents where Kesala engaged in physical contact with the children. For example, in July 2014,

In 2016 the trial court entered a stipulation and order 1

modifying child support.

2 Kesala grabbed S. by the shirt and twisted it, leaving an abrasive burn on his neck and shoulder, and in March 2018, she grabbed S. around the upper neck, leaving visible marks on his face. As to O., one time Kesala slammed his finger in a shower door, causing his nail to fall off; another time, she hit him in the back, leaving what was described as a “five star” mark. As 14-year-old S. described the incidents, there were “just random times when she’s mad or she can’t handle herself,” and “[y]ou never know when that’s going to happen.” Or as 12-year-old O. put it, “my mom can get really mad really easily,” and “she starts arguments very quickly.” In an incident Yurasek describes as “particularly troubling,” on an outing to buy a Christmas tree, Kesala left the boys unattended in a running car in the middle of a busy intersection to confront “four or five adult males wearing football jerseys and carrying dixie cups of beer” whom she felt were obstructing the intersection. Another driver stopped to intervene, and the men went away, but not before throwing a cup of beer that hit Kesala and one of the boys. When Yurasek learned of the incident, he told Kesala “you need to call the police”; she responded, “I can’t call the police because if I call the police they will arrest me because I punched him first.” Incidents with the children caused Yurasek concern over Kesala’s self- control and the well-being of the children. Yurasek attempted to address the concerns with her, but her fundamental response was to deny she had engaged in any abusive conduct with the children, and to cast blame on others, including Yurasek or the children. As Yurasek would put it at trial, “Whenever confronted with anything, she would always say it didn’t happen. I didn’t do it.” Yurasek contacted Ms. Pulipati, the Family Court Services mediator who, as noted, had negotiated the custody aspect of the dissolution. She was

3 unable to assist, and told Yurasek he would need “to get a private person,” that there was no “open matter” at the court. In October 2016, following an incident where Kesala had hit L. with a shoe, Yurasek was referred to Dr. Charles Brinamen, a family psychologist. Dr. Brinamen began working with the family, including regularly meeting with Yurasek and Kesala, in the course of which he counseled the parents against being physical with the children. In March 2018, after the incident in which Kesala grabbed S. by the neck, Yurasek went to Dr. Brinamen to, in Yurasek’s words, figure out “how are we going to stop this from happening again, and how can we make sure the kids have the ability to leave if their mom is losing it.” Kesala promised Dr. Brinamen that she would call Yurasek “when she was feeling overwhelmed,” and that the children could call Yurasek if “they were uncomfortable at their Mom’s” and the children could go to his house earlier than planned. And Yurasek agreed that if he were called on to take custody of the children from Kesala in these situations, he would not “use it against her.” Then came March 27, 2019. The March 27, 2019 Incident On the afternoon of March 27, a Wednesday, the boys were at Kesala’s house after school. Kesala went upstairs to her bedroom with the door closed to work, leaving the boys downstairs. L. and S. began arguing about a piece of cake and L. told S. he was going to go to his room. They both ran upstairs and shortly thereafter came back down, with S. sitting at the dining room table. L. pushed S., and S. may have tickled L. As O. described it, Kesala “got really mad” and “stumbled downstairs” and approached S. without pausing to give the boys the opportunity to speak.

4 She “like skip hops or leaps” at S., and grabs his face “really, really hard . . . with both of her hands” and pushes him “back . . . towards the corner of the room” about 10 feet away, holding his “face the entire time,” yelling “why do you have to hit your brothers?” S. was scared, thinking, “I want to get the hell out of here,” and protested, “mom, I didn’t do anything.” Kesala grabbed S.’s phone and “slammed it” on the dining room table, “started screaming at S. more,” “shoved his face into the chair,” and hit him with her fist, saying “this is what you do to your brothers. This is what you do, you hit them.” She yelled in S.’s ear “as close as possible,” causing S. to fall off the chair onto the floor and, while still grabbing his face, telling him, “you’re not feeling pain. This is not pain.” Kesala then grabbed S.’s arm and yanked him off the floor, yelling “why aren’t you looking at me, I’m your mother.” She then grabbed S. by the face again, scratching his chin, and pulled him to the stairs. S. went to his room and started crying, and Kesala “busted open” the door and began screaming about how S.

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