Tankala v. Pithavadian

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedJuly 19, 2016
Docket15-755
StatusPublished

This text of Tankala v. Pithavadian (Tankala v. Pithavadian) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Court of Appeals of North Carolina primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Tankala v. Pithavadian, (N.C. Ct. App. 2016).

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA15-755

Filed: 19 July 2016

Wake County, No. 10 CVD 9521

HARSHA TANKALA, Plaintiff

v.

SHAKUNTHALA S. PITHAVADIAN, Defendant.

Appeal by Defendant from Order entered 12 March 2015 by Judge Michael

Denning in Wake County District Court. Heard in the Court of Appeals 2 December

2015.

Montgomery Family Law, by Charles H. Montgomery and Laura Esseesse, for Defendant-appellant.

No brief filed on behalf of Plaintiff-appellee.

INMAN, Judge.

In this case we hold that a trial court’s order requiring the parties to

participate in a specific method of treatment within the scope of an existing

comprehensive child custody order does not modify the terms of custody and therefore

does not require a finding of changed circumstances or a motion to modify the

governing order. We also hold that a trial court’s order providing additional dates

and locations for custodial visitation not inconsistent with the governing child

custody order is not a modification of the terms of custody. TANKALA V. PITHAVADIAN

Opinion of the Court

Shakunthala S. Pithavadian (Defendant, “Mother”) appeals an Order

requiring weekend visitation between her minor child and his father, Harsha

Tankala (Plaintiff, “Father”) and ordering the parties and their child to attend a

family therapy camp if the parties and their son fail to comply with the ordered

visitation. After careful review, we affirm the trial court’s Order.

I. Factual and Procedural Background

Father and Mother were married on 6 March 1998 and divorced on 27 October

2003. They had one child together, Peter,1 a son born 26 July 1999, who is now

sixteen years old. The Judgment of Divorce, entered 31 October 2003 by the New

York Supreme Court, Kings County, included a stipulation of settlement covering,

among other things, child custody and child support. At the time of the stipulation,

Mother resided in New York and Father resided in Delaware. A few weeks after

entry of the divorce judgment, Mother notified Father that she was moving with Peter

to North Carolina.

On 22 July 2004, a few days before Peter’s fifth birthday, the New York

Supreme Court, Kings County, entered an order (“the New York Custody Order”)

modifying the child custody settlement. The New York Custody Order allowed

Mother to move with Peter to Morrisville, North Carolina and granted Father

visitation with Peter on alternate weekends. The New York Custody Order also

1 A pseudonym is used to protect the identity of the minor child.

-2- TANKALA V. PITHAVADIAN

required Mother, at her sole cost and expense, to bring Peter to meet Father at the

airport in Baltimore, Maryland or Hartford, Connecticut, as specified by Father, and

for Father to bring Peter home, or to the homes of Father’s brothers.

On 23 June 2010, Father filed in Wake County District Court an Amended

Petition for and Notice of Registration of Foreign Child Custody Order. The petition

asserted that Father resided in Dover, Delaware and Mother resided in Cary, North

Carolina. On 26 July 2010, which coincidentally was Peter’s eleventh birthday, the

trial court entered an order confirming registration of the New York Custody Order.

The order was served on Mother at her home address in Cary. On that same date,

Father filed motions to modify child custody, for appointment of a parenting

coordinator, and for an Order to Show Cause why Mother should not be held in

contempt for violating the New York Custody Order. On 30 July 2010, Father filed a

motion seeking a custody evaluation. Father’s motions alleged that he had not been

allowed any visitation for nearly four months and that Peter refused to visit with him

or even speak to him by phone; that Mother was “actively alienating” Peter from

Father; and that a custody evaluation was necessary to assess “the mental health

status of the parties and child.”

On 30 July 2010, the trial court entered an Order to Appear and Show Cause,

finding probable cause that Mother had violated the terms of the New York Custody

Order and requiring Mother to appear in October 2010 regarding the contempt

-3- TANKALA V. PITHAVADIAN

allegations. Before any further hearing, however, on 26 October 2010, the parties,

their respective counsel, and Judge Debra Sasser signed consent orders for a custody

evaluation and the appointment of a guardian ad litem to protect Peter’s interests.

