BARCLAY, J.
Plaintiff was the wife of Gustave Winter. She sues on a certificate of membership, in the nature of a policy of insurance for $2,000, issued by the Supreme Lodge, Knights of Pythias of the World. The latter is a fraternal society, incorporated under an act of Congress. The branch or department of the society which conducts the business of insurance is called the “endowment rank.” It is managed by a board of control, which deals with the insured members through branches or subdivisions called “sections.” The laws, rules and regulations of the defendant require monthly payments to be made upon his certificate by each holder. These installments in the nature of premiums or dues are payable to the secretary of the section to which the member belongs and are remitted by him to the fiscal officer of the supreme lodge or of [6]*6the hoard of control. The monthly payments of the insured are due on the first day of each month without other notice. A failure of the insured to make the proper payment on or before the tenth day of any month subjects the delinquent member to a forfeiture of his certificate or of his interest therein, unless he be reinstated .afterwards upon conditions which need not be recited.
Another feature of the regulations of the society to be noted concerns the proof of death. On that point the by-laws of the society, in force at the time when plaintiff’s claim was presented, provide as follows:
“Section 1. The proof of death shall in all eases be made by the beneficiary or beneficiaries on blank forms to be furnished by the board of control, and shall contain affidavits of the attending physician or physicians, the undertaker who officiated, the master of finance as to standing of deceased in the subordinate lodge at the time of death; and from such other person or persons as may be required; affidavits to be made before the officer authorized to take affidavits, and such authority must be certified to by the clerk of a court of record, or other competent authority, under seal.
“Section 2. All necessary legal papers required, in order to secure the proper payment of benefits, must also be furnished by the beneficiary or beneficiaries, and shall be forwarded with the proof of death to the board of control by the secretary of the section. ’ ’
The certificate which Winter had in the endowment rank was issued in 1885 upon surrender of an older certificate in a different class, taken by him in 1879. He paid all required dues and assessments thereon until and including January, 1894. A payment was after-wards made on his account in February, of that year, which kept the certificate in force to March 10, 1894, after which time it was contended by defendant that the certificate became forfeited under the by-laws of the order. That contention will be- conceded for the púr[7]*7poses of this appeal only, subject to the important qualification which is to be discussed in the course of this-opinion, the gist of which qualification is found in plaintiff’s claim that Winter died before March 10, 1894.
The pleadings require little notice. The petition counts upon the certificate (expressed to be payable to plaintiff), compliance of the insured with the laws and rules of defendant in respect of-payments, etc., and the death of the insured on or about January 18, 1894. It further alleges due notice and proof of death given to defendant and makes an offer to surrender the certificate on payment of the amount due, $2,000.
The answer, after the admission of formal allegations and of the issue of the certificate, pleads certain laws already mentioned governing the order and it charges that the certificate has become void for failure of the insured to pay the dues thereon after the month of. February, 1894. It sets up as further defenses that no notice of death or proofs of loss were given to defendant within a reasonable time after the alleged death, and that said proofs were not tendered until shortly before this suit, in 1901.
The reply of plaintiff alleged the facts which are claimed to constitute a waiver by defendant of the notice and proofs of loss. These facts will be shown in the course of the opinion.
The trial was had with the aid of a jury.
At the opening of the trial it was admitted that Winter was in good standing in the endowment rank of defendant until March 10, 1894; that nothing was paid oh account of his certificate after that date.
The certificate was introduced in evidence without objection.
Plaintiff’s case in substance is as follows:
Winter was a tailor. January 18, 1894, about two o ’clock p. m., he left his home saying that he was going to see Schlesinger, an employer for whom he had pre[8]*8viously worked for several years. He was never seen or heard of again.
