Tammy Lee Martin v. Jeffrey Allan Martin

CourtMichigan Court of Appeals
DecidedJanuary 28, 2020
Docket349261
StatusPublished

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STATE OF MICHIGAN

COURT OF APPEALS

TAMMY LEE MARTIN, FOR PUBLICATION January 28, 2020 Plaintiff-Appellant, 9:05 a.m.

v No. 349261 Ottawa Circuit Court JEFFREY ALLAN MARTIN, LC No. 10-068039-DM

Defendant-Appellee.

Before: MARKEY, P.J., and GLEICHER and M. J. KELLY, JJ.

PER CURIAM.

Since at least 2010, plaintiff Tammy Lee Martin has denigrated her now ex-husband, defendant Jeffrey Allan Martin, to their three children. Jeffrey was not blameless, and the trial court found in 2012 that he was controlling and misused corporal punishment in times of anger. During a four-year period during which Tammy effectively prevented any parenting time, Jeffrey engaged in extensive counseling and showed marked improvement. Even so, Tammy continued to obstruct her children’s counseling and parent-child reunification efforts, adding to the strain on Jeffrey’s relationship with his children. In 2019, after several attempted less drastic measures failed, the court awarded Jeffrey sole physical and legal custody of the couple’s only remaining minor child and prohibited Tammy any unsupervised contact. The circuit court thoroughly explained its findings and actions on the record, did not reach its final order lightly, and anticipated that Tammy may regain unsupervised parenting time. We discern no error in the circuit court’s conclusion that awarding Jeffrey sole custody and preserving that parent-child relationship was in the child’s best interest. We affirm.

I. BACKGROUND

Tammy and Jeffrey Martin married in 1995. The couple had two sons, who are now both adults—AM1 and MM—and a daughter—AM2—who will soon be 17. The marriage was rife with conflict and Tammy filed for divorce in 2010. Custody of the children, who were then all minors, was hotly contested. Evidence supported that Jeffrey had emotionally abused the family and had used improper physical punishment against his sons; also supported was that Tammy worked to alienate her children from their father. From 2010 until the 2012 divorce trial,

-1- parenting time was strained at best. Tammy often violated the court’s parenting-time orders. Parenting time was eventually moved to sessions supervised by a therapist or social worker, further revealing a pattern of interference by Tammy.

Following extensive discovery and counseling, the court held a seven-day trial in 2012, after which it awarded sole legal and physical custody to Tammy. The court ordered therapeutic supervised parenting time to ease the reunification of the children with Jeffrey. Of import to this appeal, in rendering its custody and parenting-time orders, the court found that both parents had engaged in some type of “abuse.” Here is a sample of the court’s findings:

Since their separation, [Jeffrey] has experienced significantly increased estrangement from his children. [Tammy] has used offensive and inappropriate language when talking to or about [Jeffrey] in the children’s presence, and the children have all witnessed some degree of domestic violence in the home. As a result, it is clear that they have avoided exercising parenting time with their father . . . . The Court concludes that [Tammy] has engaged in conduct intended to alienate the children from their father, but the estrangement that [Jeffrey] has experienced can also be explained by his own language and conduct.

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The relationship between the parties is one of chronic and constant conflict. This has affected both of their capacities to give the children love, affection, and guidance. [Jeffrey’s] guidance has been strict, too often angry, and sometimes vindictive. [Tammy’s] guidance has been more permissive, and often asserted in reaction and opposition to her husband. . . .

As the marital conflict increased, [Tammy’s] opposition to [Jeffrey’s] aggressive and rigid attempts to provide guidance has become more overt and destructive. She has told [Jeffrey] in the children’s presence that they can call him names and treat him disrespectfully because “he deserves it.” [Jeffrey’s] capacity to provide guidance has been badly damaged, partially by his own anger and control issues, and just as significantly by [Tammy’s] actions and statements. . . .

[Jeffrey] has engaged in verbal abuse and some physical abuse directed toward his wife and the children, and [Tammy] has exposed the children to her ongoing verbal abuse about or directed toward her husband. . . .

[Tammy] and the children have been subject to [Jeffrey’s] verbal and emotional abuse, and the testimony and evidence support a finding that he used his anger and emotional abuse as tools of control against both [Tammy] and the children. . . . Although the court agrees that the evidence of physical violence is

-2- sparse, [Jeffrey’s] use of anger and intimidation has been frequent, and disciplining children by the use of corporal punishment, in anger, as [Jeffrey] has often done, makes it very difficult to distinguish from abuse. It is the first and primary cause of his estrangement from the children.

Despite the family difficulties, the therapists involved all believed that the father-child relationship could and should be restored through therapeutic parenting-time sessions. The court agreed. The court therefore ordered parenting-time sessions supervised by social worker Todd Monroe, who had been selected by Tammy to counsel the children. Unbeknownst to the court, however, Monroe had recently resigned as the children’s counselor. Monroe later advised the court that the “process [was] no longer therapeutically effective” because of Tammy’s lack of cooperation and the children’s defiant and unwilling attitudes. As a result, Jeffrey was denied his court-ordered parenting time. Jeffrey sought court intervention, but on August 23, 2012, the court inexplicably entered an order denying Jeffrey’s request for relief because the court had “no alternate parenting time plan” available.

For the next four years, Jeffrey had no parenting time with the children. He voluntarily engaged in counseling and parenting classes to improve his anger management issues and parenting skills. Jeffrey sometimes attended the children’s sports and school events in order to see them, but Tammy and the children responded by withdrawing from extracurriculars and accused Jeffrey of “stalking” them. In February 2016, Jeffrey again approached the court to enforce its parenting-time orders.

Following a Friend of the Court (FOC) investigation, the trial court implemented a parenting-time plan that required the two remaining minor children, MM and AM2, to work with a reunification therapist, Amy Van Gunst. The court ordered Tammy to work with a therapist, Merrill Graham, “regarding her alienating behaviors, as identified in the [FOC] report.” The court required Jeffrey to continue counseling with Al Heysteck, and provided that MM and AM2 would see a therapist, Lesley Menhart. Jeffrey’s parenting time was then to be supervised by a therapist. Menhart’s early reports focused on the impacts of abuse and described that MM and AM2 suffered from anxiety and depression, that MM’s psychological conditions had caused digestive and abdominal issues, and that a therapist would require extensive time to build a relationship with AM2 given her shyness and unwillingness to speak. Over a span of several months, however, the evidence increasingly showed that Tammy was undermining the reunification efforts. Graham reported, “In attempting to understand the rationale behind [Tammy’s] concerns, it was not sufficiently clear that there is [a] basis for an ongoing refusal to support the child-father attachment.”

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