Waddingham v. Waddingham

21 Mo. App. 609, 1886 Mo. App. LEXIS 233
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedApril 19, 1886
StatusPublished
Cited by14 cases

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Bluebook
Waddingham v. Waddingham, 21 Mo. App. 609, 1886 Mo. App. LEXIS 233 (Mo. Ct. App. 1886).

Opinion

Ellison, J.

— In 1830, in the state of Vermont, there was born of an unmarried mother, a girl child, whose subsequent history forms the greater part of a voluminous, record of nearly four hundred pages. She was put in charge of her grandfather Hulett, under whose care and protection she grew into young womanhood. Her mother married a man named Remington, who was the child’s reputed father. He died some years thereafter, and his widow, following the course of emigration then pouring from the east into Michigan, moved to Detroit, whither many of her relatives had preceded her. She had not been in Michigan long ere she married, perhaps in the-[615]*615year 1843, a widower named John Haskins, he having-several grown np girls by his former wife.

Defendant, in 1844, followed her mother to Detroit and took up her home with her, in her step-father’s family. In the same city there had been married before-this, a widower Marsh, to a widow Gavin, each having-grown children. The Gavins consisted of several boys: James, Isaac, Knox and Charles, and it is Charles, who,, next to the parties concerned, figures most prominently in this cause. It is on account of an alleged prior marriage between defendant and Charles Gavin that this suit is now prosecuted by plaintiff. He first instituted it for divorce only, the cause being intolerable indignities, and conspiracy to defraud him of his property. Thereafter, in December, 1882, he amended his petition and ásked for a divorce for her unchastity, charging her with adultery in 1859, giving birth to an illegitimate child in 1878, and that at the time of her intermarriage with him she had a living husband in the person of Charles Gavin. After-wards, the plaintiff filed yet another amended pleading, in which he omits all charges except the prior marriage to Gavin, and instead of asking for a divorce, he prays that his marriage with defendant be declared a nullity and void ab initio. Defendant made answer to the last amendment, in which she denied all but the marriage with plaintiff, and in addition thereto, she set up by way of cross-bill, many grievances against plaintiff, and prayed a divorce for his fault, with alimony. Her principal charges against him were gross indignities, habitual drunkenness, and adultery. On trial in the court below, the plaintiff prevailed, and defendant appealed to the supreme court of the state, from whence the cause was transferred to this court. The case presents some remarkable aspects. The evidence covers a period of fifty odd years, and comes mostly from people of advanced age, who are compelled to call back many facts and incidents necessarily forgotten in the vicissitudes of the length of a life-time since their happening. The defend[616]*616ant, wlio had grown to be a woman of more than ordinary beauty and precocity, in a short time began an acquaintance with the Marsh family, especially the Gavin young men. She says she was on terms of particularly social friendship with Knox Gavin. Plaintiff charges that she became acquainted with Charles in July, 1845, and married him in September following. There is no record, or other written evidence of this marriage, nor is there any one produced who witnessed the ceremony. There are no children, dead or alive, as the fruit of this alliance. In September, 1845, Charles Gavin was convicted in a criminal court at Buffalo, New York, of petit larceny, and sentenced to imprisonment in the common jail for twenty days. In July, 1846, he stole fifteen dollars in money at Buffalo, and was convicted thereof in September following, and sentenced to three years in the penitentiary, ending in September, 1849. In 1850 he was regularly and publicly married in Detroit to Anna Bates, and shortly removed to Toledo, Ohio. His mother and stepfather visited him there, and' he visited them at Detroit, burying, also, one or two of his children at Detroit, which were born of the Bates marriage. He does not figure personally in this record, from this period on, to about the beginning of the present action, when he turns up alive on the side of the plaintiff in this contest.

As I have said, defendant’s reputed father was Remington, who afterwards married her mother. She was raised by her grandfather Hulett, and afterwards lived for a time with the Haskins family. She thus came to be known in Detroit by the name of Remington, Hulett, Haskins, and Gavin. How she got the latter name is one of the issues, as well as one of the mysteries, of this case. She was arrested August 2, 1847, on the complaint of Haskins, her stepfather, under the name of Paulina Gavin. 'She was married a year thereafter to Bernard Dunham, as Paulina Gavin. Shortly after this marriage, she and her husband removed to LaPorte, Indiana, where they lived only a short time. For some cause, or with[617]*617out any cause, lie abandoned her, and in 1850 she went to St. Louis, Missouri, in which city she met the plaintiff. She was still in the bloom of youth, and plaintiff soon became enamored with her. She told, him of her past life, but as to what account she gave of it, is a controverted point between them. His statement of it is as follows:

“Defendant told me that before she came to St. Louis she lived in Detroit, Michigan, with her stepfather, John Haskins. That soon after going to Detroit, she met Charles R. Gavin, and got acquainted with him at Spring-well, aplace about six miles from Detroit. That some time after that she and Charles R. Gavin were in company at a party at night; that they, in company with a young lady, left the party and- went in search of some one to perform the marriage ceremony between her and Gavin; the office of the justice of the peace had closed, and thef went to a boarding-house, or hotel, where a preacher boarded, and that she and Charles R. Gavin were there united in marriage by that preacher; that they went to their stepfather’s house that night and told her mother, Jane Haskins, that she and Gavin had just been married; that her mother did not approve of the marriage, and became enraged and threw a bucket of slop-water on her and Gavin, and drove him away and would not let him stay there that night; that next morning, her stepfather, John Haskins, went to the preacher who had performed the ceremony and threatened to have him prosecuted. That she and Gavin lived and cohabited together there in D etroit for some time thereafter. I don’t remember how long, or whether she stated how long. That Gavin then started to California and died on the way, and that she then married Dunham.”

Whatever may be the truth as to just what history she gave him of herself, he was in love with her and proffered assistance in divorce proceedings against Dun-ham, her recreant husband. The result was she obtained a divorce from Dunham, and was duly and formally mar[618]*618ried to plaintiff on August 7, 1853, in the city of St. Louis. This is as far as the material portions of the evidence on this branch of the case agree; thence on to-the end is a contradiction of both fact and circumstance as-they are attempted to be established by either side.

While there is nothing witnessing the marriage, either written or oral, plaintiff relies for the support of the judgment in his favor on the proof of the marriage by reputation, defendant’s acknowledgment to that effect, and the circumstances of her being arrested, and being married to Dunham under the name of Gavin. In other-words, he does not rely on direct proof of the marriage itself, but only on such evidence from which, generally, a marriage will be presumed.

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