Winter married the plaintiff in 1875, in St. Louis, having emigrated from Germany in 1865. Plaintiff came here from the same country in 1871, but she first met her husband in St. Louis. He had told her that he had brothers and sisters in the Fatherland, but she did not know their residences or names. She knew of no other relatives of his in this country but his immediate family. He was fifty-six years old at the time of his disappearance. His family consisted of his wife, the plaintiff, and two daughters, aged fifteen and seventeen years respectively. They lived in a few rooms on Market street. Prior to 1893 he appeared to have been sufficiently prosperous to give his wife and family the ordinary comforts of life and to pay his dues and assessments regularly. His special branch of work was coat-making. He generally worked by the piece. ■ His wife occasionally did work for the profit of the family, and his two daughters were being instructed with a view to assist in their own maintenance. He seems to have been popular with the members of his lodge and was regarded by them as a man of integrity. He is described by the plaintiff, her daughters and his fellow lodge-members as having been kind, happy, affectionate, “jolly and full of life,” until a few months before he disappeared. He was industrious, of good habits, and his earnings were kept at home. Some time before he left he became very much depressed because he could find no work. He grew morose, uncommunicative, and was evidently unhappy. He said a few words to a friend about the burden of his expenses, and exclaimed to his eldest daughter on the day he left — “if he could only get work!”
"When he failed to return at the usual time, fruitless inquiries were made by his family about him at the morgue, at the Four Courts, at various tailor shops in St. Louis, and at East St. Louis. He had taken none of [9]*9his clothing, except the articles he wore. Only a few dollars remained in the house. His disappearance was noticed in the St. Louis papers.
For many years he had been master of exchequer or treasurer of the “Pride of the West Lodge” in defendant society; but in December, 1893, an election was held for that office by the lodge and the insured was defeated for re-election by a Mr. Ehrhardt. January 5, 1894, a lodge meeting occurred to install the new officers. Winter was present. He turned over his office and chair to Mr. Ehrhardt, telling the latter that he would settle with him in regard to the funds of the lodge at the next regular meeting night, two weeks later, January 19,1894. Winter came not at the time mentioned. His mysterious disappearance occurred the day before, as already stated. An investigation of his accounts with the lodge followed. It then developed that there was a shortage to the amount of $196 of funds in his charge as treasurer. The deficit was made good by the sureties on his bond, Messrs. Schmidt and Ehrhardt. The latter was the man who defeated him at the election for treasurer. It is worthy of remark as bearing upon the character of Winter that it appears from the evidence of Ehrhardt, who had to contribute to make up the shortage, that he still entertained a friendly feeling toward his departed brother, notwithstanding the event mentioned, and that the other surety in a like position spoke of him in commendatory terms.
After his disappearance, the lodge passed an order for the suspension of Winter on account of the deficit aforesaid. Efforts were then made by the lodge, independently, to discover his whereabouts by advertisement in the newspapers of the Pythian order in Missouri and in Indiana.
Mr. Gantz was secretary of the section of the society to which Winter belonged. He was a neighbor of the family. He voluntarily advanced the amount due on the certificate for the month of February, 1894. [10]*10When the next payment was impending he informed plaintiff that they did not want to take the money, not knowing whether Winter was dead or living. Soon afterwards (within two or three months after the disappearance) plaintiff again interviewed the secretary with a view to obtain the papers necessary to get her money on the certificate. After a short delay, the secretary informed her that the board of control had written him that nothing conld be done to prove np the claim until seven years had elapsed. Ño papers or forms for proofs of loss were furnished to plaintiff. Plaintiff relied on the foregoing statement and made no effort to prove the necessary facts until after the lapse of seven years. Then plaintiff’s attorneys promptly applied to- defendant to be allowed to submit proofs of loss, but they were met with an absolute denial of liability.
This suit was thereupon instituted, February 11, 1901, more than seven years after Winter was last heard of.
The defense, so far as material, is shown in the foregoing statement along with the material facts of plaintiff’s case in which appeared an outline of the facts on which defendant relies. It was proved that Gantz, secretary of the section, was dead and that the letters of defendant of the period in question had been destroyed. The fact of Winter’s shortage was not disputed.
