Thiede v. Thiede, No. 31 11 69 (Feb. 24, 1992)

1992 Conn. Super. Ct. 1118
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedFebruary 24, 1992
DocketNo. 31 11 69
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Thiede v. Thiede, No. 31 11 69 (Feb. 24, 1992), 1992 Conn. Super. Ct. 1118 (Colo. Ct. App. 1992).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.] MEMORANDUM OF DECISION This is a suit for dissolution of marriage brought by the plaintiff wife against the defendant husband. The parties were married on July 2, 1977 in Milford, Connecticut. There are four children issue of the parties, Alicia who is 12 years of age, Meaghan who is 7 and twins Caitlen and Samantha who are 4. The plaintiff and the four children are living in the family home at 195 Mountain Brook Drive in Cheshire. The defendant is living with his sister in Wallingford.

The plaintiff is 37 years of age. She is a college graduate with a B.A. degree having majored in psychology. She is presently in counselling but her health is otherwise fine. Her last employment was in 1980 as a receptionist for an orthodontist. She has taken children in as a day care provider, but found that this was too overwhelming and is no longer doing this.

Alicia is in Junior High School. Meaghan is in second grade at Norton Elementary School and the twins are in nursery school two afternoons a week for two and half hours. Alicia has had special problems since 1988 and is seen by a therapist, and the children and the plaintiff attend family therapy at the Yale Child Study Center.

The plaintiff has complained that the defendant became emotionally and physically abusive in 1988. However, there were problems in the marriage long before that. She complained that the defendant was unhappy when she told him she was pregnant with Alicia. He felt that the child would interfere with his plans. In 1988 he said he didn't want to be married anymore because he wanted to be able to do things "on the spur of the moment." She testified that there were numerous disagreements over money, but there was always money for whatever he wanted. Then there is the incident of the "Dear Eddie" letter which he completely disclaims. It is clear from the testimony that the marriage of the parties has broken down irretrievably. While the defendant denies the plaintiff's claims of abuse and lack of attention, the court finds the plaintiff's testimony to be more credible in this regard and finds that the defendant is at fault for the breakdown of the marriage.

The finances of the parties are in a deplorable state. The defendant has filed a petition in bankruptcy. (See plaintiff's Exhibit A). The bankruptcy court has granted the plaintiff's motion to terminate the automatic stay on the filing of the bankruptcy petition. (See plaintiff's Exhibit B). It is the defendant's wish to salvage as much of his CT Page 1120 property as he can out of this proceeding and the bankruptcy proceeding. However, the plaintiff is trying desperately to salvage as much as she can for herself and the four minor children.

While the defendant was employed until June 1991 at a position in New York City earning annually $125,000.00, he has been unemployed since that time. He is presently receiving unemployment compensation of $280.00 on the first and fifteenth of each month. In December 1991 while playing with his children, he hurt his leg. The leg became infected and on December 21 he was hospitalized at Stamford Hospital until January 1, 1992. He has osteomyelitis in his right leg, his leg is presently in a cast, and he is presently receiving medication by means of a portable intravenous device. He is walking with crutches. He states that he has had two "ruptured" discs since 1975. He has treated with a chiropractor for this problem the last 3% years. He has been able to work in the house in Old Lyme and to perform his work while at Coopers Lybrand without difficulty. This involved commuting between New York and Cheshire and traveling out of the state 70% of the time. He is 38 years of age. He attended college for four years, but did not receive his bachelor's degree. He worked as an auto body repairer while attending college. The parties moved to Georgia in 1978 so that the defendant could attend the University of Georgia, and the defendant did auto body repair work at that time. In 1979 he was hired as a machinist at Sikorsky and subsequently at Avco. In 1983 he worked up to a management position at Avco as a process engineer. In 1984 he was hired at Pratt Whitney as a manufacturing engineer. In 1988 he was hired as a consultant with Arthur Young accounting firm in New York City and in 1989 hired by Coopers Lybrand also in New York City. He was terminated by Coopers Lybrand in March 1991 with severance pay until June 1991. He has been looking for employment ever since. His pay at Coopers Lybrand was $125,000.00 per year. He has mailed resumes to 45 to 50 search firms and applied to 45 job openings through the paper and agencies. He has had only 5 or 6 interviews. On two occasions he has gone back for second interviews but has received no job offers. The plaintiff has claimed that the orders for periodic alimony and support should be based upon earning capacity. The court considers that the defendant's positions at Arthur Young and Coopers Lybrand were so unusual that it will be extremely difficult for him to find such high salaried positions again. It may be that the defendant will have to return to work as an auto body mechanic or skilled machinist.

At the time of the commencement of this action on February 14, 1991 the parties owned four parcels of real property. They were in the process of remodeling a house in Old Lyme, they were CT Page 1121 living in the home on Mountain Brook Drive in Cheshire, they owned a building lot in Bethany and owned land in Jackson, New York. The property on Mountain Brook Drive in Cheshire the plaintiff values at $225,000.00. The defendant values this property at $325,000.00. It is subject to mortgages which have not been paid since June 1991 in principal amounts of $127,500.00 and $44,632.00. The property in Old Lyme was lost in foreclosure on December 23, 1991. The property in Bethany has been valued in the defendant's affidavit at $8,000.00. The defendant has testified that this is a 9/10 acre lot in a 3 acre zone, nonconforming and with wetlands. It is described in the bankruptcy proceedings as "Building Lot #9 Gaylord Mountain Road." The property in New York was purchased in 1988 for $29,900.00 and is used for hunting and fishing. It is subject to a purchase money mortgage in the amount of $12,200.00. The defendant testified he believed it had a value of $30,000.00 to $35,000.00, although he valued it in his financial affidavit at $27,000.00. The defendant seeks the assignment of the plaintiff's interest in this property and he indicated that he can raise the money to buy his share from the Trustee in bankruptcy.

The bankruptcy court has released the stay on the defendant's interest in the Mountain Brook Drive property in Cheshire and the Bethany property. With regard to the Cheshire property, the court finds a value of $300,000.00 to $325,000.00 for its fair market value. The court finds a value of $27,000.00 for the property in Jackson, New York.

On March 27, 1991 the parties appeared before Judge DeMayo and the court, upon the agreement of the parties, entered an order that neither party was to dissipate any assets in their respective possession; that the defendant would pay the plaintiff by way of unallocated alimony and support the sum of $425.00 every two weeks ($212.50 per week) together with the mortgage, taxes and insurance, utilities, phone and those items "that are listed on the financial affidavit of both of the parties." (See plaintiff's Exhibit C) Subsequently on July 10, 1991 the parties appeared before Judge Gordon on the defendant's motion to modify the pendente lite motions dated June 13, 1991 (docket entry #115). Because the hearing on this matter began at 4:50 p.m.

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