Williamson v. Williamson

905 N.E.2d 217, 180 Ohio App. 3d 260, 2008 Ohio 6718
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided December 19, 2008·No. No. 07-CA-101.·Published·Cited by 13 cases

Opinions

Brogan, Judge.

{¶ 1} This is an appeal of the Greene County Domestic Relations Court’s judgment overruling objections to and adopting a magistrate’s grant of a broad civil protection order (“CPO”) to Mary Williamson, appellee, and her four children. Precipitating her petition was the imminent release from prison of Shawn Williamson, appellant, her ex-husband and father of the children. The evidence plainly does not support the grant of a CPO to protect the children. Whether the evidence is sufficient to find that Mary needs protection, however, is a closer question. After carefully reviewing the record and existing case law, we conclude that the evidence is also insufficient to warrant a CPO protecting her.

2} The picture that the transcript of the hearing before the magistrate paints is of a mother who does not fear physical harm from her ex-husband as much as she fears allowing him back into her and her children’s lives premature *262 ly. Mary represented herself at the hearing, presenting a picture that is somewhat unique. We recognize that she may not have been able to express her concerns as articulately as an experienced attorney could have, but that she was unrepresented also means that we can read her concerns unfiltered by such an attorney. Her candid testimony reveals her as a mother who, remembering what she endured from Shawn before he entered prison, is wary of letting him back into her life without proof that he has changed. Here, in large part, is their exchange during her cross examination of him:

{¶ 3} “Q. I just wanted you to stop and consider, you know, all the years and things that we have been through and you were on the other side of that, maybe you didn’t understand how serious those things were. I think right now that is all we have to go by as far as your behavior on this side of the prison wall. And I can only hope while you were in there that things have changed.
{¶ 4} “A. They have.
{¶ 5} “Q. But what evidence do I have? I have none. You’ve been out for two weeks, I’m glad you feel like you’re doing very well. That’s great. But at the same time, we’ve been five years basically without you in our lives and, like I said, the children are doing very well.
{¶ 6} “I’m not saying I don’t ever want them to see you. I’m not asking for that. I’m just asking for the Court to consider—
{¶ 7} “ * * *
{¶ 8} “Q. Do you understand where I’m coming from as far as trying to protect the children?
{¶ 9} “A. I understand you want to see that I’ve changed and I understand why we’re here and that that’s for your comfort; so you know what I’m about, and so you know that I’m doing all right. It’s so you know I won’t hurt the children, it’s so you know I won’t come after you or your family, and I understand that.
{¶ 10} “Q. What plans do you have for your life to change then? What are you going to do?
{¶ 11} “A. I sat three years locked up in the place they call Gladiator school. And I had cancer, and surgery after surgery after surgery. I went to Hocking College, I went to a million classes even though I was getting cut on. I’m covered in scars, I still have the cancer.
{¶ 12} “Q. But what are you going to do now, what are you going to do with your life?
{¶ 13} “A. My disability is going to be appealed, the State filed the disability for me. I have to do that.
*263 {¶ 14} “Q. What is your specific disability that you’ve filed on?
{¶ 15} “A. I have germ cell cancer, fractured seventh cervical, bipolar disorder, anxiety disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, post concussive disorder. I have a hernia, and desisted and ripped open. My stomach is not hooked together because of the accident that I had * * *
{¶ 16} “Q. But if you do not have the capacity to care for yourself right now—
{¶ 17} “A. I do.
{¶ 18} “Q. —how can you expect to care for the kids or be there for them?
{¶ 19} “A. I have the capacity to care for myself.”

{¶ 20} Here, the magistrate gently cut Mary off and asked her to focus her questions on the pertinent issues of the CPO hearing. She continued and asked a few insignificant questions before she concluded.

{¶ 21} Mary’s experience with Shawn was rough. Shawn was not the ideal father or husband. His abuse of drugs and alcohol caused him to be absent from his family for days at a time. Even after they finally separated in 2002, Mary was not free from him. Twice, in the middle of the night, Shawn broke into the house where she and the children were living. Mary wrote in her CPO petition that the first break-in led to a confrontation during which he threatened her, pushed her around, held her down, pulled her hair, and scratched her. And yet, despite everything, here is how Mary describes their pre- and post-separation history:

{¶ 22} “A. Okay. As far as even when we lived together in a marriage situation, I cannot sit here and say that there was a lot of domestic violence because there was not. It was not that at all. It was more he had a very severe drug and alcohol problem to the extent that when he would be on his binges, he would disappear sort of, and not come home, not be around.
{¶ 23} “I believe that — I have no knowledge of this but I believe some of these events I just feel there was a desperation of some sort either to try to get me to agree to come back, just the reality that I was gone.
{¶ 24} “I don’t think if I had ever asked him did he really, really ever intend on hurting me, I don’t feel like that was ever the case. But when he would drink or do drugs, and just in a desperate sense I guess not knowing what else to do is whether these things would happen.”

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