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Commonwealth of Kentucky Court of Appeals NO. 2023-CA-1182-MR
WILLIAM FREDRICK BUELL, JR. APPELLANT
APPEAL FROM MADISON FAMILY COURT v. HONORABLE NORA J. SHEPHERD, JUDGE ACTION NO. 19-CI-50469
BILLIE JAN ROUSE BUELL APPELLEE
OPINION AND ORDER AFFIRMING
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BEFORE: EASTON, ECKERLE, AND LAMBERT, JUDGES.
EASTON, JUDGE: In this marriage dissolution action, Appellant (“William”)
asks us to reverse the Madison Family Court’s denial of his demand to hold
Appellee (“Billie”) in contempt for alleged violations of the parties’ initial status
quo obligations and a later specific spending limit from a joint account. Having
fully reviewed the record and the applicable law, we find no abuse of discretion.
We affirm the Madison Family Court. FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY
The parties were married in Illinois in 1976. They separated twice
previously but reconciled. The final separation occurred in August 2019. Billie
filed the dissolution action shortly thereafter.
Billie is a retired teacher. She receives two retirement checks per
month, one from Illinois and one from Kentucky. She also receives a small social
security payment. After retirement, Billie occasionally worked as a substitute
teacher and received some income from this work. William is also retired, and his
sole income source is social security. At the time of the separation, Billie received
approximately four times the retirement income that William received. When
Billie filed for dissolution, she vacated the marital residence where the parties had
lived for most of the marriage. William remained in the home, which included a
20-acre farm where the parties kept several horses.
In November 2019, William filed a motion for a status quo order and
a motion for non-dissipation of assets. A docket sheet was entered on November
18, 2019, on which was written “Non-diss. order to enter.” No additional orders or
details ever followed.
Nothing happened in this case for two years, and the final hearing was
not conducted until September of 2022. Although the parties were instructed to
file proposed findings for the final post-hearing order, they did not. By the time an
-2- order was entered and a motion to reconsider that order was denied, this case had
lasted for four years. It seems William benefited from living in the house for those
years without any compensation to Billie for her interest in the marital home.
William was also benefiting from Billie’s Kentucky retirement income.
Throughout the proceedings, the circuit court regularly stated that the
action was taking much longer than necessary, as the only issues to be determined
were those about property. The case was described as being “long in the tooth.”
The family court rightly observed that the case was being “slow walked.”
The parties participated in two mediations, which were completely
unsuccessful. Billie accused William of not negotiating in good faith. There were
many disagreements between the parties which led them to file several motions
before the family court, including William’s attempts to have Billie held in
contempt.
One such motion was addressed in November 2021, when Billie asked
the court to order an appraisal of the marital residence. William then asked the
family court to prohibit Billie from withdrawing funds from the parties’ joint
account without notice to him. He claimed he was unable to maintain the expenses
for the farm. At this time, both William’s social security check and Billie’s
Kentucky retirement check were being deposited into the joint account. Billie’s
Illinois retirement check went into her personal account. On the docket sheet for
-3- this hearing, the family court wrote that Billie would only withdraw $250 per
month from the joint account. The hearing for this date was not included for our
review, and no subsequent order with more details was ever entered.
In March 2022, Billie asked the family court to sell the marital home.
She stated she was unable to meet her current needs with only the income to which
she was allowed access and that selling the home would give both parties
additional funds for living expenses. Additionally, Billie asked the family court to
allow her to deposit her Kentucky teacher retirement check into her personal
account rather than the joint account. William objected to both requests.
At a case management conference in April 2022, the court denied
Billie’s motion to sell the home at that stage of the proceedings if the parties did
not agree to do so. The court indicated this case should be completed all at once,
rather than piecemeal.
As to the joint account, the family court said there was no order in
place that required the parties to put the entirety of their income into a joint
account. Notably, William’s attorney did not respond to this assertion. The family
court seemed perplexed that the parties still maintained a joint account after being
separated for three years. Again, no additional order was tendered or entered that
explained the court’s rulings further. The only order entered immediately after this
-4- case management conference was the court’s Order Scheduling Trial Date. The
overdue final hearing would take place in September of 2022.
