Todd M. Pieszchala v. Jamie Pieszchala (mem. dec.)

Indiana Court of Appeals·Decided November 19, 2020·No. 20A-DR-969·Published

Opinion

MEMORANDUM DECISION Pursuant to Ind. Appellate Rule 65(D), this Memorandum Decision shall not be FILED regarded as precedent or cited before any Nov 19 2020, 8:40 am court except for the purpose of establishing CLERK

the defense of res judicata, collateral Indiana Supreme Court Court of Appeals

estoppel, or the law of the case. and Tax Court

ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLANT Cory A. Shoffner Brody B. Shoffner Shoffner & Shoffner, LLP LaPorte, Indiana

IN THE

COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

In the Matter of the Marriage of: November 19, 2020

Todd M. Pieszchala, Court of Appeals Case No.

20A-DR-969

Appellant-Respondent, Appeal from the

v. LaPorte Superior Court The Honorable

Jamie Pieszchala, Richard R. Stalbrink, Jr., Judge Trial Court Cause No.

Appellee-Petitioner.

46D02-1305-DR-236

Kirsch, Judge.

[1] Todd M. Pieszchala (“Father”) appeals the trial court’s order denying his petition to modify child custody. He raises the following issue for our review: whether the trial court erred in finding that he did not meet his burden that a Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 20A-DR-969 | November 19, 2020 Page 1 of 12 modification was in the best interests of the children and that there was a substantial change in circumstances.

[2] We affirm.

Facts and Procedural History [3] Father and Mother are the parents of Ai.P., who was ten years old at the time

of the order denying Father’s petition to modify custody, and Ad.P., who was nine years old (together, “the Children”). Tr. Vol. II at 27. The marriage between Father and Mother was dissolved in 2014, and a Stipulated Modification of Custody was entered on April 28, 2017. Appellant’s App. Vol. II at 11. At that time, both parties were granted joint physical custody of the children, with Father exercising parenting time “every Wednesday after school to Friday morning and alternating weekends commencing Friday after school until Sunday at 4:30 p.m.” Id. On June 24, 2019, Father filed a motion to modify custody. Id. at 7. A bifurcated hearing was held on the petition on December 18, 2019 and on March 2, 2020. Id. at 9; Tr. Vol. II at 8, 126.

[4] At the hearing, Mother testified that, since the dissolution, she had four different places of employment in the last five years, and she has lived at five different locations with the Children. Id. at 23-24, 37. In February 2018, Mother had been asked to leave the home she was renting or be evicted due to failure to pay rent consistently. Id. at 23-24, 99. Mother also testified that there was an order to vacate filed for the home she was renting at the time of the

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[5] Evidence was presented that Mother had received several disconnect notices for her water dated May 22, 2019, August 22, 2019, and September 19, 2019. Id. at 17; Appellant’s App. Vol II at 19-30. Mother testified that her water had been shut off “once” and was “paid and restored on the same day.” Tr. Vol. II at 18- 19. Mother disputed the records from the water company indicating that her water was shut off on July 2, 2019 through July 8, 2019, on September 4, 2019 through September 10, 2019, and on December 2, 2019 through December 4, 2019, stating that “we can’t go six days without water at our house.” Id. at 20; Appellant’s App. Vol II at 31-50. Mother was later asked “your water hasn’t been shut off three times,” to which she responded, “I’m not saying it hasn’t been turned off three times. I’m saying I haven’t gone without water on a numerous daily basis.” Id. at 21. The custodian of records for the Westville Water Department testified that the water was shut off for the time periods mentioned above. Id. at 133. Evidence was also presented of gas and electric disconnect notices for Mother’s prior address, indicating a shut off from July 23, 2018 to July 25, 2018.1 Id. at 22; Appellant’s App. Vol II at 51-130.

1 We note there is a discrepancy in the dates that Mother lived at this prior address, as she testified that she was asked to move out of the address in February 2018, but evidence was also presented that her gas and electric had been shut off at that address from July 23, 2018 to July 25, 2018. Tr. Vol. II at 23-24,

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[6] Mother testified that during spring break in 2019 and the summer of 2019, she allowed the Children, who were ten years old and almost nine years old at the time, to stay home alone for periods of time while she worked. Tr. Vol. II at 28. She testified that her employer was flexible and allowed her to come and go as she needed to check on the Children and that she had lunch with them every day. Id. Mother testified that she allowed the Children to take baths while she was not home and stated that she believed that they were responsible enough to do so. Id. at 35. Mother stated that she believed that the Children were mature enough and old enough to be left alone for certain periods of time. Id. at 60.

[7] Evidence was presented that Ai.P. was diagnosed with ADHD and takes medication. Id. at 28. Mother stated that in the prior year there were two or three times that Ai.P. had not taken his medication while in her care. Id. at 45. Ai.P.’s teacher testified that there were at least two occasions that she suspected Ai.P. had not taken his medication. Id. at 79. Testimony was also presented that Ad.P. wears glasses and that there were multiple times where Ad.P. would forget to wear her glasses to school and Mother would need to bring them to school. Id. at 31, 92. There was testimony presented that Ai.P. was browsing inappropriate websites on his cell phone on more than one occasion and was caught by Father, who made Mother aware of it. Id. at 35. Mother stated that, after discovering this, she installed an app on the cell phone to allow her to monitor Ai.P.’s phone. Id. Mother admitted that there had been issues where Ai.P. was not turning in his homework and was suspended from playing

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[8] Father testified that he suspected on three different days after the children were in Mother’s care that the children had not brushed their teeth. Id. at 10. When Mother was asked if she made sure that the Children brushed their teeth before they went to school, she responded that she always instructed them to, but that she did not “stand over their shoulder every morning.” Id. at 46.

[9] At the first hearing date, Mother testified that the children “have emotional damage” and are “in therapy right now on my days.” Id. at 65-66. At the second hearing, Mother then acknowledged that “[the children] hadn’t started therapy” despite her previous testimony and stated it was because Father would not agree to anything. Id. at 141, 148. Testimony was presented that Ad.P. had been given a special needs diagnosis and “both [Father] and [Mother] have kept up in communication with her teachers and the schools to help develop a plan to get her to where she needs to be.” Id. at 68, 69. Ad.P.’s second grade teacher testified that several meetings were scheduled and that Mother did not come to one, was late to another, and canceled another meeting. Id. at 87. The teacher further testified that she and Father had communicated during the spring of 2019 regarding learning disability testing meetings, but Father could not make the decision because of his lack of educational custody. Id. at 88. When asked if it was fair to say that Mother’s cancellation delayed the testing, the teacher responded, “Sure.” Id. at 89.

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