Wilson v. Wilson

47 Va. Cir. 138, 1998 Va. Cir. LEXIS 289
CourtSpotsylvania County Circuit Court
DecidedSeptember 10, 1998
DocketCase No. CH97-550
StatusPublished

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Wilson v. Wilson, 47 Va. Cir. 138, 1998 Va. Cir. LEXIS 289 (Va. Super. Ct. 1998).

Opinion

By Judge William H. Ledbetter, Jr.

Grounds for divorce, child custody, support, and equitable distribution are disputed in this divorce suit.

Background Facts

Mr. and Mrs. Wilson were married on 1974. Three children were bom of the marriage: Tene, twenty-one years old; Anika, sixteen years old; and Aries, fifteen years old.

The parties separated on May 17, 1994, when Mrs. Wilson and the children moved out of the marital residence.

Shortly after the separation, the juvenile court awarded custody of the two youngest children to Mrs. Wilson. (By that time, Tene was in college.) That court also ordered Mr. Wilson to pay child support. Mr. Wilson appealed. This court heard the appeal on April 16,1996, and revised Mr. Wilson’s support to conform to the shared custody guidelines of Virginia Code § 20-108.2 because the minor children were with him more than 110 days a year. (The final order of this court was entered on January 10, 1997, concluding those appeals, ## CH94-447 through CH94-451, and # CH95-600.)

Meanwhile, Mrs. Wilson instituted this suit for divorce based on one-year separation. Mr. Wilson responded and filed a cross-bill alleging desertion. (Mr. [139]*139Wilson’s answer and cross-bill were filed late, without objection, by leave of court. However, that matter was not memorialized in an order until May 8, 1998.) Mrs. Wilson answered the cross-bill.

The parties returned to the juvenile court on a petition filed by Mrs. Wilson. On August 4, 1997, the petition was denied and Mrs. Wilson appealed. That case (# CH97-550) is now consolidated with the divorce case for adjudication.

After discovery, the parties took depositions during April and May of 1998. The court held an ore tenus hearing on June 2,1998, and took the case under advisement pending submission of memoranda. All memoranda now have been filed, and this opinion addresses all disputed issues.

Divorce

The evidence establishes that Mr. and Mrs. Wilson have lived separate and apart, without interruption, since May 17,1994. Therefore, Mrs. Wilson will be granted a divorce based on a separation exceeding one year pursuant to Virginia Code § 20-91(9).

Mr. Wilson’s cross-bill based on desertion will be denied. While it is obvious that Mrs. Wilson left the marital home, it is also clear that she was justified in doing so. At the time of her departure, the parties led separate lives. Mr. Wilson had voluntarily left the parties’ bedroom and was living in the basement; Mrs. Wilson had “re-done” the master bedroom; Mr. Wilson had taken over the family finances, and Mrs. Wilson, who was then employed as a real estate salesperson, maintained her own separate accounts; they rarely communicated; they engaged in few, if any, activities together; and they often argued in front of the children, a situation which distressed both parties. In sum, life in the marital residence had become intolerable by May of1994.

Further, it is well settled that when multiple grounds for divorce exist, the trial court is not required to give precedence to one ground over another, and the trial judge can use discretion to select the appropriate ground upon which to grant the divorce. Sargent v. Sargent, 20 Va. App. 694 (1995). Under the circumstances of this case, a no-fault divorce should be awarded to Mrs. Wilson as prayed for in her bill.

Custody

Custody of Tene is not in issue. She is an adult, attending college at the University of Maryland at Eastern Shore. When she is not at school, she lives with Mr. Wilson in the former marital residence.

[140]*140Likewise, custody of Anika is not an issue. She lives with her mother in Breezewood Subdivision. She has expressed no interest in doing otherwise. Her custody is controlled by the 1995 juvenile court order. Mr. Wilson enjoys liberal visitation, hi essence, Anika goes to her father’s house whenever she wishes as long as it does not interfere with school and other activities.

Although custody of Aries was awarded to Mrs. Wilson in the same proceeding that resolved custody issues related to Anika, Aries voluntarily (and without much warning) moved to her father’s house in December of 1997. She has resided there since that time, although she visits frequently with her mother.

Mrs. Wilson contends that Aries should be returned to her custody, even though she knows that Aries prefers the existing arrangement. Mrs. Wilson presented evidence that she is a more reliable disciplinarian; that Aries’ school grades have dropped since she went to live with Mr. Willson; that Aries attends church less frequently; that Mr. Wilson does not provide the proper “character training” and “structure”; and that his household is not wholesome.

In contrast, Mr. Wilson presented evidence that Aries’ grades have improved since the downturn in early 1998; that he provides appropriate parental care for Aries; that his 68-year-old aunt, who lives with him, does not smoke throughout die house as Mrs. Wilson complains; that he does not leave sexually-explicit magazines in plain view and does not have other inappropriate material in the house; that he assists Aries with her school work and extracurricular activities; and that he provides financial support for her, as well as financial support for Teñe and Anika.

Considering all of the evidence and the factors enumerated in Virginia Code § 20-124.3, the court is of the opinion that custody of Aries should be awarded jointly to Mr. and Mrs. Wilson, her primary residence to be with Mr. Wilson.

There is no doubt that Mrs. Wilson is a caring, loving, attentive mother and that she is sincere in her belief that she alone can better provide the necessary parental guidance and “structure” for Aries during her adolescence. Nevertheless, the evidence before the court establishes that Mr. Wilson, too, is a caring parent. There is nothing “unwholesome” or inappropriate about his home. It is the place where Aries grew up. It is located near Mrs. Wilson’s and Anika’s residence. It is the home of her older sister, Tene, when she is not away at college.

At the hearing on June 2,1998, the trial judge met with Aries in camera, in the presence of counsel, consistent with procedures enunciated by die Court of Appeals. There can be no question about Aries’ maturity, understanding, [141]*141experience, and intelligence, and the court finds that her preference is reasonable.

The present arrangement may appear to Mrs. Wilson to be too “lax.” However, considering all the statutory factors, including Aries’ preference, the court sees no reason whatever to alter the existing situation. What good possibly could come of a judicial mandate that Aries be required to return to her home, under the circumstances of this case?

For these reasons, custody of Aries will be jointly awarded to both parents, with her primary residence in the home of Mr. Wilson and with reasonable visitation to Mrs. Wilson.

Visitation

No one has requested that the court structure a visitation schedule. Both Anika, who lives with Mrs. Wilson, and Aries, who lives with Mr. Wilson, are mature and reasonably responsible teenagers who visit back and forth and seem to have considerable affection for one another, both of their parents, and their older sister.

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