Stephanie Sheppard v. Ernest Milsaps

Court of Appeals of Georgia·Decided February 25, 2025·No. A24A1271·Published

Opinion

FIRST DIVISION BARNES, P. J., LAND and WATKINS, JJ.

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February 25, 2025

In the Court of Appeals of Georgia A24A1271. SHEPPARD v. MILSAPS.

BARNES, Presiding Judge.

Stephanie Sheppard (“Mother”), the biological mother of the minor child,

appeals from the trial court’s order allowing Ernest Millsaps (“Father”), the

biological father, to legitimate the child, granting Father joint legal custody and

visitation, and awarding Mother child support. Mother contends that the trial court

abused its discretion in granting Father’s petition for legitimation and awarding him

joint legal custody of the child. She further asserts that the court erred in calculating

Father’s child support obligation and the amount of back child support he owed. For

reasons explained more fully below, we find that the trial court did not abuse its

discretion in granting Father’s petition for legitimation. We further find, however, that the court erred when it failed to consider whether joint legal custody was in the

child’s best interest. And the trial court also erred in calculating Father’s child

support obligation as well as the amount of back child support owed. Accordingly, we

affirm in part and vacate in part the final order and remand for further proceedings

consistent with this opinion.

We review “a trial court’s decision on a legitimation petition for abuse of

discretion only,” and in conducting that review, we view the evidence “in the light

most favorable to the trial court’s ruling.” (Citations and punctuation omitted.)

Mathenia v. Brumbelow, 308 Ga. 714, 715 (1) (843 SE2d 582) (2020). So viewed, the

record shows that the parties had a brief romantic relationship in December 2016. In

February 2017, Mother learned she was pregnant and she informed Father of that fact.

She also informed him that he was the father of the child she was carrying. Father

expressed skepticism over whether the child was his, because he believed Mother had

been involved with another man and Father simultaneously.

Mother informed Father of the child’s due date (October 13, 2017), and

throughout her pregnancy, Mother kept Father informed of her doctor’s

appointments and invited him to attend the same. Although Father initially planned

2 to attend the 3-D ultrasound of the baby, shortly before the appointment began, he

informed Mother that he would not be present. Nor did Father attend any of Mother’s

other doctor appointments. The only financial contribution Father made during the

pregnancy was approximately $300, which Mother used to assist with her required

insurance co-pays.

The child was born on September 22, 2017, but because Father was not in

contact with Mother, she did not inform him of the birth. When the child was

approximately seven weeks old, Father contacted Mother and learned of the child’s

arrival. Father asked Mother to obtain a paternity test for the baby, and after that test

confirmed that he was the biological father, Father asked to see the child. Mother

agreed, and between November 2017 and January 2019, Father visited with the baby

on a regular basis.

After Mother declined to allow Father unsupervised visits with the infant,

Father filed the underlying petition for legitimation, custody, and visitation in June

2018. The case was referred to mediation and, over Father’s objection, the court

appointed a guardian ad litem. During mediation, the parties agreed to a visitation

schedule for Father, but could not reach a complete agreement because Father

3 objected to the amount of child support required of him under the statutory

guidelines. When the case was referred back to the trial court, Father’s attorney

withdrew, and Father subsequently proceeded pro se.

At the final hearing, Mother testified that Father had 13 visits with the child

between November 2017 and January 2019.1 During this same time frame, she

informed Father every time the child had a doctor’s appointment, but Father attended

none of those appointments. Nor did he send the child any gifts. After mediation

failed, Mother, at the suggestion of her attorney, set up an account on the My Family

Wizard Application (“the app”) in February 2019. The app had a calendar on which

Mother entered all of the child’s doctor, dentist, and speech therapy appointments.

She also entered on the app other relevant information pertaining to the child,

including the name and contact information for his medical and dental providers and

his school. Had Father elected to use the app, he could have obtained all of this

information without ever having to contact Mother. Additionally, the app had a

feature that allowed the parents to message each other. According to Mother, all of

1 In the final order, the trial court found that Father had visited the child on a weekly basis between November 2017 and January 2019. In her brief, Mother does not challenge this finding. 4 this information was provided to Father on more than one occasion. Father, however,

declined to use the app.

During his testimony, Father acknowledged that he had refused even to look at

the app, explaining that his attorney told him he did not have to, because use of the

app had not been ordered by the court. When asked why he objected to using the app,

Father stated that he felt “no need” for it because the parties could contact each other

directly. Father also admitted that he had made no effort in 2021 or 2022 to see the

child, and that he had no contact with the child for at least three years prior to the final

hearing. He insisted, however, that the only reason he was not in the child’s life was

because he refused to download the app. And he claimed that Mother would not

answer his emails, which he sent periodically. Father admitted, however, that he had

Mother’s phone number and address, as well as contact information for her attorney.

When asked why, if Mother was unresponsive, he had not contacted her attorney,

Father responded, “because you guys recommended the app.” After testifying that

his objection to the app had resulted in him having no contact with the child for at

least three years, Father stated that Covid 19 had also been “part of the problem.”

5 Finally, Father acknowledged that mediation failed because he refused to agree to the

amount of child support he would owe under the relevant statute.

Mother disputed Father’s testimony that she required him to use the app to see

the child, stating that she had never made use of the app a condition for father having

contact with the child. She further explained that Father had been free to call or email

her at any time to arrange a visit, but that he had declined to do so.2 When questioned

by the court, Mother stated that she believed children benefitted from having two

parents. Her concern with respect to Father’s presence in the child’s life was his lack

of consistency in attempting to establish a relationship with the child.

The guardian ad litem testified that in August 2021, when she submitted her

initial report, she had recommended that the parents have joint legal custody. Since

that time, however, Father had made no effort to have contact with the child. Thus,

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