Theron L. Whitlock v. Venetta M. Whitlock

CourtCourt of Appeals of Mississippi
DecidedOctober 21, 2025
Docket2023-CA-01380-COA
StatusPublished

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Theron L. Whitlock v. Venetta M. Whitlock, (Mich. Ct. App. 2025).

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF MISSISSIPPI

NO. 2023-CA-01380-COA

THERON L. WHITLOCK APPELLANT

v.

VENETTA M. WHITLOCK APPELLEE

DATE OF JUDGMENT: 11/28/2023 TRIAL JUDGE: HON. JENNIFER T. SCHLOEGEL COURT FROM WHICH APPEALED: HARRISON COUNTY CHANCERY COURT, FIRST JUDICIAL DISTRICT ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: TAMEKIA ROCHELLE GOLIDAY ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE: PATRICIA C. CHAMPAGNE NATURE OF THE CASE: CIVIL - DOMESTIC RELATIONS DISPOSITION: REVERSED AND REMANDED - 10/21/2025 MOTION FOR REHEARING FILED:

BEFORE WILSON, P.J., LAWRENCE AND McCARTY, JJ.

LAWRENCE, J., FOR THE COURT:

¶1. Theron and Venetta Whitlock were married in Oceanside, California, on October 10,

1994, and later moved to Gulfport, Mississippi. Three children were born during the

marriage, all of whom were emancipated by 2023. Venetta also had one child by a previous

relationship.

¶2. Theron and Venetta temporarily separated in 2009. Theron filed for divorce, but the

couple reconciled six months later, and Theron withdrew his claim of divorce. The couple

permanently separated on August 13, 2017. On March 5, 2018, the chancellor entered an

order nunc pro tunc to January 25, 2018, awarding the parties joint legal custody of the three children and granting Theron sole physical custody of them.1 Venetta was ordered to pay

$282 per month in child support. Theron was required to maintain health, dental, and vision

insurance coverage for the children and pay all their medical-related expenses not covered

by insurance. The parties were required to equally split the children’s extracurricular

expenses.

¶3. On October 2, 2019, Venetta filed a complaint for divorce against Theron on the

grounds of habitual cruel and inhuman treatment, adultery, or, in the alternative,

irreconcilable differences. Venetta did not ask for alimony, temporary alimony, or spousal

support of any kind. She did, however, ask for an “equitable distribution of the marital

assets.” On November 13, 2019, Theron filed an answer to Venetta’s complaint for divorce

and a counterclaim for a divorce on the ground of desertion or, in the alternative,

irreconcilable differences.

¶4. On September 30, 2021, Venetta filed a motion for temporary relief and requested

“the Court [to] award her temporary alimony.” On May 18, 2022, Venetta filed an amended

complaint for divorce. In her amended complaint she requested “lump sum and periodic

alimony.” This was the first time Venetta requested this type of alimony.

¶5. On August 2, 2022, the court entered an agreed temporary order nunc pro tunc to May

29, 2022, in which Venetta was awarded $22,967.92.2 The parties agreed that $22,967.92

1 This order was discussed in the transcript but was not in the record on appeal. 2 It is unclear why the court entered a nunc pro tunc order when it awarded a partial marital property distribution.

2 was half of Theron’s Thrift Savings Plan (TSP) as of October 1, 2017. The chancellor’s order

stated that the $22,967.92 awarded to Venetta “shall be in the nature of property division, the

final determination of an equitable division of property to be decided by the court at trial on

the merits.”

¶6. On April 6, 2022, Theron requested ore tenus that Venetta be relieved from her child-

support obligations. Venetta stopped paying Theron her court-ordered child-support

payments around September 2021, even though she was ordered to pay until January 2023.

That was the month when their youngest child reached the age of majority. On April 14,

2022, the court granted Theron’s ore tenus motion and stopped the child-support payments.

¶7. On January 6, 2023, Venetta filed her answer to Theron’s counterclaim for divorce

and later filed her affirmative defenses to the counterclaim for divorce. On July 5, 2023,

Theron filed his answer to Venetta’s amended complaint for divorce and reasserted his

counterclaim for divorce.

¶8. Also on July 5, 2023, the couple consented to an irreconcilable differences divorces

and agreed to submit the following issues for the chancellor to decide:

1. Wife’s entitlement to periodic alimony and the amount of such alimony. 2. Wife’s entitlement to lump sum alimony, and the amount of such alimony. 3. Wife’s entitlement to Husband’s Thrift Savings Plan, and the amount of such entitlement. 4. Wife’s entitlement to a portion of Husband’s FERS account, and the amount of such entitlement. 5. An equitable division of personal property of both parties. 6. An equitable division of real estate of both parties. 7. Husband’s entitlement to the Wife’s retirement account(s).

3 8. Husband’s entitlement to the Wife’s monetary account(s). 9. Husband’s entitlement to child support arrearage, college expenses and issues related to health insurance and insurance premiums related to the children. 10. Equitable division of marital debt.

¶9. The trial of this matter occurred on July 5-6, 2023, and October 4 and 6, 2023. Theron

testified that in 1994 he and Venetta were dating but separated because “she had met

someone else.” While they were separated, Venetta called Theron, and her “exact words

were, ‘[W]e need to get married because I’m pregnant.’” Theron testified that he believed

the child to be his own and decided to marry Venetta based on that belief. Theron and

Venetta named the child after Theron. However, when the child was around ten years old,

Theron started to have doubts that the child was his because “[t]he child did not look like

[Theron,]” and “[t]he child did not look like [Venetta].” Whenever Theron would bring up

the topic of the child’s paternity, Venetta would assure Theron that the child was biologically

his. Around 2006, when the child was twelve years old, a paternity test revealed that the child

was not Theron’s son. Theron testified that he still lived in the marital home.

¶10. Theron testified that he received a monthly gross income of $6,576.87 from his job

as a mail carrier for the United States Postal Service. He testified that he also received

monthly VA disability checks in the amount of $1,900. In total, his monthly gross income

was $8,476.87. Through Theron’s employment as a mail carrier, he had a TSP. Theron

testified that in April 2022 his TSP was valued at $83,661.35, and he took out a $30,000 loan

against his TSP for legal fees for the divorce and to consolidate his debt. The loan agreement

4 stated that “[i]f you are covered by the Federal Employees[’] Retirement System or you are

a member of the uniform services and you are married (even if separated from your spouse)

your spouse must consent to your loan.” However, Theron never obtained Venetta’s consent

for the loan. When asked how he was able to get the loan without Venetta’s consent, he

stated that he “could not really see clearly everything on” the form because he filled it out

on his cell phone. Theron explained that he “didn’t do it [without Venetta’s consent]

purposefully.”

¶11. Theron testified that he and Venetta had disagreements. He explained that Venetta

would get “mad” and “scream” and “holler.” Theron testified that “at times she would . . .

grab knives.” Theron explained that on one occasion, Venetta “came up from behind, and she

stabbed [Theron] in [the] elbow.” He testified that it cut the skin and that he still has a scar,

but he did not seek medical attention because he “just tried to deal with it” himself. He also

testified that on a separate occasion, Venetta again threw a knife at Theron. The knife sliced

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