Vance v. Vance

1 Ky. Op. 262, 1866 Ky. LEXIS 300
CourtCourt of Appeals of Kentucky
DecidedJune 21, 1866
StatusPublished

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Vance v. Vance, 1 Ky. Op. 262, 1866 Ky. LEXIS 300 (Ky. Ct. App. 1866).

Opinion

OPINION op tiie Court by^

Judge Peters :

In 1849 the appellees, Morgan Vance and Susan P., liis wife, resided on the Mississippi river, below the city of Memphis, in Tennessee, and her father, George O. Thompson, then resided on a large and very valuable estate in Mercer county, Kentucky.

He was far advanced in years, in feeble health, and as he expressed himself, expected “to live but a short time.”

Thus situated, and thus impressed, Thompson desired that his daughter, Mrs. Susan P. Vance, for whom he then entertained the tenderest parental affection, should, with her husband, remove from Tennessee and settle on tbe Pay farm, as it is called, near bim, or reside with him; and during- the year 1849, wrote them a letter, inviting them to come to his house, and make preparations for a permanent home in Kentucky.

On the 10th of October of that year, M. Vance and wife were [263]*263at ber father’s, and while in his house, she addressed him a letter, substantially as follows:

The short conversation we had has led me to think over carefully and calmly as I can, the proposal made to Morgan and me, to live with you during your life, or so long as I could be of any service or comfort to you, arranging our plans to make our home in this country, and with the design of purchasing out the other heirs of this place, whenever it may be for sale, which you secure the chance of, by arrangements in your will, and will clearly and unreservedly tell you my feelings about it. We came here to see you, and to see if we could do anything now or hereafter to add to your pleasure or comfort without any connection in any way with your business or property, it having been always my earnest desire, that my husband should have no business intercourse with my family, and this has deepened by all that had taken place.
“ So far as my presence, or carrying out the warmest desire of my life, to make your happiness, by all in my power, is connected, there is no hesitation for a second, for Morgan or myself. Simple duty, even without the feeling I have for you, teaches us both, that while you need us, there can be no other claim so strong. To do this, of course, must be giving up all plans for a home of our own for the time, and, consequently, it would be greatly to our pecuniary advantage, in every way, and very much to our pleasure, if it were settled, that our home for life was to be here, or near here, so as to enable Morgan to dispose of all his property, and invest his means here; besides the unspeakable comfort of thus removing the necessity of his leaving us and of our moving about again.
“ All this would make your proposal to live here, with the determination to improve our Kay place, which we could do immediately as our home, or for a child —- if it should happen that this place would be for sale, or rent sooner than I suppose, agreeable to me in a high degree, and to Morgan, except (I must speak plainly) for the startling and painful lesson taught in the feelings [264]*264of misunderstandings springing from tbe prospect of our living near you, and tbe mortifying position we bave been placed in before tbe world, as seeking your property at tbe disadvantage of my sisters, and living in your bouse to intrigue for sucb objects (false and unjust as these aspersions are), and tbat they are entertained and publicly charged upon us, we cannot doubt, since they have been so personally in tbe most insulting way. I should not regard' this for myself, but it renders tbe prospect before Morgan one painful to a proud man, and unendurable I fear. If there was tbe seeming causes for complaint, so easily found out of sucb an arrangement as this, however just it be, as between all concerned in it. While you live these things would be but talk, deeply wounding to us, but easily refuted when tried by your word; but when you are no more, who will be just enough to believe Morgan and I innocent, when charged with coming here to live with my father during his last years, to stand between him and his children, and cajole or wring from his feebleness, money or some greater share of his property? Nobody. You know this pa. My own mother would not; and the fact that yon arrange for us to get your home would be made a proof of all that had feeling would say. And so much is said to nourish such dissensions in families, and I have no hope of regaining what I have so strangely, to me, lost, of family affection. I dread more than death such trials of feeling and temper, and shrink from doing anything to bring me into a dispute about a father’s property, or a discussion about how or why it was given by him to me, or any other of his children. If you wish me to remain with you, I will do it, and with Morgan’s cordial consent, as children guests, totally unconnected with any property arrangements, or inducements, or I will ask him to resolve on making our home on our place — sell out and settle here for life, prepared to purchase the old homestead at any hour it may be for sale, and do all I can to carry out your wishes on one condition, which is, that you will write for me a simple statement of your invitation and promise of the refusal in the sale [265]*265of this place, being unsolicited, and nnsuggested by either Morgan or myself, and that we were not advised of it till after we had come here to see yon by yonr request. This is true, and though the arrangement is perfectly fair to all who are concerned I wish it for two reasons:
“ That it will be proof after your death, and after mine, for my children, that. I never asked or sought from yon, fairly or unfairly, to any human, any sort of property.
“ And in the second place, that if unhappily any difficulty should ever arise between any of the parties in such an arrangement, there would be a statement of the only one who has a right to propose of the whole. This is to avoid any claim of misunderstanding between any of us — you, ma, Morgan, and myself. And is the best safeguard; for all would never say we were deceived as to any part of our mutual promises —■ which chance is far more to me than not seeing for years my father and mother. I ask nothing, and only say what are the reasons which make me hesitate to do anything you wish, and how that hesitation would be removed; and I, enabled with a heart and mind free of care, or dread of misapprehension from any, to live here, the ofily place which will be home to me while you live, and to look forward to bringing up my children to enjoy and love it as I have done. If you, for reasons unknown to me, decline my wish, I can but say or do what I wished in coming here — only let us be of some comfort to you ■while you live, and let property alone, so far as I am concerned.

To which her father on the same day made the following response :

My dear daughter — My advanced age and the state of my health admonish me, and must render it evident to others that my life can be protracted but a few months longer. And, at its termination, I fear my family, like most families, similarly situated, will get to quarreling* about my property, and deal in criminations and recriminations in regard to my disposition of it by my will. To obviate this, as far as I can, I have concluded to leave some explanation on paper of my views, and the reasons [266]

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