Before the final hearing, William filed a Motion for Show Cause. In
this motion, William alleged Billie had violated a status quo order by removing all
of her retirement funds from the parties’ joint account and by unilaterally closing a
jointly held credit card, which damaged William’s credit score. Because a final
hearing was already scheduled, the family court passed this motion to be heard at
the final hearing. The court stated again that there was no order in the record that
outlined what exactly the “status quo” was for these parties or what would
constitute dissipation of assets. The court also repeated its frustration that the case
was not proceeding at an appropriate pace. It appeared to the court that one party
did not seem to want to resolve the case, as the “status quo” was too comfortable.
On September 22, 2022, the final hearing finally took place. Other
than the parties, the only witness was the real estate appraiser who testified as to
the valuation of the marital property. Billie agreed with the appraisal of the
property. William disputed it, but he did not present a different appraisal or any
other expert testimony or evidence.
Billie testified she retired in 2016, and that was when she began
receiving both retirement checks. She stated she always put the smaller Illinois
retirement check into a personal account, while she put the Kentucky retirement
-5- funds into the joint account. She did move her Kentucky retirement into her
personal account once she was told by the court that she was permitted to do so,
although she didn’t remember exactly when that began.
As for the closing of the joint credit card, Billie acknowledged that
she closed this account without consulting or advising William. She testified she
rarely used this card, and the card in her possession had expired. When she
attempted to get a new one, the company would not send her a new card to her
current address. They would only send a new card to the address that was on file
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Commonwealth of Kentucky Court of Appeals NO. 2023-CA-1182-MR
WILLIAM FREDRICK BUELL, JR. APPELLANT
APPEAL FROM MADISON FAMILY COURT v. HONORABLE NORA J. SHEPHERD, JUDGE ACTION NO. 19-CI-50469
BILLIE JAN ROUSE BUELL APPELLEE
OPINION AND ORDER AFFIRMING
** ** ** ** **
BEFORE: EASTON, ECKERLE, AND LAMBERT, JUDGES.
EASTON, JUDGE: In this marriage dissolution action, Appellant (“William”)
asks us to reverse the Madison Family Court’s denial of his demand to hold
Appellee (“Billie”) in contempt for alleged violations of the parties’ initial status
quo obligations and a later specific spending limit from a joint account. Having
fully reviewed the record and the applicable law, we find no abuse of discretion.
We affirm the Madison Family Court. FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY
The parties were married in Illinois in 1976. They separated twice
previously but reconciled. The final separation occurred in August 2019. Billie
filed the dissolution action shortly thereafter.
Billie is a retired teacher. She receives two retirement checks per
month, one from Illinois and one from Kentucky. She also receives a small social
security payment. After retirement, Billie occasionally worked as a substitute
teacher and received some income from this work. William is also retired, and his
sole income source is social security. At the time of the separation, Billie received
approximately four times the retirement income that William received. When
Billie filed for dissolution, she vacated the marital residence where the parties had
lived for most of the marriage. William remained in the home, which included a
20-acre farm where the parties kept several horses.
In November 2019, William filed a motion for a status quo order and
a motion for non-dissipation of assets. A docket sheet was entered on November
18, 2019, on which was written “Non-diss. order to enter.” No additional orders or
details ever followed.
Nothing happened in this case for two years, and the final hearing was
not conducted until September of 2022. Although the parties were instructed to
file proposed findings for the final post-hearing order, they did not. By the time an
-2- order was entered and a motion to reconsider that order was denied, this case had
lasted for four years. It seems William benefited from living in the house for those
years without any compensation to Billie for her interest in the marital home.
William was also benefiting from Billie’s Kentucky retirement income.
Throughout the proceedings, the circuit court regularly stated that the
action was taking much longer than necessary, as the only issues to be determined
were those about property. The case was described as being “long in the tooth.”
The family court rightly observed that the case was being “slow walked.”
The parties participated in two mediations, which were completely
unsuccessful. Billie accused William of not negotiating in good faith. There were
many disagreements between the parties which led them to file several motions
before the family court, including William’s attempts to have Billie held in
contempt.