The learned trial judge, after first refusing a binding direction to find for defendant, gave the following instructions to the jury at the instance of plaintiff:
‘ ‘ 1. Gentlemen of the jury: If from the evidence-you find and believe that prior to February 11, 1901, the date of the commencement of this suit, Gustav Winter disappeared and has not been heard from for seven-years, then, in the absence of any rebutting cireumsanees, he is presumed to be dead, and if you believe from all the circumstances in evidence, considering Gustav Winter’s character, habits and antecedents and the' [11]*11surroundings when he disappeared, that he died prior to March 10, 1894, and that notice and proof of death were furnished by plaintiff within a reasonable time after said Gustav Winter’s death or within such time as by the officers of the defendant company she was instructed that they should be furnished as hereinafter explained then your verdict should be for the plaintiff, in the sum of $2,000 with interest from February 11, 1901.
“2. If the jury believe and find from the preponderance or greater weight of evidence that plaintiff, within a reasonable time after the death of Gustav Winter, if they find that he died prior tó March 10, 1894, applied to Gantz, the secretary of the section to which the deceased belonged, concerning the necessary papers with which to prove up her claim, and that said Gantz shortly thereafter reported to plaintiff that nothing could be done for seven years, that the officer of the defendant had written to him that nothing could be done for seven years, and that plaintiff relied upon such statements and did not furnish notice and proof of death until seven years had elapsed for that reason, then the court instructs you that the notice of death and the proofs of death have been given in time.
“3. Unless you find as hereinabove instructed that Gustav Winter died before March 10,1894, your verdict must be for the defendant. And the burden of proving such death to have been prior to March 10,1894, is upon the plaintiff,' that is, she must establish the truth of it by evidence, which in your judgment outweighs the evidence to the contrary. Such time of death need not be proven by direct or positive evidence but may be shown by all the circumstances attending the disappearance and the habits, character, antecedents and surroundings of said Gustav Winter at the time of or prior to his disappearance. If the jury believe that such facts establish such time of death by a preponderance or greater weight of all the testimony.”
[12]*12Some requests for instructions for defendant were refused, but they need not be quoted.
The jury gave a verdict for plaintiff for $2,088, on which judgment was rendered, followed by this appeal after the customary steps for that purpose.
1. Defendant’s first contention is that the imperative instruction requested on its behalf should have been given.
One ground of that contention is the claim that in event of an unexplained absence for seven years the inference of death includes the further inference that the absent person died at the end of that period and not before. There is color found for that claim in some decisions. It meets a certain measure of approval in a late commentary of an able and accurate writer on the law of presumptive evidence. Lawson, Presump. Evid. (2 Ed.), p. 251. If the inference of death from absence should be drawn according to defendant’s contention, it would follow that the certificate in suit became forfeited for want of due payment of monthly premiums during several years after the last payment in 1894. But we deem that contention of defendant to be unsound as applied to the facts in evidence. The weight of authority supports plaintiff’s proposition that the inference of death deducible from the absence of Winter during seven years, in the circumstances described, does not necessarily imply that his death occurred at the end of that period. The circumstances of each case are to be weighed. If they warrant an inference of death of the individual in question at an earlier date than the close of the seven years of absence, a finding that the death so occurred may stand. Tidsdale v. Ins. Co., 26 Iowa 170, approved in Hancock v. Ins. Co., 62 Mo. 26, and in Lancaster v. Ins. Co., 62 Mo. 121.
The three cases just cited are authority to sustain the ruling of the learned trial judge in submitting to the jury that issue of fact, whether or not Winter died [13]*13before March 10, 1894. The substance of the testimony has been given. We need not repeat it.
