T.S. v. R.S.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided January 7, 2025·No. A-2957-22·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-2957-22

T.S., Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. R.S., Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted October 30, 2024 – Decided January 7, 2025 Before Judges Marczyk and Torregrossa-O'Connor.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Essex County, Docket No. FV-07-1060-23.

Robert Carter Pierce, attorney for appellant (Jeff Thakker, of counsel; Robert Carter Pierce, on the briefs).

Harriet E. Raghnal, attorney for respondent.

PER CURIAM

Defendant R.S.1 appeals from the April 19, 2023 final restraining order (FRO) entered against him and in favor of plaintiff T.S. pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. Based on our review of the record and applicable legal principles, we affirm.

I.

The parties had a long, tumultuous relationship and were going through a divorce at the time of the FRO hearing. They began dating in the mid-1990s and married in 2007. In 1996, defendant had relationships with both plaintiff and her sister at the same time, but he testified he "didn't know they were sisters." Defendant testified his relationship with plaintiff was "rocky because . . . [he] had a baby with her sister" in 2005.

Later in 2005, defendant and plaintiff moved in together. Plaintiff became pregnant with defendant's son, Tom, who was born in 2006. Plaintiff testified "being in a relationship with [defendant] was hard," and he called her

1 We utilize initials and pseudonyms to protect the confidentiality of the parties, their children, and other relatives. R. 1:38-3(d)(9).

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disparaging names throughout their relationship, causing her to undergo gastric bypass surgery.2 Plaintiff had other children including Amy, who was born in 2001 from a different relationship. Plaintiff had a very strained relationship with Amy because she believed Amy was having an inappropriate relationship with defendant, her stepfather. In 2019, plaintiff observed Amy and defendant lying in bed together with Amy's infant son. Plaintiff went on social media "to talk about the fact that [she] saw them in the bed together." Thereafter, Amy and her infant son relocated to a homeless shelter after plaintiff kicked them out of the house.

Amy and plaintiff's long-standing antipathy was also evident in April 2020, while plaintiff and defendant were leasing a Newark home together. At that time, plaintiff was allegedly cheating on defendant. Amy had the password to plaintiff's phone and was able to access plaintiff's social media. In plaintiff's social media accounts, Amy found evidence of plaintiff's infidelity, which she shared with defendant. Defendant, in turn, became angry and sent plaintiff "a

2 Plaintiff testified he repeatedly called her names, such as "fat b[***]h[]" and "fat a[**]," which led her to undergo the weight loss procedure. After multiple procedures, including "a breast reduction," "arm lift," and a "tummy tuck," defendant began to call plaintiff "cut up fat b[***]h."

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whole bunch of texts" letting her know that he was aware of her affair. The messages persisted for three days, and plaintiff decided she was going to move out of their home and move in with her mother.

On April 20, 2020, the parties engaged in a physical confrontation, the facts of which were disputed. According to plaintiff, she arrived home and began taking bags to her car. Defendant emerged reeking of alcohol, angry that she was leaving and that she did not tell him about her affair. Defendant went into the kitchen and returned with a knife. Plaintiff testified she could not tell what kind of knife it was, but later learned it was a fruit knife. Plaintiff testified that defendant stated, "I should just kill you then bitch" and began "charging at [her]." Defendant got on top of plaintiff on the ground, held her down, and tried to stab her while she struggled to defend herself. She felt him stab her several times in the back, but could not tell if it pierced the skin at the time because of the adrenaline. Defendant punched plaintiff in the thigh area several times , but plaintiff managed to break free and began crawling away from him. Plaintiff called out to her son Tom for help, not knowing if he was home. She testified she feared for her life.

Plaintiff recounted that defendant then wrapped an extension cord around her neck and began to choke her. She testified she felt and heard "the bones in

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the back of [her] neck . . . cracking." Tom and his friend came running out of his room and began punching defendant in the back to get him off plaintiff. Plaintiff's phone fell out of her shirt, and defendant released the cord, picked up the phone, and threw it against the wall. Plaintiff took the opportunity to get up and run outside. A neighbor tried to intervene, but defendant followed plaintiff and "slammed [her] face into the back of the car five times in front of [their] son" and the neighbor.

Another neighbor then confronted defendant. Defendant got into plaintiff's car and almost crashed into another vehicle. He got out of the car, leaving it running in the street, and plaintiff did not know where he went. A neighbor called police. When police arrived, they learned defendant was in the home, and they broke down the door and arrested him. Plaintiff subsequently applied for a temporary restraining order (TRO).

Defendant disputed plaintiff's version of the incident. He testified he told plaintiff to leave the house that evening because of her cheating. Plaintiff became angry and attacked him. He claims she ran into the kitchen, grabbed a knife, and attempted to stab him. Defendant wrestled the knife away from her and denied ever attempting to harm her with it. He also denied slamming her head into the car, but admitted "when [he] pushed her, she fell into the car." He

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also acknowledged he grabbed her hair and pulled her wig off. He denied putting a cord around her neck.

Although plaintiff subsequently obtained a TRO, she did not pursue an FRO. Instead, the parties negotiated a consent order for civil restraints, which specified that "[a]ny and all issues and allegations raised by [p]laintiff [in the TRO complaint] may be reported as history on any future TRO obtained by [p]laintiff." The order also mandated that defendant have no contact with plaintiff, stay 1,000 feet away from her, and attend an anger management program. However, the parties later reconciled, disregarded the order, and purchased a home together.

Their relationship later deteriorated again, and they ceased speaking and opted to communicate solely through text message. In August 2022, defendant asked for a divorce. Plaintiff had moved out of their home but came back periodically to see their son.

The incident giving rise to the FRO at issue took place on September 16, 2022. On that date, defendant picked up Amy and her son from the homeless shelter and brought her to the marital residence. According to defendant, he brought Amy simply because she wanted to see Tom and her cousin, Sherry, who was also staying at the house. He claimed he did not think plaintiff would

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be there. However, he saw plaintiff's vehicle in the driveway when they arrived and knew plaintiff would take issue with Amy's presence. He testified that when he saw plaintiff's car, he said "oh, boy, here we go." Nevertheless, he brought Amy into the residence.

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