One such motion was addressed in November 2021, when Billie asked
the court to order an appraisal of the marital residence. William then asked the
family court to prohibit Billie from withdrawing funds from the parties’ joint
account without notice to him. He claimed he was unable to maintain the expenses
for the farm. At this time, both William’s social security check and Billie’s
Kentucky retirement check were being deposited into the joint account. Billie’s
Illinois retirement check went into her personal account. On the docket sheet for
-3- this hearing, the family court wrote that Billie would only withdraw $250 per
month from the joint account. The hearing for this date was not included for our
review, and no subsequent order with more details was ever entered.
In March 2022, Billie asked the family court to sell the marital home.
She stated she was unable to meet her current needs with only the income to which
she was allowed access and that selling the home would give both parties
additional funds for living expenses. Additionally, Billie asked the family court to
allow her to deposit her Kentucky teacher retirement check into her personal
account rather than the joint account. William objected to both requests.
At a case management conference in April 2022, the court denied
Billie’s motion to sell the home at that stage of the proceedings if the parties did
not agree to do so. The court indicated this case should be completed all at once,
rather than piecemeal.
As to the joint account, the family court said there was no order in
place that required the parties to put the entirety of their income into a joint
account. Notably, William’s attorney did not respond to this assertion. The family
court seemed perplexed that the parties still maintained a joint account after being
separated for three years. Again, no additional order was tendered or entered that
explained the court’s rulings further. The only order entered immediately after this
-4- case management conference was the court’s Order Scheduling Trial Date. The
overdue final hearing would take place in September of 2022.
Before the final hearing, William filed a Motion for Show Cause. In
this motion, William alleged Billie had violated a status quo order by removing all
of her retirement funds from the parties’ joint account and by unilaterally closing a
jointly held credit card, which damaged William’s credit score. Because a final
hearing was already scheduled, the family court passed this motion to be heard at
the final hearing. The court stated again that there was no order in the record that
outlined what exactly the “status quo” was for these parties or what would
constitute dissipation of assets. The court also repeated its frustration that the case
was not proceeding at an appropriate pace. It appeared to the court that one party
did not seem to want to resolve the case, as the “status quo” was too comfortable.
On September 22, 2022, the final hearing finally took place. Other
than the parties, the only witness was the real estate appraiser who testified as to
the valuation of the marital property. Billie agreed with the appraisal of the
property. William disputed it, but he did not present a different appraisal or any
other expert testimony or evidence.
Billie testified she retired in 2016, and that was when she began
receiving both retirement checks. She stated she always put the smaller Illinois
retirement check into a personal account, while she put the Kentucky retirement
-5- funds into the joint account. She did move her Kentucky retirement into her
personal account once she was told by the court that she was permitted to do so,
although she didn’t remember exactly when that began.
As for the closing of the joint credit card, Billie acknowledged that
she closed this account without consulting or advising William. She testified she
rarely used this card, and the card in her possession had expired. When she
attempted to get a new one, the company would not send her a new card to her
current address. They would only send a new card to the address that was on file
with them, which was the marital address where William lived.
Billie was still able to access the account electronically, and she
noticed the balance on the card continued to increase. She stated both she and
William were making payments on the card, with her making payments from her
personal account, while William made payments from the joint account. At that
point, most of Billie’s retirement income was still being deposited into the joint
account, which benefited William. Billie stated she spoke with the company in an
attempt to get only her name removed from the account, but it was not possible.
So, she decided to close the account, which she was permitted to do.
William testified he believes Billie has been dissipating assets over
the course of their separation, as well as before their separation. He attempted to
bring in evidence of Billie’s “frivolous spending” as far back as 2014. The family
-6- court did not allow this testimony, as it was not relevant to the issues for the
current dissolution.
William testified his credit rating dropped from “excellent” to “fair”
after Billie closed the joint credit card account. He stated he used the card to pay
the property taxes on the marital property. He was making payments on the
account. William also testified he had issues maintaining the home after Billie
moved her retirement funds from the joint account. He stated he did not know she
was going to do that ahead of time, and he believes by doing so, she violated the
court’s status quo order.
At the conclusion of the hearing, the family court determined that
because the parties could not agree about basically anything, it saw no way around
ordering the sale of the property and dividing the proceeds. The court also
declined to find Billie in contempt for moving her retirement funds or closing the
joint credit card account. The court stated that after this long period of separation,
the parties should not have still been using any joint accounts at all. Any joint
account was going to be closed eventually with whatever credit rating reduction
that would normally flow from that closing.