An evaluation report that recommended individual mental health treatment for Peter

and each of his parents and reunification therapy for Peter and Father was issued on

18 January 2011. The other pending motions were scheduled for hearing in March

2011.

Following a three-day hearing, the trial court entered a twenty-one-page order

(“the North Carolina Custody Order”) on 6 June 2011, finding that a substantial

change of circumstances affecting the welfare of Peter had occurred since the entry

of the New York Custody Order. The court made specific findings of fact regarding

Mother’s interference with Father’s visitation, Father’s physical and verbal

aggression toward Peter, and Peter’s anxiety and emotional distress. The court

found, inter alia, that as of March 2011, Peter “did not appreciate the need to have a

relationship with his father” and that Mother had “overly nurtured” Peter and had

“stunted [Peter]’s social and emotional development” in the years since relocating

with Peter to North Carolina. The court also found that the appointment of a

parenting coordinator was appropriate because “this is a high-conflict case.”

On the same date as it entered the North Carolina Custody Order, the trial

court entered an order (“the Contempt Order”) finding that Mother had willfully

-4- TANKALA V. PITHAVADIAN

violated the New York Custody Order by depriving Father of weekend and holiday

custody and excluding Father from information and decisions about Peter’s education

and health care. The court concluded that Mother was in willful contempt but stayed

a sentence of imprisonment on the condition that Mother comply with all orders of

the trial court including the North Carolina Custody Order.

The North Carolina Custody Order granted the parties joint custody, granting

Mother primary physical custody and granting Father periodic weekend and holiday

visitation, contingent upon approval by a psychologist whom the trial court

designated as a reunification therapist and also designated to treat Peter in

individual therapy. The trial court specifically ordered as follows:

[Father] and [Peter] shall engage in reunification therapy, with Eli Jerchower as the reunification therapist. The reunification therapy shall begin at the time recommended by Dr. Jerchower, and the timing and methods of this reunification therapy (including whether and to what extent [Mother] takes part) shall be at the discretion of the therapist. [Father] and [Mother] shall both follow all of the recommendations of Dr. Jerchower regarding the reunification therapy, and this reunification therapy shall continue for so long as the therapist continues to recommend it.

(Emphasis added.) The trial court also ordered that the parties equally divide all of

the costs of the reunification therapy not covered by insurance. The trial court

required that Mother and Father each participate in individual counseling with

Free access — add to your briefcase to read the full text and ask questions with AI

Related

White v. White
324 S.E.2d 829 (Supreme Court of North Carolina, 1985)
State v. Hennis
372 S.E.2d 523 (Supreme Court of North Carolina, 1988)
Regan v. Smith
509 S.E.2d 452 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 1998)
Brewer v. Brewer
533 S.E.2d 541 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 2000)
Senner v. Senner
587 S.E.2d 675 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 2003)
Hart v. Thomasville Motors, Inc.
92 S.E.2d 673 (Supreme Court of North Carolina, 1956)
Cox v. Cox
515 S.E.2d 61 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 1999)
Lawrence v. Tise
419 S.E.2d 176 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 1992)
Everette v. Collins
625 S.E.2d 796 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 2006)
Veazey v. City of Durham
57 S.E.2d 377 (Supreme Court of North Carolina, 1950)
Peters v. Pennington
707 S.E.2d 724 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 2011)
Mackins v. Mackins
442 S.E.2d 352 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 1994)
Mills Pointe Homeowner's Ass'n v. Whitmire
551 S.E.2d 924 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 2001)
Washington v. Washington
557 S.E.2d 648 (Court of Appeals of North Carolina, 2001)

Cite This Page — Counsel Stack

Bluebook (online)
Tankala v. Pithavadian, Counsel Stack Legal Research, https://law.counselstack.com/opinion/tankala-v-pithavadian-ncctapp-2016.