Plaintiff was not required to establish beyond a reasonable doubt the fact' of the death of the insured prior to the date named. She was required merely to furnish proof which tended to show that fact and to make it appear to the jury more probable or credible than otherwise, that is to say, by the preponderance of the evidence. That she did. Lancaster v. Ins. Co., 62 Mo. 121; Davie v. Briggs, 97 U. S. 628; Rhodes v. Rhodes, 36 Ch. Div. 586; N. W. Mut. Life Ins. Co. v. Stevens, 71 Fed. 258; Garden v. Garden, 2 Houst. 574; Hamilton v. Rathbone, 9 D. C. App. 48; Schaub v. Griffin, 84 Md. 557; Cox v. Ellsworth, 18 Neb. 664.
2. Another ground on which defendant attempts to maintain the correctness of the request for a' peremptory instruction in its favor is, that there was no notice or proof of loss furnished as required by the laws of the defendant.
When plaintiff became convinced that her husband was dead, she applied to the secretary of the section for the necessary papers to get her insurance money, as has been described. That officer (after a delay sufficient to-permit full communication with the chief officers) sent for plaintiff and informed her that he had “gotten word back, and that we could not do anything in regard to getting the money until the seven years were up. ” The last quotation is from the evidence of plaintiff’s daughter who was allowed to testify concerning that staternent of the secretary to her mother. Owing to the death of the secretary, the court excluded the testimony of plaintiff on that point, doubtless under the mandate of section 4632 (R. S. 1899), construed in Williams v. Edwards, 94 Mo. 447.
No blank form for proof of death was furnished to plaintiff in answer to.her request, although it was required by one of the by-laws already copied. Before the application to him for the blanks, the secretary told [14]*14plaintiff that they did not want to take any more money (meaning insurance dues) not knowing whether her husband was dead or living. On these facts it is quite clear that there was ample support in the testimony for plaintiff’s plea of a waiver of proof of death in 1894. Warren v. Town Mut. Co., 72 Mo. App. (K. C.) 188; Grattan v. Ins. Co., 80 N. Y. 281; Hutchinson v. Sup. Tent, 68 Hun 355.
The secretary of the section, whose conduct seems to have been honorable and just to plaintiff and defendant alike, was undoubtedly the representative of defendant in regard to the payment of premium dues and for the purpose of delivering the blanks for proof of death. There is no evidence of any limitation of his authority. The facts disclosed will warrant a finding that he was authorized to represent the defendant in waiving proof of death in 1894. Nickell v. Ins. Co., 144 Mo. 420; McMahon v. Sup. Tent, 151 Mo. 522; Knights v. Withers, 177 U. S. 260; Modern Woodmen v. Tevis, 111 Fed. 113; Knights v. Bridges, 15 Tex. Civ. App. 196 (39 S. W. 333).
3. In regard to the matter of proof of death, proffered by plaintiff’s attorneys after the lapse of seven years, the uncontradicted testimony is that at that time defendant repudiated all liability on the certificate. That fact proven dispensed altogether with proof of death of the insured. Jefferson v. Life Ass’n, 69 Mo. App. (St. L.) 126; Pray v. Ins. Co., 104 Iowa 114; Dial v. Mut. Life Ass’n, 29 S. C. 560.
4. The most serious problem in the case arises upon defendant’s objection to the first instruction given by the court on behalf of plaintiff. The instruction has been already quoted. The vital point of criticism is directed to the declaration that if the jury found that Winter disappeared and had not been heard from for seven years “then, in the absence of any rebutting circumstances, he is presumed to be dead.” The court then proceeds to submit the question whether or not he died [15]*15prior to March 10,1894, but assumes as a fact that he is dead.
One of the most troublesome questions in the practical administration of justice is to determine what mode of instruction is proper in cases where evidence presumptive in its nature comes into play. That sort of evidence is necessary to the attainment of truth. Much care, however, must be observed in its practical use in order not to give undue importance to mere artificial or technical distinctions concerning it. Here we have to deal with the rule of evidence (whatever may be its proper name) that, after a man has been absent from home and unheard of for seven years, the fact of his death may be found upon that showing. "When such, absence inclucles departure from Missouri, our statute •creates such a presumption in the absence of contrary proof. R. S. 1899, sec. 3144. In the law of bigamy a similar rule obtains, in certain circumstances, to protect a new marriage formed by the spouse deserted by such an absentee as the rule defines. R. S. 1899, sec. 2168. The statute last cited is probably traceable to a British prototype which has been said to have furnished the suggestion for the modern rule or presumption on this subject. Best on Presumptions, p. 191; Lawson, Presump. Evid. (2 Ed.), p. 254; Thayer, Evid., 319.
