Thomas Wayne Colbert, Jr. v. Ming Xiao Colbert

Court of Appeals of Mississippi·Decided February 25, 2025·No. 2022-CA-01293-COA·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF MISSISSIPPI NO. 2022-CA-01293-COA

THOMAS WAYNE COLBERT, JR. APPELLANT/ CROSS-APPELLEE

v.

MING XIAO COLBERT APPELLEE/ CROSS-APPELLANT

DATE OF JUDGMENT: 10/17/2022 TRIAL JUDGE: HON. JOHN C. McLAURIN JR. COURT FROM WHICH APPEALED: RANKIN COUNTY CHANCERY COURT ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: JENNIFER LEIGH BOYDSTON ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLEE: JOHN S. GRANT IV BROOKE TRUSTY GRANT

NATURE OF THE CASE: CIVIL - DOMESTIC RELATIONS DISPOSITION: ON DIRECT APPEAL: AFFIRMED IN PART; REVERSED AND REMANDED IN PART. ON CROSS-APPEAL: AFFIRMED IN PART; REVERSED AND REMANDED IN PART - 02/25/2025

MOTION FOR REHEARING FILED:

EN BANC.

McCARTY, J., FOR THE COURT:

¶1. A wife petitioned for separate maintenance from her husband, and also asked for child support for their two children. The husband counterclaimed for a divorce. The trial court ultimately denied the husband’s request but granted the wife’s request for separate maintenance and child support.

¶2. The husband appealed, arguing an antenuptial agreement barred separate maintenance. Both parties have appealed the child support awarded by the trial court; the husband argues

it is too high, while the wife protests it is too low.

¶3. Since the husband never presented his argument about the antenuptial agreement to the trial court, we find the argument is procedurally barred. However, because the amount of child support awarded did not follow longstanding requirements as to the calculation of income and deviation from statutory guidelines, we affirm in part and reverse and remand in part.

BACKGROUND

¶4. Ming and Thomas Colbert were married in the fall of 2013. The month before they married, the two entered into an antenuptial agreement.1 In the core of the document was this passage:

Although Tom and Ming are entering into their contemplated marriage with every intention to remain married for as long as each shall live, both recognize that such marriage may not be as successful as both hope, and that a divorce, annulment, separate maintenance proceeding or other legal proceeding to dissolve the marriage between Tom and Ming could occur.

[T]he parties do hereby agree in the event of any such legal proceeding involving a divorce, annulment, separate maintenance or similar proceeding, Tom shall not be entitled to any greater rights with regard to the income or assets of Ming than Tom would have in the event of the death of Ming and Ming shall not be entitled to any greater rights with regard to the income or assets of Tom than is provided for in Paragraph 9 below.

(Emphasis added). Both parties signed. As litigation would later show, the document was negotiated in several ways, including those more favorable to Ming than originally proposed,

1 For the purposes of this appeal, we will refer to the document interchangeably as an antenuptial agreement, prenuptial agreement, or “prenup.”

such as requiring Tom to provide health insurance for Ming during their marriage.

¶5. Over the years two children were born into the marriage, and Tom was very successful in business. But as the prenup contemplated, the marriage was not as successful as the couple hoped. Tom filed for divorce in 2015, but the couple eventually reconciled. However, during the pendency of that divorce, Ming sought to have their prenup declared invalid. Her motion was still pending when the divorce case was dismissed in 2017.

¶6. In 2021, Ming filed for separate maintenance from Tom, alleging that he had “physically abandoned and separated himself from the marriage.” Instead of asking for a divorce, Ming requested that the chancery court “command[] Tom to return to the marital relationship and provide support and maintenance to Ming and the minor children[.]”

¶7. Tom forcefully responded, first arguing the couple’s prenuptial agreement governed any request for separate maintenance. But he did not allege the agreement barred separate maintenance in general, instead only “affirmatively assert[ing] that the [agreement] be applied and enforced in this matter as applicable.” Secondly, he filed a counterclaim demanding a divorce from Ming on the basis of habitual cruel and inhuman treatment, “including spousal abuse,” and because her actions led to “the proximate cause of the separation of the parties.”

¶8. The case proceeded through what can only be described as a massive amount of litigation. The very first filing after Tom’s counterclaim for divorce was his motion seeking a declaratory judgment “that the Prenuptial Agreement between the parties is valid,

enforceable[,] and effective.” The motion included dozens of pages of emails showing the negotiation of the agreement between Tom and Ming, including prior deposition testimony relating to its drafting and signing and discussions underpinning its terms.

¶9. The motion had two sections. First, he argued the agreement was not procedurally invalid; specifically, that Ming understood it, did not sign under duress, and had independent counsel, among other arguments. Second, Tom argued the agreement was not substantively unconscionable. Notably, Tom’s motion did not argue that the antenuptial agreement barred the separate maintenance action or that the agreement preempted the litigation.

¶10. Subsequently, Ming filed a Motion to Declare Prenuptial Agreement Null, Void, and Unenforceable. In this motion, Ming raised a variety of duress and unconscionability attacks on the agreement, such as that “Tom selected Ming’s attorney and paid Ming’s attorney for his representation,” that she “was not versed in nor understood the laws of the United States of America and the State of Mississippi,” that she was in the United States from China on a student visa, and that she was “not fluent in the English language and did not understand the terms and provisions” of the antenuptial agreement. In response, Tom characterized the process to draft the agreement as “a four-month negotiation process,” and he dismissed her concerns as “a number of abstract grievances.”

¶11. The trial court conducted a multi-day hearing regarding the validity of the antenuptial agreement, during which it heard from several witnesses. Among them were Ming, Tom, the lawyer who served as Ming’s attorney in the prenup process, and a financial expert. At

the conclusion of the hearing, the trial court ruled from the bench that it “finds that the Prenuptial Agreement is binding [and] will be enforced as written.” The trial court instructed counsel for Tom to prepare an order. The chancellor then said, “[W]e’ll just have to step back and see where we’re going to go from here” in the case. The order denying the motion to declare the antenuptial agreement void simply stated the “Motion was not well taken and the same should be and is denied,” and that the prenup was declared valid.

¶12. At no point in this hearing or at the conclusion of presenting of evidence did counsel for Tom argue that the prenup barred separate maintenance or that the proceedings should be stopped immediately. So a week later, the trial court proceeded to hear evidence regarding Ming’s claim for separate maintenance. After testimony, counsel for Tom informed the trial court, “[W]e’d like to present a motion to dismiss.” He did not argue that the antenuptial agreement barred separate maintenance. Instead, counsel for Tom focused on what he argued was an element that could not be proven to meet the standard for separate maintenance since one has to prove “a separation without substantial fault of the requesting party.” Counsel for Tom further argued Ming was partially at fault, so she was not entitled to the relief; he also argued Tom had not acted in a way that warranted separate maintenance. All told, the thrust of the motion to dismiss was that the predicates for separate maintenance were not met, not that separate maintenance was barred due to the prenup.

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