Tina Lynn Tolley v. Terry Lou Tolley
Opinion
COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA
Present: Judges Petty, Beales and AtLee Argued at Richmond, Virginia UNPUBLISHED
TINA LYNN TOLLEY
MEMORANDUM OPINION* BY
v. Record No. 0913-17-2 JUDGE RICHARD Y. ATLEE, JR.
MARCH 20, 2018
TERRY LOU TOLLEY
FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF SPOTSYLVANIA COUNTY Joseph J. Ellis, Judge
James Joseph Ilijevich for appellant.
Carolyn S. Seklii (Stuart C. Sullivan & Carolyn S. Seklii, Attorneys at Law, P.L.C.; Matthew J. Yao, Guardian ad litem for the minor child; Woehrle Dahlberg Jones Yao, PLLC, on brief), for appellee.
Terry Tolley (“Terry”) petitioned the Circuit Court of Spotsylvania County for leave to adopt the biological child (“the child”) of Tina Tolley (“mother”).1 The circuit court found that mother was withholding her consent to the adoption contrary to the best interests of the child, and granted Terry’s petition. Mother appealed the circuit court’s decision. We now affirm.
I. BACKGROUND
We view the evidence in the light most favorable to the party that prevailed below, and draw all reasonable inferences from the evidence in that party’s favor. Boatright v. Wise Cty.
*
Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication.
1
The child’s biological father was also part of the adoption proceedings, but his rights are not at issue in this appeal.
Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 64 Va. App. 71, 76, 764 S.E.2d 724, 727 (2014). Here, Terry prevailed in the circuit court. The facts were as follows.2 The child was born in 2010. Afterwards, both mother and the child lived with Terry, who is mother’s aunt (and thus the child’s great-aunt). Since then, the child has lived at Terry’s home continuously. In 2013, by agreement between mother and Terry, the Spotsylvania County Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court (“the J&DR court”) granted mother and Terry joint legal custody of the child, and granted Terry primary physical custody.
The J&DR court’s custody order also stated that mother “is required to begin individual counseling and remain in counseling until released by her counselor. She is also required to keep regular appointments with her psychiatrist and take all medication as prescribed.” (Capitalization altered). While mother, Terry, and the child were all living together, mother “on occasion, would leave for a week or two at a time to live with friends or boyfriend(s) and would then return to Terry[’s] . . . home when it was convenient.” During the course of the custody litigation in 2013, mother’s own mother provided a sworn statement that mother had “a mental condition that makes her uncontrollably violent at times,” that mother “consistently fails to follow thru with . . . treatment,” and that mother had “a problem with the abuse of prescription drugs.”
By December 2013, mother’s relationship with Terry and the child had deteriorated, and the J&DR court entered an emergency protective order barring mother from having any contact with Terry or the child. In February 2014, the J&DR court entered a one-year protective order, forbidding any such contact except for a single two-hour supervised visit on the first of March.
2
Unless otherwise indicated, the quotations that follow come from the “Written Statement of Facts” and from the circuit court’s letter opinion, dated May 8, 2017.
Later in March, however, an incident occurred at Terry’s home:
[Terry] was in her backyard watching the child and four other children play on a trampoline when [mother] approached [Terry]
from behind with a knife and stabbed her in the head. [Terry]
turned around and was stabbed again before running into the kitchen where [mother] picked up a coffee pot and continually hit [Terry]. According to [Terry], blood was all over the kitchen. The entire incident occurred in the presence of the child and four other children. The child was then only 3 ½ years old. [Mother] was on pain medication that was not prescribed to her at the time of this incident. [Mother] was arrested and pled guilty to Unlawful Wounding and Assaulting a Person with a Protective Order. On January 22, 2015, [mother] received an active sentence of three years and six months . . . .
(Footnote omitted).3 After the attack, a psychologist diagnosed the child with post-traumatic stress disorder. After witnessing the knife attack, the resulting blood, and the police response, the child developed a fear of the color red, of knives, and of anyone in uniform. At the time of the hearing on the adoption petition, more than two years after the attack, the child remained in therapy. The child has had no contact with mother since the day of the crime.
Approximately six months after Terry was attacked, the J&DR court granted her sole legal and physical custody of the child. In April 2015, Terry petitioned the circuit court for leave to adopt the child. Mother did not consent. After a protracted period involving numerous continuances, primarily due to the child’s father, the circuit court heard the adoption petition in in March 2017. In May 2017, the circuit court entered a “Final Order of Adoption” (“the adoption order”), finding that mother’s consent was withheld “contrary to the best interest of the child.” Mother then noted this appeal.
II. ANALYSIS
Mother assigns the following two errors:
1. The [circuit c]ourt erred by finding that . . . mother withheld her consent for adoption of her minor child, against the child’s best
3 Mother’s scheduled release from the penitentiary is in 2019.
interest, when there was evidence that, prior to her incarceration, mother lived with the child, fostered a relationship with the child, and even shared legal custody of the child with [Terry], in consideration of the best interests of the child, while [mother]
struggled with mental health and substance abuse problems.
2. The [circuit] court erred by finding that . . . mother failed to visit her minor child without just cause when her lack of visitation or contact was the result of not only incarceration, but also because of a [p]rotective [o]rder, which included the minor child, obtained by [Terry].
A. Standard of Review
“A trial court is presumed to have thoroughly weighed all the evidence, considered the statutory requirements, and made its determination based on the child’s best interests.” Farley v. Farley, 9 Va. App. 326, 329, 387 S.E.2d 794, 796 (1990). That presumption is rooted in a circuit court’s “broad discretion in making the decisions necessary to guard and to foster a child’s best interests.” Id. at 328, 387 S.E.2d at 795. A circuit court’s decision “based on evidence heard ore tenus, will not be disturbed on appeal unless plainly wrong or without evidence to support it.” Peple v. Peple, 5 Va. App. 414, 422, 364 S.E.2d 232, 237 (1988). A party seeking to adopt a child over the objection of the child’s birth parents must show, by clear and convincing evidence, that the adoption would be in the child’s best interests. See Lyle v. Eskridge, 14 Va. App. 874, 876, 419 S.E.2d 863, 865 (1992).
B. First Assignment of Error In her first assignment of error, mother asserts that “[t]he [circuit c]ourt erred by finding that . . . mother withheld her consent for adoption of her minor child, against the child’s best interest.” This was error, she argues, because “there was evidence that, prior to her incarceration, mother lived with the child, fostered a relationship with the child, and even shared legal custody of the child with [Terry], in consideration of the best interests of the child, while [mother] struggled with mental health and substance abuse problems.”
[T]he meaning of “the best interests of the child” is different in the context of adoptions [than it is in the context of custody disputes], and must be read in light of the biological parent’s due process rights in her relationship to her child. Therefore, although Code § 63.2-1205 uses the same phrase as our custody statutes, its definition is much more demanding.
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