Steven Means v. David Ashby

CourtCourt of Appeals of Tennessee
DecidedFebruary 10, 2003
DocketM2002-00285-COA-R3-CV
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE AT NASHVILLE February 10, 2003 Session

STEVEN SCOTT MEANS, ET AL. v. DAVID VINCENT ASHBY, ET AL.

Appeal from the Circuit Court for Davidson County No. 00A-35 Muriel Robinson, Judge

No. M2002-00285-COA-R3-CV - Filed October 6, 2003

Current custodian of Minor Child petitioned the court for termination of parental rights of both parents. Petitioners are the brother and sister-in-law of Minor Child’s mother. The parents of the Minor Child are divorced. Mother had no contact with Minor Child for over a year prior to the Petition, and Father has had no contact for approximately five years. We find that any failure to visit by the parents and failure to support by the Mother was not willful and affirm the trial court in dismissing the Petition to Terminate their parental rights. However, the trial court’s custody determination is vacated, and that issue is remanded for further consideration.

Tenn. R. App. P. 3 Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Circuit Court Affirmed as Modified and Remanded

WILLIAM B. CAIN , J., delivered the opinion of the court, in which BEN H. CANTRELL, P.J., M.S., and VERNON NEAL, SP . J., joined.

Michael W. Binkley, Nashville, Tennessee, for the appellants, Steven Scott Means and Cheryl Lynn Means.

Phillip R. Robinson and James C. Bradshaw, III, Nashville, Tennessee, for the appellee, David Vincent Ashby.

OPINION

I. Case History

Appellee, Tawni Means Little (hereinafter ‘Ms. Little’), was adopted into the Means family when she was approximately one month old. Ms. Little is the mother of the child at issue in this case, M.A., who was born in December of 1991. Her brother and sister-in-law, Scott and Cheryl Means, are Appellants in this case and currently have custody of Ms. Little’s child, M.A.. They have requested that the parental rights of Ms. Little and David Ashby (father of M.A.) be terminated. Ms. Little lost her mother after an extended illness in 1999, after which Cheryl Means became the primary mother figure in her life. She was engaged to David Ashby in 1991 and became pregnant at the age of twenty prior to their marriage. Ms. Little and Mr. Ashby broke up prior to birth of their daughter.

After the break up, Ms. Little and the Means family determined that the child should be given up for adoption. This action was opposed by Mr. Ashby, who filed a petition to stop the adoption and legitimate M.A. In these proceedings, he was ordered to pay child support, which he has continued to pay through the date of this trial. He was also given visitation, of which he took full advantage until Ms. Little and Mr. Ashby reconciled and eventually married on May 22, 1992.

After their marriage, Ms. Little and Mr. Ashby lived with his parents for a period of time, then moved into an apartment and ultimately resided in a house purchased by Mr. Ashby’s parents. Mr. Ashby held several jobs during the marriage including working as a clown for Shoe Carnival, working at the Nissan Plant and working summers at Opryland operating rides. However, he was unable or unwilling to keep a full time job with benefits for any length of time. On March 5, 1993, a second child was born to the couple; however, this child died shortly after birth.1 Subsequently, the couple began to experience marital difficulties.

M.A. suffered from a condition known as labia fusion from the time she was a small baby. This condition caused sores on her genital area. Throughout most of her life, M.A. has been treated medically for this condition.

In the summer of 1994, Ms. Little, with the encouragement of the Means family, began to suspect that Mr. Ashby might be sexually abusing their daughter.2 Ms. Little left Mr. Ashby and moved to Sedona, Arizona with her father in July of 1994. Ms. Little and M.A. moved into the home of her father, Fred Means, and his wife, Kathy Means, where they lived for several months after the relocation. However, no divorce proceedings were filed at this time.

After Ms. Little’s move to Arizona, Mr. Ashby continued to maintain contact with the child by telephone until October of 1994, at which time he began having trouble contacting them. In November of 1994, Ms. Little and her daughter moved into an apartment with no telephone, and Mr. Ashby was never provided with her address. Mr. Ashby continued to send cards and gifts to the child at Fred Means’ address in Sedona, Arizona, many of which were returned to him.

In May of 1995 Ms. Little was accused by her stepmother, Kathy Means, of stealing money at her job. She was subsequently fired from this job at her father’s dry cleaners, where she had worked since moving to Arizona. After losing her job, she and M.A. moved to the Indian reservation

1 During the marriage, Mr. Ashby experienced other very tragic family losses. On July 4, 1992 one of his brothers shot and killed his other brother. Then, in February 1995, his remaining brother killed himself.

2 No medical proof of sexual abuse was presented at trial, and the sexual abuse allegation was not a basis alleged for termination of his parental rights.

-2- in Taos, New Mexico, where her biological mother lived. She found the conditions at this reservation to be extremely poor, and after approximately five to six weeks, she contacted Scott and Cheryl Means to ask if they would help her return home to Nashville. The Means agreed and bought her and M.A. a plane ticket to return to Tennessee.

When Ms. Little arrived back in Tennessee she was approximately eight months pregnant. The father of this child was a man who had worked at her father’s dry cleaners with whom she had had a relationship while living in Arizona. With the assistance of Scott and Cheryl Means, Ms. Little received medical care, gave birth, and placed the baby for adoption. At that time, Mr. Ashby was notified of the birth of the child and, as they were still married, asked to waive his rights to the child. However, Mr. Ashby was never notified that Ms. Little and his daughter had returned to Nashville, nor given an address where they could be reached.

Mr. Ashby filed for divorce in September of 1995. He and Ms. Little met in an attorney’s office in November of 1995 to finalize the divorce terms. Mr. Ashby testified that he believed Ms. Little was only in Nashville for a short period of time to take care of the divorce proceedings and would return to Arizona. The divorce papers provided her father’s home in Sedona, Arizona as Ms. Little’s permanent address.

Under the terms of the divorce, Mr. Ashby agreed not to seek visitation with M.A. until a psychological evaluation had been performed; however, he has continuously denied any abuse of his daughter. Mr. Ashby underwent a psychological evaluation by Harry B. Stuber, a licensed clinical psychologist, in March of 1996, which lasted approximately three to four weeks. At age 27, Mr. Ashby was found to be extremely immature, functioning on only an adolescent level. He was also found to have dependency issues and problems with inadequacy and low self esteem. Mr. Stuber recommended that Mr. Ashby obtain counseling in order to “achieve the appropriate emotional and mental status that will be appropriate for a good relationship with your daughter, including extended visitation rights.” Mr. Ashby subsequently sought counseling from a pastoral counselor who was a friend of the family.

Mr. Ashby attempted to return to school after his separation but has had great trouble in maintaining grades that allowed him to remain in school. After seven years of taking sporadic classes and passing few, he was still classified as a freshman. He has also been working as a part time actor and spending time participating in role-playing games. For the three months prior to trial he held a job with a rental home locator service. Of Mr.

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