Another Missouri statute provides a method intended. to secure adpainistration upon estates of such absentees. In another jurisdiction an act with similar features has undergone a severe ordeal. Scott v. McNeal, 154 U. S. 34. "We have nothing now to do with ■the validity of that statute. "We mention it only to refer to the evident drift of legislative purpose, which postpones the steps of such a, proceeding until seven years after the disappearance, a much later time than was prescribed by the Code of Napoleon, which made provision for a similar process beginning at the end of [16]*16four years. -R. S. 1899, sec. 265; Code Napoleon, bk. 1, tit. 4, 125.
We refer to these pieces of legislation to indicate how firmly has taken root in our law the idea that a presumption of death arises from an unbroken and unexplained absence of seven years. The particular rule, however, defined by section 3144 (R. S. 1899), which does not by its terms quite reach the case at bar, has been definitely held in Missouri not to lessen the force of the general rule of evidence on the subject as disclosed by decisions expounding the common law. Flood v. Growney, 126 Mo. 262; Biegler v. Supreme Council, 57 Mo. App. (St. L.) 419. Many careful commentators on the rule of presumption in question have taken pains to demonstrate that it is little more than' a measure established by experience to mark the amount of evidence which shall make out a prima facie case when an issue of the death of an absentee has arisen. Thayer, Evid., 323, 336; 1 Greenleaf, Evid. (16 Ed.), sec. 41; Wharton, Evid. (3 Ed.), sec. 1275.
Where circumstances are in evidence which permit a reasonable inference that the person in question is not dead, though lost to sight and unheard of for seven years, the law does not presume that he is dead. The presumption, as it is termed, is a rule of evidence which determines the sufficiency of certain facts to discharge the burden of proof from the party on whom it is placed by the pleadings. When those facts appear, the burden is discharged until something else is disclosed. If, however, the facts which exhibit the long absence exhibit also ground for a fair inference that the absentee is alive, or to conflicting inferences on that point, then it is for the jury or triers of the fact to say what is their conclusion from the testimony on that issue.
In actions of the sort now under review, the law of our State forbids comment by the court to the jury upon the weight or credibility of the testimony. Speed v. Herrin, 4 Mo. 356; Schneer v. Lemp, 17 Mo. 142; [17]*17Jones v. Jones, 57 Mo. 138. Hence, it is important for the court to avoid declaring as an inflexible rule of law any mere deduction of fact which the jury are at liberty to draw or to reject in performing their function of determining the weight and truth of the testimony submitted by the parties.
Many decisions illustrate the strictness in which our courts have enforced the precept that it is error to give to a jury a disputable presumption as an imperative mandate of law where the testimony permits any other inference.
In Garesche v. Boyce, 8 Mo. 228, which was an action in trover for the value of some cordwood, defendant offered no evidence, and the Supreme Court held that an instruction to the jury would be erroneous which declared, in view of certain' evidence partly oral, that plaintiff had prima facie title to the land on which the wood was cut.
In Ham v. Barrett, 28 Mo. 388, the court defined presumptions of law as those which “exclude all contrary proof, ’ ’ and presumptions of fact as those which “may be raised or not as the jury may determine,” and then held that a trial court is not warranted in declaring a presumption of fact “ as a presumption authoritatively raised by law, but should direct them that from the evidence it is their province to .determine whether they will raise the presumption or not.” That ruling has been fully approved in many later decisions of which we mention a few. Erhart v. Dietrich, 118 Mo. 418; Bluedorn v. Railroad, 121 Mo. 258; Burkholder v. Henderson, 78 Mo. App. (St. L.) 295.
