Venticinque v. Lair

CourtSupreme Court of Georgia
DecidedDecember 9, 2025
DocketS25A1342
StatusPublished

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In the Supreme Court of Georgia

Decided: December 9, 2025

S25A1342. VENTICINQUE v. LAIR.

LAND, Justice.

Krystle Venticinque appeals the trial court’s order granting

Amber Lair, her former romantic partner, joint legal custody and

primary physical custody of Venticinque’s biological minor child,

L.V. Among other things, Venticinque argues that the trial court

erred in adjudicating Lair as an equitable caregiver of the child

under OCGA § 19-7-3.1 and challenges the constitutionality of the

Equitable Caregiver Statute. For the reasons that follow, we vacate

the trial court’s order granting Lair equitable caregiver status,

vacate the trial court’s custody order, and remand this case to the

trial court with direction to apply the correct legal standard under

OCGA § 19-7-3.1.

1. The evidence presented to the trial court shows as follows. Venticinque and her long-term romantic partner, Lair, lived

together in Savannah. In 2018, the couple decided to start a family.

They submitted photos of Lair to a sperm bank to select a sperm

donor with similar features and determined that Venticinque would

be the biological mother. Lair paid some of the fees related to

Venticinque’s fertility treatments. After Venticinque became

pregnant, she planned a baby shower in which both she and Lair

participated in a gender reveal and picked out items for a baby

registry. Although Venticinque denied that she ever referred to Lair

as L.V.’s mother, she sent Lair birthday cards and messages calling

her “Mommy” and “Mama.” The couple intended to get married,1 for

Lair to formally adopt the child, and for the child to have Lair’s last

name.

When the child, L.V., was born in July 2021, only Lair and

Venticinque were present at the hospital. Lair was the first person

to hold and feed L.V., and she took two weeks off of work after L.V.’s

birth to care for him. After that, Venticinque stayed home with L.V.

1 Although the couple was engaged for several years, they never married.

2 while Lair returned to work. Lair and Venticinque sent out cards

announcing L.V.’s birth that referred to both women as his “proud

parents.” Venticinque also made multiple social media posts in

which she tagged Lair and referred to L.V. as “our baby.”

Witnesses, including Lair, testified at trial that Venticinque’s

personality changed after she delivered L.V. Venticinque began

“sheltering” L.V. and herself from the outside world. In November

2022, when L.V. was 16 months old, Venticinque took L.V. to visit

her family in Pennsylvania. Despite purchasing a return plane

ticket, Venticinque did not return to Savannah.2 Venticinque

testified that she subsequently stopped all contact between Lair and

L.V.

On December 18, 2022, Lair filed an action seeking equitable

caregiver status of L.V. under OCGA § 19-7-3.1 (the “Petition”).

Venticinque responded to the Petition and challenged the

2Venticinque testified that she left Lair due to abuse, that she felt “pressured” to refer to L.V. as a “Lair baby,” and that Lair did not take on “full parent responsibility” with L.V., only changing “a handful of diapers and fe[eding] him a couple of times.” 3 constitutionality of OCGA § 19-7-3.1. On March 27, 2023, the trial

court held a hearing at which Lair, Venticinque, and a family friend

testified. After the hearing, Venticinque filed a motion to dismiss

Lair’s Petition, again arguing that the Equitable Caregiver Statute,

OCGA § 19-7-3.1, is unconstitutional. On June 12, 2023, the trial

court issued an order denying Venticinque’s motion to dismiss

(“June 2023 Order”), finding that the Equitable Caregiver Statute is

constitutional. Specifically, the trial court held that the Equitable

Caregiver Statute is constitutional because it is narrowly tailored to

limit the individuals who may seek equitable caregiver status and

because it directly incorporates the “constitutional standard for

evaluating harm to children” set by this Court in Clark v. Wade, 273

Ga. 587 (2001).

In the June 2023 Order, the trial court analyzed whether Lair

satisfied the statutory requirements for equitable caregiver status,

concluding that Lair had shown, by clear and convincing evidence,

that she was “fully committed to taking a parental role” in L.V.’s life,

had “engaged in the caretaking of the child, and established a bond

4 with the child,” and had fully accepted parental responsibilities for

L.V. “without expectation of financial compensation.” The trial

court then turned to the last statutory requirement, OCGA § 19-7-

3.1(d)(5), stating that it was “next address[ing] whether defendant

[Venticinque] has demonstrated that the child will suffer physical

harm or long-term emotional harm if plaintiff’s [Lair’s] petition is

granted, and whether continuing the relationship between plaintiff

[Lair] and the child is in the best interest of the child.” (emphasis

added). “Considering the factors set forth in OCGA § 19-7-3.1(d),”

the trial court awarded Lair equitable caregiver status of L.V. The

trial court also awarded Lair temporary joint legal custody of L.V.

and visitation time, with primary decision-making authority

remaining with Venticinque.3

On August 14, 2024, when L.V. was approximately two years

old, the trial court held a bench trial to determine custody,

visitation, and child support, at which Venticinque and Lair both

3 This Court declined to grant Venticinque’s application for interlocutory

review of the June 2023 Order. 5 testified. On November 1, 2024, the trial court issued an “Amended

Final Order on Plaintiff’s Petition for Custody, Visitation and Child

Support,” (“Amended Final Order”) in which the trial court relied on

OCGA § 19-9-3 in determining custody and visitation rights. In

relevant part, the trial court granted the parties joint legal custody

of L.V., with Lair having primary physical custody and Venticinque

having visitation rights as set forth in the trial court’s November 4,

2024 Parenting Plan (“Parenting Plan”). On November 26, 2024,

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