Varner v. Conway

CourtCourt of Appeals of Iowa
DecidedAugust 18, 2021
Docket20-0143
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 20-0143 Filed August 18, 2021

TANNER D. VARNER, Plaintiff-Appellee,

vs.

LAUREN E. CONWAY, Defendant-Appellant. ________________________________________________________________

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Robert B. Hanson,

Judge.

Lauren Conway appeals the modification of a custody order. AFFIRMED

AS MODIFIED AND REMANDED.

Tara M. Elcock of Elcock Law Firm, PLC, Indianola, for appellant.

Catherine C. Dietz-Kilen of Harrison & Dietz-Kilen, P.L.C., Des Moines, for

appellee.

Annie von Gillern of von Gillern Law Firm, PLC, Urbandale, guardian ad

litem for minor child

Heard by Bower, C.J., and Tabor and Ahlers, JJ. 2

BOWER, Chief Judge.

Lauren Conway appeals a modification of the custody order of her child with

Tanner Varner. Lauren challenges the award of physical care to Tanner, the

visitation provision, child support, attorney fees, and other issues. Tanner raises

two evidentiary issues though he did not cross-appeal. The child’s guardian ad

litem (GAL) challenges the court’s physical-care determination and how it

addressed the GAL’s position in its ruling. We affirm the court’s ruling as modified

and remand for the district court to recalculate child support.

I. Procedural History.

Lauren and Tanner are the parents of M.V., born in 2010. In 2015, the

parties entered into a stipulated paternity decree and custody agreement placing

the child in the parents’ joint legal custody and joint physical care.1 Every week on

Monday and Tuesday the child was in Lauren’s physical care, and on Wednesday

and Thursday the child was in Tanner’s physical care. They alternated weekends

of Friday through Sunday. At the time of the stipulation, neither party had much

income, and both agreed Tanner would pay Lauren about $120 a month in child

support.

In January 2018, Tanner filed a petition to modify seeking physical care of

the child and child support. Lauren contends circumstances have not changed

substantially to merit a change in care, but if they have, she requests physical care,

child support, and attorney fees.

1There was no custody or child support agreement before 2015. Tanner and Lauren ended their relationship in 2012, and the child was mainly in Lauren’s care while Tanner moved around the country. Tanner paid little child support. 3

Following mediation in early April, the court appointed a GAL concerning all

matters related to the child. The modification trial occurred in February and May

2019, spanning eight days. The court filed its decree on October 9. In January

2020, the court denied a motion to reconsider, which was filed by Lauren and

joined by the GAL.

The district court determined shared physical care was not in the child’s

best interests. The court found the stability and structure of Tanner’s home was

superior to the inconsistency and history of irresponsibility of Lauren’s care. The

court awarded Tanner physical care. The court did not modify the days of care

from the stipulation, but shortened Lauren’s visitation periods on school nights to

end at 7:30 p.m. rather than going overnight. When school is not in session, the

child stays overnight with Lauren on the week night visits as well as her weekends.

In calculating child support, the court imputed to Tanner an income of

$39,000, concluding his earning capacity was “at least equal to that of Ms.

Conway.” The court ordered court costs and the GAL fees split equally and for

each party to be responsible for their own attorney fees. Lauren appeals.

II. Background Facts.

M.V. is generally described as a happy, energetic, and loving child. The

child’s primary extracurricular activity is gymnastics, with practice three nights a

week from 4:30 to 7:30 p.m. and weekend team competitions. Both parents are

supportive of her participation in gymnastics. The child also participates in other

extracurricular activities. The child is loved by immediate and extended family on

both sides. 4

Tanner has a college degree in exercise science. From 2007 through 2016,

Tanner pursued a career in professional arena football, often based in distant cities

with extensive travelling.2 Around his sports seasons, Tanner worked temporary

jobs, including as a loan document specialist, a security guard, and a substitute

teacher. Since early 2017, Tanner has worked part-time in passenger services for

an airline and plans to train as a pilot. His part-time employment status—working

from 4:00 to 9:30 a.m. five days a week—is by choice, and he could readily find

full-time employment in a wide variety of jobs. At his current pay rate, he would

make about $20,000 per year full-time. In 2018, Tanner married, and his spouse’s

financial support allows Tanner to spend more time with the child and participate

in school events. His spouse pays for the child’s gymnastics. She helps get the

child to school in the mornings and transports her to and attends extracurricular

activities. Tanner and his spouse live in Urbandale within the Waukee school

district boundaries.

Lauren has worked several different jobs since M.V.’s birth. Beginning in

the fall of 2018, she has worked full-time as a manager-in-training at a retail store.

Her gross income is approximately $39,000 per year. Her income is enough to

pay her living expenses, and she lives in an apartment in West Des Moines, also

within the Waukee school district. She has had periods of employment, income,

housing, and transportation insecurity—including late 2017 into early 2018. During

2The arena football season runs from March to August, but Tanner tried to travel back to Iowa regularly and his parents would bring the child to visit him. Tanner’s parents took care of the child on Tanner’s scheduled care days. 5

the time Lauren’s transportation was unreliable, the child was sometimes tardy to

school on mornings after overnights with Lauren.

In 2017, Tanner and Lauren stopped co-parenting effectively, and their

communications devolved into snarkiness, hostility, deliberate misunderstandings,

and a general unwillingness to help each other. Neither parent does well at

communicating plans or schedules to the other, but both believe they are better at

sharing information than the record shows. Both parents seem to conveniently

forget things they do wrong or the other parent might do well. The parents’ conflict

made the child anxious, and as trial approached, the child told adults different

stories due to her anxiety. Nevertheless, the parents each believed the child over

the other parent.

Tanner and Lauren have very different parenting styles. Tanner is “very

structured” and operates according to a schedule. Lauren is “free-spirited” and at

times has struggled with punctuality and structure for the child. The parents’

extended families used to get along, but as hostilities rose during these

proceedings, these relationships deteriorated. The child’s therapist indicates the

child feels stuck in the middle between the parents, and the child has told other

adults she wishes her parents would just get along.

III. Standard of Review

We review proceedings tried in equity de novo. Lambert v. Everist, 418

N.W.2d 40, 42 (Iowa 1988). We review the entire record and adjudicate the issues

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