Vander Molen v. Vander Molen

418 N.W.2d 108, 164 Mich. App. 448
CourtMichigan Court of Appeals
DecidedNovember 16, 1987
DocketDocket 100543
StatusPublished

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Vander Molen v. Vander Molen, 418 N.W.2d 108, 164 Mich. App. 448 (Mich. Ct. App. 1987).

Opinion

Cynar, J.

Plaintiff appeals as of right from the June 29, 1987, judgment of divorce which awarded custody of the parties’ three minor sons to defendant. We affirm.

Plaintiff and defendant were married on October *450 2, 1970. Four children were born from the marriage: Laura Jo, born April 5, 1971; Michael W., born June 1, 1972; James L., born May 29, 1980; and Ryan J., born December 25, 1981. Following the deterioration and eventual breakdown of the marriage, on August 21, 1986, plaintiff filed a complaint for divorce. Simultaneously, plaintiff filed a motion for temporary child support and custody. The trial court granted plaintiff’s motion on August 27, 1986, and gave temporary custody of the four children to plaintiff. Defendant was afforded reasonable visitation.

On September 2, 1986, defendant filed objections to the August 27, 1986, order for temporary child custody and support. A brief hearing on defendant’s objections took place on October 13, 1986. After the hearing, the court ordered that the status quo be maintained, without prejudice to either party. In addition, the court ordered the Friend of the Court to conduct a child custody investigation and make a recommendation.

Trial took place on April 10, 1987. At the hearing, Gayle Marie Miller, plaintiff’s sister, testified that defendant was a good father and the children loved him. Miller said that one of the sons, however, "hates” his mother because of the introduction of a third-party male who is involved with plaintiff. Miller also said that although plaintiff has placed her boyfriend ahead of God and the children, nonetheless, plaintiff is a good mother.

Kathleen Cardenas, another of plaintiff’s sisters, also testified that defendant is a good father and a good provider. She said defendant has loved and disciplined the children in a manner consistent with being a good father. Cardenas knew of no reason why defendant’s employment would prohibit him from taking care of the children. Cardenas had never heard defendant swear at the chil *451 dren or see him hit them. The children openly demonstrate their affection for the father by sitting on his lap and giving him hugs.

Cardenas also said that plaintiff was a good mother. However, since plaintiff and the children moved to Kentwood, the children seem unhappy, frustrated and uneasy. Apparently, plaintiffs male friend resides in Kentwood. According to Cardenas, plaintiffs "bad choices,” e.g., her extramarital affair, her decision to divorce defendant, her move to Kentwood, and her violation of the "laws of God and man,” have had a great adverse effect on the children.

Delores Hassevoort, defendant’s sister, testified that defendant has a very good relationship with the children. He is very attentive to their needs. He does not hit the children or swear at them. He takes the children to church every Sunday.

John Rooks, plaintiffs male friend, also testified and said he had been recently divorced. Prior to his divorce, he had been dating plaintiff and was involved with her seven years prior to the trial. During their relationship, Rooks was also married. Rooks said that he loves plaintiff and intends to marry her. Rooks indicated that one of the minor boys attempted to run away from plaintiff and return to defendant father. Finally, Rooks testified that he has a good relationship with the four children. They seem to love him.

A friend of the parties, Vanetta Shumake, testified that plaintiff is a "super mother” and defendant is a "good father.” Shumake said that plaintiff took care of the children. Shumake believed that defendant only sought custody so as to prolong the divorce. She said that the children seemed to love Rooks and were happy with plaintiff.

Timothy C. Vandyke, an employee from the *452 Friend of the Court office, testified regarding his investigation. He noted some confusion in the children, but no more than what he has observed in other children experiencing the divorce of their parents. Vandyke concluded that an established custodial environment existed with plaintiff. However, he did not investigate the Kentwood environment since plaintiff was still living in Zeeland when he conducted the investigation.

Vandyke further found that during the parties’ marriage the children spent most of their time with plaintiff because of defendant’s long work hours. Since plaintiff’s move to Kentwood, the children spend virtually twenty-four hours per day with plaintiff. Defendant, on the other hand, works long hours. When the children visit defendant, he spends most of the time with the boys. Laura stays in the home doing laundry, dishes, or taking a nap. There is a real possibility that Laura would be placed in a parenting role if defendant was awarded custody of the children. Finally, Vandyke indicated that Laura prefers to be with her mother while Michael wants to be with defendant. He believed that the other boys were too young to express a preference.

Plaintiff testified that she did not want defendant to have custody because she primarily cared for the children during the marriage. Plaintiff said that defendant never cared for them and that defendant felt that it was a "woman’s job.” She said that defendant is unable to provide for the emotional needs of the children, especially Laura. She said defendant is very critical of females and has stated that he should only have had boys.

Plaintiff basically raised the children. She registered them for school and helped them with their homework. She attended the parent-teachers’ conferences and athletic events. Plaintiff also ar *453 ranged their piano lessons. Defendant was hardly at home, working sometimes as late as 9:00 p.m. Plaintiff was in charge of the children’s discipline. However, on one occasion, defendant apparently kicked Michael in the back and called him "stupid” because Michael did not return one of defendant’s tools to its proper place.

Finally, defendant testified. He denied all of plaintiff’s allegations of neglect. He did the "father’s share as much as she did as a mother.” Defendant attended some of the children’s sports events. He could not attend the teachers’ conferences since they were scheduled during the day when he was working. He helped the little boys with their prayers. He takes the children to church twice on Sundays. He acknowledged kicking Michael because he was angry. Defendant denied that he belittles the children. Finally, defendant said he loves his children and they love him. He does not believe that his work schedule would interfere with the children’s needs.

After the trial, on April 13, 1987, the court rendered its decision from the bench. The court concluded that an established custodial environment existed with plaintiff only in regards to Laura. No custodial environment existed with the mother regarding the three boys. On balance, the court ruled that it was in the best interests of the boys to place them in the father’s custody. The court incorporated its ruling in a May 1, 1987, order of custody from which plaintiff appeals raising three issues.

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