In a number of instances, instructions have been condemned for telling the jury in negligence cases that the law presumes every man to exercise ordinary care, or equivalent language expressing as a rule of law the idea that the conduct of .an intelligent person is presumed to be in conformity to law until the contrary is shown. That rule is declared to be a “presumption of [18]*18law” in Klein v. Landman, 29 Mo. 259. But the statement of it in the form aforesaid has been held erroneous in a number of cases, some of which we mention, more could be cited. Palmer v. Railroad, 76 Mo. 221; Myers v. City, 108 Mo. 480; Lynch v. Railway, 112 Mo. 420; Schepers v. Railroad, 126 Mo. 665; Nixon v. Railroad, 141 Mo. 425.
These decisions are all positive authority for the proposition that in the face of evidence permitting an inference contrary to a disputable presumption, it is not correct to throw the presumption into the scale, as it is said, in giving the law to the triers of fact.
The admitted circumstances of the disappearance of Winter should not be held to exclude every other inference than that of his death. On the facts recited in.the -opening lines of the plaintiff’s first instruction, it was not a conclusion of law that he was dead. It was for the jury to say that they believed from .the evidence that he was dead. The burden of proof was on plaintiff to prove his death. The court wholly removed that burden and left plaintiff only the minor one of showing that his death occurred prior to March 10,1894. It will not be needful to repeat the facts to indicate why another inference than that of his death would have been reasonable and permissible. His unhappy predicament, disclosed by the testimony, leaves his fate a matter of conjecture; but more than one conjecture concerning it was open to the jury and was reasonable, as other cases which deal with similar circumstances manifest. N. W. Mut. Life Ins. Co. v. Stevens, 71 Fed. 258; Sensenderfer v. Ins. Co., 19 Fed. 68.
It is true that language similar to that under review, concerning the presumption of death from absence, is found in an instruction quoted in Hancock v. Ins. Co., 62 Mo. 30. But it should be remembered that the judgment in that case was reversed on other grounds. Nothing in the opinion of the court indicates [19]*19that the points of criticism here discussed were then considered.
The remark in the case at har in the first instruction touching the ‘ ‘ absence of any rebutting circumstances, ’ ’ in connection with the statement that "Winter “is presumed to be dead,” eliminated the probative force of the circumstances which gave ground for a different inference than that of death. The remark intensified the error and bound the jury more firmly to the proposition that they were to accept the death of the insured as a fixed fact, if they found he had been absent an'd unheard of during the seven years.
The true rule to be deduced from the authorities is, that the inference of death arising from an unexplained absence of seven years, is not a conclusive inference. It yields to the influence of a conflicting presumption of the same class and of more specific character, as, for example, the presumption of innocence in the conduct of the party in question, illustrated by cases where these two presumptions have been found to antagonize. King v. Inhabs, 2 A. & E. 540; Lancaster v. Ins. Co., 62 Mo. 129. The deduction which may be drawn from the absence of a person for seven years without tidings supplies the place of more specific proof of death. It warrants a jury in finding the fact of death, after due consideration of all the other facts in evidence, but it is not a conclusion which the jury are obliged to draw, in the face of proof which furnished ground for other inferences. It should not be stated to the jury as a rule of law imposing an imperative obligation upon them in a case like this. Mut. Ben. Life Ins. Co. v. Martin, — Ky. — (55 S. W. 694); Rochford v. Jackson, 1 W. W. & a’B. (L.) 23.
The mere fact that the word “presumed” was used is not decisive of the matter, however. If the rule had been stated in the instruction correctly, in its practical bearing on the result, the form of,the charge in that particular might not have been prejudicial. But the [20]*20error lay in declaring that from the preliminary facts along the insured was presumed to be dead and in implying the absence of any rebutting circumstances.
For the error above noted the judgment must be reversed and the cause remanded. It is sp ordered.
Bland, P. J., concurs; Goode, J., dissents.