With no help from the parties in the form of suggested findings, the
court issued its Findings of Fact, Conclusions of Law, and Decree of Dissolution
almost a year later on August 2, 2023. Despite the considerable issues of
-7- allocation of and division of property decided by the family court, William now
only appeals the portion of the decree which declined to sanction Billie for her
alleged contemptuous actions. William hired a different attorney from his family
court counsel to prosecute this appeal.
STANDARD OF REVIEW
Abuse of discretion is the appropriate standard of review for decisions
regarding contempt. Meyers v. Petrie, 233 S.W.3d 212, 215 (Ky. App. 2007). A
trial court abuses its discretion when its decision is “arbitrary, unreasonable, unfair,
or unsupported by sound legal principles.” Id. The clear error standard applies to
the findings of fact by the family court. Cabinet for Health and Family Services v.
Ivy, 353 S.W.3d 324, 332 (Ky. 2011).
ANALYSIS
As a preliminary matter, William has filed a Motion to Strike Billie’s
Brief for failure to comply with Kentucky Rules of Appellate Procedure (“RAP”)
32(B)(3) and 32(B)(4). These rules require ample citations to the record in both
the statement of the case and the argument sections of a brief. “When an appellate
advocate fails to abide by the appellate briefing rules, this Court has the option to:
(1) ignore the deficiency and proceed with the review; (2) strike the brief or its
offending portions, or (3) to review the issues raised in the brief for manifest
injustice only, if the briefing deficiency pertains to the appellant’s statement of
-8- preservation of error.” Swan v. Gatewood, 678 S.W.3d 463, 469 (Ky. App. 2023)
(citations omitted). However, “how to proceed in imposing such penalties is a
matter committed to our discretion.” Roberts v. Bucci, 218 S.W.3d 395, 396 (Ky.
App. 2007).
Billie did cite to the record even if not as amply as William thinks she
should have. She also cited authorities, basically agreeing with much of the law
cited by William. In any event, the record in this matter is not particularly
voluminous, and any technical violation of the briefing rules does not significantly
interfere with our review. We decline to impose any sanctions, and we deny
William’s motion to strike.
William argues the family court erred by failing to enforce the parties’
agreed status quo order. But there is no order, only a notation on a docket sheet
with no explanation. A family court may use a docket sheet to record its order so
long as the sheet does not have more than one case addressed on it. CR1 58(1).
The use of signed docket sheets for entry of multiple decisions applies only to the
district courts. CR 58(2).
Overlooked in this case is that the family court did not intend for the
docket sheet to be its order for status quo. The family court expected the tender of
1 Kentucky Rules of Civil Procedure.
-9- an order specific to these parties. As would be seen throughout this case, the
parties did not follow through.
Regardless of the absence of a specific court order, William claims
Billie violated her status quo obligation in two ways; first, by diverting all her
retirement funds into her own personal account. Second, he believes it was a
violation to close the joint credit card account, which allegedly damaged his credit
score. The family court elected not to sanction Billie for any violations, as it
determined “the ‘status quo’ order generally lacked sufficient specificity for
enforcement purposes.”2
This leaves only the petty argument about the $250 limitation placed
on Billie in a later docket sheet order. As Billie explained, she had a good reason
for the fairly minimal draws from the account in excess of this monthly allowance.
When she finally got her two horses from William, what little horse tack William
gave her was in poor condition, and she had to spend some money just to basically
equip the horses.
“Contempt is the willful disobedience toward, or open disrespect for,
the rules or orders of a court.” Commonwealth v. Burge, 947 S.W.2d 805, 808
(Ky. 1996). “Civil contempt consists of the failure of one to do something under
order of court, generally for the benefit of a party litigant.” Id.
