T.F. AND R.F. v. C.G. AND L.G. (FD-02-0750-14, BERGEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided July 1, 2022·No. A-2166-20·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-2166-20

T.F. and R.F., Plaintiffs-Respondents,

v. C.G. and L.G.,

Defendants-Respondents.

M.J.S.,

Appellant.

Submitted April 25, 2022 – Decided July 1, 2022 Before Judges Messano, Enright and Marczyk.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Bergen County, Docket No. FD-02-0750-14.

Laterra & Hodge, LLC, attorneys for appellant M.J.S.

(Scott Adam Laterra, of counsel and on the brief).

Peter Van Aulen, attorney for respondents C.G. and L.G.

PER CURIAM Interested party appellant M.J.S. (Michael) challenges the September 24, 2020 order denying his request for parenting time with his biological son, M.J.S. (Max).1 Michael also appeals from the March 15, 2021 order denying his motion for reconsideration of the September 24 order. Having reviewed Michael's arguments in light of the record and the applicable principles, we affirm.

I.

Michael is currently serving a forty-five-year sentence for the 2013 strangulation of Max's biological mother, M.G. (Marie). Max, now nine, was eight-months old and present in the home when his mother was killed.

In March 2015, Michael, along with Max's maternal grandparents, C.G.

and L.G. (Cate and Lou) and his paternal grandparents, T.F. and R.F. (Tess and Ron), entered into a custody agreement giving each grandparent joint legal custody of Max. The agreement also designated Cate and Lou as Max's "primary parents in residence." Further, the agreement provided, "[a]ll parties to the litigation, [Tess and Ron, Cate and Lou and Michael,] hereby consent to this

1 We identify the parties and child in this matter by initials and pseudonyms to protect the confidentiality of court records relating to child custody. R. 1:38- 3(d)(13).

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agreement and all parties reserve all their present and future rights that may exist." Michael and each grandparent signed the agreement. Approximately one week later, the trial court entered an order deeming the custody matter settled pursuant to the terms of the agreement.

On February 5, 2018, both sets of grandparents entered into a consent order, agreeing they were "prohibited from facilitating or allowing any contact whatsoever between [Max] and [Michael]." Although Michael was a party to the matter and received notice of the 2018 proceedings, nothing in the record indicates he filed anything with the court, and he did not sign the consent order.

In May 2020, Michael moved to amend the 2018 order to allow him parenting time and telephone contact with his son; alternatively, he requested a plenary hearing to address these issues. Cate and Lou filed a cross-application opposing Michael's motion, and Tess filed a reply certification in support of Michael's application.

During argument on the cross-applications in September 2020, Michael's attorney claimed that given Max's current age of seven, and his maturation since the entry of prior orders in the case, an expert should be appointed to evaluate what contact, if any, would be appropriate for Michael to have with Max, consistent with the child's best interests. Before argument concluded, the

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motion judge asked, "Does this child know the circumstances of what occurred?" Counsel for Cate and Lou answered, "No," whereas Michael's attorney responded he "couldn't answer that." Counsel for Tess and Ron stated Max "was told by . . . the maternal grandparents that a bad man killed his mother," adding, "I don't know if [Max] made that connection, but that was done a couple years ago." The judge reserved decision following argument.

Less than a week later, Tess filed a supplemental certification "on the issue of what [Max] knows about his father." Tess certified Max had been in therapy since he was five, and before therapy ended in September 2019, his therapist penned a story for Max entitled "Chippy," a story loosely "based on [Max's] life" in that it involved a chipmunk family where the chipmunk mother died and the chipmunk father went to prison. According to Tess, during a meeting with all the grandparents at the therapist's office, it was agreed Max's therapist would introduce the "Chippy" story to Max, the grandparents would keep a copy of it at their homes, and Tess would tell Max about his mother's death. Tess certified she later "sat with [Max] and told him the truth that his mother had died and that his dad was in prison for causing her death."

On September 24, 2020, the judge denied Michael's motion, finding it was Michael's "burden to establish grounds for modification" of the February 5, 2018

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order and he "ha[d] not proved a sufficient change of circumstances." Additionally, the judge concluded "[t]he facts that [Michael] was not a signatory on the consent order, was not present at the hearing on February []5, 2018, and has not surrendered his parental rights cannot serve to support his claim f or parenting time with [Max]." Further, the judge found Michael "cite[d] several courses he completed while incarcerated, including Cage Your Rage and Helping Offenders Parent Effectively, to show he is on the road to rehabilitation," but "any relevant certifications obtained were completed by the father before the entry of the Consent Order in 2018." The judge also stated Michael "was noticed of the hearing which resulted in the Consent Order. Significantly, this Consent Order was entered a mere two and a half years ago."

In denying Michael's motion for contact with Max, the judge further concluded Max

is currently classified in school as Emotionally Disturbed . . . . The paternal grandparents assert the child has been asking about his father, but the maternal grandparents presented evidence that the paternal grandparents violated the February 5, 2018 Order by permitting phone contact between the minor child and [Michael].

Finding Michael failed to satisfy his burden to warrant modification of the February 2018 consent order, the judge explained

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the acts of violence which led to the biological mother's death took place in the physical presence of the minor child. Although the child was only two years old at the time, the passage of five years is not a sufficient period of time to reintroduce this man (albeit his father) who violently and permanently deprived the child of the opportunity for a relationship with his biological mother.2 This realization will be a bitter pill to swallow when the time comes. Today, the [c]ourt simply determines that the time has not come yet.

[Max] has been through four evaluations in a short period of time.3 Although [Michael] did not participate in those evaluations, it is of import that contact with the biological father is noticeably absent from the evaluations and recommendations contained therein.

Given the child's immaturity and fragile emotional state, it is not in the child's best interests to undergo another evaluation at this time, particularly when [Michael] failed to establish changed circumstances.

Michael moved for reconsideration of the September 24 order, renewing his arguments for contact with Max and contending, in part, the judge failed to

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