Thomas Wayne Colbert, Jr. v. Ming Xiao Colbert

CourtCourt of Appeals of Mississippi
DecidedFebruary 25, 2025
Docket2022-CA-01293-COA
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF MISSISSIPPI

NO. 2022-CA-01293-COA

THOMAS WAYNE COLBERT, JR. APPELLANT/ CROSS-APPELLEE

v.

MING XIAO COLBERT APPELLEE/ CROSS-APPELLANT

DATE OF JUDGMENT: 10/17/2022 TRIAL JUDGE: HON. JOHN C. McLAURIN JR. COURT FROM WHICH APPEALED: RANKIN COUNTY CHANCERY COURT ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: JENNIFER LEIGH BOYDSTON ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLEE: JOHN S. GRANT IV BROOKE TRUSTY GRANT NATURE OF THE CASE: CIVIL - DOMESTIC RELATIONS DISPOSITION: ON DIRECT APPEAL: AFFIRMED IN PART; REVERSED AND REMANDED IN PART. ON CROSS-APPEAL: AFFIRMED IN PART; REVERSED AND REMANDED IN PART - 02/25/2025 MOTION FOR REHEARING FILED:

EN BANC.

McCARTY, J., FOR THE COURT:

¶1. A wife petitioned for separate maintenance from her husband, and also asked for child

support for their two children. The husband counterclaimed for a divorce. The trial court

ultimately denied the husband’s request but granted the wife’s request for separate

maintenance and child support.

¶2. The husband appealed, arguing an antenuptial agreement barred separate maintenance.

Both parties have appealed the child support awarded by the trial court; the husband argues it is too high, while the wife protests it is too low.

¶3. Since the husband never presented his argument about the antenuptial agreement to

the trial court, we find the argument is procedurally barred. However, because the amount

of child support awarded did not follow longstanding requirements as to the calculation of

income and deviation from statutory guidelines, we affirm in part and reverse and remand

in part.

BACKGROUND

¶4. Ming and Thomas Colbert were married in the fall of 2013. The month before they

married, the two entered into an antenuptial agreement.1 In the core of the document was this

passage:

Although Tom and Ming are entering into their contemplated marriage with every intention to remain married for as long as each shall live, both recognize that such marriage may not be as successful as both hope, and that a divorce, annulment, separate maintenance proceeding or other legal proceeding to dissolve the marriage between Tom and Ming could occur.

[T]he parties do hereby agree in the event of any such legal proceeding involving a divorce, annulment, separate maintenance or similar proceeding, Tom shall not be entitled to any greater rights with regard to the income or assets of Ming than Tom would have in the event of the death of Ming and Ming shall not be entitled to any greater rights with regard to the income or assets of Tom than is provided for in Paragraph 9 below.

(Emphasis added). Both parties signed. As litigation would later show, the document was

negotiated in several ways, including those more favorable to Ming than originally proposed,

1 For the purposes of this appeal, we will refer to the document interchangeably as an antenuptial agreement, prenuptial agreement, or “prenup.”

2 such as requiring Tom to provide health insurance for Ming during their marriage.

¶5. Over the years two children were born into the marriage, and Tom was very successful

in business. But as the prenup contemplated, the marriage was not as successful as the

couple hoped. Tom filed for divorce in 2015, but the couple eventually reconciled.

However, during the pendency of that divorce, Ming sought to have their prenup declared

invalid. Her motion was still pending when the divorce case was dismissed in 2017.

¶6. In 2021, Ming filed for separate maintenance from Tom, alleging that he had

“physically abandoned and separated himself from the marriage.” Instead of asking for a

divorce, Ming requested that the chancery court “command[] Tom to return to the marital

relationship and provide support and maintenance to Ming and the minor children[.]”

¶7. Tom forcefully responded, first arguing the couple’s prenuptial agreement governed

any request for separate maintenance. But he did not allege the agreement barred separate

maintenance in general, instead only “affirmatively assert[ing] that the [agreement] be

applied and enforced in this matter as applicable.” Secondly, he filed a counterclaim

demanding a divorce from Ming on the basis of habitual cruel and inhuman treatment,

“including spousal abuse,” and because her actions led to “the proximate cause of the

separation of the parties.”

¶8. The case proceeded through what can only be described as a massive amount of

litigation. The very first filing after Tom’s counterclaim for divorce was his motion seeking

a declaratory judgment “that the Prenuptial Agreement between the parties is valid,

3 enforceable[,] and effective.” The motion included dozens of pages of emails showing the

negotiation of the agreement between Tom and Ming, including prior deposition testimony

relating to its drafting and signing and discussions underpinning its terms.

¶9. The motion had two sections. First, he argued the agreement was not procedurally

invalid; specifically, that Ming understood it, did not sign under duress, and had independent

counsel, among other arguments. Second, Tom argued the agreement was not substantively

unconscionable. Notably, Tom’s motion did not argue that the antenuptial agreement barred

the separate maintenance action or that the agreement preempted the litigation.

¶10. Subsequently, Ming filed a Motion to Declare Prenuptial Agreement Null, Void, and

Unenforceable. In this motion, Ming raised a variety of duress and unconscionability attacks

on the agreement, such as that “Tom selected Ming’s attorney and paid Ming’s attorney for

his representation,” that she “was not versed in nor understood the laws of the United States

of America and the State of Mississippi,” that she was in the United States from China on

a student visa, and that she was “not fluent in the English language and did not understand

the terms and provisions” of the antenuptial agreement. In response, Tom characterized the

process to draft the agreement as “a four-month negotiation process,” and he dismissed her

concerns as “a number of abstract grievances.”

¶11. The trial court conducted a multi-day hearing regarding the validity of the antenuptial

agreement, during which it heard from several witnesses. Among them were Ming, Tom,

the lawyer who served as Ming’s attorney in the prenup process, and a financial expert. At

4 the conclusion of the hearing, the trial court ruled from the bench that it “finds that the

Prenuptial Agreement is binding [and] will be enforced as written.” The trial court instructed

counsel for Tom to prepare an order. The chancellor then said, “[W]e’ll just have to step

back and see where we’re going to go from here” in the case. The order denying the motion

to declare the antenuptial agreement void simply stated the “Motion was not well taken and

the same should be and is denied,” and that the prenup was declared valid.

¶12. At no point in this hearing or at the conclusion of presenting of evidence did counsel

for Tom argue that the prenup barred separate maintenance or that the proceedings should

be stopped immediately. So a week later, the trial court proceeded to hear evidence

regarding Ming’s claim for separate maintenance. After testimony, counsel for Tom

informed the trial court, “[W]e’d like to present a motion to dismiss.” He did not argue that

the antenuptial agreement barred separate maintenance. Instead, counsel for Tom focused

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