2 Findings of Fact, Conclusions of Law, and Decree of Dissolution, page 3, Record at 271.
-10- “In a civil contempt proceeding, the initial burden is on the party
seeking sanctions to show by clear and convincing evidence that the alleged
contemnor has violated a valid court order.” Commonwealth, Cabinet for Health
& Fam. Servs. v. Ivy, 353 S.W.3d 324, 332 (Ky. 2011). Once a prima facie case is
made, “a presumption of contempt arises, and the burden of production shifts to the
alleged contemnor to show, clearly and convincingly, that he or she was unable to
comply with the court’s order or was, for some other reason, justified in not
complying.” Id. “The alleged contemnor must offer evidence tending to show
clearly that he or she made all reasonable efforts to comply. If the alleged
contemnor makes a sufficient showing, then the presumption of contempt dissolves
and the trial court must make its determination from the totality of the evidence,
with the ultimate burden of persuasion on the movant.” Id. (citations omitted).
Before contempt can be found, the first requirement is a valid court
order. William paints this non-existent status quo order as an “agreed order.” An
agreed order, if properly entered, is a contract. Cagata v. Cagata, 475 S.W.3d 49,
56 (Ky. App. 2015). “The fundamental elements of a valid contract are offer and
acceptance, full and complete terms, and consideration. For the terms to be
considered complete they must be definite and certain and must set forth the
promises of performance to be rendered by each party.” Waggoner v. Waggoner,
-11- 644 S.W.3d 548, 552 (Ky. App. 2022) (citing Energy Home, Div. of Southern
Energy Homes, Inc. v. Peay, 406 S.W.3d 828, 834 (Ky. 2013)).
None of those elements are present here. It cannot be reasonably
argued that the singular phrase “Non-diss order to enter” contains “full and
complete terms.” In order to determine if a party has violated a valid court order,
the substance of the order must be ascertainable by its written terms. The status
quo “order” William claims Billie violated is a docket sheet from November 2019.
The notation indicates the family court intended the parties to submit a more
detailed order. This was not done. William cannot show Billie violated a valid
court order, because no valid status quo order ever existed. We agree with the
family court that the “order” William attempted to enforce was not specific enough
to be enforceable.
Prior to redirecting her Kentucky retirement funds3 away from the
joint checking account, Billie specifically asked the family court for permission to
do so. The court responded that no order existed that would prohibit Billie from
taking this action. For William to argue that Billie violated a court order under
these circumstances is disingenuous at best, bordering on frivolous. Additionally,
3 We note the protection provided to Billie to treat her Kentucky retirement as her property by Kentucky Revised Statutes (“KRS”) 161.700. The existence of other accounts for William or Billie impacted this protection. KRS 403.190. Again, William does not question the overall division of the substantial property these parties had at the time of the divorce, just the non- finding of contempt.
-12- William requested sanctions against Billie in the amount of $48,000 with
absolutely no explanation whatsoever as to a valid basis for this number. If a party
is seeking compensation from an alleged contempt, said party must prove that
amount. Ivy, supra, at 332.
If William could overcome the problems with the lack of a specific
court order, he cannot show the family court’s refusal to find contempt was
erroneous. Despite William’s assertions to the contrary, the choice to decline to
sanction a party for contempt is within the family court’s discretion. “A court has
broad discretion when exercising its contempt power. A court’s discretion in this
regard necessarily encompasses the discretion to determine when to apply its
contempt powers and when to refrain from imposing sanctions and fines. Absent
an abuse of the court’s discretion we will not disturb its decision on appeal.” Cary
v. Pulaski Cnty. Fiscal Ct., 420 S.W.3d 500, 520 (Ky. App. 2013) (citations
omitted). Considering the slow walking engaged in by William in this case, the
family court was justified in evaluating the equities and declining to hold Billie in
CONCLUSION
To the extent a valid “status quo” order existed, it was without any
specifics. With the long history of this case, the family court was not required to
agree with William’s punitive motivation in seeking contempt sanctions. With
-13- what little evidence was presented about excess draws from the joint account by
Billie, the family court was within its rights to accept the explanation offered and
not find contempt.
Contempt is for the court to decide; it is not a weapon to be used by
the parties. If any punishment is deserved in this case, it may well be that Billie’s
request that we consider this appeal frivolous is the better candidate to serve as a
basis for such action. But we decline that invitation so that these parties may
finally move on from their divorce. We affirm the Madison Family Court.
ALL CONCUR.
BRIEFS FOR APPELLANT: BRIEF FOR APPELLEE:
William D. Tingley Daniel L. Gaus Louisville, Kentucky Rodney G. Davis Richmond, Kentucky
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