White v. White

312 S.W.2d 167, 1958 Mo. App. LEXIS 581
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedApril 7, 1958
DocketNo. 22671
StatusPublished
Cited by7 cases

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White v. White, 312 S.W.2d 167, 1958 Mo. App. LEXIS 581 (Mo. Ct. App. 1958).

Opinion

SPERRY, Commissioner.

Plaintiff, Floyd W. White, sued defendant, Helen M. White, for divorce, alleging indignities. Defendant filed answer, in the nature of a general denial, and a cross-bill seeking a judgment for separate maintenance. After a lengthy trial the court found the iss'ues for plaintiff on his petition and against defendant on her cross-bill. From a judgment awarding plaintiff a decree of divorce and denying her motion for additional attorneys’ fees, defendant has appealed.

Plaintiff was a locomotive fireman and engineer. His annual income, for the years immediately preceding the trial, was from $5,000 to $6,000. The parties were married .August 15, 1942, following a courtship of ■ some twelve or thirteen years, during which time they both lived in Moberly, Missouri, a very short distance apart. After their marriage they moved into a modern apartment located a short distance from their former homes. This was the only home .they ever occupied during their married life.

Defendant operated a beauty parlor from 1929 until 1949, when she was compelled to .sell it because she was no longer able to work. In 1943 plaintiff entered the service of the United States, as a railroad worker, and was stationed overseas a part .of the time. He returned to this country and the parties resumed their marital relationship in 1945. From all of the evidence it appears that they had no serious trouble during these years but, in 1949, they ceased having any sexual relationship. However, regardless of that fact, there seems to have been no open conflict until January, 1955.

Plaintiff’s testimony is to the effect that, in 1949, defendant was ill and visited various doctors; that she told him that the doctor had advised her that she should not have sexual relations because of some abnormality. Defendant’s version of that matter is that plaintiff refused to have such relations with her because he claimed to have injured his back while working on the locomotive. She claimed that she sought such relations because she was advised by her.doctors that it would tend to cure her nervous condition. From a reading of the record it is impossible to tell which version is true. Plaintiff stated that he suffered no back injury and did not tell defendant that he did, and that defendant spurned his advances.

Plaintiff stated that defendant spent a lot of time at her mother’s home and neglected plaintiff; that she would get angry and go there over his protest. Defendant admitted that she spent time with her mother but only because of her mother’s illness and plaintiff’s absence because of his work. In her testimony she complained that he failed to take her places when he would go out. He testified to the effect that she was of a quarrelsome, nagging disposition, frequently called him vile names and cursed him; that her favorite name for him was “dirty s.o.b.”; that she spoke ill of his mother and would not and did not have his mother in their home; that from the beginning of their marriage she had charged him with being with other women but did not name any one until in February, 1955. She admitted calling him a “dirty s.o.b.,” on several occasions, but stated that she did not speak ill of his mother and that she did have her to dinner a number of times, particularly on his birthday. Defendant stated that [169]*169plaintiff used bad language toward her at various times, and that she long suspected him of infidelity; but she said nothing that occurred prior to February, 1955, when she learned of his association with another woman, would have been, or was, of sufficient consequence to cause her to seek a separation; that they had a serious quarrel in January, 1955, when he told her that he was going to get a divorce; that, during the week of February 14th, she was informed that he was associating with another woman; that they quarreled all of that week; that, about 3 a. m., on February 20th, he came home from his work and quarreled with her for being up (claiming that she was checking on him) she having gotten up to go to the bathroom; 'that they quarreled, and after they were both in bed he struck her in the back with his knee, knocking her out of bed; that when he arose, later, he packed his clothes and left her.

Plaintiff’s version is that when he arrived home from work she arose, looked at the clock, and asked him what whore he had been.with; that they quarreled until near .6 o’clock; that when h.e arose at about 11:00 a. m., she had his clothes packed and told him' to get out; that he left her and has not lived with her since then; that, after the separation she drew out over $1,000, virtually all of their joint bank account; that she charged clothing, furniture, and other things to'his account, in the amount of near $1,000; that she falsély charged him, in the presence of others, in a store, with having purchased a TV set for some woman; that she humiliated him by visiting the home of a woman acquaintance of plaintiff, and there creating a scene; that she .humiliated him by trying to follow him, and having others to do so, in an effort to prove that he was associating with another woman.

Defendant testified to the effect that, after the- separation, she and other women friends followed him, at night, to the home of another woman and threw a flash light on them, on the woman’s back porch when they were entering the woman’s apartment. Defendant offered corroborating testimony as to this matter; but the “other woman” denied the happening and offered evidence that the back porch was so enclosed, describing it, that defendant could not have thrown a light on it so as to see anyone on the porch, and suggested the name of a workman who could verify her 'testimony. This testimony went unchallenged by defendant. Defendant also offered testimony to the effect that plaintiff was seen at various times and places in an automobile with the “other woman”. She was also corroborated in this by the testimony of a woman friend; but this .testimony was contradicted by that of plaintiff and the “other woman.”

The , transcript .consists of -469 pages and the testimony, throughout .’this long record, is one unbroken story of contradictions, one side . offering. one version; of the happenings and events .and the other offering equally strong evidence.’ to the contrary.. Where thé .truth lies’, so far as an examination of the court record here is concerned, is beyond the comprehension of a Solomon, if one could, si.t in judgment. In such case we should and will defer to the findings of-the trial’judge; who saw and heard the witnesses. Schneider v. Schneider, Mo.App., 293 S.W,2d 157, 163.

If plaintiff’s testimony is to.'be accepted as true, then he is the innocent.and injured party. He has been subjected .to humiliation and indignities over' a "long period of time, such as to render his condition in life intolerable, within the meaning of the divorce statutes. If defendant’s. testimony is accepted as true, then she is the ’innocent and injured party and is entitled to relief as prayed. The trial court found these issues for plaintiff and against defendant,' after seeing and hearing the witnesses and parties in the court room for a period of several days.

Our statement of facts is very brief as compared with the record here, but we see no necessity to set out in detail all of [170]*170the facts that were in issue between the parties. The evidence is in irreconcilable conflict and we have attempted to set out enough to show that this is true.

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